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Jaynifer51:
It is very very nice, feels like foreign pampers and super absorbent too

Thanks

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Jaynifer51:
My husband bought it in the market, he can’t remember the exact amount but it’s around 3k plus for 58 counts size 4. I’ll attach a picture

Pls how nice is the diaper?

NobleTv:
"I mend Your old shoes for you to use it against me" what am I?

Protesters

Following

Sorry to derail. Is MSC FORM OUT IN COVENANT UNIVERSITY?

cococandy:
Joyfulgal , your question the other day reminded me to use up my baked beans.
The combination was delicious.

Please what do you have on your tray? I can spot bread, baked beans, fried egg and avocado

Ibadansun1:
I hope you have all seen


I said the protest will lead to nothing, but loss of lives. Yet, some people gave me mentions and started raining courses on me.



I hope you have all seen it now.

It's curses please.

Sapore:
For your sake, I created this handle to reply you. I have a slightly similar experience but not to your level. My wife died at childbirth too, but the baby survived. I remarried sometime later however I was very careful to avoid marrying any woman already having children, whether a widow or otherwise, to avoid exactly the problem you are facing now- not that there were no suitable candidates. Inspite of that, for a good while, my wife who is actually a good god fearing woman several times used very bad words to me about my children. I can not explain it really. She cares for them, takes care of them and loves them, but in the early days, did not trust that they truly appreciated her as a new mother. She would be very free with the smaller ones but felt the older ones did not accept her - which was not really true. They may not have been lapping at her, but they respected her because I made it clear they had to do that. No matter what I did, to assure my wife that she was only imagining things, it did not help. Nevertheless during those word-fights, i did not hesitate to make it absolutely clear to my wife that I will not tolerate emotional abuse or otherwise of my children, while at the same time i disciplined my children thoroughly whenever i found them culpable. Non of the two parties could justly accuse me of partiality. I fiercely defended my children against my wife and sternly disciplined my children in her presence when they were guilty of any grievous misdemeanor.

My saving grace is that my wife is actually godly. if not, i would have been in big soup. Over time, we both learned to avoid what will provoke each other. She knew clearly that unjustified accusations (even if she felt they were justified) against my children will never fly with me. i will defend them to the last blood, because , their mother is late. If i allow them feel in the slightest, that they have lost me too, it will be a disaster for them. So till now, they are very close to me and I am actually both their friend and father. So my wife, on learning that such things wont work with me, so as not to loose me too, she also decided to back down, to let peace reign. Gradually she has become more relatable with the older children, but due to her own nature, a fairly reserved one, there is a limit she can go. But what is certain, she cares for the children but i do not know where that misconception initially was coming from. So today, we live in peace, everyone carefully honouring and respecting boundaries. Since then word-fights between the two of us have practically gone.

From your description, something similar may be playing out in your home. Unfortunately, the person who has one of the main keys to keep that family in peace together is your wife. If she is not godly enough to recognise her home is about to be torn apart, there will be problem. Its unfortunate you did not anticipate sibling problem coming. It was naive of you. Now the deed is already done. Bitter words have already been spoken that can never be forgotten even if forgiven. Its painful.

What you must not do, is to not send ANY of your children from your late wife away. Never never never ever try it. Those childrens' spirit will die and they will become what you will regret you ever gave birth to. Similarly, as i said, the deed is already done, YOU CANNOT SEND YOUR STEP DAUGHTER AWAY ALSO. There is nothing you can do on that. You all have to stay in the house and slug it out. But here is my counsel: Since I can not tell how godly your wife is, she is angry now, and angry women can say and do terrible things. bring your step daughter back. apologise for ever calling her a bastard child - that was terrible of you. i know you were angry, i have said terrible things too when i and my wife quarrelled because of the children, but the thing is , I knew what i said was bad. So you MUST apologise for those terrible words. comfort all parties, wife, step daughter and your daughter. Resolve between you and your wife to stop saying "my children" "your daughter". That must stop. The final and the most crucial aspect of solving the problem in your home - you need to bring in somebody else to stay in your house to act as a check to your step daughter, since your wife can not be trusted to do a good job of that. Somebody she has to fear and respect. Maybe your mother, or sister or aunty, someone you trust that will not come and add petrol to the fire - a female family member. Someone that, as long as your step daughter knows that person is around, she will restrain herself. Its a temporary measure but crucial one for now - very crucial, seeing you are not always at home. It needs to be somebody even your wife will restrain herself. This step will cause strain with your relationship with your wife. But you have to let her know she has not handled things properly, so this is the only way you can be sure of what is going on under your roof. She willbe bitter about it sha but na condition make crayfish bend. Just reassure her that it is a temporary measure. Only you know how long it will be...keep that to your chest.

This will buy you time to draw all parties closer to you. Win your step daughters love and respect while not depriving your own children. Hopefully, if they are normal human beings and not diabolical, things will get better. if however diabolism is involved, you need God to step in or else, even your life is at stake.

