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Good afternoon, NL family. I hope everyone is holding their side.

I promise to make this very short and straight to o the point, even though my story should be very long. So I beg of you to read and do justice to it if you can.

Some people my figure out that this account has not been used for a long time and they will be right and that is exactly why I am using it so as to to come across as a scammer.

The truth is, that I am deeply troubled and I have been covering up for some time. Nobody knows how deeply pained I am right,not even my wife. The story is long, but the whole issue is like this because I don't have any means of making money at the moment. My most pressing issue now is that my landlord is seriously on my neck and I don't have the means to pay now. The rent is less than 100k and I don't have it. My wife is worried too and she has a new baby.

I will really appreciate if someone or people could bail me out of this mess I am in right now.

You may reach me on 08162379855. Many thanks.
Many thanks.

Hmmmmm. I feel his pain. May God help him get through this tragedy.

chat2deen:
he was the prime minister from 1981 to 2003, he was responsible for the economic growth of Malaysia. he came back to clean up the mess najib put the country into, so many corruption scandals like d famous 1DMB scandals and precious government were dividing the country into racism. malaysian knew his worth that's why the vote him back but the idea is to bring out Anwar Ibrahim his former deputy from prison and make him PM because he was falsely accused of sodomy, the present Deputy of PM is Dr wan azizah the wife jailed Anwar Ibrahim. it was just operation rescue Malaysia from cabal hope Nigerians can learn and vote for the right person to lead us.

Big Ups to you, man. You are not one of those who depend on socila media to tell them what is happening and go on to spread lies and mischievous stereotypes around.

I am afraid NL is now filled with ignorant young people who know nothing about the stories they see or read on news media except the side of the story that is presented to them at the moment.



For those who care to know. Mahathir Mohamed is the father of the Malaysian nation, who won independence from Britain and ruled the country for 22 years and almost developed it to the full in those 22 years. At the time he left he was being begged to continue. What you have as Malaysia today is his handiwork.

He has returned to politics for the single reason that the out going government is corrupt and trying to destroy all he built. He has promised to grant state pardon to opposition leader Anwar Ibrahim who the outgoing prime minister jailed, and hand over power to him after he comes out from jail in June.



He is not like the leaders we have here in Africa.

I have no doubt in my mind that it is this song:
JESUS ONLY IS OUR MESSAGE (1 Cor. 2:2) by Albert B. Simpson


Jesus only is our message,
Jesus all our theme shall be,
We will lift up Jesus ever,
Jesus only will we see.


Jesus only, Jesus ever,
Jesus all in all we sing;
Saviour, Sanctifier, Healer,
Baptizer and coming King.


Jesus only is our Savior,
All our guilt He bore away,
All our righteousness He gives us,
All our streght from day to day.


Jesus is our Sanctifier,
Cleasing us from self and sin,
And with all His Spirit's fulness,
Filling all our heart's within.


Jesus only is our Healer,
All our sicknesses He bare,
And His risen fulness,
All His members still may share.


Jesus only is our Power,
His the gift of Pentecost,
Jesus, breathe Thy power upon us,
Fill us with the Holy Ghost.


And for Jesus we are waiting,
Listening for the Trumpet's sound,
Then it will be us and Jesus,
Living ever with our God.

Jesus is ALL IN ALL, and that is the whole essence of Christianity.

Praise be to God.

I have no doubt in my mind that it is this song: JESUS ONLY IS OUR MESSAGE (1 Cor. 2:2) by Albert B. Simpson


Jesus only is our message,
Jesus all our theme shall be,
We will lift up Jesus ever,
Jesus only will we see.


Jesus only, Jesus ever,
Jesus all in all we sing;
Saviour, Sanctifier, Healer,
Baptizer and coming King.


Jesus only is our Savior,
All our guilt He bore away,
All our righteousness He gives us,
All our streght from day to day.


Jesus is our Sanctifier,
Cleasing us from self and sin,
And with all His Spirit's fulness,
Filling all our heart's within.


Jesus only is our Healer,
All our sicknesses He bare,
And His risen fulness,
All His members still may share.


Jesus only is our Power,
His the gift of Pentecost,
Jesus, breathe Thy power upon us,
Fill us with the Holy Ghost.


And for Jesus we are waiting,
Listening for the Trumpet's sound,
Then it will be us and Jesus,
Living ever with our God.

Jesus is ALL IN ALL, and that is the whole essence of Christianity.

Praise be to God.

maureensylvia:
I can't lie against my parents,all the same they are precious to me, I try my best in my marriage, I even asked my mum what is it that I learnt from them, she kept quiet for sometimes out of guilt and said morning prayers...is that all mum?

