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Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Funkeshuga(m): 12:04am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Reading your post I deduce that you are never in a relationship. You need to understand the meaning of relationship. there's nothing relationship about that weird engagement Don't quit the relationship now but get a serious, loving and humble lady who has control over social life to date. After dating her for some months then compare, if this one is ok then you can stick with her because everyone has their own flaw but that your current girlfriend flaw is something you can't take away from her it might be from her background don't engage yourself in what you can't erase 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by xtervaganza(m): 12:06am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Ask any married folk, they'll tell you women attitude get worse after marriage. If she's this bad now, imagine the monster she would become once you get married? 15 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by stanliwise(m): 12:06am On Dec 04, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:See as you dey give strong advise to people asif if dem give you same advise you go take. Yeye dey smell... The said guy is man and he knows what to do and again you can't tell people what to do especially when you only heard from one side- you should only clarify the issue by expanding their understanding through your own life experience of the situations and point out inconsistency and patterns... Leave the rest for them 3 Likes
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Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Khallyella(f): 12:06am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage: Please end the relationship if you can't deal with her egoistic attitude, she's never going to change. 2 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Seandisputed(m): 12:07am On Dec 04, 2018 |
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Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Jombom: 12:08am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage:You mumu never na why you de consider such girl as a potential marriage material. |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by demarc001: 12:08am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage:Exactly same scenario I am facing |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Tokziby: 12:08am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Small pikin everywhere from the first comment to the last... What u just explained exist virtually in all women, forget whether u are in a relationship now or married. Women are like Television, they may have different manufacturers but they are wired the same way. Either u buy flat screen or orobo tv, whether u use ur TV with ordinary antenna or cable tv they will all show u something, some u will like and some na to just manage... That's just a tip of the ice berg. I laugh in roman numeral hahahahah this children will not kill someone. Have u ever heard of a saying that, a woman will offend u but u will accept the blame plus ending up to apologizing to her. That's women trickery for u and every woman is born with her own form of trickery. Example, The lady u love does something wrong but didn't want to apologize, then it causes a heated argument and the woman hits u first(be it a slap or punch) but she immediately starts to cry, and saying "u see what u made me do now, u made me hit u" while she continue to sob. . Abeg Bros, what will u do?? You'll definitely hug her and start to pacify her like a baby saying sorry dear, sorry i made u hit me. You are talking about the only human being that had a one on one talk with the Devil himself and convinced man to eat the forbidden fruit... someone that single handedly humbled SAMSON wey dey kill lion with bare hands. someone that made Bill Clinton lied on national tv and still came bak to eat his words. The people that made a president mumu himself and to talk about oza room on national tv. Guys one very good advice, have it at the back of ur mind that the lady u date today either for 1 day or 100 years, will never exhibit her full potential/behavior until she pack enter ur house as wife. If all men could discover the entire behavior of their wives before marriage, there can never be anything called divorce. Hence, u that is forming sharp and hard guy today, saying ur girl is gentle and quiet, and that u have a total control of her and u are 100% sure that she can never misbehave, i have one bad news for u... YOU AINT SEEN NOTHING YET!!! Just know this, women are carved from our crooked rib, if u try to straighten them, them go break and if try to bend them the more, them go scatter. Hence, na to just manage them like that and accept them with their faults as no one is perfect. But if them try to destroy ur life, abeg u know what to do... 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Nobody: 12:10am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Leave her. Been there. |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Uglymind: 12:10am On Dec 04, 2018 |
The problem of a man is too much |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by tellwisdom: 12:12am On Dec 04, 2018 |
After giving you advice, u go still marry her....Well 98.5% of Nigerian women are like that according to world index. They can't love u without money or material things. Please stay away from them. But if you foolishly marry her, don't come back here for my advice when suicide comes knocking 6 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by YoungLionken(m): 12:13am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Brother don't be deceived, she doesn't love you as you think, therefore you don't have her "mumu" button. Look for someone else, or else you will regret marrying her. Economy is now too hard to waste resources on somebody who is not worth it. 5 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Jombom: 12:13am On Dec 04, 2018 |
sfgrace:Are you trying to make sense or justifying the egoistical altitude as a flaw ? Either way none should be condoned. 3 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by stanliwise(m): 12:14am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage:Bro you need to really understand why your girlfriend behaves that way. She could be a narcissist or could it be you are the one who always seek apologize . Anyway if you find the reason always remember you owe her no duty to marry her except you have taken an oath to that. You shouldn't do anybody a favor by marrying them nevertheless if it is just you who only notice this then check yourself. You are in the best position to answer your question and no one has the right to take it away from you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by YoungLionken(m): 12:15am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Jombom:He said the truth bro |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by OkoAnike(m): 12:15am On Dec 04, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Too blunt... 2 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Nobody: 12:17am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Sorry is such a simple word that some are too proud to say. 2 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Nobody: 12:21am On Dec 04, 2018 |
The lady is not here to defend herself. That is why you came here to say all these because you know that people who can't afford to be in or even keep a relationship will tell you what you want to hear. This is exactly how they will destroy your marriage whether its with her or another female. You made a big mistake which means you have to check yourself too. Table your matter along with her to someone you both know and respect before making a decision. Leave Nairaland. 1 Like |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Jombom: 12:21am On Dec 04, 2018 |
bettercreature:Would it have been ok if the guy could also not apologize when’s wrong ? I mean why can’t people be reasonable ? What is the big deal in doing things to please other ? Why should any understand he or she is wrong and find apologizing difficult or needing counseling for such nonsense. A dirty slay should do the trick not any bs counseling, arrant nonsense. 2 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by pippimp(m): 12:21am On Dec 04, 2018 |
stanliwise: I tire ooooo. 1 Like |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Akeem79(m): 12:24am On Dec 04, 2018 |
emmabest2000: 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Nobody: 12:26am On Dec 04, 2018 |
flyca:If his next is also unbearable, e no hard naa, the jilting continues |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by arrestdarrester: 12:28am On Dec 04, 2018 |
You can be sure she will only get worse. You can't change her. This type will disrespect your parents in your face and defend it rather than apologize. 2 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by ExHusband: 12:32am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Dude it's better to be single than to be married to someone with psychological issues. Take it from me, speaking from experience. Run the f**k away while you can. Don't bring innocent children into a situation they didn't ask to be born into. 3 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by braine(m): 12:35am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Marriage amplifies characters and She certainly is not going to change. End the relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by braine(m): 12:39am On Dec 04, 2018 |
demarc001: And what are you doing about it? |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Winter4: 12:40am On Dec 04, 2018 |
And what if it's a boyfriend that doesn't apologize? Just asking. Cos some guys think they cannot be wrong. 1 Like |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by nextstep(m): 12:41am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage: We all make mistakes, and anybody - man or woman - who's to egotistical to admit wrongdoing, is indicating they don't really care about your feelings. They may be sweet, but only as long as it suits them. I can't imagine somebody who really loves you will refuse to compromise and not always want to win. Hate to say this bro, but you have to break up. It won't get better, but then there will be kids, finances, house all tied together. Peace yourself out and find another. We all have flaws, but some are deal breakers, and this is one of them. 3 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by BillionPAGE(m): 12:43am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Run! 1 Like |
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