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I still do

That's d only way to bribe myself to eat

When you see me eat my meat, I'm done eating, I don't care what's left

They better look like me, cannor carry dem for 9 months complete with morning sickness n weird cravings and discomfort and whatever with 12hours of labour den look like deir fada

Dem nor born dem welk

Hahaha

I'd wish dey look like me for real especially my daughter(s)

Oga you wan die?

Leave the married woman alone na

They say if it looks like a rat and smells like a rat, its a rat...if you don't wanna eat it, why then are you smelling it?

Please nobody wants to guess what your intentions are, remember almost doesn't count.

You don't need to go to her shop, besides you said there are odr shops der, why can't you go to one of the odr shops instead, its until they beat you up that you'll learn ba?

It may be true you r not having an affair with the said lady but that's not what ppl think, trust me, 'people' have told d man all manner of things happened BTW u n d wife b4 he came back

If you don't like your life, at least save the woman's marriage, free them, you may decide to drop d kids bcs of d irregular pay, if the woman pleads then ask 2 speak with the husband to know when you will b paid, that way the man decides if you will still b tutoring his kids or not, whatever d case, please keep your relationship with them, especially the wife professional and cordial.

Greet them and talk to them only when you need to.

Be wise bro

I truly don't know her, but damn she is a gorgeous woman!!! Stylish too
50 looks good on her
Me likeyyy

Hml to her, I hope her husband matches her classy style and will appreciate the beautiful woman she is (inside?) And outside
Go girl

Forced? Forced marriage as in "this is the girl you must marry even tho that's the first time you're seeing her", "you have to marry this man even tho he already has six and half wives" kind of thing?

I think those involved will need more than what you've listed OP

These tips will work in a marriage that has turned loveless, or when one partner is just staying out of duty and not because they really wanna be there.

Nice work regardless OP

My gorrrr

She's such a cutie!!!!

I wannnnntttt

Dear future husband, hope you get to read this....I don't wanna have to talk too much.
Tenk

Jimbiz:
I have a friend that has that kind of boy. The boy is 3 now. U know wetin we do the small boy?
Each time he bite anyone, the person is allowed to bite him back make he feel am too. Wen he is very angry and kick his food away, na slap he dey recieve for he ear. Na slap we take reset he factory system and now He is acting normal. My brother u are an African, dont listen to people tellin u that he will get better wit time, na lie
If u liv him to continue this behaviour na ur own risk. Remember wen beatin him, always tell him him why

I don't know much about raising kids, but this sounds so reasonable.
He should be made to know that he isn't acting properly, so he must be corrected. Allow him cry, but when he starts throwing things around or biting. Then by all means reciprocate. He should learn about repercussions at this stage.
Wish you all the best in raising your little man

Ummmm
'Scus me....

Didn't ya'all court or something?


Cs Ds is pretty hard to miss while dating...

That aside, maybe...maybe ni ooi...maybe you overreacted in times past when he tried correcting you over little things... Although that is never a reason to involve third party whether your own family or his.

Pray over the situation, then on a good day, casually bring it up, maybe while watching some drab show on TV or somn, try to get his 'why' there must b a reason he will overlook correcting you himself instead going over to family, try n see his reason, have you shown yourself immature in some way in the past? Does he see you as irresponsible? Or does he think you are a rebel ?

Hopefully his answers will be no, you aren't all these, then you simply ask him to trust you, and 'correct' you himself after all the marriage involves you both only.

To repair your home na your hand e dey oooo

I wish you success

Kisses to the baby

Still on still

Ummmm, not sure this is good news....
Is he returning in good health?
Or like in a body bag?


Tis well . Get well soon Mr President!

Is this really necessary?

Beautiful!!!

I've not seen any such person so far, I'll do the needful if I see him by chance

Mods please let's push this to d FP, never can tell

I'm sorry OP does he have dementia or anything like that?

Early twenties yes, maturity is not by age.

Final year? Well , if she insists after all she is an adult, but I'd prefer she got married at least after school

Less than 23?
Married for 2 years?
Let's say you are 22, you got married @20, you dated for 6 years = you started dating at 14....
Anddd you have an ex
When did you start 'dating' your ex? At 7?

