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budaatum:
Good luck is all I can say, knowing you don't exactly come across as a good investment, wanting to borrow 150k and pay back only 150k.

If smart people with money do the sort of deal you require, they'd soon be here begging for a no interest loan like you are. Hopefully, there's enough non-smart people who'd oblige you.

That is why I clearly stated that if there's an interest rate like someone stated earlier I believe the person will let me know so I will know how much to be paying 100k for 120k you understand I never said there won't be interest.

Nawa oh what is he using his photoshoot to promote exactly

I have had comments on my previous posts and I can understand why nobody would want to trust a stranger. But I want to say this I'm not entitled to anyone's money because I know how hard it's to make money. Not everyone is privileged enough to get a good job earning hundreds or stay in a comfortable environment.

When I comment people still think I'm a guy but no it is the other way around. I have met a nairalander before and that was when I sold my techno pop 5 pro last year and we met at ojota I don't really remember his name.

I have said this earlier that I was working as a teacher I used the past tense was because I am no longer there after series of not getting paid in months to me being underpayed. I took a bow and left and told myself I will never teach in any school again.

Now I'm a cleaner in a plaza...Yes I have some finanacal issues because of me taking loans to pay loans but all that have stopped as of now I work 3 times daily and currently working on the next one that way I can earn more in a month.

I made mention of our room but couldn't upload the images the last time maybe if I upload the images for you to see how bad it's you'll know why I want a better 2027.

I have worked for people without asking for anything In return,some have promised businesses and yet nothing I didn't prolong the issue anymore. The proprietor of my former school called me and said I should get something doing so I won't depend on the school salary. I told him I sell data and offer online help to pages but because the salary wasn't coming regularly I couldn't go most of those things. I even told him about our room but was still surprised that they still underpayed me despite my years there it appears I'm not the first person but that's none of my business anymore.

Anything that will make me remain in this room till next year December isn't what I want. Crayfish business has been on my mind for long and I have someone who can supply me if 100k handles the finances,50k can get me a bag and I will make some profits to restock and sell.

She's his cousin B red sister

meobizy:
All these years, I thought Davido was an only child. Does she have mummy issues too?

WatchYourSix:
Are u entitled or just naive ??
Why would anyone want to lend a stranger 150k?… u ddnt even offer any value or incentive to the lender…. Only that u will pay back the principal in almost half a year…??

I'm not entitled neither am I naive please I just stated what I needed j didn't drag anyone to accept or say your money is mine give me so so so amount.
And I would not take your insults likely as well I clearly stated that if need be I have an organization where I work if it should be stated on paper or anything I'm willing to present myself if the person wants an interest no problem if the interest is something I can pay I will do it. If not I won't take what I know clearly I can't pay.

You were supposed to ask me why didn't you add interest or doesn't the lender also have needs too?
That's a question not saying I'm entitled or naive... Thanks for your comment it might open grounds for more questions from others.

budaatum:
I comment because I see your post and agree with watchyoursix.

Now, if I had the resource of a loan app I might consider, with huge interest to hedge potential loss, since a person who already needs my money to sort out some finances they already have would likely not have the finances to pay me back.

I would have the money to pay back because I already have sorted out all my finances. That's why I had to put the money at 150k it's exactly what I need plus extra to get some things running for me to see profit to pay back besides the job I have now I'm free for three days a week currently working in another one if I get the job then I can even pay faster than expected I have left my former job where they owe me in my new job the my pay early

So this is the guy that murdered that boxer God...he should have just walked away if only he knew now those hailing him would be the same ones to condemn him.
This life en

Comment if you see my post 🙏🏻

I'm not a sir oh

Telltruth123:
We have already done the surgery and it was successful, thank you for your concern sir.

Congratulations to them
Palmpay [quote author=telim post=138235057]I will be giving away a minimum of 5k each to Nairalander. The giveaway will conclude once the allocated funds are fully distributed.

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essentialone:
With this mentality, 20 years from now, you will be 50 years old. Guess what? You will still be begging money from people that you are supposed to be giving money to.

I can never ever do such ooo.

You are looking at the age I'm looking at the aim. If that person is genuine and whatever he wants to use money for is real then the small age is helping the big age become a better person and that way he or she can also give out in future.

Nobody wants to go low except you have not been in tight situations

essentialone:
Never beg money from someone younger than you, no matter what. It is shameful.

Says who abeg I am looking for 150k to sort my finances and do small business anyone willing to lend me I'm in Lagos and will be paying 30k monthly.

