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Celebrities / Re: โ€˜I Love Marriageโ€™ โ€“ May Edochie Refutes Claims Of Promoting Divorce by Jozilinn: 7:49am On Nov 03
Dogalmighty17:
Madam, you are not married. Your opinion counts for nothing. Any woman that allows another woman snatch her husband is a weakling and should be ashamed to even open her mouth to talk in public.
You say abeg see quote oh so na she carry the man abi you think a man would just leave his wife if he didn't want to. A man that wants to go should go haba free this lady, some men would cheat, still don't care about his own kids because they know they're just in this earth to reproduce, African men for me not all lack emotions.

Maybe it's because of how their fathers were I have seen good father's who bond well with their kids, at least the guy said it that she was his back bone and he loved her greatly, for so long nobody knew may, she's was known as yul's wife.... Now yul don decide allow her be, not every woman can take that thing called "polygamy".

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Romance / Re: I Just Ended Everything With My Expectant Baby Mama by Jozilinn: 11:08pm On Oct 31
AlphaNugget:
Good evening folks.

I will go straight to the point.
I got my girl pregnant, and although I have not done anything on her head yet, my parents and her parents are still on good terms (because, my dad, informed them that I would do an introduction next month).
Well, we have had little confrontations here and there; the last time, I had to take her things back to her mother's house, but I later begged, and she returned back to me.
But today was what I couldn't condone again; she was insulting and dared to insult my only sister (she called her a bastard and said that she would divorce if she eventually got married) while my sister has not had any interaction with her because she is an undergraduate. I had an issue with her and she was just lamenting and insulting my siblings, I had to put her on her place, and she resorted to picking up my kitchen knife and wanted to stab me with it - on God I was scared during that moment - but I overpowered her and slapped her, telling her that so she has the mind to try such, she was very very furious.

I called her mum and after talking to her mum, unfortunately, the said mum sided with her, I told her that I won't be sleeping with someone who just attempted to stab me, and her mum was just lamenting that I hit her daughter, I pleaded my innocence thatshe wanted to stab me, but her mum was not even concerned that her daughter tried stabbing me. I told them off, and I vowed not to beg her to come back.

I told her that I would move on, that she should do whatever she wanted with the baby in her womb, that I was out, and I called my mum, and she sympathised with me.

Now she has left and I just want to know if I should still take her back if she comes back. I love her, but I love my life also.
I might have been bleeding by now if I hadn't overpowered her. Omo, I was so scared for my life. During that moment, she had the knife.

Cc. Rocktation, dominique, farano
Oga you are too violent, sometimes you need to even have some qualities before marriage as a man not just a woman, your story isn't clear wetin cause fight, why did she bring your sister to the issues, obviously you're someone who loves your family fine.

But why did you try to paint her Mom a devil, and yours an angel, You have your own flaws, what did you say or do apart from the self defense and all of that. Once person get belle na bigggg problem your mindset and everything will change, your statement above that days your dad told them you will marry her shows you yourself are not responsible, honestly I don't know why some ladies wait for this type of things before they'll do the needful now a harmless baby would be born in hate and disgust.

Go and find a way to redeem yourself oh serious, whatever brought your younger sister into this matter shows you never talk everything wey happen this is not a story this is you implicating your girlfriend and her mother.
Food / Re: Pls How Do I Stop My Neighbors From Giving Me Food? by Jozilinn: 11:26pm On Oct 24
Tobihabeeb:
if this is how u see it am sorry, but the truth is that i hardly eat outside, i can take biscuit and mineral for one week without eating when am not at home.

this is beyond me now, i dont really know how to manage it.

biscuits and minerals isn't food we have a lot of health issues that are increasing daily don't add to it simply cook or buy food or get someone you pay to cook for you. Another way to make them stop feeding you,also give them your food that day you give them food they'll be aware of you having food hence they won't feel the need to give you theirs.
Food / Re: Pls How Do I Stop My Neighbors From Giving Me Food? by Jozilinn: 11:21pm On Oct 24
Starboytwo:
Just don't let them see you trashing it.

