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If not for peller wedding I don't even know your father but I know Wizkid way since secondary school.

Right now I go just face my life because I no fit out mouth. They're making their money regardless of the outburst but next time I think he shouldn't be saying this for the future of his brand considering how his music is still trying to stay balanced I feel he should just stay in his lane since reconciliation wasn't possible

Champz is low key just the way his father is. His mother has restricted him from social media experiments till 18. No concert no promotions school before anything that's why he's not making music like that and this one in the other hand they are looking for publicity for him, the dad sponsors people just to promote his music

Two different lives living two different stories with two different styles of music so iceking what are you dragging for exactly

Ask around for other options from people around or at work I'm sure you can get something better if it's not giving you what you want. Airtel that removed my area data plan just when it finally worked for me I don't know why they behave like demons even their customer care is wack and rude when I went to complain about my network issues the way they replied me like say I tiff the sim. It's well

Then so are the people voting for him in the first place. Like this even me myself I'm getting confused over this presidential candidates and party they're just recycling the same people no new person nobody wants to help the country they just want their big cuts and they're back to scatter votes again and behind the scenes they're making money.

It's well oh Nigeria my country it's well
If it's Obi toor if it's tinubu toor if it's Atiku toor let our vote count this time around. Because even the way threats are going now dome non indigenes of areas are not going to be allowed to vote.

I pray we all survive the election talk more of the results.

God save us all as we all hope for a better Nigeria. Amen

This is new month and you're already bringing this energy to a new month. Jesus power is supreme not meaningless not powerless at the mention of the name knees bows and tongues confess.

We're in the world where everyone now questions everything we grew up knowing but I don't blame anyone because I can see how our religious bodies now take religion for money milking and even some take ancient powers just to make money. They serve ancient powers.

But I won't use it to insult christ because who am I without him I don't go to church anymore...I serve God in my house I pray in my home I watch teachings and prayers from my home. Because I don't want a situation where I can't pay what they want in church and they think what they don't know about me. I still don't care about what they think but I can't start explaining my life to them before they'll use it against me tomorrow. I love my God and he loves me everyone has their way of serving God but bro no insults serve yours your way but no insults.

Life has ups and downs we can't even predict our tomorrow so just use words you know in your heart that's is clear and clean.

Happy new month to you have a wonderful, blessed and fruitful month.

Omoawoke:
Jesus power , meaningless power

Jesus powerless, powerless power

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PheelzAlmighty:
This doesn't feel right.
Tupac Amaru Shakur is dead and gone, let the dead rest in peace.

But even the dead can't have Peace with those who made them die leaving free like nothing happened with this mentality of let the dead live in peace...our justice system now prefers to compensate rather than persecute and convict they'll even tell you to settle out of court.

But over there ever single goddamn drop of blood matters to them even animals anything that has life so now what has to be done is getting done even if it takes years you can't run from it.

It's quite disturbing but I usually use my area on Airtel then until they completely removed it. And I also use glo night data a lot more at night so I will say between 50 to 100G.

Happy birthday to her wishing her long life and prosperity

Sorry about what happened to you you should have just left instead of using fifi to eat fish it's kind of weird especially in a public space. If you can't take his insults walk away but I just thank God you're doing fine.


Just keep hustling one day hustling for pay but no born again oh. 7 kids is already okay especially in our economy

I'm interested

Vendor127001:
You should apply to train AI, I can guide you tho, not easy but definitely you will earn $

Invest,marry and build slowly
Some people are saying don't marry invest for Three years at 31 years. Then you'll be 34 before you'll see money by then you'll now start building when exactly. Tell your woman the money I have let's do small marriage. Are you in agreement or not when money comes we can do it lavishly. If she agrees you'll marry with what you want from inside the money.

It's not the wedding day that us marriage oh people will only come to tell you congratulations but after that you're in your own. If you have good friends you'll even recover part of your marriage money. Make sure your woman has something doing before you marry her that one settled

Then during that period you can invest and build slowly make your woman wait small before she will bring your bundle of Joy when things get balanced a bit then Aboy and Ada fit come, the baby wouldn't add responsibility since you both already know your plans.

Everything is plan but I know you know what you want already just do wetin dey your mind.

OpSystem:
Why do married women also go to the gym.

Because some men complain about their wives loosing shape after childbirth and use that as an excuse to want to cheat if care is not taken the husband might eventually leave her for his side chick or chickens.

