To marry a virgin doesn't guarantee happiness my cousin sister got married a virgin still yet her husband wasn't even giving her proper care but rather he was trying to get her pregnant each year while he prevented her from association and family planning... because she wanted to continue her education it became a case of you will die so like the op said it's the vision of the lady itself but also the way and the Manner the husband is to his wife be her a virgin or not. The relationship you termed ungodly gives both partners a chance to grow together that's if they are both loyal to each other no be to suffer with woman finish then when you make am you say she's not my type and class,then you marry who never know you because na virgin like say she's too perfect, when your money finish the virgin will tell you you're not an option anymore so loyalty is the best In every relationship.

Some people are devil themselves so you see a husband that loves you and cares for you And you left him for the one who doesn't know what it means to accept responsibility if I am the man I would take her to court don't take my kindness for weakness, she will regret later no be today maybe it's because she thinks she is beautiful wait and see this is so painful like wtf

UnfairLife7:
she should forget about him and move on with her life. She shouldn't go back to him o. Get human rights lawyer to mandate him pay for their upkeep and school fees

Thank you 🙏

UnfairLife7:
she should forget about him and move on with her life. She shouldn't go back to him o. Get human rights lawyer to mandate him pay for their upkeep and school fees

thank you 🙏

chatinent:
I strongly advise she doesn't go back if she doesn't want to.


Do not let a man treat you like trash because he feels you have no option, or the fear of society that you have left your husband's house.


Don't let her go back to endurance.

She's not the one who determines the sexes of a baby. The man is a maniac who only sees her as a baby delivering tool.

I wish you success.


She has a better life off his shackles and bondage.

Since she sees you as a big brother, kindly stand by her.

Those kinds of men never change until they kill sb's daughter. He doesn't respect her. And he doesn't deserve to be respect.


Let him lose what he has and regret it when it's lost.

Thank you dear I really appreciate

Mindlog:
@Jozilinn

-How many children are between them?
-What are their ages?
-Which state is the husband based (where she used to live with him before she left)?

the kids are below 7 and 3 respectively ...and she was in the south south part of Nigeria there with him.

Good evening nairalanders it's been a very long time, I'm really grateful for the solid attention I got concerning my cousin and her marital issues, we are doing fine regardless of this her husband has been calling and trying to get them back after noticing that the threats haven't been working, to think the problem we have In 9ja is family,who abandon you when you need them and after you try to mend your life they'll try to interfere and start telling you otherwise. Just because of their own personal benefits that they stand to receive from you or the person in question. Like I said before my extended family are trying to make plans for her to return back to the husband since her dad is late, and she doesn't have an elder brother to stand up for her except me of course from the mother side, now from what I noticed about the man he doesn't feel any remorse for what he has being doing, infant how can a man tell his wife that she is married to listen to him at all times anything he tells her to do she does,and she has actually been doing all these things but still yet nothing to show for the obedience rather it was now as if she is a slave because her opinion never counts in the home instead he will say she doesn't have sense to speak
Another issue is the gender discrimination when it comes to child bearing, which became like the major issue surrounding her, like say female children are not from God as well, to the extent he wouldn't be around when she gives birth,no attendance to the naming and dedication not like his work does not permit him but he doesn't show any sign of interest,comes back later to go and peep into the child's private to see whether it's a male or female. Now I don't know why they are also not taking his threats likely saying you will be the one to take her dead corpse home is not a mere word and the tongue has power...he promised to suffer her promax if she gives birth to another female then and he certainly did a good job at doing all he wanted to do, because even feeding money stopped plus she started seeing hell, insults and alm this while his family didn't even call to say congratulations for giving birth... The term "he will change" is now reoccurring, forgive is been used forgetting about the mental health of my cousin, saying she would never see happiness is marriage really an achievement I'm just coming back from work while hearing this nonsense talk. Already she doesn't even care if she gets married or not the lady is frightened people have noticed her fear, it's so obvious but because they don't want her to stay in the family house they are planning to let her go even encouraging her to go and get pregnant again 🤧 like I don't understand leaving this girl to cater for herself it's been my headache I'm not complaining at all, we're doing what we can and we're content. I have told them to let the man go and do what he wants already he's saying that if she doesn't come he would marry someone else,to give him a male child since she doesn't. I have told them to mind their business since they also added to what she's expericing right now when she was abandoned to cater for her siblings anyways the deed has been done already to me I know he doesn't deserve a second chance he just wants to carry out with out his remaining threats. It's better to save your life and cater for your children,than risk it because you want people to see you fulfilled as a woman and die to leave your kids without mercy 😩. Let her suffer now alive than dead, she's pleading not to go back and I totally accept her decision. Fellow nairalanders what are your honest advice for us at this point,it will really help us to plan some things because we are also here to learn thank you for your support we really appreciate.
Ahnie
Frozen70.
Kobojunkie.

