turmacs: After US pressure my foot. Them for no release am, stupid land grabbers, Gays and Homosexual gods chosen people, beheaded babies liars.
You people keep make stupid claims that you can't justify or prove. All your claims are based on hear say. If them tell all of you that has been shouting "Hamas is using people as human shields" to provide one single evidence of such, you can't. Just making false claims.
Show us evidence of beheaded babies - 0 Show us evidence of dead hostages - 0 Show us evidence of human shields - 0
This is the kind of Journalism that CNN and BBC are practicing. But Aljazeera showed you evidence of how Israel was created, even when president biden himself confirmed it, Ignorant people say na lie. Oya show us how Israel was created nauu - 0
Who pulls the sling first? Hamas. condemn Hamas first. Muslims and violence are the same.
[quote author=Fineman2 post=123528172]My name is Dora.
I am 35 years old and everybody keeps reminding me that age is no longer on my side.
My fiance and I have been dating for more than one year and we are getting married soon.
My fiance is 40 years old and he has never been married.
The relationship was really good when we started but now that our wedding is in a few weeks time, he has shown how controlling he can be.
From the choice of the wedding dress, to the bridesmaids selection, to the colour of the day, he wants to be in charge.
He also wants his mum to buy the cloth for our engagement as well as buy our wedding ring.
He does whatever his family says without seeking my opinion and it almost seems as if I am not the one getting married.
I told my parents about how this makes me feel and they just asked me to endure because I am getting older but I really fear for what is going to happen after the wedding.
Are these not red flags I should run from?
I am confused, please advise me.
It appears you are not ready to face it, even at 35 years.
OkutaNla: Smh. Apparently, the PDP rigged-out the APC in that election, especially in Ede. The tribunal proceedings are promising to be very revelatory.
StagethemTVee: The President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria Mohammed Buhari is seen at the airport alighting a plane as he arrives London for Medical Check-up.
Africa leaders especially leaders in Nigeria do not have shame. If the leaders where you run to everytime fail to develop their countries like you, where will you run to?
Natbrowny: Na poor people dey wear am here sef. Browse Buhari daughter n wife pix The veils dey use are super beautiful and expensive. Same with dangote daughter.
Hijab fire. Hijab na fraud used to control the poor.
Scratch dat. Religion in general. Kumuyi wey get wedding rules and regulation, when him daughter wan wed. Omo see wedding gown. Dope and super dope.
Religion is a scam, a sham and a fraud. Used by the rich and powerful to control the poor and vulnerable. Its a disease
P. S. Kumuyi daughter in law's wedding. Dem don correct me for comments. My mistake
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God's job for you is whatever job you are doing and you are successful in it. Congrats MC.
Blessedmercy8: These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.
The problem here is YOU. It appears you don't want to support the man. Go home, ask daddy and mom how they started.
Of a truth, its not easy to manage such amount, but when one is already in such situation, you just have to manage and improvise. Now like the OP of the above thread requested, here is the break down of how we make our expenses.
To start with, I was earning about 130k previously before we got married by March this year, but I changed job and the pay of the new job is 95k. STarted the new job around Feb this year, even though there was a loan I was paying off.. Need I add that my wife was working in a firm where shes paid 45K, but two months after our married, she quit the job due to pregnancy stress. Am sure ladies will understand.
This is our break down. Monthly salary 95k I remove 40k first from the salary and transfer it to 3 different acct. The first acct receives 20k. This acct is not touchable except on extreme emergency. Its our main savings acct. The second acct gets 10k and its for our rent, also non touchable. Rent is 150k per year. Before u say my rent is high compared to my salary, I like my privacy very well. and the cost of rent isnt friendly in my state. The third acct also gets 10k. This one is for semi savings. This acct is touchable when cash at hand have been exhausted before the next month salary.
From the remaining 50k, I send 10k to my family acct. I and my brothers do contribute 10k+ every month and its been used to run expenses WRT our parents and last born. I gv my wife 10k for her monthly up keep. Its small. But its the sacrifice we all have to make for the good of the family. I hold 10k myself for logistics and transport. I must confess, is not enough. But One have to strive. My wrk place isnt far. SO transport is N100 to and fro, thats approximately 3k per month. The remaining money i use it for other logistics. 4k out of this money goes for gas wch last for abt 2 weeks. And when we want to refill and there is no other money left, we fall back to the 3rd acct. The remaining 20k is strictly for food ( On this food issue is where I "duff my hart" cos shes really managing things well and trying. Sometimes, I really feel for her, cos this her pregnancy makes her to crave for things that is not on our food menu, but then when the money is not there, she just surpress the cravings. At times I feel bad.
The remaining 5k, for now is used to pay back a tailor who sewed multiple pregnancy gowns for my wife.
Its good to add that any small money I make like 1k or 2k on side hustle, I directly buy mudu of rice, beans or flour for swallow.
Its not easy at all. But there are families with kids leaving below that.
My wife is abt 5mnths pregnant, we plan to divert the 20k savings to buying baby things in preparation for child birth.
The truth is that the economic situation in this country is bad and so cost of leaving is very high. But then one have to survive. But then in Nigeria now, how many percentage of the population earn above 100k. In fact how many jobs out there pays such as amount.
The only advice I have for ladies is that if you are not working and you parent family is the type need financial help from your husband after marriage, or you are the type of lady that is high class and wont settle for less or manage with your man. Plz kindly wait and take your time to look for a man that is RICH or financially capable of taken care of you and maybe your family. Please dont hide under the cover of you want to marry quick and then accept a struggling man only to start putting pressure on his head. Plz wait and marry a rich man.
Most responsible men wont really appreciate it if you are always demanding for things you knw fully well that he can not afford.
It is also good to note that no condition is permanent, things will definitely get better. A better job might come or my wife might get a job after her maternity which will increase our income.
The bottom line is, as a couple, but of you will have to work things out to improve your finances.
[quote author=jabberjawz post=115883476]Upon all the money sold his conscience to collect from tinubu na Dei Dei Market e dey go buy things.....
I thought by now, he would have been gallant enough to be ordering for materials from the likes of Dubai & other abroadian countries from the comfort of his sitting room......only 1month Owu done dey tear am.
He better manage d money e collect from tinubu because that money is supposed to last him all through tinubu's supposed 4 year tenure...
LoveUdie: "I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.
We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"
What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?
I hope your hobby does not masturbate often. This can kill his interest in having sex with you too, among other reasons.
Anuoluwa12345: ... Sincerely, I already tut so this night, first time I will reason to this level tho ..but God forbid o, I don't want a ugly partner
Everything God created is good. Remove money from basketmouth, perhaps the wife may not have married him. With money, the ugliest guy because the cutest for ladies. e.g YOU. Radarada osii
Many average married people can have between 5-10 BODYCOUNT in a single year, but an honest man like this who is bold enough not to be a senseless conformist of senseless modern society standard is the biggest SINNER!
ThatFairGuy1: Nonsense talk. Meant well yet Nigeria was what it was then.
I don't blame you all anyway
Buhari meant well for Nigeria that is why a litre of petrol is #190 against #87 under Jonathan. $1 = #450 under Buhari as against $1 = #158 under Jonathan. Buhari meant well for Nigeria that is why Nigeria is what it is today. Goat that is what you are.
meobizy: Do a few push-ups, they will never listen. See where a life of sloth led him.
If they didn’t care to run the needed procedure in the hospital they were in then it wasn’t an emergency to begin with. I’ve never heard of a fracture victim having to wait in one hospital because another institution could handle the situation better.
You have just opened your gutter called mouth to speak trash.