Whether you're younger than me I don't care as long as I'm able to achieve my aim in this life.

marcusverum:
Both a man and a woman need to understand that marriage relies on mutual trust, understanding and partnership. Where it gets confused is what happens after that foundation is laid, specifically who is leading the home.

A man will always be the head of the home, irrespective of who is funding it. Leadership and income are not the same function, even though people keep collapsing them into one thing. A household can be funded by either partner, by both, or by neither consistently, and none of that changes who is responsible for setting direction, making hard calls and absorbing responsibility when things go wrong.

This is not saying a man's contribution does not matter. It clearly does. It is saying leadership was never meant to go to whoever earns more in a given season. Incomes shift, careers stall, emergencies happen, and a home built on shifting financial leadership has no stable leadership at all.

Build the trust first. The rest tends to sort itself out when that part is solid.

Should leadership in a marriage shift with whoever earns more, or stay constant regardless of income?

Marriage doesn't lead by who is earning more it's leading by understanding, respect, communication and trust.

See even if a woman earns more and she still gives her husband the respect and doesn't let it get to her and her husband is not concerned about what she does as long as she is supportive in the marriage and the both of them achieve their aim then why not.

Not every lady earning more than her man is a bad and disrespectful wife. If a lady can be with a man when the going wasn't smooth and a man can stay with a lady who's having issues till they marry then it proves that marriage isn't by who earns more

Thank you so much dear this is what is happening in our villages today many young girls are given out in marriage and some don't even know their way around talk less of marriage.

At times I wonder when the life of a female child can for once be appreciated other than marriage.

You born wahala if you no born wahala...

It's a welcome development

My dear I thank God you got help some people will come out and say I was scammed I was these and that I have someone I was working for she sent 150k to someone and the person said she wants to buy fridge does she know the person No. There was a comment on her post then I commented I think it was about tge amount of data we buy per day. I said I do social bundle,this girl said she does have one of #900 per 2 days I think that year oh nahim dey buy fridge for. Have you bought the fridge she said No till she stopped picking calls.

Now I'm here physically I have my problems I said call me come to my location I will bring myself and evidence shey I come dey lie...you know that confidence when you're saying the truth I have it but they'll say I dey lie that thing dey burst my brain en.

Telltruth123:
I posted the condition of my son, but somebody advice me to remove it but if you want to do video call now, I am ready for the sake of my son.

I had to calm down and read this properly for me to grab some points.

The way Nigeria works I am sorry to say this but the country has reduced the great ideas and innovation of many young youths there are no implementation put down for them to benefit them.

I have seen beautiful,talented children but who is encouraging them ? Where are the funds to get those materials? Who is pushing their work?

I didn't have a physics teacher throughout my stay in a government secondary school till I wrote my waec despite being a science student. People now depend mostly on barbing,fashion designing and other hand work I'm not saying it's bad but I wanted more of computer based skills.

In my former school I encouraged my students to be computer literate especially for the brainy ones.

Technical schools should also be encouraged for students in their primary schools.

ayando:
Nawa oooo. I read from the beginning to this last page.

Operation finally done since April, na wa for public hospitals oo. The mother really tried oo. She had a lot dealing with.
My man, noobody, I appreciate you for apologising .
In all, it ended in praise.
Well done to Clarendon.

Congratulations to your son and God bless the giver i hope he's better now just saw your post and thank God for everything I'm glad God came through for you my dear.

My regards to your son afflictions shall never rise again in your life in Jesus name

Why did you go for herbs why didn't you post the medical report or check another hospital because there are hospitals that you can get it at cheaper rate.

Telltruth123:
I have been facing this problem for the past 4 years paying money to herb women, please this is not a joking matter, doctor told me the only solution is operation, the doctor said it is hernia please if you have the financial capacity, you can pay in hospital then I will take him there.
Thank you.

I hope he's getting better my cousin brother was treated few years back and I remember they did it in bekwara in cross river.

It's well I pray you get help

I'm looking for someone who can borrow me 150k to pay back 30k for 5 months
I need the money to sort out some finances.
If the person is around ojota area no problem I will take you to my work place and we'll make an agreement with my boss or you'll trust me to pay.

