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Shollay20:
Loan is like betting please 🙏 stop taking loans.

Honestly it's worse than betting

I just charged it with power bank no light at home so I say make I charge am before he off with my sister power bank. She'll take it to charge again the next day. So concerning what you said I have thought about it make I no lie you. But even if I sell it. wetin I wan use pay,or I will log in through someone's phone but my school work exam questions even lesson notes are inside my phone.


If I sell am now where I wan see the money add to get another one.


We send exam report card from an app which is the school app.


The school isn't big I fit snap am send I earn 45k. And I don't want anything that will still make me run to them again.

Thank you for your input I really appreciate

Maj196:
Your phone looks like it's 100+. Why not sell it, pay them and use the rest to buy a lesser phone. At least you will be free

Amovingman:
Better go post it on x to see your helper make I tag bankowner and snowland maybe they'll help you

Thank you so much bro I have messaged him now no light since and I just came back from work but there's light now so I'm charging my phone and messaging him.

First thing inside was to come online For bless you so much I no even know wetin to talk again like this.

Okay sir thank you so much I really appreciate

snowland:
Send me your contact details on humblegiveaway2020@gmail.com.

Good evening nairalanders how are you guys doing...I will try to make it brief but it's quite long. This year I never expected that I will drown myself in taking loans it started February when I was expecting January salary and when it didn't come I took a loan and I paid back after I was paid.

Next months before Easter became worst in fact nothing was on me I celebrated Easter I wasn't paid anything and they don't give us bonus at the school I teach. I started collecting credit but I don't owe them if I see small money I will go and pay them immediately because I know that's what they're using to feed and I don't like oweing people.

Since then I noticed the way things got worse before salary would come I will have used almost half for credit. I started taking loans their interest were high but I struggled to pay them.

And right now my new due payments are 4th of July and it's my bank and palmpay I don't know how palmpay made their own 14 days while opay is 28 days. It's shattered me when I found out I don't even know if I will see salary on time that 4th of July on my bank I hurriedly paid them because someone asked me to send money to her mother after she made the transfer I quickly paid them and reborrowed extra to cover her money and sent it to her mum an elderly lady that stays close to us,and she lives alone.

Up till now I haven't been myself... because they have started sending students home for school fees nothing is in the school account. I don't know why they wait till month ending before sending them home still yet some are begging. Na cloth dey cover me I just finished paying opay Bnpl credit. Tomorrow is just somehow I no even know what I will eat. That 1k someone sent me #500 to add and pay.

Here are proofs of my payment so far I have starved myself to pay them. Some people told me to abandon them but I can't because it will accumulate and I won't be able to pay them. but once I end this I will now be able to save up for the remaining quota of the year I don't want to teach again.

papiSNEH:
Me, wedding and that lady can't be in same sentence

But you described her as a damsel now Abu na because belle don enter she come turn worwor 😂😂😹

papiSNEH:
Good day everyone..

my narration may be long but please bear with me. i'm the type that loves keeping things low-key, minding my business and staying on my lane. I don't look for people's trouble but that doesn't mean if they look for mine i won't double it.

anyways long story short. i moved in into my present compound, mostly tenants here are family people. Apart exchanging pleasantries "Good morning",and "Good evening", i don't talk to any fellow tenant. and as someone who mostly works remote and into crypto, e no go hard them to tag me one name i just day my day.

so after like 2 or 3 months i parked in, then moved in a single lady that should be probably in her mid or late 30s but body her body na killer. she's always own her lane, goes to work early and back by evening,she constant keeps straight face and hardly greet or talk to anyone but a little soft when it's me. later i started noticing her kind of dodoyo eye contact.

i wasn't much surprise, one evening while i standing beside front of our estate's gate with the delivery bike-man receiving my package. as she was returning back from work, she walked up to me there and asked if i have eaten shawarma pointing one shawarma spot opposite end. saying yesterday was her first time trying their's and since then she haven't been her self...(in my mind was like why are you tell me all this or should i go and fight them?)....and that her day was hectic with diarrhea and fever all join. as we where going in, i asked hope she have taken medicine atlest to stop the running stomach she said yes but the ones she took ain't that effective and wants to get another one. i then told and directed her to a big pharmacy in our area, that after she gets home and freshens up she can go there and get the medicine. but she then insist that i must follow her, that she's tired and we going together will energize her. inside my mind i just smiled and talking inside me "watin u dey find for sokoto no worry e dey inside my shokoto, body go tell you soon". i didn't give her a forward answer i told her i'm going in, to try the package i just receive and do some few things but when she's done she can come to my apartment to call me if i'm less busy by then i will escort her to the pharmacy.