Someone saw me trashed her food she painstakingly made.

I noticed our relationship scatter that day.
before nkor if it was you
Food / Re: Pls How Do I Stop My Neighbors From Giving Me Food? by Jozilinn: 11:19pm On Oct 24
fkelly:
am facing the same thing oh, here in my shop, they say am now a member of their family, they extend food to me oh, i do hid to trash it.

most times i feel very bitter doing it but i have no option, i keep begging them to stop but they wont.

when the wife finish cooking the man will say u done give sir him own? go keep am for him shop, u know say him dey shame to eat outside? even when am shouting no am ok, they dont care to listen.

pls how do i put an end to this. without causing problems?
You guys self nawa see the way you harmlessly said it there's nothing there you see this type of people they'll go to the extreme for you I have someone like them, free yourself oh there's nothing to life, the food you're throwing away doesn't makes any sense anymore
Food / Re: Pls How Do I Stop My Neighbors From Giving Me Food? by Jozilinn: 11:10pm On Oct 24
Tobihabeeb:
Pls its getting out of hand, i hardly eat outside. though we are in good times, they always pass food over to my place whenever they cook.

the truth about the whole stuff is that i throw the food away, i have told them in multiple occupations to stop but they won't.

maybe its because i do gift their kids things when they ask.

pls i cannot continue to waste their food in this trying times.

how do i tell them to stop. am no longer comfortable with it.
There's nothing there don't collect the food and say thank you everyone with different things, one's man's meat is another man's poison.
Phones / Re: Which Of The Power Bank Brands Should I Buy? by Jozilinn: 12:04pm On Oct 20
Itel star 20000mah
Romance / Re: My Wife Is Acting Unreasonable by Jozilinn: 5:43pm On Oct 18
It's well
Romance / Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Single Mother? by Jozilinn: 11:22am On Oct 17
ICTspecialist:
She's 28, very caring, she got pregnant after being deceived by her ex but after she delivered the baby, dude abandoned her and is currently cohabiting with another woman tho he occasionally calls and sends upkeep to the son and I fear okafor's law might play out anytime she meets with her ex and father of his son
I'm 34 and we're dating and she's being supportive as well, kind, caring and above all respectful.
Well I hope all these characters are not
pretense to get me to marry her and now our relationship and bond has gone indepth.
But I'm scared to tell my friends the lady I'm dating and want to propose marriage to has a son and I'm scared to tell my family as well.
So guys can you marry a single mother?
What's your advise, pros and cons of marrying a lady that has a child from her previous relationship.
Cc advanceDNA nonexisting1 nonexisting luminuoz et al
You obviously don't love her enough if she's not attached to the man anymore, you can always give her a chance people make mistakes, there are some single mom that are better than single girls around, even Virginity doesn't guarantee a good marriage, marriage this days in Nigeria have the man to play a key role,as some loose interest after two to three kids and stop supporting their wives and kids

Some people would see single mothers as bad women, bitches but not all are or were, there would say why let a irresponsible man impregnate you, people change, this men they're everywhere most of them shouting marry virgin have kids outside that's what I'm saying; Before this issues will stop responsibility must be from both parties, use condoms as a man,contraceptive as a female.

There are girls that use pregnancy to trap guys we all know this, but yet there have been cases of guys too that would impregnate girls after promising everything even do the introduction with the person and later leave, nobody is perfect.
Now back to your question "are you sure, you love her and all because if you were you wouldn't be thinking about what people around you would say"... Yes they would talk but they are not the ones that will be married to you, stay with you and be one with you.