Bossladyy:
I ruined not just my marriage but my entire life by leaving my husband. I left him for absolutely no reason.

He was very nice to me. I regret leaving my husband. I was distracted by another man who promised he would treat me better. But he didn't.

Tamar Braxton is regretting leaving her husband.

Jeannie Mai Jenkins is regretting leaving her husband.

We all took good men for granted and are now miserable.

Why do women self-sabotage good relationships?

Tia Mowry, American actress.

MCO: When you are married, too many men go dey rush you. But when you are out of marriage, they scamper. The street is military. The grass may not be greener next door.

This is for women leaving good men, what about the ones who are bad and don't even want anything better for their wives than giving birth to kids,who leave their wives with all responsibility to cater for the children no matter what she does she is termed stupid and senseless so it's not all men that are good if not that life isn't balanced everyone for dey mould their spouse.

AAAA67:
So much confusion.
Can't they calm down and be sure of the situation before rushing to social media?
His video on the river shows that the sailor was actually on high speed and he was seriously warning of the consequences .
Unfortunately, they didn't wear life jacket.
May his soul RIP

They won't listen not everything is media, starting from him to everyone involved in this, just hear what the guy was saying for the first time he's making s video begging that he's the only child and has three boys nobody will train them for him,carnal eyes won't believe this but already he was dead the spirit was confused he started saying those things unknown to him he even said my intestines wan commot oh, check am normal human being doesn't talk that way...na when he die them go do ritual maybe they never did it before acting in that location, because they do appease those marine before they act on waters, now people saving him because of veiws and likes no CPR, instead of them to take him to the hospital for oxygen, first they posted we're taking him to do ritual,next one he's in the hospital without even thinking about the mental state of his wife and kids, must everything be online,no privacy nothing why not wait till he's stable na even mortuary attendant tell them say the guy isn't dead. Pray not to meet enemies that would envy you in your back and laugh with you,all of them can rest now he's dead and won't be dragging the net with them anymore Last last everyone go kpai. Spiritual control the physical I have checked and checked but it's best to control our media.

This guy go dey smell no be small 👀👀🤮🤮

otipoju:


You think you are making sense but you are a bad person.

She was fed to the detriment of the womans child, she was transported and she learned a profitable profession all for free.

All the agreements she made with the professional guild of her vocation...she did not honor one and you still defend her.

When you go to school to learn, dont you pay registration fees, and then pay tuition fees and pay for clearance and dont you do a graduation ceremony ?

When you go for a Professional training and Certification. Don't you pay the training provider for training and then pay for exam fees to the Certificate issuing body?

Since hers was a vocational training, the only way to learn was hands-on on practical training. So even though in your head you say she served, she was indeed being provided learning and she ought to pay for it...but of course you bad self says she indirectly learnt work as if that was not why she was day in the first place.

You say without a shroud of evidence that the woman treated her badly and that is why she ran away....after eating free food and her transport to and from school being paid.

If I were in the woman's shoes, I would simply not go to the wedding and let her move on with her life. She has money to organize a wedding but no money to honor her agreements.

