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ehemwhy:
This is sad ....heart breaking ... are there no elders in the Okoye family ? Who is the idiot that even leaked this video in the first place .....shame

Why did they video it in the first place?

knax:
yea..thanks..man.would do just dt..

DON'T MESSAGE HER!!!
Give her space & let both of you miss eachother
Don't go forcing yourself on her...

Drabeey:
bro... That lady called me yesterday and it was twice. She had reported me to my momma that i have too much ego. I didnt pick her 2 calls. I called this mrn


me: hello.

Babe: hello ( sounds sleepy )

me : got ur missed call, you are missing me already


babe: hmmmn, missing u ke....


Me: ok, i will talk with u later .. And i hung up.



Now, i want my balls back, dont want to lose her.

What do i start doing, pls help a dummy brother.

Bro upon all the advise i gave u on this thread, all u could do was to rush & call her the following day after seeing her missed call?
Someone u gave five missed calls & close to a month she never returned them
But u only saw two missed calls & quickly returned them the next morning
Look at the kind of lame coversation u even had with her?
I told u she would call back when u were losing it & u shouldn't talk to her, but u couldn't even wait for a week before rushing to call her....Sigh

Now i know why she treats u the way she does...Nobody can help u here, u are naturally a weak guy....U can never get your balls back when u keep saying u don't wanna lose her...

micgray100:
From experience as a Practicing Engineer, Lintel is called "In-built beams" wish are normally constructed on windows, doors and other open partitions..
To the issue at hand,,,

Your choice of doing lintel round or not depend on the Structural Design Calculation prepared by the Structural Engineer in charge of the project (Storey building)..
You must have experience some completed buildings having cracks at some portion of the building.... what is the cause of this?

1, Poor workmanship
2, Differential settlement..

Poor workmanship can be taken care off with adequate supervision..
but Differential settlement has to be handled by the Structural Engineer when designing at the initial stage especially if it is a water logged area... in-built beams calculation will specify if there is need for it to go round or not.. taking account the Soil bearing Capacity of the build..

To cut the long story short.. Dont want to go into Technical details.. cos i know how boring it is for other proffession

There is a rule of thumb i gave my pupil engineers or my bricklayers as the case may be,,

At interval of block wall not more than 6 meters, in built beams /lintel/ ring beams of standing column must be constructed to serve as link or chain to the block wall..

ask your self... can crack due to little differential settlement penetrate through lintel? No..

because reinforced Concrete resist Shear more than ordinary block wall.. this is to hold the block wall tight in place in case of any deferential settlement or poor workmanship on the foundation...

Oga Mufftau have always been lucky with his structural designers...
he avoids water logged lands and have taste for good workmanship..
but still ... experience structural engineers are needed in a building Construction..

The building collapsing today are building built many years back... The failure keep accumulating till it eventually give way..
i have been called to come remedial more than 1000 structural corrections on buildings, i just smile at the level of ignorant of the owners saying... "Mr A and Mr B did it like this, that is why me Mr C did it too.."

the money they use for correction will now triple what they would use to hire an experienced Structural Engineers..

IT IS WELL..

Engr. A.L Onakomaya MNSE, RCOREN

Sir is it necessary to do lintel in storey buildings or not, since there will be a beam before d slab
Pls help with a simple reply...yes or no?
Your first reply seems too technical & not hitting the nail on the head

Ishilove:
See this demented half wit o. Who was the first to throw insults? Was I not on my own when you quoted me to write the same rubbish you excrete from your dirty anus? And you have the effontery to talk about upbringing reflecting in comments? Your parents should have abandoned you in your village's evil forest.

So you want to give me beating? Barbarian, you want to show power with a woman. Oya come now, let me organise guys like you to beat sense into your empty barrel head. You can flex muscle with them.

_Imbecile. You are truly lucky that this is social media which is giving an agama lizard like you the liver to act like a crocodile.

You have time taking various shots of your baby's hairstyle @profile pic, but u want the op to kill her child for sth he ignorantly watched...5yrs old don get sense?
If that your baby watch all those porn u keep on your phone, will u even scold her let alone beating? Animal....

Ishilove:
You are thinking from your anus, that's why you can use your diseased fingers to type _shit and insults at total strangers. You are obviously one of those rotten children who's parents should have used wire to reset their brain so that they won't come to the internet to display their lack of home training. Mannerless thing.

