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maylisa:
I do all these yet he cheated on Me. I have decided not to trust again.

Haven't you realized that trust is a luxury no human should afford! Before you trust someone, make sure that person prove to you that they deserve your trust.

A lesson I learnt the hard way!.

Okupe is a certified fool! The way and manner he opens his 32 and the kind of things he spew calls for one to question if he's sane. Even Abati is far better behaved than this Okupe of a man.

When a man speak thus you'll know something gives...

Kanye West Featuring Jay Z And Jay Ivy: Never Let Me Down.

Really love Kanye when he was like this, not now...

Kachisbarbie:
okay...continue waiting

Hmm if not for Nairaland rule, I would have shown you my middle finger

Missmossy:
Aerosmith-I don't wanna miss a thing

Don't wanna close ma eyes
Don't wanna fall asleep
Cause I miss you babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing.

I believe the song is the sound track of the movie Armageddon. It starred Bruce Willis, Liv Tyler, Ben Affleck.

Korn, System.

Number 2 suits me but its not encompassing.

Kachisbarbie:
ok na...continue.

I am waiting for you to point out the lewd comments I made in regards to your moniker!.

Thank you.

Kachisbarbie:
Amma let this slide
1; 'Because you censored my name.
2; Today is a good day.

This should be the second/third or even fourth time you're addressing with lewd comments.
There is a limit to what every human can take, me inclusive.
Watch it Sir. @ Joseph1832. The very next time - we may have to engage in a Battle of Traduce.
Thanks.

What's lewd about what I said? Kindly point my lewd comments and I'll apologize. Word battle is something I am not afraid of, frankly I don't have that time on my hands anymore... Do please point out the lewd comments I made with regard to your moniker.

Thank you very much!.

Kachisbarbie:
Now you are reinforcing the stereotype of focusing on the negatives...but then it's normal - conflicting opinions.
I am making my submissions based on a situation where all things are normal.
*I never said one should marry all because of beauty - never...no one should do such.

Lols @simple Yes/No. Truetalk though...I just wasn't ready to go into all those sneaky details then. I am still not ready now -my brain is on leave today

"All things are normal?". Really? You speak of normal in a country like naija where the abnormal is the normal and the normal is the abnormal? Wow!. I never did figure you as an 'idealist'.

urchbarbie:
Hmmm! Strong 1 again. Can u help me draw d distinction?

I won't, take time out and do a research and you'll figure it out.

urchbarbie:
Haba! This is one very strong comment. Kachi is just trying to make light of d topic. She is an intelligent gal cos av read most of her write ups and comments.

My dear, you should know "sounding intelligent and being intelligent are two different things".

chisco82:
At some point i want to agree with your analysis and logic but on a second thought i find it somehow wrong.
The question is "Does a beautiful wife really matter in marriage?
ie: should beauty be an important priority while choosing a wife?
Now your answer is saying that with all other qualities put in place without beauty, one should n't.
Well your opinion though.
But another question or point should be, "what is the Op's definition of beauty"
And you answer should be let us the young men marry someone that is presentable.
I believe that is what you mean.

Dude! You deserve a hug for this comment.

Kachisbarbie:
No, don't tag me on this...why can't Nairalanders read a post and get the explicit/implicit meaning before commenting?

Now, the question is Does it matter in the long-run, should it be a priority?
*Yes it matters.
*No, it shouldn't be a priority.

Does it guarantee the success of your kids?
Nope, same way an ugly wife doesn't guarantee success of your kids either. On a second thought, some peeps beauty have been their claim to fame (stardom).

Does it sustain the home?
Yes/no.
There are men who tolerate their wives just because of her beauty.

Compatibility is what matters?
Oh, I laugh in swahili, if you ain't close to someone how do you know you're compatible?the question is, before you decided to come close what attracted you?

Would his friends continue to admire her?
Oh yes they would as long as she is packaged, my mum is 43 going on 44. Men still dey look.

When your mum is 75 let's see if men will still look! Your mum is still young duh!.

What attracted me first? Her outstanding sense of humor and her ability to prove to me that she's more than just a 'pretty face!'.

There are some men who don't give a rats ass about their wife, even when she's pretty!. I know this for fact, because I see it almost everyday with my friends who are married to very beautiful dames, and I tell you, they're very beautiful and that's all they are, nothing more, nothing less!.