If she paid the 25k, did her graduation ceremony and then invited them to the wedding, then it would be honorable.

Agreement is agreement

Because you are an Ingrate you , you can never see anything wrong in what she did.
You say she indirectly learnt

I know your type very well

do you know whether it took her months or years to come back before she could see someone who wants to marry her, you dey talk like you no dey 9ja freedom isn't a do or die affair it's a choice.

Testiebobo:
Right from time that dis sis entered our house, i adviced my mum to be careful with her but she wouldn't listen to me. All she would say is "i know her mother very well, she is my friend and i would like to help her daughter to any extence". Okay i said.
This lady learnt to be a saloonist from my mum, and she automatically became her apprentice. She was suppose to pay for her freedom together with her form which costs N100k, but my mum reduced it to N25k and spoke to their association.
This ingrate would come to our house to eat breakfast,lunch and even dinner before going home even though we didnt have enough. As a boy then, i usually complain to my mum that my food has reduced on like b4, she would say pls manage it. She would still pay for her t-fare go-come.
Now, after she already learnt finished, she ran away and didn't do freedom neither did she pay the N25k she owned. My mum called her and her mum several times dey ignored. Now they are sending wedding invitation card. If it were u what will u do?

you dey make me laugh do you know how many apprentice wey no do freedom it's a choice nothing more, sorry oh but I think your mum should let go and go to the wedding at least it shows she still remember her helper unlike some girls that would just leave and you won't see them again.

Exactly something similar happened to my cousin sis, now the man is coming back to beg claiming he has changed and everything, his family refused to even call her, all because she has female kids for him, she was the one taking care of feeding, and all round expenses for the kids. I don't know why people would just start and say things like come e go better forgetting that this man told her that he would kill her numerous times.

She became mentally, physically and socially deranged to the extent she would start talking to herself, he doesn't even believe she can become successful, just because his family members did it and it didn't work for them. If you see how happy she's now even though she has lost her youthfulness at least she's better off without him.
Just like your mum it was an arranged marriage, she refused to get married and it was said that she would get to go to school and continue her handwork hmm lies, the man was looking for a baby factory and a slave to his family. Stopped her from communicating with her siblings ha, my cousin will never go back there those elders can go to hell... When it gets rough they will deny you when you die they will start coming out to cry and fight rubbish. I pray God help your mother it was better she raised you guys alone then with him now see as you guys are suffering over what you know nothing about.

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Earlier in the day, at a Beverly Hills building for a business meeting, the rapper, 46, was seen pulling down the 29-year-old model's see-through, neon green tights, which she wore as pants and paired with a tiny, light beige tube top.



She sported a pair of black, pointed-toe pumps and nothing else to complete her risqué ensemble.



They held hands as they entered a building, and as they were looking at a directory, West put on a bold display of affection and was seen rubbing her backside.



Their outing comes after Censori stepped out in one of her most daring outfits yet, which was literally hanging on by a thread.

At one point, he was spotted adjusting her see-through, neon green tights, which she wore as pants and paired with a tiny, light beige tube top And just like the night before, she rocked her jet black bob in her signature hairstyle as of late — a slicked-back bun.





Censori also appeared to be sporting a minimal makeup look featuring full and dark eyelashes as well as a mauve pink lip.



At her side, the 24-time Grammy winner wore an all-black outfit featuring a cozy hoodie and balloon pants.



He also wore his baggy pants very low and revealed his backside in boxer briefs.



To complete his look, he sported a pair of chunky, black sneakers.



After having a business meeting, the couple were also seen exiting the building with West opening the door for his wife and holding

He was seen admiring her from behind while she looked at a directory inside a Los Angeles building



He was seen admiring her from behind while she looked at a directory inside a Los Angeles building


https://www.madfind.com.ng/2024/03/kanye-west-pulls-down-wife-bianca.html

two mad people with money only God knows what they have done with their souls.