Even after 2 to 3 kids they'll say she has lost her spark. Now the questions should be how should s married woman work out. There are ways you can exercise without having a gym instructor to guide you. If you as a married woman carry yourself in that manner even if that man na dog forget some guys love sleeping with married women. I believe she should know how to create boundaries. If she can go to the gym then it shouldn't be often and juggling is also another thing she can do at home
Push up and the rest can be done at home.


She can ask the husband for assist if even get some tutorials from YouTube.

The bad eggs have made the good ones look bad that's why most men don't trust easily even ladies imagine doctors drugging some of their patients so they can just have minutes of pleasure. We have professionals who are professionals in the fields dominated by women and are doing great but there are still bad ones among them and it's making it hard for us to know who is who.

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werisetogether:
This has to be "content"

What exactly is he "listening" for in that pic?

Na that one dey pain you abi just see her facial reaction haba

There's something you can benefit ...maybe emotional support even financial support see maybe you haven't met someone who's different because based on wetin me dey see online some girls now want men to do everything for them.But what if I tell you some men started their first business with their babes money some ladies dey guy....Majority of ladies this days are after flashy things but they're still some who care about what you as a man thinks and want. Is relationship always about sex? No! Is money a priority ?No it shouldn't be to you if you know wetin you dey go through then know how you spend it if you're not seeing good benefit in that relationship move.


Men are benefiting from women and women are benefiting from men take it or leave it. If you want to benefit from a woman positively e get the kind woman that's is where the problem is now they're rare.

Even an average man has taken spending in a lady as a normal yes it's good to appreciate and show love for your partners but she should also do the same to you since it's a relationship not a daycare.

Nollywood has given it a name 'odugwu' now every lady wants an odogwu but nobody wants to know how odogwu became odogwu. They want a man who can date in 3 months and propose in a well decorated area a made man. And the men themselves brothey no send as long as they have it they're giving .

It's turning into a competition amongst men and women In the social space who marries best who dresses best. Everyone wants to belong so instead of complaining that you're not seeing benefits in a relationship either you get a partner that you know has your back or you just invest in yourself and let them come to you willing. Money commands respect but if you no wise they will use your money rob you of your inheritance.

RaptorX:
What future do people living in that environment have to look towards in the first place, at least they will use the N500 to eat.

my dear sometimes 500 food for a day wouldn't solve the problems coming in the future.

That's why people who sell their votes eat today but different tomorrow.

Naso some people will carry #500 naira and sell their future because to me this is not ordinary. Some of these rich folks get money from diabolical sources and this is one of the quickest ways they use to make their money

Something wey dey reign that side pastor go even say bring your phone and laptop to the altar for cleansing and blessings dey play church business dey boom even some of the pastors are the main Yahoo guys.

If you are in tiktok there's one that's even praying for ashawo and yahoo boys to get clients so they'll pay tithe 😁😁. He said that God came for them he loves them the way they're.

smallsmall:
Best thing is to visit Nigeria during your Annual Holiday, do whatever you can do in Four- Five Weeks, lock up your Site when going, till you come back next year and then pick it up from where you left
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It may take you longer to complete the Project but yo wont be funding the lifestyle of anyone or getting Scammed by everybody.
Eye too red for Nigeria now.

Exactly oh come home if there's money you'll see that before 2 weeks the work is almost over. I know if one lady in Dubai in my village she used 2 weeks to build her house as they're making blocks they're building and it was during dry season because if it's raining season rgry don't do it so Op should use this idea abeg all these things use to bring problem for a person even in marriage if not prayer you'll just see that you're making money without getting results.

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NaijaGoBetter2:
One weyrey just talk say just $12k if you know how difficult to gather money anywhere you no go call 12k just.

No be everybody de do dirty business and all of us can be in IT job.

And the werey fit be ripper too you know they feel so entitled to people's money to them na normal thing as long as you know them your money is theirs and their responsibility don become your own automatically.

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Proftruth:
My wife divorced me after I confessed to her that I cheated once in 5 yrs of marriage. I was faithful for the 5 years we were married until she traveled and a friend disturbed me that she wanted to know my place. She came and tempted me until I fell that was it. My wife came but my conscience disturbed me for about a week until she asked me what was wrong and said I can tell her anything. I opened up and that was it.

I would have kept that secret till death but she left. I have long remarried but I still regretted telling the truth. The truth did not set me free as I expected. Please guys and girls there are somethings your spouse MUST NEVER KNOW.

That's just something she used to leave you because can she say her new husband isn't cheating on her. Or she'll prefer he doesn't say anything until he infects her. If this is true just don't feel bad it's better you got it off your chest. You didn't tell her because you wanted her to feel disappointed but you wanted to free yourself from the guilt so you'll perform better next time you see something like that is about to happen.

