₦airaland Forum

byvan03:
Really? and this man is forcing his promiscuous wife home.

https://www.nairaland.com/3034103/missing-housewife-traced-brothel-3



He could have married seven more, why is he chasing after one if your posts were true? Someone mentioned that women give birth to more girls, I will say that you have no idea. I see more all boys families around me.

Might I ask the age grade of these families? How old are the couples?


In my family, we have more males than females, heck, I have 2 sisters with very hefty brothers, and hey, I'm the last male in my family.

Mindfulness:
https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/fields/2018.html

http://www.geohive.com/earth/pop_gender.aspx

http://data.worldbank.org/indicator/SP.POP.TOTL.FE.ZS

https://www.census.gov/population/international/data/idb/worldpop.php

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/worldviews/wp/2015/08/19/see-where-women-outnumber-men-around-the-world-and-why/

http://www.indexmundi.com/world/demographics_profile.html

I checked every link you posted and there is no where I find where it explicitly sited that we have more males than females in the world today.

I'll say everything I see in the links you provided are just mere assumptions.

And I'll even like to know how these sites got the population of Nigeria when we've not even conducted our own population since 2006.

Honestly this guy is stupid_ saying he de flowered a 16 year old and not knowing he's even dis-gracing himself is something else.

How can an adult sleep with an under-age and still tell the tale for everyone to hear

Mindfulness:
A quick google search would have shown you that there are more men on earth than women and even in Nigeria.

And what disgrace? In this day and age?


Keep dreaming!

Kindly post the link to assert the embolden.

I was told by my SAA111 lecturer that any society that has more men than women is fading. Judging from the way I see women given birth to more girls than boys, from that time till now, I'll say I believe him.

So please I need a link to the embolden.

I honestly want to believe the EFCC detective did not fabricate the evidence he presented before the CCT, because this is what you'll start hearing sometime soon.

I wonder just how foolish Saraki is, I mean, if I know my hands are dirty, I sure won't fight with people who I know can bring me down.

I believe a statement is going to be made which will clearly show that, people who believe they're above the law, are not above it after all.

SINXU:
Depends on the amount of money involved

Now this here is a man who speak my language. Lol.

postmann:
Y'all aren't gonna like this!

Do you have an opposite sex as a best or close friend?


1--If yes, does your partner know the details or nature of your conversation with him/her?

2--Is there secret(s) between you that your partner knows nothing about?

3--If your partner was present, would your conversation with this person be the same?

4--Can you in all honesty describe your relationship with this person as "Just friends", strictly or mostly "Hi" and "bye"?

5--Do you find yourself dressing to please his/her taste? Is he or she the dominant thought in your mind whenever you dress and look yourself up in the mirror?


6--Do you find yourself having romantic thoughts about this person, even when lying side by side with your partner?

7--Do you look beyond your partner for emotional support? Relying on this person for emotional fulfilment?

8--Do you find your commitment and loyalty to your partner being compromised/threatened by your emotional and physical involvement with this person?

9--Are his/her suggestive words and flirtations not only welcomed, but sit deep within the burning embers of your erotic desire?


There's a saying; "where your heart goes, your steps soon follow"

If YES is the answer to ALL or MOST of the above in the questionnaire, then their is a good chance your relationship with the said person constitutes emotional unfaithfulness. You might already be involved in an emotional affair which could soon developed into a full blown physical affair. One way or another, we are all guilty.


N.B: This work is only an exposition on the impact of social media and the 21st century environment which makes cheating as easy as a simple text or phone call. It is not an act of judgment

I don't even have females as my best friends, heck, I don't even have female friends. Sure I have acquaintances, but friends, nope.

postmann:
Who am I to say? But for me, if it pertains my relationship, I gwill.

Many consider emotional cheating just as bad if not worse.

Sexual cheating is only a ripe fruit from the seed of emotional unfaithfulness.

Which more often than not is as a result of pure lust or even greed.

onatisi:
Endure pain,suffering and poverty for another 3 years and hope that the new party been formed will give a more vibrant leader than the one Nigeria has now

And whether you like it or not, that 'vibrant' leader will still be a product of the same political system that put us in this mess in the first place.

I believe whatever we are facing now will not last forever, its only a matter of time. Patience in some cases is a virtue.

onatisi:
When I made this comment last year,many people thought i was been pessimistic and negative.

So what are you suggesting, we vote back PdP?

Hmm. This is an individual who has shame. Wish I could say the same for the likes of Saraki, who still try to frustrate the law just because they allegedly looted public funds.

onstelly:
Thank you!

You're welcome.

onstelly:
Not so true hon
I wonder why you guys keep saying that

Only men who move with the crowd say that. Lol.

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


[b]1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

The issue of forgiveness is entirely base on the person(s) involved. Its a personal thing, however, never forget, we live in a primordial albeit relatively primitive society (in thinking) that believe a woman shouldn't be compared with a man in anyway. We shouldn't forget that when it comes to marriage, the words "for better for worse" should never be forgotten. Even in relationships...

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

Only a primitive man (in thinking and behavior) thinks and behaves like this. I am a man. I take pride in cooking for not just my male friends, but my female friends, there is not one chore people attach to the female folk that I can not do. So far, the only thing a woman can do, that I can not do, is to give birth, and breast feed babies.

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?

The society play a role in this, however, There's a saying, "they way you show yourself to people is the way they take you" believe me, any man who brags about any girl he has shagged do so because of the way the girl offered or showed herself to him. Even guys who kiss and tell will always keep mute when the shag that girl that wows them beyond their wildest dream.

4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

Well I believe this question is in two fold, recently, as I know you know, lezz/lezzlie was lampooned for his overtly wooing of Nairaland females, even I have lot count on the amount of times I've been tagged a randy old raunchy womaniser come philanderer who slaughter Nairaland females at will.

So to answer this question, I'll enjoin you to never forget this, "people see what they want to see" and people will always fail to see what's in front of them, even if its looking at them straight in the eye.

Its not only Nairaland female who get slammed for making lewd remarks, we men do too, but difference is you don't see us opening threads to complain about it.

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same? [/b]

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

The nigerian society is one full of half wits and lobotomize purus idiotas. I'm just saying the nigerian society comprise mainly of people of below par intelligence, that's why you see people term girls as b1tches.

Some people feel its okay to give and feed people sh1t, but when you feed them that same sh1t, they complain. The typical nigerian see it as his god given right to mess with people.

Hian, I use to think kidnapping was akin to the south. Its as if people are now believing that kidnapping is an easy way to make money.

However, I must commend the I.G for his swift response to this situation. If it were some others, they will be saying the 2face mantra of "nothing dey happen" while "things fall apart" in their very own backyard.