My location will be known to you for future reference and I might get to pay before the 5 months

Is not all of them

How can I apply I need the funds

Rolimathematics:
Thank you brother, She made mention of some family issues with land from her place in Mbaise.
She has relatives but according to her they don't relate like that. during her mum case, none of extended family visited until when she was at point of death.
Even the burial was kata kata from the husband family. If not for the love I had for her I would have zoomed off since but now I regret not leaving earlier as I'm already neck deep in their family.
Now that I left I feel tremendous guilt but the last thing I want is to be a widower who lost his wife. God forbid!!!
It's better I'm gone than to experience such a stigma and trauma abeg

plus if she had a female child for you she would likely go through the same fate

Ehya I pray everything get sorted out so he'll rest and get better.

Hezzyluv:
Amen oooo
I even dey station for the case now

Hey God how will he start I pray he has an insurance.

Bayoonanuga:
Better DM jennyclay and verminnel to show you ways once you're ready

jenny clay and verminnel abeg show me way.

Wait he disturbed her till he had 4 rounds Jesus and she was counting for someone they were begging. Nawa oh

It's a spiritual issue from her mother side maybe it affects the women some battles are better fought before it happens. Now that it has happened your own is your future you're talking about and that's your children and generation.

If she has other extended family they should go and check around if it's a reoccurring situation then it is something from the family.

You stood by her from her mother's situation and now this my dear I won't blame you because some spiritual battles are very tough if they see you're the one that will break her loose they'll start from one or your finances.

Keep praying for her and render her help if you can but let her go.

Hezzyluv:
Let you ego be bruised no wahala. But, just run and avoid confrontation at all cost.

Yesterday night, Just because of #100 argument, my guy went to de escalate a fight, he was pushed down on the process and vehicle that was passing stepped on his leg. He has fracture as I speak now.

Chaii I pray he gets better soon

Wealthyonos:
Even though it is fictitious, it can actually happen.

Before there's news in my area that a particular guy has it after getting 3 different woman pregnant it's the fourth pregnant one that asked him to go and do test because the doctor told her to treat Hiv

Imagine someone that needs help and they're asking me to pay for VAT, Give away money and commission fees on Twitter.

Okay remember how I mentioned I needed help here well someone said I should try twitter and I haven't been lucky the first one called and asked me to transfer him 3k to send me 500k not that that's what I wanted oh

The next one said commission fee which is almost like 30k how much is my salary self.

Anyone with someone genuine should tell me abeg.

I don't understand who had done it before and got the help they needed.

They are people who only use you when you're available and it's only for their own personal benefits. I was working for someone who wouldn't even let me work for other page owners then I had to stop and she hardly ever helps me like those one help their admin but I just narrowed it that other people life isn't mine.

Fast forward to when she was buying her goods and shipping them to Nigeria and all. Sometimes I will move from my location to places I don't know just to help her meet up with her deadline and I don't lie nor cheat her. I was sending data to her mother and she'll send me money to credit them everything I did without asking her for anything. The day I asked for something was a new phone last year my pop 5 pro screen had low storage and was constantly hanging beside the content and everything I was doing for her and receipts were too much for my phone or handle immediately I told her I needed a phone she ghosted me and only replied me when she wanted to verify if the person that she gave money to her mother did the right thing and that she wanted my help with her kids travel.

She wanted me to go to German embassy at Lagos to sort things out before they will move from their side. But along the line I went there and they were closed and I had to go back home...I got home very late at night because of the distance.

Fast forward to December she came to Lagos and just called me that very day to come to iyana ipaja,I called and called hoping to get the location but the call was been forwarded,and the person that answered said the owner of the phone isn't around.

When I finally got to speak to her she said she had left there and was in her husband's side,she will send me an application where I can buy goods online to sell in Nigeria. I was very happy and starting praying that my prayers had been heard.

She called me on the 2nd of January to go to Chinese depot in Lagos. I asked my neighbor who was a taxi driver he said the place is too far and he doesn't want to go. He started giving me directions and I didn't have any money with me I told her this and even told her that the safest will be me getting an Uber,she didn't agree saying she wanted to speak to her husband.

Another ghosting but this time around I only come to ask how she was doing and how her family is. She travelled back abroad and I kept sending her new months wishes. When my former work made me see hell in earth and I started taking debts I sent her a dm I didn't even know she will see it.


She said she will see what she can do,another ghosting till I don't know what to do again and told her I wish wanted to open a small crayfish business that way I can use it to be paying my debts slowly she agreed but ever since then she will just read and pass. ...


Maybe it is because I didn't go to that Chinese depot or something else,I have decided to let it be and focus on my new chapter.