so from that very day that's how me and she became close, we started running parol and i dey constantly give her watin no good.. within me i know fully nothing is attached . my own is to keep the engine running for her Mr.Right to come drive the car away. i later got to know she's a bank in a top position too and she gallant well well. she has a large heart unless i didn't ask. her net worth can relocated family of 5 to US and they would hit the ground running immediately ..everything was matured and going smoothly but the only problem is the she's against us using bulletproof whenever we want to go to war cos she likes it raw...to my own understanding she's no longer a baby she will be tiding things up care of herself and taking after pills.

things have going on for over 8months now and no issues. so past Friday she came to my apartment telling lately she've not been feeling to well that on her back home, she branched the hospital to receive her result and that she's pregnant. immediately i asked her Pregnant ke? how? are you a baby ? don't you know how to prevent?.i then asked her what she wants about all this, she replied i should do what a man supposed to do.. supposed to do keh? of all the people in this world na banker i go come marry? people way too dey chop dem selfs office. colleague go chop, manger go chop even big customers ain't left out.. na watin innocent me wan come chop till i kpeme. I am 75% sure i'm the one that got her pregnant but DNA must clear the 25% doubt.

i then told her that i'm not ready for any of this. that i have goals to achieve and the one i score in her post is not one of them.. she went crazy after the drama she left but since then i have been receiving threatening messages and calls from unknown fellows but me i no send.. she can't rope me with belle.. i can't marry someone that's older than me.

You for don reason am before you dey dive in raw...I can take care of myself don turn do the needful. Anyways no be all bankers dem dey chop sha that's what I have to say no generalise them. So for this your matter call her say make Una talk well because baby no dey Una talk if she insists on keeping the child you no get choice oh because I don't know what she's expecting you to do this one wey she senior you for age.

Anything neighbour relationship avoid am because this matter go long oh 9 months no be child's play and if this is your first baby it will really matter to you so no act like say e no matter. Abeg find way around this thing because e no go funny but last last make everybody dey okay.

I no know that one maybe na them that year but them don seperate

od4life:
No be this guy and him lawyer wife be Human Rights Activists?

What were you using before?

nnamdi640:
Nice one, one Idea just entered my head now, I will be using it for my content creation

Mrhonesty:
Please, this your cousin is in UK or where?

He's not my cousin I follow a page online and he's always a center of the gist. The page I follow is an Edo blogging page and the man is based abroad and was accusing his wife of infedelity he did a DNA test when the kids were just given birth to after series of insults he claimed the children were his online by showing proof.


They're now divorced and everyday he's throwing insults at the children,small babies even the ex wife didn't say anything after they separated he's still the one doing everything online.

He practices traditional religion his nickname is "native doctor" and he's from Edo state.

Ibadanfarmroad:
Yoruba name but he spoke edo

He's Edo

No be today him madness start everything about him is curse it's only when he wants to enter a woman he probably prays because this man has been doing this nonchalant attitude for years even his ex wife is tired the kids he's even talking about some are just 4 or 5 years old. Maybe he has other kids I don't know but he has been cursing them even from birth that they were bastard so it's his way of life.

Deldrax29:
Am I the only one who is convinced that this marriage will never work?

This 20-year old id¡ot thinks he understands women. He should look up the divorce rate in USA (~50%) and Portugal (~94%). There are many elderly men who are still trying to understand the mysteries of the feminine gender.

Yet, this buffoon who doesn't even have a university certificate thinks he can have his way. Sorry for his loss in advance...

When he finally checks out, me and the boyz will be there 🥂

Oga please and please no insults but this guy is just being himself if he didn't go to school at least he's not begging anyone to feed him. The girl is also doing well for herself and is from a good home.

Would you rather he continue sleeping with her her pregnant then become baby daddy and baby mama.

