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Amb1045:
Lack of patients, being over reactive and lack of forgiving spirit has led you to where you’re right now. No be only you get daughter even your father in law follow get the daughter. If they advise you to let go let go. Leave all this over wise ness way they worry una. Inside 10years you get only 1 daughter, you think say the family go happy

You sef Sabi reason the lady didn't know she just gave them another reason to treat her like they had always wanted to...I don't even see any reason why she would be against the father and mother in law, you could have just created a boundary between your husband and sister instead period.

MsJackson:
This is in reference to this my story
https://www.nairaland.com/7508796/sexual-molestation-minor

I stayed away from the family. I went to spend sometime with my mum around December of 2022. I returned from work one day and got my ears full when my mum told me that my daughter talked about the molestation case all day. Mum advised me to take her to my in-laws place for the matter to be resolved, but that I should call hubby to take permission. He granted it.
Only for me to get there and my father in-law was accusing me of cooking up the story in my daughter's mind. I refused to be wrongly accused. My father in-law said after all the girl that molested my daughter isn't a boy and that after all she didn't finger my daughter. Because I defended myself and my daughter, my parents inlaw chased me and my baby out of their house like a common criminal. I cried all the way to my mum's place. Called my husband, he told me he knows the kind of parents he had, and that I should try forget the issue.
I tried forgetting it and stayed away from them. I cut them off totally. That was the only way I could heal. It's not like any of my in-laws ever reached out to me even before and after my daughter was molested, I was always doing all the calling. After this incident, I locked up.
Now my husband threw my load out on January 13th. My offense? His mother sent us food and I failed to call her to say thank you.
That's my offense. I've been squatting with my daughter from one place to another. His father even called to warn their tenant not to allow me spend another night at their house, because me and my daughter spent one night with the only tenant in the compound when I had no place to go. The tenant consist of a father, mother and their daughter, nice people.
Me and hubby live in their family house, although hubby's parents don't live there, only us and one tenant.
I've cried and cried. Elders in my church have begged and begged. He is adamant, with the backing of his father. He even locked up the remaining of my property in the very dusty store close to the gate, including my molested daughter's clothes. I even met my laptop on the floor, he had removed it from his worn-out bag I was using to house the laptop. I was so livid and was shouting that why wasn't he patient enough to give me some days to gather some money at least to rent a room, but he was so adamant that he and his family wanted me out on the street immediately. Because I was shouting out of anger and frustration, he took a wood with nail on it to hit my hand. It took the intervention of these same tenant to avert beating I would have received. This is a man I've sacrificed alot for, 10 years gone, just like that. My daughter and I are out on the street, squatting with a church member, without a dime.
And I have just heard from a neighbour that a new girl is coming to spend time in my own home, even helping him to rearrange it. I'm still in total shock and don't know what to do.
PLEASE I NEED A JOB before I lose my sanity. I live around Sango OTA.

Hmm my dear fear family people they want to cover up their track,my dear get human rights so your husband will be paying for the child if you're legally married, same thing happened to my cousin here her husband was molesting the little child upon everything he's doesn't take care of them, immediately she Left his family refused to call her, now they want to get another lady for him just because she said this,they even refused talking about it,he's so glad she's gone because she doesn't have a male child... your husband started hating you right from when you spoke up about the abuse, pray and tell God to expose that girl for you, try to get a possible place, forget him that girl has always been there you just couldn't see her... You could have simply put a big red mark on your sister in law but communicated with the rest but you just aided them calm down a little bit to push you out because his attitude seems uncanny like he's doing it under suggestions.

Naijanascam:
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stacyadams:


Make she go report for any barracks ,put money for pocket for bribe.if she get evidence of her hubby terrorizing her too good..make una return the bride price join..relocate her and change phone number join.

thank you sir

Scentedgrance:

Tell your sister to go make enquiry in his Brigade.

Can she use another location because she is no more in that side because of the threat can she report in the barracks here for them to send signals

Scentedgrance:

There's a welfare in the Nigerian army responsible for this.

However your sister is the first woman I m reading online married to a soldier whose husband is not catering for them

Like I said up there before,tell her to walk into her husband's brigade and make enquiry.

There's a Body responsible for that,her husband will be sanctioned and some process will ensue and some parts of his salary will be paid into the wife's acct.

Simple!

Thank you dear I really appreciate

Laird:


If he admitted, at least he was heard from an bigd so it's fair to now analyse and decide on next line of action

There's no going back at this junction his constant threat of death is something to be scared about, he is just having the mindset that she would go round with men,very selfish and centered person acting like ok I have heard you can I carry them now,haba please let him go he's going to change no be today he even pick call sef I was shocked...my cousin won't be a factory for him can you believe he didn't tell his family at all they didn't even call because they're with him so we are planning on returning his bride price,thank God it wasn't much let him try elsewhere,let her continue and get herself trained.

