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MelesZenawi:
Buhari should just pay this guys their money...


or Nigeria can be paying installmentally distributed within a period of 3 years....maybe with 2% Interest...


FG should pay up please.

Latifat1:
God!
Buhari have killed us

Roland17:
I am more worried and disgusted at the people who liked this comment than the id!ot that posted the comment. It is shameful that anyone would remotely find this comment likable and positive enough to like. Where have our values gone to? Where is the rational mind that helps moderate our extremes? This is very troubling.

kereman1:
Mumù Wat are u tryan to justify?

Doing drugs and killing ur kinsmen for money ritual dat won't yield shii, which is worse.

Okay u know Wat?
Act as a ritualist lemme act as a pothead. And see who incurs God's wrath first.

Latifat1:
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ayokellany:
Yes u can roll over.. every plan expire 1159pm that same day so beware of that. Even if u do it by 1130pm, e go still expire that same night.

And unused data rolls over till the next day. If u buy that same binge plan the next day, it gets added up to the rolled over data.

I've used this over time but I ditched them when I heard of mtn binge plan.

N100 for 250mb - 3 days validity
N200 for 1gb - 7 days validity
N1000 for 4gb - 30 days validity

dial *131*65# to use.

It still works till when i posted this! Infact, i'm using it to post this

SLAP44:
Yorubas are pushing more drugs than igbos.

SLAP44:
This is very bad. Laws should be made in Ogun state assembly to address this problem of people killing people for rituals. This should take more priority than education and health care because it's those remaining alive after ritualistic kill thousands that's will live to enjoy other government benefits.

A committee should be set up to understand why people of that region love ritual murder. Then we can help to stop it.

SLAP44:
I am greatly honored to be associated with brains like Fararaideed

SLAP44:
I am greatly honored to be associated with brains like Fararaideed

akinade28:
bros, I know you think you have sense but you should have proven you had sense by giving the OP your advise and opinion without quoting or insulting me like everyone else did.
If you had comprehended what I wrote you will see where I said the Op should forget about the lady and look for a way to take care of his daughter if she doesn't reconcile.
We dont all think the same way, we view situations from different angle, I gave two different viewpoints
By the way, the OP only told one side of the story and talked about him making mistakes in the past. You don't know the lady's side of the story or how grievous the Op mistake might be.

ornicus:
And what makes you think the same mistakes will not be made again?

If the op is bent on freshly pressed the whole cycle may repeat.

baby124:
Hmmm.... how old is she? I would be highly irritated too if someone was policing my life, reporting every move to my parents and generally more obnoxious than usual just after the traditional marriage.

Don’t forget, you are both married traditionally now. It’s you who decided to go for someone who was young for relationship and marriage, I am sure you must have also thought to figure out how to deal with any surprising behavior. You also need to be careful about this jealousy you hold in your heart. What if that guy is a school friend? Yes, she obviously confides in him because you have shown that you have an unstable character. It may just be a simple friendship. Because she went outside to talk to him, you have concluded that they are sleeping together. If she talked to him in your presence, you would have also taken offense.

Well I think you need to give this relationship time before concluding the court wedding. I think you need to step back and reassess your reason for marrying a lady who you cannot trust or refuse to trust. Try to examine why you have trust issues and control issues. You also need to grow up and stop reporting all over the place. Just as she’s trying to forgive you and reconcile, you go on a reporting spree. Whew!

piroux:
Op seems like a good guy, soft and humble. That can also be seen as weak by some women/girls. I don't know her age so i can't tell. This is Nigeria where a 28-year-old lady could still be in School.

She might not have cheated on you but could be intensely bored. That's the problem with long courtships and relationships. My advice is to give her space. Don't report her, don't try to control, don't monitor her. Stop doing those things, she might be feeling choked, tired or angry, especially if she doesn't do the same to you. Just leave her be for now and do you. Focus on yourself. In fact, if her family calls you, just greet them well. Tell them the wedding has been paused.