There are marriages people see as "nawa oh " but they are still standing today because of understanding, trust, love, and communication. Check her family background, ask around watch how she reacts if she's too good try to make her angry see her reaction to how she handles things. Just free her if you know you can't handle it, after all life continues, let her decide her fate and you decide yours.
Family / Re: Ungratefulness,how Do You Handle This?? by Jozilinn: 6:45pm On Oct 10
Maeve7:
Paragraphs please, my eyes hurt.
sorry ๐Ÿ™

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Family / Re: Ungratefulness,how Do You Handle This?? by Jozilinn: 9:38pm On Oct 09
EreluRoz:
When you learn to help people without expecting anything in return then you won't have problems with people like this.

If I help someone I don't even want you to bug me with thank you wareva, It becomes irritating to me.
ok thanks a lot you have a point though
Family / Ungratefulness,how Do You Handle This?? by Jozilinn: 8:25pm On Oct 09
Good evening nairalanders, just had something bothering me and decided to share,why is it that when some people need help they're always around you the moment things get better for them, they'll put you aside and start acting like you are shit that stinks.


To help people again really scares me, okay this is what happened,a friend of my sister had issues with feeding and accomodations, everyday no matter how small we usually shared with her to comfort her, now I heard allegedly that she's making it in betting because she now has someone giving her sure odds,and is seriously cashing out, she locked up and didn't say anything,her door is always locked now doesn't allow my nieces in and she has stopped coming to our room.

Even my sis didn't know this has been happening, just today God knows I don't have anyone anymore In my account I used the last cash to go buy things to cook and forgot few things to buy,I saw her outside and asked if she could help me immediately she was like "why didn't I buy" abeg I should get out she doesn't have, she doesn't have abeg and she started laughing and hissed. I was surprised even till now I still am.

The second person is one of my classmates in school just lost his dad, yes when I needs someone to talk to about my cousin sister issues he was Always giving me advice and all, sometimes he assists me financially but I pay back at times not all, this is actually like the second or third time I have sent him money and send him the screenshot,he acts like he didn't see anything, his reply is you try that's all,and I know I don't have much but I still have that mindset that if I bless someone I will also be blessed. When I saw his reply I immediately remembered what happened to me earlier, doing good make people take you for a fool my classmates own didn't pain me at least I already know that is how he's very competitive and secretive but I knew before I sent him the money,I can always tell him mind,but the way I was laughed out because of something that is very little, onions...haba this isn't her first time I guess that's how she isi believe, someone who leaves our place by 11 at night, feeding,data,I try to support if I can.

The insult wasn't necessary now ๐Ÿ˜”. My sis said we should just ignore her but limit the relationship because she has noticed how she was now behaving,and now she's saying all sort of things about her kids that they pee and smell, because she already have a lot of other things she's thinking and doesn't want to add her own to it as she's isn't worth it, it's well life continues right now I just dey. I hope God help us in this life,let me achieve all my heart desires, Amen ๐Ÿ™
Romance / Re: I Noticed My Girlfriend Has Been Playing Games On Me, How Do I Repay Her? by Jozilinn: 10:57am On Oct 06
NaijaEmailMiner:
And donโ€™t think Iโ€™m an ugly guy cos Iโ€™m well handsome and a good spec for most of these ladies but I actually just chose to stay with this one cos I thought she had the qualities I needed in a woman
Guy just rest if she's is not the one she isn't enjoy yourself since she has started it let her end it while you move over her no be you send her now abi . No cheat on her just give her time she go tire for you sef then ask her to find her way you no see as country hard she no serious.
Phones / Re: Which Durable Android Phone Can I Buy With A Budget Of 100-120k? by Jozilinn: 10:54am On Oct 06
Buy Tecno pop 9 pro it's new after all you don't need a phone for heavy job

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Crime / Re: Man Stabs Pregnant Wife, Sets Body Ablaze Months After Wedding by Jozilinn: 10:45am On Oct 06
GOFRONT:
cool

Imagine.......just because of Infidelity o.