Your monicker is soon damn apt

You should add dodoyo to it

I'm so angry with the way he treated you!
Well karma issa big bitch

FAM, I'm glad you're already doing your best for him, and frankly you said the truth cs even if u don't help his sons, they will succeed anyway, you made the right decision, he is not in charge of how you decide to treat him and his family, you are in charge of that apparently, thumbs up!!

Ahhhhh now, to the kweyun, hmmmm, bro. In my opinion, please assist him with open mind, forgive him completely and assist the man, you are not doing it for you nor him, but for your children, and their children!

See? Its happening this way bcs you will always give ( as in be blessed enough to be a blessing) than lack, so don't stop blessing him

Wisen up sis

Your leaving wouldn't bring about quarells
First have the finance, engagement-job, and accommodation then you're good to go.
Have your Dad call them to tell them the new development, don't give details of where you're going, or how can I say this? Be economical with the truth

If you'd b living in osodi, tell them u got a place at mile 2, if dey find out later, tell them you moved

Always be grateful for their effort, weda big or small, they did it, they didn't have to tho, no one will beat them if dey didn't.

B4 ur dad tells dem start being more productive around d house, like doing more chores n stuff.
Whenever you do leave, always call and pay dem visits, you don't have to sleep over, never go empty handed, at worst buy some fruits for them.

Don't b scared about offending anybody o sis!
That's life.

If push comes to shove, they will throw you out without blinking if their lives depended on it so be wise, its about time you moved on b4 it happens live, #truestory

Plusssss do you want 2 b there not offending while ur mates and their own kids are moving ahead?

Sis its your choice to make, remember its YOUR life

I don talk my own base on wetin I know, I may be wrong
[s][/s] I doubt that very much tho [s][/s]


Stay strong

Wow, I remember your thread.

I don't taya for man and woman matter...I Wonder when people will realise that the decision to marry is yours, just like the decision to remain single, no one should hurt this much...

I don't even know what I'm saying

OP, I speak life into your marriage-or what's left of it- you will experience peace and she will learn to respect you while you find newer ways to love her IJN.

That's all I can do bro.
Please don't let this weigh you down, life is sooooo beauty-full I swear!

This too shall pass

Proudlyngwa:

U r here too

Ummm..I guess so

The memories... The comfort and satisfaction of seeing your adult while he was laying in that cot, a helpless 3 month old...it makes them feel like they are not alone, like an evidence of the being they nurtured, especially since most of us may not actually live with them.

If they can't tie us down , they can at least cherish those items that represent diff stages



Or maybe they just like panti thinking it will be useful, that sort of thing

Aunty Funmi I love you

I mean, this is quite a nice time to be unemployed or a work-from-home person

The heck?
Thought it was 'aged parents' what is 'age parents'?
I need answers oooo

Anyways, bad idea, ask [/s]yourself[s]your friend if he really wants to be married, cs derz nothing bit trouble brewing living in your fathers compound.
What does he really want and why does he want it?

He better cleave to d wife but support d parents

The wife to be na real woman abeg

19ish

Holy molly!!

Some serious Escherichia coli tinz go dey happen

Wow, happy for you!
Thank God for the nairaland link up

Tiri gbosa for Seun!

I am nexxxxttttttt

As much as I'm in love with this scheme, it is jes not weking rara rara!!
Make them scrap am

The scheme is soooooo dead!

NYSC is even a better fraud beside it!

Naija leaders both appointed and elected ain't s*it

Pretty girl 'glo'ing with pride!

Peep the peacock hand fan
She knows a thing or two about pride

My God!
But there's blood on the floor close to the mattress on the bottom left...
Or coudebee planned suicide?
Because most people are aware of the dangers of a running generator in the house.

It is well, it is well
RIP

It depends
For some women a, some b, some c

Me- 33k
I'd wanna keep some, seems like hubby is in a tight corner, I'd give some n keep some, in case the tight corner lasts more than a season