If in that time, she doesn't sit up and realize the gem she has in you, kindly let her go. Work out custody arrangements for your child, collect your bride price and move on. Life is too short for anyone to stay unhappy.

akinade28:
Op, if I got your story right, your wife's dressing and attitude changed due to the influence of her friends and you often report her to her parents. And the last incident really got her angry to the extent of her keeping mute and she said shes no longer interested in the marriage.And a guy came to visit her
There are two things involved:
1) she might not really mean she's no longer interested in the marriage but she is acting that way because she is still very angry at you and is doing yanga because of your costant involvement of her parents in her case and wants you to come back to your sense.
Women are very emotional, sometimes their no means yes.
You guys should be able to settle matter amicably without involving parents and family members. If both of cant do this then i guess you arent ready for marriage.
2) she's truly no longer interested in you and really wants to explore or try out something new. 6 years is a long time. She has seen all of you both your strength and weakness. Already has a child for you. She might be distracted by another guy.
There's is only way to find out, show her unusual love, care and attention just for few weeks. Show her that you still want her and wants the marriage to work out and be sober for your actions. A normal sensible woman will come to her senses and reconcile seeing your commitment.
But prepare for the worst, have a backup plan, if she doesn't reconcile just forget about her and start planing on how to take care of your daughter

MYDEBBY:
Didn't you read my facts why will she be intensely bored when I have paid her dowry as my wife.I have sat her one on one even at midnight to let her adjust her ways since the traditional rites this year and waiting for the white.I did said that I noticed her with bad influence including male and female.so why do you think she is not cheating on me,must I leave my work and be with her in school 24hrs before I will know she is not cheating on me? I think that all that happened is the handiwork of God.

kereman1:
U are very irritating, y tag the past administration over this, Buhari seems like a God to you,

Ur senseless and childish comments helps in recruiting more Buhari hater. Ur thinking is very skewed, I know of some die hard Buhari fans that don't always sound stupid, unbaised, and can think for themselves.

Unlike u, u are just a retard wit a phone and Internet.
I pray ur kids don't inherit ur stupidity.

PS: I ain't a hater of Buhari, rather I'm a lover of the truth.

chiedozie198100:
it's funny how a noble f00l like u want us to believe this noble n holistic bullsh!t.

Beremx:
After the Northern cabals deal with Osinbajo, the next person is Tinubu. Keep having hopes high that Tinubu will calm the situation down.

Yeye dey ooze

fabian063:
and who told you he made sense, he only sounded as a sociologist. The British had made the mistake of bringing different personalities together and made them one. We shouldn't continue with that mistake

MetaPhysical:
Begin an immediate chatter online and let's raise the volume in all social media.

Prof. Banji Akintoye should call a war-room meeting of Yoruba leaders and get consensus.

An attack on VP Osinbajo is a repeat of Abacha attack on Diya.

An attack on VP Osinbajo is a deliberate attempt and calculation for North to succeed itself in 2023....or to stage handover to a pro-North military rule. Under that arrangement land use decree, which the Executive cannot unilaterally enforce, will be enforceable under the guns to free up land anywhere for ruga.

An attack on VP Osinbajo is an attack on Yoruba and will not stop just there. Other Yorubas, in appointment and as well elected, will also be targeted. There is power in numbers.

An attack on Osinbajo should be seen as attack on Yorubas in government, whether appointed or elected.

Hence Prof. Akintoye should monitor events and armed with a consensus of Yoruba Leaders across parties and religion, be ready to recall all Yorubas in Government (appointees and elected officers).

If Northerners have difficulty respecting a Constitution, let us do a walk out of Nigeria completely, forget about restructuring, and begin a nation state of our own design and destiny.

May the reign of Oduduwa continue to live!

filleSouriante:
Ur funny. U want to make lemonade outta somebody's lime. Yoruba demon