Laird:
Has your family heard the man's own side of things for a balanced analysis

he's admitting everything and saying he's going to change that as she should come back

JASONjnr:
Jozilinn

I don't know your tribe but she need to inform his family members that she doesn't want to stay in the marriage anymore. And states her reasons.

After that, you she can go to the defence office to lay a formal complain of abuse and have them intervene. She should state threats made by him.

She should also make recordings of his threats. She can post this on social media and mention his name and drop his phone number as well.

If anything happen to her, the post Wil have the man pay for it...

If you were staying within Abuja, I'd say you should locate human right radio to have them bring the matter up on brekete family show.

Wow thank you

ChybuzzDD:


If she's a soldier as you said, why can't she ''change it'' for the man??

If she can't handle a single man, how then can she face a horde of rampaging Boko haram brutes?
Nawaoo!

where did you read she's a soldier abeg it's the man not her

Wawelexy:



Read again please, but this time, remove your left hand from your trouser and allow those balls be so you can understand....


@OP, is it until he carries out his threat you will now start taking actions? I know you are trying, coming here to share is also an attempt, but these are not enough, follow the right paths in handling this.... If those human rights you went to aren't serious, go to another, use social media, reach out to his family to give a stern warning that they will be held responsible if anything happens to your sister, try reaching out to Nigerian navy and more.. but in all you do, avoid the Nigerian police first, they will frustrate your efforts.

May God help you

thank you very much it was actually them I went to meet.

Kobojunkie:
So all this while, your sister never reporting her husband but was busy taking free punches from him?

Anyways, yes the security system in the country has indeed deteriorated all around majorly because the citizens don't hold the authorities accountable for much, so I am afraid you will have to accept whatever is available at this time. But that should in no way stop you from doing your due diligence in ensuring you continue to collect as much evidence against the man in case he actually carries out his threat later on. Digital and document evidence will always help if You find you ever need to take him to court. Goodluck there.

okay thank you.

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donogaga:
What country will you like to relocate to, within the next 5 years?

Usa or Germany

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Letitshine:
I posted months back on how I lost my baby, I suspect someone put abortion pills into my food and I lost my baby. I don't have any proof but when I was rushed to the hospital the doctor said my miscarriage is as a result of abortion pills.
Mentally I was not okay, if am being truthful am still not okay, I tried to see a counselor but I don't think the woman understands me
Now on top of my mental issues, I am no longer ovulating, my period is not flowing normal.
I now use 1 pad for a whole day and it's still not full, plus it doesn't flow the normal 5 days again.
I have gone for scans and test, they all say my eggs and womb are okay, and I don't have any infection. I have only one sex partner in my life which is my husband.
Honestly I don't know what to do I feel depressed and ashamed. I feel guilty for not protecting my child.

Please I need help, if you are a doctor and u have answers for me ... please tell me

Just visit a gynaecologist because it's not normal if you are using one hospital alone just change the hospital, and make sure your husband is not cheating on you, if you say it's a friend then avoid public gatherings and friends that are close to your husband. Get closer to God in this trying time and you will see results dear

olamilekan9:
Call me ceo of cross over 😎

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kooyanbliss:
Good day to you everyone I wont be bias with what i want to say coz i don’t need no validation i just want to air out my plight…My Girlfriend of 4months has always been nice to me ever since i went broke a month into when we started dating. When she started helping me she didn’t count it as anything and still respected me as her boyfriend which i do give back to her anytime i see small change for aza too coz i appreciate her effort a lot on me and her eagerness to see me succeed…..My Girlfriend started behaving anyhow to me when it got to a point due to my broke life which i understand that most women won’t stay with a broke/managing guy but i was putting all my effort to make changes. The last time my girl came to visit she started raising her standard between us. she would talk to other guys on the phone beside me and some would even send her money which i totally have no issue with but once she sees me chatting a female friend or see a female friend’s picture on my phone she accuses me of cheating and all and she does that rigorously/vulgarly . As if thats not enough she doesn’t want to see me greet any of my neighbors male or female to the extent that she nagged at me and slapped me two nights before the day i beat her over an argument that why would i be greeting so so so person beside her bla bla bla. I used to tell my girl not to frustrate me to the point of me thinking of raising my hands on her that anytime a lady angers me to the core i just like to go out of that house to calm myself down. thats my nature but it seems this girl just wanted to dare me. Two days after, We had another issues that led to an argument again which she went out of the house and i did the same
some minutes after just to go grab some local drinks at a local liquor shop. About an 30mins later she started calling me to ask for my whereabouts which i told her not to bother about me coz my head dey hot due to wetin she dey follow me drag before we both left the house. As i came back in i didn’t want to pour out my anger by saying any harsh word to her i just went straight to the bathroom to take my shower but this girl wont let me be she kept stalking me and i was avoiding her she kept on doing the same all in the name of settling things with her but i was really angered i just needed some lone time because the anger kept aggravating so i took my cloth and decided to leave the apartment again to the balcony this time around but this devilish girl wont let me. there comes another dirty slap again on my face (2nd time slapping me within three days) telling me i am very stupid for wanting to leave the room for her. i was seeing stars but i still endured again and continue struggling to leave her so i can go outside rather than raising my hands on her but this girl wont leave me na my cloth she dey drag and also hitting me hard multiple times on the chest which i still have the mark till now. I kept on begging this girl not to push me to a point where i would do what i don’t want to do but it seems she was bewitched already that time that she won’t stop hitting me hard all over my body and holding my clothes not to leave. I had no choice than to give her what she wanted coz i was really provoked. I didn’t want to do this, she pushed me and i’m regretting now!