So much respect sir. Words of wisdom

Drizzy5001:
To wipe off their kpekus, incase they urinate

Correct

coker007:
Recipe for baked beans

2 derica Navy beans (the White beans)

1 teaspon Baking soda

2 tablespoons (i think) Molasses or dark brown sugar or both (you'd get these at spar not sure about shoprite) you can substitute molasses for tomato paste but make sure you add the brown sugar ( i was told to chip this in by our cooking person)

Just a dash like half teaspoon dry mustard

I really don't know the measurement for one serving we are six here sooo.....anyways

Pick beans, rinse once and soak in cold water overnight in the morning add Baking soda to the soaking beans and bring to a boil. Drain and transfer to a casserole, combine the rest of the ingredients and pour hot water to cover beans, don't forget salt though at this point you can add your orisirisi meat pork sausage, beef steeak or pork ribs

Please edakun don't add ONIONS i beg!!

Cover casserole and bake in oven on low heat don't know temperature but sha bake till beans is very soft

Note its going to bake for a very long while so make sure you have gas

When you're done Bluetooth my portion thank you

I can't post a picture cuz we only Cook this on rare occasions when we have time and gas to spare

Thank you

cococandy:
By baked beans you mean the canned ones right? They are usually ready to eat. I add them to my coleslaw, omelette or eat them as is on top of plain toast .

Use your Irish potatoes for French fries or home fries (cubed and roasted) as a side dish. Can’t think of anything else.

Yes. Thanks

cococandy:

Please help me with a recipe for baked beans and irish potatoes

Huawei y7

WATCHOVER:
Looking at the way the PDP as a party fought for him.
Especially DELTA STATE PDP, THE IGBINEDION DYNASTY, CHARLES IDAHOSA AND CO.

IT IS CERTAIN OBASEKI WILL REMAIN IN PDP

Even Gov Wike

Edo no be Lagos

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright...
Oshiomhole, Kabaka, ize Iya mumu, captain hosa, tinubu and APC don't know what they have put their hand into
I told you all obaseki is gonna coast to victory... uhunwmode my local government of origin nor dey fuckkk up...as am typing now i dey my village.....and i also say a big thank you to the whole of esan land

Obaseki my real niggarrr

Ambode is a pussy asss niggarrr...with no balls...

If not for security reasons and police and SARS wahalar shebi i for disclose my location immediately i leave my village enter Benin city make we real niggarrrs for Nairaland meet in Benin city make we drink enough bottles and smoke enough weed

See my brother

daddytime:
At first, I been think say na you be the crocodile oh as I see the first picture.

I been want say " wow, what a handsome smiling crocodile".

You are wicked

liberalchick:
Your wife should go and remove the polyp. It’s not a serious surgery. It’s not a ‘surgery’ where your skin is cut, it’s done through the vagina and it’s a same day procedure. It’s in the cervix, the doctor just pulls it out or burns it and the pain after is just like normal period cramps. She’s living in denial, not removing the polyp will not make it disappear and it will also hinder a successful IVF or natural conception.

Also, she needs to remove the polyp and have it tested to know if it’s cancerous or benign, she should not play with her life because of fear.

You borrowed my words. Even Ivf wont work with the polyp.


Be encourage her and get competent hands for the surgery

ijeije123:
Thanks. But it makes her poops once she feeds. I'm worried her weight would reduce cos of it. She also cries from stomach pain. Wat do we do. I'm a ftm. tnx

Please watch what you eat like excess tea, biscuit, adulterated palmwine, some soup that cleans the tommy

Look for an NGO

LOCATE any RCCG church, discuss with the Pastor. They have a place for people having this challenge. Give your life to Christ.

Seek help on how to get a job. You may start from a batcher or low cost housing.

Don't give

Please dont give your daughter up for adoption because you may never see her again.

Seek help from relatives, extended family members etc

Don't give up

olu77:
Ritgheousness right now on his way to this thread

Bad guy

Blissquare:
There is a reason why poor people stay poor and rich people remain rich. Due to challenges, you live in a one bedroom is understandable and it will not be forever by the grace of God but how is a 30yr old woman now sleeping in the same room with you and she has everyone's conscent in her life? You do not mind, her sister doesn't mind, her relatives and friends have not frowned at it, her own boyfriend is ok by it? Do not get me wrong, i am wondering how your one room is her last resort despite that she would not be leaving soon. If one is poor in finance, one should not be poor in judgement or association . Now, the soluti
on is that you make love only when she is not at home and no longer at night alone. Is it that you all get home at the same time or she has no job? Maybe you limit it to your bathroom. You would continue to be poor if your mindset is ok having sex with a relative in the room. Some mother in-laws are even the 3rd parties in other stories.

You are 100% correct. Some inlaws don't understand marriage is for a man and his wife. Mother inlaws intrude here and there. Inlaws allow your married sisters and brothers be


Back to the OP Solutions below are

1.save up and give her part of her rent

2.save up and move to a bigger apartment

3. Separate your room with a plank/wood

4.let her go for an holiday

5.make love when she's not around

6.get a duvet and make love in the duvet

plusfield:
There is a competition among this govt appointees to outdo each other in looting. They are taking advantage of the president's mental absence to loot as they wish, knowing that the man will never know. Even if he gets to know, he will forget by the next day

A sincere question, is our dear president suffering from mental illness?

tega2luv:
Nor be joke oooo

I meant my thought though. You are not alone. I keep wondering the why increasing cases of cancer. Imagine the chicken we consume, 2 months old birds with excess hormones injected in them.

Secondly palm wine. I love palmwine but the sellers always alter the taste with sugar. Some go as far as swearing.

I thought though

Presido

Byke60:
Beautiful couple , congrats!!!
But na that white shoe I no understand

You spoke my mind.