Hmmmm.
The good thing is that you recognised it as a problem while it was all happening. I think that helped you to decide in advance to be different. Unfortunately, many young people with similar experiences bottle up traumas which they grow into adulthood with and transfer them to their marriages.

May God continue to bless your marriage.

@maureensylvia, is your story real? I find it too hard to believe, because I can't imagine children growing up in homes like that. Just reading it stirs pain in me.

I hope you don't allow your growing-up experiences to affect your relationship with your hubby.

NifemiOlu:
Password: Lalasticlala

It just baffles me that a lot of very good threads in various sections of this forum are never taken to front page, whereas rubbish threads are displayed there daily. Wonder what jobs the mods do.

This post is funny, @NifemiOlu. Good job

Parents here should read and take note of everything said in this thread. Nice one, @NifemiOlu

Congrats Yomi. Please, start adjusting your mind to your mother-in-law coming to stay with your family for a long time ooo.

@Olarewajub, the recommended books are popular classics which you can get from any good christian bookshop around. I hope these help.

W

greatgod2012:
1. Why you act the way you do.
2. Spirit controlled temperaments.
3. Opposite attracts.


They are all written by Tim Lahaye.


The books were recommended to us by our marriage counselor when we were dating. And they're all inspired by God. They are wonderful piece. I also support that every intending couples should read these books, it goes a long way in knowing oneself and the intending partner better. You both know each other's strengths and weaknesses when it comes to temperaments. It also assist in strengthening each other's weaknesses.


They could be found on Amazon. com
and other Christian bookshops.


Peace!

Thanks very much, @Big . It's been a long time I actually read them last, but the knowledge gained from them never leaves me.

Well done all. This thread is proving to be a very educative and interesting one.

Good job, @op. I would add that every young couple and intending couple should take the time to study temperaments. This will help in understanding the person you married/plan to marry and also foster tolerance among you. To this end, my pick for a few books to read will be, The Spirit Controlled Temperament, by Tim LaHaye and Why You Act The Way You Do, which I am not sure of the author now.

You know enough. God bless you. Hope young people listen.

Life.... Man at his best and all his glory are nothing. In one second, her life has been turned upside down.

Madam, I pray that God will give you the strenght to carry on.

Your parents owe you nothing.

If they train you to university level as you desire, you are lucky. If they don't train you, but choose to send you to learn a trade, it's because they've figured out that they wouldn't be able to see you through the university, so they sent you to learn a trade, so that you can push yourself forward from there.

Don't be restive. Determine to succeed.

Yes. You should also then recognise such person as an enemy.

Practically impossible to incite me against my family. No hypnosis, no mesmerism or any other form of mind control can even do it. I value my family above everyone and everything, except the relationship with God.

Bread of deceit is sweet to a man, but afterwards his mouth shall be filled with gravel- Proverbs 20:17

@op, if you don't stop calling, receiving calls from and chatting with that woman and cut off all communications with her, satan will turn your life upside down soon.

Spicylate:
And I also agree with Acidosis.

I also agree with @Acidosis much of the time.

However, in this case, the reaction of the man is overboard. The wisdom and love of the woman did him no harm. A warning would suffice.

Thanks @op, for bringing this here. The sad reality is just that most nairalanders don't pay attention to educative posts as this.

JustOzito:
I was once in this op shoe, but in my own case the girl died. I am still regretting why I didn't speak. op to avoid regret on your dying bed wen u rmemba there was social media available, police station nearby and evidence at your disposal, save dat little boy's pls.

Very sad one, @JustOzito. Good you have learnt from your experience.

@Op, please update us on what you have done so far or you post their details here, so we can do something from this end. Don't wait until that boy's situation becomes irredeemable. Heaven is counting on you.

mostyg:
Parents should also be careful and watchful of their househelp be it male or female.
Somethings are just too difficult to spit out.
Housegirl!!!!!!!!

Yes. The worst offenders are housemaids, aunts, senior cousins and family friends.

This thread is funny, and the op made it so by withholding much of the information he has.

Truth is, young boys enjoy it when they are abused by much older women. They don't normally report to their parents but tell the stories as gist to other boys (friends) during play.

So parents, really have to watch it to know what happens to their boys in their absence.

Very good that you already have these photos. Now you have two options.

You either call in the police and show them these evidences(of course the boy is your witness) and allow the police to just handle it or, you take these pictures and send them to The PUNCH Newspapers with this story just as you have posted here. Punch will do a thorough job, call in the police and that couple will be made to pay seriously for their crime.

@op, one way or the other, you have to do something very tangible about it. Allow God to use you and deliver that child, please.

Mindfulness:
Victim? So you think someone who thinks that he can sponsor another and by doing so owns them is a victim?

What do you think is the reason that a well to do girl sponsored her poor boyfriend in the university and ended up killing him afterwards upon being dumped by the guy?