Instead of the husband to forget about Infidelty attitude of his wife and just trust his wife and accept the unborn baby as his own child since the baby would grow up to call him Daddy, He rather chose to stab the woman to death.......kai some men are really really Insecure. Very very insecure
I'm telling you the brother might even know nothing about the pregnancy so if she got pregnant by the brother why keep her again nawa oh, the girls mother no try after someone beat up your daughter all you could do is take him for deliverance what about your daughter, I'm sure the guy was providing for her needs now her daughter is dead, where are the people that are claiming that since they got her pregnant they are automatically married, my dear some people no deserve love all they know is control, power, narcissist, both male and female them get their own

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Romance / Re: I Will Rather Hand Over My Salary To My Mother To Hold For Me Than My Wife by Jozilinn: 8:50pm On Oct 03
pocohantas:
Online they are always giving to their mum and sisters. Offline many mothers sold votes give politicians for bread and 1kg of beans. Every man loves his mother on social media. This kind talk no dey move me.
I'm telling you I know men who give their cards to their wives, one I know very well she hardly uses it except if it's an emergency, because she's self employed according to the man if he had the card with him his family would just be taxing him unnecessary before you know it nothing to fees his own self, sometimes after giving them 50k they will say what's the wife helping him with mind you their children attend government school to save cost so it depends if his wife is materialistic then I support him because she probably wouldn't mind using it for something that's not important. So it's according to how the man is, his family, and his wife.
Education / Re: "How I Knew You Can Be A Failure In School And Excel In Real Life" - True Storyy by Jozilinn: 8:43pm On Oct 03
EmekaStanley:
When I was in primary school, I was seen as a bright kid, and was very reserved too. So parents around my street knew, and would never mind their kids associating with me.

In fact, a parent had to withdraw his child from a particular school and brought him to my school. The first day this kid came to school, the teacher asked him;

"Do you understand English?"

He responded in Igbo language, "Enyebeghi m English" meaning, "I have not been given English".

The whole class erupted in laughter.

Because we lived on the same street, the parents of the boy asked me to please come around often to put him through some things. I will always go to his house after school and we will study together.

Well, not only did the guy pick up, he actually snatched 1st position from me in a particular term. As a child, I cried ehh.

But it didn't stop our friendship then, I only studied harder and collected my position back, until I left for Federal school in my JSSI.

Today, that guy is very rich. In fact he was already rich while I was working in a factory, and I'm so happy for him.

We see once in a while.

Whenever I see him, I remember the 'English' incident, and also affirm that no child is actually dumb, and no matter how your kid is doing in school, it doesn't definitely mean that they'll do badly in life.

Just do your bit ,and keep them in your prayers.

ES
thank you for saying this everyone has that particular level where they get brilliant in school, some in primary loose it during secondary school and start struggling, while some become better in secondary, I was topping classes right from my primary to secondary school. Finished but didn't even get a chance to further but I still have it in mind , now back to your topic I have seen some of my classmates doing better, some have even travelled outside the country, and some are currently serving.... I don't reach out to any of them because the last one I reached out to started telling me about the successful ones trying to make me feel bad but here I'm still struggling, I don't want to stop sometimes I'm asked to rest, but it's only me that knows even Nigeria has harden me let me save this comment here for now because in the next ten years I would come back to search for it then it would be my own story.

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Politics / Re: Tenants On One Prepaid Meter, How Do You Share Electrity Bills? by Jozilinn: 8:34pm On Oct 03
Try do illegal for night only then you settle nepa with small amount, saves money for example that's what is been done and some nepa officials help some people to connect illegal too
Celebrities / Re: Priscilla, I have started enjoying the fruits of motherhood โ€” Iyabo Ojo(vid) by Jozilinn: 8:24pm On Oct 03
mmadu4:
she got married to yahoo boi. las las women are after your money not your love. don't let anyone deceive you . Gone are the days of love.
tanzanian