Because your parents raised u like a prisoner serving a jail term by constantly bruising u doesn't make corporal punishnment a prudent way to raise kids. See the way your upbringing is reflecting on your comments....
Upon all the beatings you got from your parents, see how senseless u are at this age...
Thank your lucky stars this is an online forum, i for give u the beating of your life...So u will know the true definition of beating....Senseless animal

Fabulouscity:
Honestly am so annoyed,I don't know ooo why the heck he has such stuff on his phone without a password, see how he has messed up this little boy head thanks alot

Why not confront your husband instead of planning evil for the little boy?
Was the little boy the one who downloaded d porn?

Ishilove:
This is the reason why children of nowadays are so spoiled now and don't have fear.

All those old men & women we are having as kidnappers & prostitutes are they not spoilt?
Are they not not children of old? Your advise is just as senseless as u...

oyb:
The only person here who should be beaten is the careless dad.

Children go through everything they can lay their hands on.

The child has absolutely no idea what it is he is looking at, or if it is bad for him to look at.

God bless u @bold

truthsayer009:
Asin ehen, I just kept quiet since everyone was advocating the boy should not be beating or touched. Imagine a boy of 5 year old. Mtchew !

Can u remember the things u did when u were 5?
When u were 5 years old u get sense?
You think beating is the best way to train children?
Go beat your children & live other people children alone

Abbotp:
They have a penchant for sending out dated job alerts.......I mean alert for jobs more than a month old

So so true...
It must be one month old

chyy5:
Is just where people show off. Where working class people show off to intimidate job seekers. Nobody cares about you there. If you are there please deactivate your profile and hit the street. Get a good shoe and walk around. God shall bless you with a good job. When God picks your call, sign up again and show off. Remember to upload office selfie on daily bases, every board meeting u must snap and upload, if you get close to any offshore facilities whether for excursion just snap, I mean snap and snap and upload.
Watch how ur connection will grow and ur inMail will increase geometrically.
People come there to talk about their 'whocaresabout' achievements and wouldn't care to help an applicant looking for job.
I've used that platform for long, I even activated linkedIn job alert notification and applied for almost all the jobs yet no success. The last one I applied for made me buy e-book for the exam and was also successful in the exam yet nothing happened.
I don't go there again, still hustling despite my 2.1 one day I will go back to upload my own work selfie. They are intimidating me joor!

This is the truth
Nothing one can get from that place
Maybe only beautiful ladies using it as means to advertise themselves
As for guys, it is a waste of time

lekjons:
Seriously i don't know what people like about this car..

Same here
I no like G wagon ooo
I nor fancy the design at all
I will prefer formatic even in my dream

obailala:
When a person has an intention to commit a crime, the presence of law enforcement officers suddenly becomes provocative to him.

Soldiers arent even like the police who stop vehicles to extort bribes. People can choose to ignore the presence of the soldiers and just go about their normal businesses or they can choose to keep losing sleep over nothing. In fact, with the currently increasing wave of ember month kidnappings, the presence of soldiers would be helpful.

@bold True

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odrims:
I just came across this thread yesterday night...looks insightful...


Johnson...

Didn't knw this thread is still alive
How are u getting along
Machiny will furnish u with all the info u need

meshzhi:
Hi Johnson... I would like to talk to you in private.

Okay
You can remove your number
Already gave u a missed call

Opiletool:
Some people go soon come blame this woman so.

The wives are obviously the ones causing the troubles
Before psquare got married they never had any issue
But immediately after the marriage, we can see series of misunderstanding btw both
So it is either paul or peter's wife is responsible...
But make the brothers use their head
They bigger than this & it is a shame on them to allow a woman to seperate them...

tayo60:
By the time your aunt starts reaping what she is sowing now, nobody will be there to console her. Pampering even adult children. I wonder why some parents do that. Raising bunches of lazy, dirty individuals!

Her aunt won't regret anything
What makes u think op is saying the truth & not exaggerating?
What is wrong with a mother cooking for her children?
Don't u cook for your children?

This story doesn't look sincere
Since u are no longer living with them, how do u know the girl does everything?
Saying they deficate & refuse to flush shows exageration, which bespeaks u have ulterior motives for having concerns

Op did any of your aunt sons offend u?
Be honest...Unforgiveness & hatred can be very destructive...

majekdom2:
when you are both angry, do you publicly calling him a pig. do you callhis joystick non functional in public. should your issues evolve to something similar. will you call your husband a pig? will you?codemn a woman that is ill cultured first , then condemn a man that hit her next.

