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Strahovski:
Hmmm i have read the whole stuff and OP, i think i can reproduce what you are going through. Normally i would make a trash comment and port to the next thread but from what you wrote, i can see some sincerity and willingness to solve the issue. So i would help you

First, Your wife! She is young(She is 22 now) , her emotions are heightened up and this is a big deal for her considering where she is coming from(Her Family). I presume she does everything you want, when you misbehave she would still be the one to apologize and i can also sense that she is in love with you. Trust me, she is a girl, her father is not a problem! Do you think she does not have another bank account where the boys are sending her money? (Another set of "toasters", so if she wants out, she would get out! I have dealt with cases like this during my days. She loves you man, and you are taking advantage of it because it turns you on.. So follow these steps and see how it turns out:

- Communicate with her: Confess your crimes and tell her how it turns you on. Confess you do it intentionally. And observe her response(Dont be surprised she knows already) If you dont fix it, in the future, she might be using the hurt/pain to get things from you because "It brings you closer to her"
- Consult a marriage Counselor or Therapist: You need some counseling! You need to know that she is your wife and not an object of pleasure!
- Start feeling her pain: Make her pain your pain! When you start feeling her pain, you wont be the pain anymore.
- Find another way to please yourself: Yup, it can be a video game(You are a young dude), poker, or a friday night out with your wife every week.
- Make her the boss when it comes to sex: You do it her way! Not your way! At least for now *wink*
- Find out what turns her on: Its time she is the one turning on not you! You have had enough. Because all that is turning on in her is her pain.
- Be closer: Watch movies together, go on weekend time out, attend church programs together.. make her feel loved.

So Op, when you have tried it for about 3 - 6 months you would re-wire out of the idea that you should hurt her first.

Hope i helped

You can update me on the situation and i would be happy to help. Send me a mail, i will give you a call!
hmmm

guy u really a good therapist,well said bro.

Scrypt:
[color=#000030]OP please what is MOJO? [/color]

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Slimzjoe:
I disagree!!
I believe we get over break ups in one day
I've broken up Thru Whatsapp sef and I didn't feel anything

We guys find Love easy to come by anyway

guy u been no love d chick at all

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Na this thread draw you comot from your shell where U dey hide.

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. Three

two....

canalily:
....pls help pray for me for my wedding to be sucessful.....

maybe. . .just maybe you should say . . . pls help pray for me for my 'marriage' to be successful . . . All the best tho

I couldn't help smiling after I read your post. u seem really excited and in love and i think he really loves u much. just relax dear,u have absolutely nothing to worry about, I think his mum likes u and is eager to meet u. just feel free and enjoy your moments together, be nice.
Have fun dearie

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