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Family / Re: Help, A Close Friend Wants To Assisinate Me, I'm So Confused (details Inside) by Jozilinn: 10:15pm On Sep 29
amfinishedhelp:


I only have two childhood friends, they're my best friends. They don't measure up to standard but I still roll with them on a daily basis.
nobody is your bestie you no dey watch film you really loose guard you could have tried to do a private investigation you know by trying to check any of those guys of yours phone monitoring their movement by paying someone to do so I would advise you to stop informing anyone about what you do if you are really successful as you say I would have asked you to move to another state while you and your family can be or move outside the country. Change your line, block your so called friends for now limit your conversation with people you are just too honest and trust too much they're using it against you God sent that guy to you now you have exposed him they'll try to change their system of approach to be unknown. Pray and ask for help too oh if you don't want to involve the police o understand but at this rate I will advise you to carry police but it would look like they're civilian around you but they're police you understand
Romance / Re: My Girl Friend Is Pregnant by Jozilinn: 11:29am On Sep 28
Vidodino:
my question is this how can a single guy like me marry a divorce lady
stfu did she force herself on you, you didn't know she was divorced before you bleeped her or what... Why didn't you leave after done few thrust you want to continue getting bleeped right after they will say we have incredible dads in Africa.
If you no want the baby fine you have said it all she needs that baby obviously she hasn't given birth before and would refuse to abort.

It pains me that a child had to be involved before you did the needful. If you can say this then what happens when you finally get married to someone. That's a different scenario right, what happens if you impregnate another woman outside your marriage,you would start looking for who to blame too right. Stop trying hard to justify your actions be responsible.

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Romance / Re: I Know Many Runs Girls Who Married Their Clients by Jozilinn: 9:19pm On Sep 23
jorion:


Story that touch

Men hardly get married these days

So I don't know where you see these stats from?
yeah right show me your stats first that's claiming so because if you see well you would discover that marriages are everywhere even from people claiming no money
Romance / Re: I Know Many Runs Girls Who Married Their Clients by Jozilinn: 9:17pm On Sep 23
Hotspurs:
before i continue, what do you mean by good husband...as in the one that has money
No the one that patient, loving and tolerate things he's also good when he comes to supporting with the children and house chores is not everything that has to do with money man wey value woman you understand
Romance / Re: I Know Many Runs Girls Who Married Their Clients by Jozilinn: 6:35pm On Sep 22
Hotspurs:
rubbish
you see as rubbish but it's actually True good girls don't end up 100 percent with good husbands it's by God's mercy... Lot of loose girls and yet they're getting the best of the best husbands who treat Dem like queens and value them, I can testify to it infact you see this men condemning them they're probably in their dm wooing them, only people of principle still do the good things. This life isn't balance some go marry virgin claim she no Sabi knack she's like a log of wood.... Still go knack olosho make her the side chick virgin wife go born two children he will say he's no longer interested and divorce while he cares for the kids last last fo for the olosho or any other girl that can knack okay who loose now once a woman gives birth in Africa even in marriage they'll become undervalued no be all oh ma some men no be all. If you see some women with rubbish characters sometimes I wonder how they see suitors, pompous, randy trust me men dey oh men dey na only God dey help us because life no balance

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Investment / Re: See How The Lord Blessed My Hustle! (pic) by Jozilinn: 10:49am On Sep 22
Mamayam:

How much did you spend on CATI?
you sure say na the same cati whey me and you know pay you 244k
Career / Re: Teacher Offered โ‚ฆ55,000 To Teach Students That Pay N294k School Fees by Jozilinn: 7:57am On Sep 20
Students are paying 10k per term teacher is paid 8k nkor ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ I don suffer no be today
Education / Re: What ethnic group in Nigeria have the noisiest and most aggressive language? by Jozilinn: 7:47am On Sep 20
All of then oh but for me it's yoruba
And idoma
Family / Re: He Is About Divorcing Me by Jozilinn: 7:23pm On Sep 16
MsJackson:
you're right. Sure will do that. He's always posting insulting quotes about me on his WhatsApp status for the world to see and ridicule me. I've blocked him sha.
Good until you heal his WhatsApp doesn't matter my cousin sister husband placed his WhatsApp in 24 hours disappearing messages and she can't stop it. The only thing that would make you remember him is your daughter when you heal of he wishes to talk to her let him. Time heals everyone okay what matters is what you did with the time.