My Glo isn't still working

You forget that some men are also guilty do because a woman makes a mistake with one man that changes her life she is considered useless from there henceforth like say una sisters holy pass... even if it's not for love it's nobody's business the level at which some Nigerian men treat their wives is disheartening...it until a woman dies in marriage before people would say that the man isn't good, but if she leaves the marriage before hand,na cock and bull story she can't keep a home...most of you here bashing this guy don get several baby mamas and counting... I don't blame most of us frankly speaking the women this days are only after money,few are faithful and independent but if you don't like accepting responsibility as a man and act like God knows what...then let them be because every woman dream is to have s supportive husband and grow her child in an heathy home.
If little Daniella who lost her mother can get pregnant at 16 who got her pregnant, how?? The man knew she was vulnerable and needed help and explored the innocent orphan girl, now if you see that girl outside would you term her an harlot without family and parental guidance women are prey to most men out there. I will say again even though some of una marry virgin wife, is your attitude 75 percent... Abi na to just marry virgin, are you faithful, are you providing as a father s loving husband or is your virgin wife independent and supporting and also respectful because mind you virginity doesn't guarantee good marriage a man that would 🖕up will 🖕 so will a virgin wife too ✌️✌️✌️✌️

masterfactor:

My brother, even me come dey feel like say na the fake glo I dey use, for the past 2 days now, I can't make call with my glo and it is showing me 4G full bar oooo, MTN is the most reliable network in Nigeria, follow by Airtel.

I even checked two people using Glo they have network and it's good, I'm planning on doing welcome back on my sim... because for 2 straight days no network

masterfactor:
Glo wey no dey reliable, na to dey disappear and Appear.

which Glo Dem they shout-out to the same Glo whey I dey use whey no gree open for days but I can make call

TrackerSK:
I hate it when men get married to a non virgin.Instead of this simp to chop this bitch and move.He decided to take her to the altar.

Does virginity guarantee a great marriage,it depends on the men after marriage and how he handles the affairs of marriage.

Domaining101:
Who knows, this one might be the next to die in helicopter crash like that Wigwe and his wife and son 😂 After all the enjoyment, traveling all over the world, flying jets and helicopter up and down, eating chicken and turkey, drinking juice, shebi e don end? I Heard it was even cardboard they use in bringing their smelling dead bodies back from Ablord 😂 When the fools where alive, you'll never see them doing anything for poor people, there own na to dey send their children go abroad go school, MIT, Cambridge, Oxford, as if na their kind dey go all those kind schools with their empty brain, while our own for here wey sabi book pass them 1000 times dey on strike, let them go and die abeg. How i wish they did open coffin the way they did for tb Joshua, i would have loved to see how their burnt and disfigured bodies would look like, make i laugh small and see weda all the enjoyment and millions go still dey show for their dead body😂 rubbish

How i wish God can take elumelu and that his three daughters next, i go too happy like mad

did you really type this do you know how he climbed up that ladder, do you know the sacrifices he made...if you get money today you def go regulate who you give money to the world no dey smile I pray God see you through no matter what never rejoice over anyone's predicament.

beta247:
Now this is somehow overlooked. But when Hausa man give out his doughter for marriage at the age of 14, you hear all sort of things.

Only God knows when she start having sex. If your doughter is due for marriage and you don't feel safe keeping her, marry her out. My 2 cent

she lost her mum, came out to beg for help was sleeping in the roadsides, her mother's side are just wicked, dad is probably foreign... Nollywood no see this one to help na person wey no go be threat Dem dey help, life na journey... Life happens everyone dey plan future life dey plan him own na only God fit help us

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That's how those people behave always leaving student doctors who are so proud to even speak to people... only few are humble some of them got there by connection def or even sleeping around with few heads while, mosquitoes will finish the little blood you have left there, their toilet is so dirty and their cleaners don't know compassion... upon all the money there no comfort... just milking people in the name of scans when it obvious about the illness of that person...abeg just pray and care for your body make doctors no use us do cruise

guobe:
200,000 naira have been sent to me by a good samaritan to distribute to 20 guys with the sum of 10,000 naira each.
The criteria for getting the money as instructed by the donor include the following,;
1.must be struggling
2.Has not insulted others while trying to make his points.
3.He is not an ethnic jingoist and sees every other person as a fellow citizen with whom he merely has a disagreement over how things should be done.
You can show interest and I will do a background check on you and if you are found worthy, you will be picked.
Thanks and may God bless us all .

