Aisha95 dearie, you're not telling us everything we need to know...but so far, I can make one or two conclusions.
Seems you're sensitive...things other people have learned to ignore gets to you and you can't get your mind around it, no problem in that dear, its okay...what you need to know is we're not in heaven, these things happen because of the forces of satan predominat here, God is ALMIGHTY and yea, he can wish it all away in an instant, but we can't question God, we need to ACCEPT things believing that God loves you, because if He were to actually open our eyes to see then we'd know, but for now we BELIEVE, when all is said and done, we'll be in paradise where devil and his force of darkness CANNOT come near.
So what you're feeling tho understandable is a distraction from you know who-a subtle innocent distraction-dont let it overwhelm you dearie, fight it!
If you think there's so much evil in the world, think of the good too.
Google up this guy nick vujicic

Think of how he must have felt


Think of what he must of gone through...


Think of his life now


He's such an inspiration to many...


Imagine if he decided to end his life then...


Think about this


God loves you, leave the problems of the earth with HIM, let HIM handle them, you focus on making heaven, and fulfiling purpose on earth, help people when you can, pray always even for those you can't help

God is listening to you

Once again, God loves you

Stay safe.






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@ bellong concerning my relationship, I might just be paranoid but sometimes he drives me up the wall being childish n all that, he also has his financial issues which I must tell you is putting a strain on our relationship, tho I believe it will soon pass.
He is a strong christian, infact my spiritual life has grown so much since we met, but his faith can be scary sometimes, like putting all his money in a project right on payday and putting every other thing on hold, even feeding and transport to work, sure God provides, I've seen a client dash him 5k (naira) before, but most times he's so broke, I keep insisting its unwise to stretch himself that way but he'll just say I'm realistic and we balance each other out in that regard, but it was just recently I started noticing small changes.
My main fear is if we get married, will he keep doing like this? What if he starts another project again and wait on things like the children's school fees , feeding and stuff? how will the children's school fees come? Will I now be solely responsible financially simply because I don't have "faith"? Or is it a straategy to avoid being financially responsible? My opinion is a wise person will at least keep some money to keep him going till the month ends, I love him but, it breaks my heart to see him live that way, always borrowing, a few times from me, to pay back na story, I'm not even comfortable reminding him he owes me money , he just has management issues, I've been talking to him, and I'm seeing improvement, tho I pray I don't become a nag, generally, I ignore things, but can't ignore something like this because I know it might affect us down the line. I intend to support my husband financially not provide for him!
Then around his family I always feel odd or uneasy, and they aren't always so receptive to me, just regular or civil or whatever, an exception is his Dad tho! The man is always excited to have me around! God bless that man.
So I avoid going to his place without him especially if his Dad is not there.
Sometimes I wonder if he is the one, but then again I just look at o r think of him and just "know" it can't be any other person...its not just love, its a knowledge, dunno how but I just know.
So yea that's what I mean by drama... Sorry for the long epistle

So far, I've spent like 2 days reading this thread. Although I can't say I know why these things happen, I do know HE has already equipped us with the ability to overcome! We should always stay close to our source so our trials and travails will not be in vain. To mr RTFM, Mr Seru and Mr Subomi, I know the LORD is with you and will NEVER leave you.
I've got some of my own challenges, but I know I'm an overcomer. To everyone who knows me, it looks like I'm just starting life...finished uni, got a place for internship, done with that and ready for service, got a fiance and people think everything is okay, Lord knows I'm struggling, thinking of the future and how it looks so bleak (nysc, job market), how I'm running low on finances, the drama in my relationship #sigh. But I know #all is well, God's got me. This thread has been so inspiring! I know we will overcome. Stay blessed

Hmmm...so true @ OP. Our aim in life should be to please God first...in today's world sexual sin is like due to the level of exposure, mind you, you don't have to be dating to be involved in sexual sin...ever heard of 'one night stand'...'Friends with benefit'? Etc. The main thing here is making up your mind to please God in every area of your life after salvation, asking him to help you along the way ...especially after confessing... On the contrary OP being in 'courtship' can actually help you out of sexual sin when you are with one who has the fear of God, saved and has the values of a true Christian...that person if you are willing will help you get through it, but I get your point OP because you have to learn to fight it on your own first, and love yourself first before anyone can help...make no mistake young people start dating or enter 'situationship' due to a certain lack somewhere and we go about kissing frogs before we learn...sad thing is some don't learn... It is well...

thats so unfair,

U guys are mean.Who told u I need to sleep?.Did I complain to u that Im feeling sleepy?. And whats ur biz if i want to type so that my post can be many.

stamped,sealed and delivered

who said men arent allowed?

wait for the computers to start running again,or look for ur key

go to the dating section,i think thats where ull find better answers

this section is for jokes.

na wah

thats wht they dont have a help line

@ poster,wetin sef na only u get enemy?

whats al this about?

gab,shes on fire

i dont get it

glory be to God

, but this is the jokes section

experience is the best teacher!

u go feae spiritual lion.

u need serious spanking

Aaahh

teehe

crazy whites.

foolish woman

funny boy

hmm what our kids learn these days

Aaahh!