Too bad she felt or thought something else, just move on and build yourself and try not to do something that'll hurt your new relationship.
Shalom

DropsMic:
Nigerians are very creative when it comes to dealing with petty thieves. But when it comes to dealing with those big thieves wey dey steal their future and that of their unborn children, they leave everything to God.

my brother you've said my mind that's when they know God is in control

Thank you dear 😊
I love the way you broke everything down

Farrason:
You friend has no issues with his wife but has issues with your behaviour when his wife is present!! Guest what, the wife too noticed you and possibly told her husband that she is not comfortable with your behaviour and how your eyes feast on her body!

Such eyes are called ashewo eye and it is because you are not exposed to women to hold yourself together when you see a feminine body around you. It's a zig zag run of hormones when a woman is around you with fleshy parts in view. Your brain pops, your eyes run like zeros... lol. It's your passion yearning to run wild and you are doing your best holding it down. Even though unaware to you. No let am run you down o.

Your self control will burst open if you go on like this and if you are not tamed, you fit land yourself in jail for rape. Your friend has noticed and that's why he distanced him self from you, before you go commit and blame the devil. You've had it a long time and did not know it and been fighting with it. I have given it a name for you.

Passion is a force, it is good but a wild passion can run you down.

The solution, embrace prayer and fasting and also get a wife if are up for it.

Good luck

dormenedynasty:
My friend and I are having a cold war, and I want to know if I am the one at fault.

We used to go out together almost every time, but one day, he suddenly stopped taking me along with him. His wife gave birth, and he didn't tell me until two days later. When his wife returned from the hospital, he still didn't tell me. I only found out because a mutual friend, whom he now goes out with, told me.

I decided not to go and see his wife, and since then, we haven't been talking. We live in the same estate.

The reason I chose not to visit his wife is because I know he suspects that I am planning to sleep with her. He has even told me that he is a dangerous and bad man.

I had already told him before now that I don't really know how to relate with women. I also find it difficult to look directly at his wife's face. When I try to look elsewhere, my eyes sometimes end up looking at her legs. I know he has noticed this.

Honestly, I am confused. I try to avoid making eye contact, but then my eyes may wander elsewhere, and sometimes they end up on her legs. I have this habit where the way I look at people can make them uncomfortable, and it isn't limited to women. It happens with both men and women.

There is another aspect of my behavior that concerns me. For example, if I give someone money or help them with something, my behavior afterward can sometimes be strange. I may eventually say something that makes the person remember what I gave them or did for them. I don't necessarily plan to make them feel bad, but I often feel hurt when these situations happen.

Also, if someone asks me for something and I only have a small quantity of it left, the way I react or the way I respond can sometimes make the person uncomfortable.

What worries me is that this uncomfortable behavior isn't limited to outsiders. It can also happen with my siblings and even my parents.

I honestly don't know why I behave this way sometimes, and I want to understand whether I am actually at fault in this situation with my friend and what I can do differently.

so what exactly would you call this because you and I know you know your problem. And that's how to treat an issue if you know your problem why not find a solution to it. I'm also like you I don't like direct eye to eye contact but I had to learn how not to do that because I know my students sometimes direct eye to eye is the best for most of these kids. If you have a partner try practicing with her and if you really want to help yourself don't just admit that's who you're because to me it's not a good thing.

If you eventually get married and have kids even during sex don't tell me you don't look into your partners eyes during sex.

Well since you're not docking his wife or want to let him take his insecurities else where friendship isn't by force.

And he doesn't need your explanations if you do so. If he's your friend he wouldn't have crossed that line except you're not telling us the truth.

I pray you get answers to what you seek but please just don't accept this particular side of you. I know you'll work it out.

I'm shy too I don't like large gatherings and don't like being around much crowds but I love meeting new people and try to socialize when I get into a small setting.

When I go outside to the market and see how people are struggling trust me I don't want to come home and I want to also struggle too

Being shy doesn't pay bills I was shy when I started teaching but I had to be confident. Spoke to my former proprietor and she helped me adjust.

Money is very important in marriage but it's not a guarantee that the marriage would work.

Some women would say their money is theirs while their husbands is ours. If the lady knows her onions and the man is also doing his part with communication, respect and tolerance. Marriage isn't a bed of roses but it's not a cancer either. There are still good partners out there who don't allow pride, and the society to teach them how to manage their marriage.

He's not dead

Oyin oshi later she'll say she's not looking for attention. Her money her life somebody that was complaining about her husband few months back. Now I can see she has nothing else to offer because from BBL to this then definitely she is just sick.