I'm interested sir it will help me take support my cousin at home she has two kids

CandleEyes:
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Amb1045:
Lack of patients, being over reactive and lack of forgiving spirit has led you to where you’re right now. No be only you get daughter even your father in law follow get the daughter. If they advise you to let go let go. Leave all this over wise ness way they worry una. Inside 10years you get only 1 daughter, you think say the family go happy

You sef Sabi reason the lady didn't know she just gave them another reason to treat her like they had always wanted to...I don't even see any reason why she would be against the father and mother in law, you could have just created a boundary between your husband and sister instead period.

MsJackson:
This is in reference to this my story
https://www.nairaland.com/7508796/sexual-molestation-minor

I stayed away from the family. I went to spend sometime with my mum around December of 2022. I returned from work one day and got my ears full when my mum told me that my daughter talked about the molestation case all day. Mum advised me to take her to my in-laws place for the matter to be resolved, but that I should call hubby to take permission. He granted it.
Only for me to get there and my father in-law was accusing me of cooking up the story in my daughter's mind. I refused to be wrongly accused. My father in-law said after all the girl that molested my daughter isn't a boy and that after all she didn't finger my daughter. Because I defended myself and my daughter, my parents inlaw chased me and my baby out of their house like a common criminal. I cried all the way to my mum's place. Called my husband, he told me he knows the kind of parents he had, and that I should try forget the issue.
I tried forgetting it and stayed away from them. I cut them off totally. That was the only way I could heal. It's not like any of my in-laws ever reached out to me even before and after my daughter was molested, I was always doing all the calling. After this incident, I locked up.
Now my husband threw my load out on January 13th. My offense? His mother sent us food and I failed to call her to say thank you.
That's my offense. I've been squatting with my daughter from one place to another. His father even called to warn their tenant not to allow me spend another night at their house, because me and my daughter spent one night with the only tenant in the compound when I had no place to go. The tenant consist of a father, mother and their daughter, nice people.
Me and hubby live in their family house, although hubby's parents don't live there, only us and one tenant.
I've cried and cried. Elders in my church have begged and begged. He is adamant, with the backing of his father. He even locked up the remaining of my property in the very dusty store close to the gate, including my molested daughter's clothes. I even met my laptop on the floor, he had removed it from his worn-out bag I was using to house the laptop. I was so livid and was shouting that why wasn't he patient enough to give me some days to gather some money at least to rent a room, but he was so adamant that he and his family wanted me out on the street immediately. Because I was shouting out of anger and frustration, he took a wood with nail on it to hit my hand. It took the intervention of these same tenant to avert beating I would have received. This is a man I've sacrificed alot for, 10 years gone, just like that. My daughter and I are out on the street, squatting with a church member, without a dime.
And I have just heard from a neighbour that a new girl is coming to spend time in my own home, even helping him to rearrange it. I'm still in total shock and don't know what to do.
PLEASE I NEED A JOB before I lose my sanity. I live around Sango OTA.

Hmm my dear fear family people they want to cover up their track,my dear get human rights so your husband will be paying for the child if you're legally married, same thing happened to my cousin here her husband was molesting the little child upon everything he's doesn't take care of them, immediately she Left his family refused to call her, now they want to get another lady for him just because she said this,they even refused talking about it,he's so glad she's gone because she doesn't have a male child... your husband started hating you right from when you spoke up about the abuse, pray and tell God to expose that girl for you, try to get a possible place, forget him that girl has always been there you just couldn't see her... You could have simply put a big red mark on your sister in law but communicated with the rest but you just aided them calm down a little bit to push you out because his attitude seems uncanny like he's doing it under suggestions.

Naijanascam:
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