₦airaland Forum

khalhokage:
We've been together for a while now, and I intended to marry her, but she has a flaw that i can't get past and she has to change.

She never apologizes, she finds it so difficult to say sorry for any wrongdoing, she will either try her hardest to defend it or start being emotionally manipulative, I have spoken and complained to her about it so much and I'm tired of talking about it because it now seems like I'm begging for an apology from someone that is supposed to care about how I feel.

It may seem like a small issue to some but I've thought about it, if she's like this now what will she be like during marriage?
At this point i think I should just end the relationship instead of going ahead to marrying someone with a flaw I know I can't live with.

What do you think?

awelekiti:
I wish you were in kano, you'd probably have had a change of opinion. I couldn't believe my ears what people say here. At sabon garin and keffi last week, people were pulling down buhari's posters. It's hard to believe

madampresident:
sorry to say this... I already feel sorry for you. Marry a girl because she is decent not because she or her family is well to do. It is easier to build wealth with a decent lady than to retain wealth with one who the only thing she has to offer is coming from a well to do home.

annnikky:
has come to work meaning okroawusa was there to steal and gallivant around.. Hmmmmm.

IamD18:
As usual. Anything to tarnish PDP just to claim corruption fighter.

While Gandollar is spared and protected after his viral bribe-video.

eyeview:
Personally, I have since noticed that channels are heavily biased against opposition guests in their studio. When an opposition guest or someone they believe holds a contrary view to that of buhari and the APC is in the studio, you would think the person is a defendant in a law court where the interviewer is the prosecutor who has a job to convict him or perhaps discredit him before the viewing public. However, when a pro buhari figure is the guest, you see the same panellists or interviewer lose all sense of prowress. Sometimes, you will see the guest in the quest to cover up lies, make some glaring blunders which one will expect a smart journalist to pick on but they will let it slide. The worst was maupe ogun. Because of her celebrated amorous relationship with the APC majority leader, Femi Gbajabiamilla, she always took it personal whenever the guest tend to vilify the APC or their lies.

Sadly today, whenever Channels Tv announces the presence of an APC stalwart or apologist in their studio, I just changed the station because I know it's a prearranged publicity stunt for the guest and APC and not a drill aimed at extracting the fact and truth. The interview will be a mere academic exercise aimed at guiding the guest to pass on to the public whatever propaganda he wishes to deceive Nigerians with. It's very sad that channels has gone this way. My best news station today is Arise Tv. Very professional and objective with top notch quality broadcasting. I wonder how Channels still gets to win awards with Arise Tv in existence.

As for NTA, journalism has since gone to the dogs there. I knew NTA was headed for this when President Buhari on assumption of office, ensured his very first appointment was the appointment of his relation as the DG of NTA, six months before even appointing ministers! I don't dare watch that station, even if my life depended on it. I tell any young journalism student that if you wish to practice journalism and understand it's tenets, don't go near NTA. It is so bad that recently I travelled to my modest village in IMO state for some engagements. After I was done, I decided to spend about three days in the quiet hinterland devoid of the mad city rush. With my dstv remote, I planned to stay indoors and just watch tv peacefully but on the second day of my three days rest, the subscription expired as my favourite channels started disappearing one by one till I was left with NTA. I tried watching the station and the lies, propaganda and one sided news reporting was so infuriating that I put off the tv, went up, parked my belongings and travelled back to Lagos, cutting short my rest by one day. If you are a foreigner and watch only NTA, you will at a point think Adams Oshiomole is Nigeria's president. It's that partisan. And yet there were some major newsworthy events that took place in the PDP that will be conspicuously missing on nta news.

It's very sad that channels decided to tow this partisan part.

NwaAmaikpe:


I am still waiting for the year when there will be fuel scarcity during Sallah celebrations.

How come it is only during Christian holidays like Easter and Christmas that scarcity looms?

Petrol or no petrol, South Easterners must find their way back to the village for Christmas.
We have a culture.
We have the money.
Justin and his brothers have failed.

ZaOzaRoom:
The traders in Ogun state haven't seen a kobo.
One can no longer walk through the markets without traders asking you about their own 10k.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I wonder what people gain by dictating to others how to dress.

These so called conservatives need to wake up and realise that this is 2018 their reasons for wanting to take her to court do not seem valid.

John20017:
I pity for your generation.... Chai!!!!!!!!!

obi4eze:
Anybody that says this is Buhari doesn't know who Buhari was.

Jubril is enjoying our oil money, flying our presidential jet and enjoying other privileges of the office. He is just doing what the cabal tells him to do and we Nigerians are quiet.

Bridget95:
you must desist from calling out Igbos instead of calling the one who mentioned you.

Mexyz:
So Atiku's travelling to USA or not is what we should be discussing now and not what they will do in office if voted in as president?

GistFullGround:
When Oshoala misses the ball, she does not fight for it to be retrieved


She is acting a "big girl" in every game now

Ladyhippolyta88:
So a woman should settle for anybody because she must marry before 30.She settles for anybody and starts crying in the marriage.
This man should advise his fellow men on how to be responsible and on how to respect women.Maybe then women would agree to marry them.
You can't tell me that the likes of Dambisa moyo,Oprah are unfulfilled because they are unmarried.
This closed minded society of ours should understand that you do not tell people how to run their lives.
A woman should never reduce her standard because she must get married before a certain age.
Love,happiness,companionship etc knows no age.
So this talk is silly and not factual for everybody.
Even evening tabloids would be calling wonderful humans newspaper.

nelxxy:
normally i dont involve myself in this tribe issue, go through my comment,
somebody made a comment and you're calling out a tribe, maybe you're hating that's why you saying this. best thing is to ignore him( jump and pass) believe me if you do this, you will not notice people like him, please let stop this..
SAY NO To TRIBALISM

Bridget95:
How did you know he is Igbo? You are the bigot here.
Pasuma wonder is my favorite Yoruba artist after sunny Ade. Hellen Paul is one of the greatest commedien in Nigeria.Lets continue to celebrate the successful.

SIMPLYkush:
still looks ugly, both of them are so useless, dead career

Justinlean02:
Repentant, reformed and rehabilitated ex Boko Haram on their way to their states of origin- Borno and Yobe...
Who is fooling who in this country self