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Family / Re: He Is About Divorcing Me by Jozilinn: 7:19pm On Sep 16
MsJackson:
Hello house. He is finally divorcing me and remarrying another. Please read my story on my profile. I'm weak. I just want to know my rights. We have a child together. Lawyers in the house, please advise. Thank you.
That's is a problem with most men in Nigeria and some part of the world immediately a woman gives birth for them they hardly give her importance and crave for another one, even the child is nothing to them they don't value the word "children". Some families are very useless that they support everything their own does, I have seen a sister taking her brothers wife for abortion because they're just getting married and he's building a house, so the pregnancy would hinder him, he told her and she took his wife for abortion.
Your mother in law is just trying to protect her daughters marriage, mother in law love their son in law than their daughter in law no cap ๐Ÿคจ, they're obviously trying to handle it down you made a mistake by not taking action on her, anything that wanted to happen should happen. You gave them the chance you ๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿค... 10 years obviously they should have been a lot of understanding except there's something you aren't telling us because you didn't mention your family in all these.
Now

1. If he's going to divorce you do so first if you have the chance involve welfare for your daughters sake so he will still be handling even if it's part time fees, stabilize yourself I don't know your age but it's not the end of the world dear, don't worry for your girl you can do great, women who are faithful always find it hard moving on especially the man was everything to them, sister don't think about him I know you just wish it was a dream but it's not, just try to get help from your church anywhere, work, work and trust God keep your little girl safe trust me when I say she's trying to comprehend everything not all families allow room for daughter in laws , if he's divorcing you this new person is their choice obviously.
2. Get everything about him out of your mind and focus on just how to build your life . Since it's obvious there's no room for you after you have begged and begged it's just that you also need to accept where you also did bad and try to change as well.

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Family / Re: He Is About Divorcing Me by Jozilinn: 6:55pm On Sep 16
Samakus:
Guys, make sure your woman is not a social media freak.

A hypothesis but one that is very interesting...

The rarier she posts online, the bigger chances she's wifely
when you marry cage yours typical African man mentality if you aren't okay with her being that way no marry am. Some people don't know how to discuss things with people hence they share online at least it's anonymous sometimes.

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Family / Re: How And What Would You Do In This Situation?? by Jozilinn: 11:49am On Sep 14
Dilaminu:


Why do some men do these things to their wives? Canโ€™t he remember that he married her before they had kids? She had those kids because of him. The issue of giving birth to girls is not her fault; she didn't create the babies. How can she know she will give birth to girls? Honestly, some men are like this too."


he tire me oh like say na God she be, it's just God that is keeping some women alive in marriage.
Family / Re: How And What Would You Do In This Situation?? by Jozilinn: 5:28pm On Sep 10
Mindlog:
The father of the children have an obligation to make provisions for the children and should not be subject to the mother of the children living with him or getting pregnant again.

He is a toxic human being and misses diffusing his toxicity unto his wife. Let your cousin start out with a legal separation as she rebuilds her life and let each party's obligations towards the children be clearly spelt out

Let her seek the intervention of the social welfare office in their state of residence, they will bring him to the table for discussion as he has a duty of care towards those children.

In all her doings, she should NEVER go back to him.... her focus should be on their 2 daughters, nurturing them to have a chance of better outcomes in life.


you are very correct we would definitely do something about it the sooner the better I really appreciate the comments everyone of you is giving out God bless you all

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