@bold God bless u
The bold is the point
If the woman is cultured in the first place, the man won't hit her & everyone would be happy
But women keep evading this by excusing the wife excesses & jumping to blame the man
How God take create women
Very biased & selfish gender
That was why eve gave the forbiden fruit to adam, so she can evade the blame & shift it to Adam....

explicite:
Well said...
u ve mentioned d problem here... and it's the ego... that I really agree with.... and truely this dude was wrong on all moral grounds... but what I will like to state is that... The wife had it coming and deserves what she got...
Nevrtheless, she deserving it doesn't give him the right to hit her.

thanks

@bold

donnie:
you think the UN is made up of fools. you think they don't know this current government?

After the experience UN got from Sudan & South Sudan, i don't think UN will be quick to support any seceding region in Africa ooo

sureheaven:
U can't eat ur cake and still have it. It's nt a must that we shld be one nigeria, if igbos want biafra, they shld follow the normal protocol by first withdrawing all their sons and daughters bn governor, senator, rep, minister, ambassador, director general to mention bt few and all other federal posts political and non-political. Then they shld contact the UN, USA and all authorities to intervene so that their request can be granted with peace. The steps of Nnamdi Kanu is barbaric, archaic, local, devilish, stupid, foolish and ungodly. The person of integrity among Nnamdi Kanu and his blind followers is as rear as white falcon. Inasmuch those who can agitate for biafra and get it peacefully have remain close mouthed, uncommunicative and taciturn, it's imperative that the real, sensitive and meaningful igbos aren't ready for biafra. Online chest beaters, war mongers and noise makers shld remain silent till eternity.

You have really spoken well
Your opinion is unbiased
Like i have said before, Kanu is too emotional & uncouth to lead this fight
Igbos need someone like Nelson mandela, civilized & diplomatic
But can igbos sacrifice to do the bold?
& is the bold a precondition for secession?

NCANTaskForce:
It is to FG's interest that Nnamdi KANU stays alive. The day KANU is confirmed dead is the day IPOB becomes a militia with a more ruthless leader.

Even Afonjas and Zombies that have never entered an airport will be saying trash about these people fighting for their freedom,

Biafra must be free, Nnamdi Kanu is greater than the zoo, see as they wore camouflages freely, but the useless Nigeria army will strip u naked if u use a camouflage phone pack.

Abeg keep quiet jor
If Kanu dies today nothing will happen
You think Kanu is greater than Ojukwu who ran away?
This was how Kanu attracted python dance with his boastful speech & killed innocent people for nothing.
Where is he now?
Only five states can't fight the whole nation & even if u guys decide to become fully blown terrorists, your region will still suffer & lose. Take Borno as case study.
Are the suffering residents of borno going through because of boko haram affecting u in any way?
You people should start propagating biafra in a responsible & humble manner, not in a boastful manner....

Hmmm
Thought she once said she was angry with her husband because he couldn't pay back the money he borrowed for their wedding, where she for con see money take dey do customize BMW?

Pidgin2:
I repeat my question, in case you didn't get it initially, name one believer in the new testament that had more than one wife?

FYI if you insist on sticking to the old testament then you are forsaking Christ who came and died for our sins, unlike what was happening during the old times when bulls and rams were used in atonement, Christ has come to abolish that and made himself an everlasting sacrifice, His coming has also led to the coming of the Holy Spirit who gives you the ability to have self control which is one of his nine fruits/gifts. Go and read your Bible, there are differences between the old and new testament

See as u turn pastor
You con preach pass christ himself
So u don't want your husband to follow another woman
You better take good care of him

Pidgin2:
Name one Christian polygamist in the bible, note, I said CHRISTIAN

Lamech

Like i said earlier Christ didn't came to change the law
The holy book is one, both old & new testament
They complement each other
You can't preach new testament without making reference to old testament
Or have the old testament been abolished in your church?

Jesus said: "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law (the Old Testament) or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. I tell you the truth, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke or a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law (the Old Testament) until everything is accomplished. (Matthew 5:17-18)"

In Exodus 21:10, a man can marry an infinite amount of women without any limits to how many he can marry.

In both the Old and New Testament era God's standard for us remains the same....

Pidgin2:
What of Paul and Jesus Christ? Since you are now a Jew, go to Israel and ask if they still practice polygamy

What happened to paul & Christ?
Those two people never got married in the first place?
& Mind u Christ didn't came to change the law...

Tinalex:
Please tell him ooooo

She should tell him what?
A man is entitled to as many women as he want, but i can't say same for women because i m a christian...Even David at his old age took another wife...