On second thought, some kids ugliness and resourcefulness has contributed to their success. Why do you think when a man is blind his other senses heighten?.

Why can't people know the difference between opinion and standard fact!?.

I tell you most of my friends who are married to pretty girls complain out rightly, the ones who don't, don't even care about their wives, they see them as trophies, might I add despite having pretty wives, they still fornicate like mad!.

On the long run, having a beautiful wife doesn't mean squat!. You should know there are some questions that simple "yes or no" doesn't quite answer them, such as this.

Anyway if you feel having a pretty wife matters, that's your cup of tea, know that if a man marries you just because you're beautiful facially, then when you stop being beautiful there's nothing stopping him from 'kicking you out'.

When a man has shamed for as long as 52 years, the shame becomes a very normal thing and he feels absolutely normal with his abnormalities.

Nobody is perfect. I hope Dele Momodu isn't saying all this because he feels GMB can win the Feb election thus giving him appointment.

rhymz:
lol..... becomrich, come na 2015 we dey so o, when are you going to stop this your off-point way of arguing, you always have sth very strange and alien to the discussion to contribute and confound everyone.. Hahahahh Hahaha Hahaha... In fact, #becomrichplsgetsense#. . Lol

Imagine the guy dey talk of colony Nothing wey person no dey see for this Nairaland.

Whobedatte:
For those saying #marry beautiful lady for the sake of your kids#. Will that give the kidss an edge in life, or will it make him/her more successful? Is it an automatic ticket to stardom? Or will it automatically increase the kids account in the bank?
Last time I checked. Late MKO abiola, OBJ, late yaradua, and host of other successful men&women aren't facially endowed


Please I need proper elucidation on this thanks!

This question should be directed at kachisbarbie. I even wonder if the friends of the husband with the beautiful wife will continue to admire her or hit on her when she's old

sexy seun:
To all those saying marrying a beautiful wife secures d face of ur future baby is so false. If d gene of d handsome man is strong they will still produce beautiful baby and moreover some kids take d gene of their grandparents. I think compatibility should come first. I realised when you really like someone, d face of dat person becomes naturally attractive

A sexy post from sexyseun. I concur.

[quote author=Kachis.barbie post=29627508]we talking of beauty hah?
What were you expecting to see?
She would teach your kids assignment? [/quote]Most times I find it hard to decipher where to place you, dumb or intelligent

My dear the reasons you gave are gut wrenching myopic (no offense). Anyway I'll refrain some saying more 'cause I wouldn't want a repeat of what happened the last time.

Beauty (facial beauty) fades! That's a standard fact because the lady will not remain facially beautiful forever (unless she's a vampire/werewolf).

To me, a beautiful wife is only good for one thing, bringing forth beautiful babies. Plain and simple.

OMG! Another catastrophe waiting to happen.

Kachisbarbie:
Yes it does , but it should never be the priority.
Now, no-one should tell me it's character that matters or brain.
Beauty and brains ain't mutually exclusive , a lady can actually have both and more.

Advantages;
*The future is safe, cute kids would be born.
*You would always be the envy of your friends.
*You can always show her off via your bbm display pic, desktop @work....etc
*When you're angry and she gives you that baby face...chai...your morale go weak small.
*Women wrappers would favour you. They will tell you things like...."na because of that your fine wife o"

Disadvantages;
*Men would continually hit on your wife in your presence/absence.
*Your insecurity would be high.
*Her maintenance cost might be high.
*It might enter her head, leading to pride.

With the reasons I see above I can't help but ask: are you serious?.

Dj Honda featuring Jeru The Damaja, El Presidente

laykorn:
Mr OP, I'm sure you're not ready to hear the story behind my signature. One thing is that, if I tell you the amount of money Nairaland moderators have offered me to drop my signature, you'll open your mouth and never close it again.
#CharityComment
Ayamlaykorn

Hehehe

Yet this man and his church members will look upon people like me and call us sinners!!!. The hypocrisy that surrounds this so called church of God is choking!.

Missmossy:
Mean all you say

Say what?.

laykorn:
Lol. If only the charms had worked, we would have seen another Nairlander's wedding pictures. People and these archaic beliefs. Smh
Ayamlaykorn

Most times I find it that the said girl willingly had sexual relation with the alfa's when things go south, they come out and cry wolf and play the victim saying they were hoodwinked and molested.

Most of these girls of today are willing to do almost any thing to escape the clutches of poverty