you no get money you dey drink liquor alaye the way you wrote shows you just no get joy,try stop the alcohol small he get why redirect your energy leave woman matter and just focus on smash and pass, with the little change you have you can do that...so that you won't have responsibility then chanel the anger towards work, you go testify.

Iamzik:


I sometimes look at married people and wonder why most church women are so hypocritical to think that a pastor has more authority than their husband.

Bishop Oyedepo once asked his wife not to go to a program that she herself organized and is supposed to preach without any clear reason. She was disappointed but she obeyed all thesame.

Mummy GO is subject to her husband but women fellowship member thinks that her GO word supersede her husband. Smh

Did he tell her that if she doesn't she would see,he would make sure she doesn't feed until she does it,I also work in s church department if I start to mention the issues that these women you termed pastor worshippers are going through, you will understand them,or is the one that doesn't provide for his family and has sidechicks outside and doesn't put money at home and wants food to eat, finish beating her up forces the children to drink water everytime they ask for food to eat while he's outside he calls her a bastard... wetin you want that woman to do if not running to God mind you some pastors run scholarship for their members children na where dey benefit you, nahim you go try to bend to. So like I said earlier it's not all women that do this pastor worship it depends on what they face in their marriage.

Lanretoye:
They can submit to pastor in church but will be claiming equal right with husband at home...wetin pastor do to deserve the submission that a husband doesnt deserve.

Oga no matter anything you say no be all women dey carry pastor for head but mostly some men no just Sabi talk na gra gra talk them Sabi,no gentleness no calmness always with authority do it or die, speaking as if the other person no get opinion.

Natbrowny:
Just like that, u wannna recruit people to join ur cause.

U haven't shared ur experience and we should join u and beef the bank

Access bank has always been withdrawing money from my own account if you send me 1k they remove complete ₦300 apart from that, their are always prompt but for now I'm looking for an alternative account.

Some men don't deserve respect, respect is one of the key factor of submission, the way you talk Will determine how the other one reacts... entitlement mentality of men in Nigeria and na me own you nahim make marriage dey spoil most times, you don't expect to undervalue your wife and then expect her to be submissive.

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

Baba if you get the strong mind wey I get, you go forget that babe and the baby, leave them make them dey their dey, time will tell, that pikin go find you come one day no matter the brainwashed stories wey dem go feed am.

Blood is thicker than water no matter how many times you dilute am.

Just pray a simple prayer to God, sit back and relax, watch the magic that will unfold in years to come.

u wicked no matter anything haba,no be by say leave pikin if them no want no force the girl let them abort it they want to while you move on...so u go guy mind abandon your own blood

MiniMonster:
True nairalanders should Drop a four-letter word for him


Lets go…..🤣

mumu like say she still dey faithful as he die so

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Stevenbright:


What caused the divorce?
Is he the one at fault or his wife?

Is he actually a good and responsible man?

What are the net effects of the divorce experience on him, is he totally healed now?

His he the type that compares people that is has ever compared her to his former wife?

Your sister need to get answers to these questions and if the answers are favourable to her, she can go on with the relationship otherwise, she needs to watch out.

Totally right because some are just mentally unstable narcissist

True naso some useless stingy and worthless men dey Dem no just value the woman but the woman but ready to give am belle, without caring for the other children, Let God help us with sensible men this days who are ready to be fathers not he goats who are ready to climb and go. Even the marriage sef na scam no matter anything you do, it's terms you are looking for favour from the husband and he doesn't have just talking from my cousin sister experience Sha 😱😱