Men of 35 who have money but aren't married nkor no child nothing. Tomorrow if they die now nobody will be able to carry their blood.

No matter anything people will talk everybody has their own grace as well as how their marriage will be.

True peller is uncouth and might just be obsessed with this girl who knows. True he didn't go to school but how many graduates are doing great today.

The girl should know what she's getting into as well peller didn't force her into marriage

Sorry I tried to modify it but my network is very bad I wanted to reply to the moniker you quoted the one that said esan women aren't good for marriage.
No vex 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

brain54:
I guess what I posted was too long for you to read...

Never generalize bad women dey every tribe as well as men.

You're absolutely correct bad women dey every tribe.

brain54:
This your post dey contradict o...


After saying what you want to say. You come congratute them again.



Anyways, I know a lot of people married to esan women. And they are very happily married. I even have close in-laws married to esan women and they are happy together.


I know men that were discouraged from esan women... close people... one at a point I felt the pressure myself even though I wasn't the one getting married to her and if I was the one directly faced with such pressure I'm sure I might have buckled at a point. But he went ahead to marry her and till today no regrets.


I actually like the esan women I have met character wise and I don't see anything particularly wrong with them.



Most times it is esan people themselves that try to discourage esan women marriage or paint them in a way.


I won't be surprised if you are esan. Maybe, easans don't like themselves or I don't know the reasons for that.




I once stayed in a compound were an esan recently rented at the time and just moved into his apartment. I told him the landlord of the next compound we shared a fence with was esan, thinking I was doing him a favor introducing him to his brother. His demeanor changed immediately and started saying negative and insultive things about someone he had never met.


Till this man later moved out from the compound years later he never spoke with that neighbor and would spit each time he saw him drive past.


I don't really understand why they are like that to each other.


But I know personally the esan women I have met are not bad in anyway i can think of. Even when deliberately testing them or looking for faults due to what I had head. I even dated a few in the past. And I like their women for being caring and loving. I was particularly close to one but long distance later cut short the relationship because she was in "xenophobia" republic.


Stereotyping people is a somehow something!

immortalcrown:
The quality of the pictures suggests that the news may be fake.

She posted about it just few hours earlier

Ai generated

Amovingman:
That's what I'm using right now

How can I activate it please 🙏🏼

With their outrageous data imagine getting data of 1k for 2 days with YouTube night that's never working but accumulating. In fact I'm tired already data of #300 for 1G that year will take you for almost 3 days but now in just 18 hours or less it's finished.

Rapmoney:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2wsBl9kCioY

Source: WarriParrot

No woman should give her child out to another this is inhuman I want them to prosecute the woman and also the mother of this child so that others can learn. It's better to refuse to train a child for someone than to do this. If I had the money honestly i wouldn't mind fighting for this children going through all of these.

I'm a teacher and I know how my students behave but even the slightest pain from these kids makes me weak I don't flog them I talk to them.
Each time I don't even have money or I'm sad my students will come close and be asking me why I'm sad.

We're not raising animals they're Humans , that's why we're their guardians.

Please I hate rubbish I'm not happy justice for this innocent child and all the innocent kids brought down by wicked women and family members.

They're tomorrow leaders, husbands,wives,uncles,aunt.

This pattern must stop now I want a better future for our children, nieces,nephews,cousins.

Let the children grow with love so they can love tomorrow.

Let's fight against this inhumanity.

If you know you're giving birth without any body to help you tomorrow please just condom or better still do family planning.

Children are our tomorrow let them be the way God wants them to be free. No child deserves this 😭😭😭😭

gr8cany:
I expected you to had resigned that work in agreement with him instead of missing your "father in proxy" burial but both of seems not to be in true love which is the trend today, eyes are always open at either ends.

My conclusion about you is that you are very wicked and u sacrificial. Your ex is more wicked, weakling and not man enough.

Inform him directly that you will get him into the law court which will be more embarrassing if he don't leave you alone.

The relationship is shattered and will be devastating if you guys later come together again. Move on as already and urge his stupid ass to move on forever too

She should resign to attend a burial and look for another job how many people have seen jobs and she should resign because of them...the guy is obviously a psycho and a control freak and his mum is definitely going to be a force she doesn't want to reckon with.