Here it's from 1k

ultraviolet27:
dem still dey sell suya N500?it starts from 2k here.

Na church people sister and brother maybe a pastor linked them up. In Nigeria they think Christianity is by dressing. It's from the heart and how you behave not in public but indoors. You'll see this type of people smiling up and down but inside their homes they're tigers.

Rip to the man he must have been a calm man because I know that if he was rugged she won't have the mind to stab him.

My dear you're speaking the truth this is something I have discussed even at home. I have seen two brothers having kids and giving them their own names if you don't know they are brothers you won't believe the kids are related.
One is Joseph
The other Abraham then each child with his or her name and native name.

Most of the people this days that have baby mama I won't be shocked if cousins get into relationships.

Because it's happening and now that you're trying to enlighten us people are saying you should mind your business.

Surname is very important to child. I have seen someone bearing a name online and I know that the surname is my paternal family name. So I asked him he said he's from my state same local government but different regions.

I believed he's my cousin or so because I described my family house and he mentioned his own grandmother. See surname is important even footballers are using their surname.

Peter,Peter, Charles, Clinton, George.
All these foreign names you'll see a father bearing Paul. The son is John Ochadu Paul

The Son will give birth and name his own son James Agbo John.
Please where is the grandfather's heritage it's slowly leaving so it's something we should discuss about.


If the surname doesn't have a good meaning because they're name of those days that don't have a good meaning like someone stated above the family can come together to remove that name from their generation.

This world is too small and you don't know who's who so surname should be preserved and not picked randomly from a father's name although it's a thing if choice na who get pikin go decide but it's really something to be discussed and I must applaud the Op for this post.

OKUCHI11:
Na wah... This na the pikin wey dem born under my nose oo... And I still dey here dey struggle with 30k salary from private schools since 2017 wey I graduate

Teaching work is considered slavery here in Nigeria thrg don't value the work and it's not like it's a one subject thing sometimes you'll take several classes just to earn peanuts.

Worst part some of the genz parents still believe the reason why their kids fail us because the teachers aren't trying.
The school owner thinks you pressing your phone shows you're not working... they'll start looking for ways to make your life miserable.

It's not easy but I believe you'll scale through don't give up, like this I no send anybody again you see school matter I wash my hands for me and my generations unborn

Thank you dear I really appreciate your advice the problem i have with them is the inability to pay quick it's draining me.
I will definitely put all that you've said to work

Stephen0mozzy:
I understand that you're really in a hard place right now. But you have to plan and be smart about it otherwise it will be a continuous cycle of paycheck to paycheck.

1. Advice One

You have to cut off many luxuries (See if it's possible to save #10,000 every month from your salary) + consider reaching out to some parents who think their kids could benefit from weekend classes, then go to their house and teach them.

You can also offer to teach kids how to design with AI - you can charge as little as #5000 per child for 4 sessions. So you can save up for atleast 3 months personal expenses - then you can consider stopping work and focus on all the other things that were bringing you small small money.

Your location may influence the kind of physical job that you can get, but if you're patient, confident and willing to learn what people will pay for, then you can find ways of taking your services directly to customers instead of waiting for a boss to do that and pay you.

Note, freelancing is NOT easy o... Some days are very blessed, and some days are complete drought, so financial management is very important.

Depending on the school you're teaching, if you really carry yourself well and are very good, you can actually get connected with parents who can connect you to opportunities outside your workplace - any job that has you meeting people will usually do this sha - but don't go about begging o.

Truth is, the salary is small, but you have to sew your coat according to your size, a small salary is better than zero, you just have to find a way to get a predictable income that they won't be delaying.

2. Advice Two
Keep your job, but you have to go all in on your Facebook and YouTube channels - you never know when the algorithm will make your content go viral, the big names you're seeing today didn't start big, many of them struggle too. But social media rewards consistency.

You get home from school on or before 5pm right? Now you need to find a way of squeezing 4hrs daily of focused attention on your other side hustle... Look for alternatives to the AI tools that you were using to do the work that was giving you small thing before.

Eat the humble pie, reach out to that woman who used to send you to do things for her, try to explain to her why you wanted her to give you money first before help her pay for things, she could have felt insulted, but you just overlook being right, and get on her food side.

Set a timeline for yourself. What do you want to be OR where do you want to be in 5years time?

If your current company too increase thay salary, in 5yrs time, it'll be #80,000. Will that amount be okay for you? Or is it time to plan an exit for better opportunities through skills.


By the way, your qualifications are secondary if you can communicate the value you bring. I was once working in an association of top professionals as their office secretary, even with my SSCE - my skills that made me an asset to them mattered than the paper.