She's not wicked if she loses her job to attend the burial they'll say she's trying hard to impress them they'll not even value her with what I'm seeing they'll bottle her if she marries him.

Please my dear follow your heart and God will give you another man be patient and continue being yourself.
Body count or no body count as I'm reading some comments nobody is perfect everyone is learning even the best relationship experts fall at their very own rules.

Tochex101:
Done......you can modify now...

Received I'm really grateful sir God bless you and honour you you'll always receive blessings, miracle and promotions I appreciate.

Tochex101:
Our teacher....... paste your account details.

Good morning sir I just saw your message right now... will do that right away
I'm truly grateful 🙏🏻.

Shadowpyper:
So recently I borrowed 250k from easimoni with hope of paying back this month, unfortunately the money I was expecting to pay back with didn't come again.

I searched their customer care number and called them to plead with them if I can be given an extension till September, I don't mind if they will add interest to it. I just don't want any to call me and harass me, I was told they don't give any extension.

Currently I don't know what to do, I don't have the money now, except from my savings which I can have access to by September.

I was just called right now I'm oweing palmpay 5300 and my bank 20k even opay I was expecting my salary so I could pay palmpay today the rest are in next month do you know that it is almost a month now or so I haven't been paid salary they keep telling me God will do it for me. Even people I'm oweing now harass me I went to buy ordinary egg #600 the woman said she doesn't do credit and she collected the eggs from me, that's how bad it can be I will work and teach kids who are rude,spoilt and mannerless and this kids hardly pay school fees so what am I working for.

Last year July salary was paid in September ask me how I managed to cope I did extra lessons then even the lesson I was feeding myself then I had savings ever since this year it's one salary delay or the other... that's when I started borrowing to eat. The loan is due on Monday if they don't give me something to sort these people out then I won't teach anymore,I have tried my best. This morning I inboxed them and they're telling me to hope on God.
45k that's my salary and I'm supposed to collect half salary as I'm here like this on God.

I'm tired of this type of life already.

Teaching is one of the underrated jobs I Nigeria... they'll keep saying a teacher reward is in heaven. Teach in a private school and see hell,the kids are neither not eager to learn or they're skeptical about the subject. Parents are not helping, school management isn't doing anything it's well.

Infinix note 60 pro

The image looks like Ai

Kingzjayzee:
Source

A Nigerian woman has reportedly died by suicide in the Ogba area of Lagos, leaving behind a heartbreaking handwritten note that has left family, friends and neighbours in deep shock and sorrow.

The woman, identified as Bola, was said to be a staff member at Wado Credit & Co. According to reports, she had been struggling with serious personal and financial challenges before her death.

Those who knew her described her as calm, hardworking and private, which has made the news even more difficult for many people to accept.

Sources in the area said the incident happened at her residence in Ogba.

She was later found unresponsive after allegedly taking a poisonous substance.

Emergency efforts to save her life were not successful.

Authorities are said to be investigating the matter to understand what led to the tragic decision.

What has deeply touched many people is the note she reportedly left behind.

In the handwritten message, Bola is said to have expressed feelings of failure, deep emotional pain and fear about her future.

Though the full contents of the note have not been officially made public, those who saw it said it showed how overwhelmed she felt by her situation.

Colleagues revealed that in recent weeks she appeared withdrawn and unusually quiet, though she continued reporting to work.

Some said she rarely spoke about her problems and often kept her struggles to herself.

Neighbours also said she mostly stayed indoors and avoided long conversations, something they did not think much about at the time.


https://sportifypost.com.ng/2026/02/18/rip-beautiful-nigerian-lady-commits-suicide-over-financial-issues-leaves-heartbreaking-note

hotspice29:
A very mature comment from an actor.
Not chasing clout or stirring up controversies.
Just the blunt truth.
“From personal growth…”,
I like that line.

He may have money but he might likely not have a good character hence the ability comment... coming from someone who can have women running around him anyday, anytime. If you know this guy you'll know he loves baby boy life just have fun nothing more. With this type of mindset and the fact that he's a brand on his own.
You can imagine the type of ladies he meets,money isn't enough commitment, discipline, trust, understanding and communication does it for me.