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Hi,
Do you bid on eBay for people.
I have an item to buy but it's on auction.

ikembz:
Fu: Factory Unlocked
CU: Chip unlocked

Hope this helps

Thank you.

Please how do I ship item if I buy on eBay?

Can I send it to a shipper or the shipper must buy it for me?

What if it's an auction deal, can the shipper follow up and get the deal or it's better I buy and send?

I'm a bit confused, although I am still waiting to be added to the group for teaching newbies.

Finally, what is FU and CU some people use when advertising phones

Thank you

shapman:
There is a WhatsApp group specially created for deal hunters and would be buyers.
The rules are simple and straightforward.
Contact on signature for interested individuals.

Done with the form

chuks0009:
Good one, but let me say this, no one owes each other companionship biko, companionship is meant for a couple Pls,unless u are talking about another companionship outside the one I know

Companionship is not sex. It's unfortunate most people especially men think that companionship means sex.

Companionship entails having someone you share your dreams and aspirations with. Someone you can trust and let your emotions down without being judged. A true friend who helps you when you feel down etc.

It is this generation that disfigured and bastardized everything about relationship.

Kingpele:
Ok, it is important to be matured in your mind b4 u enter marriage life, so if u now marry her and she had to go through surgery to put to bed, considering the funds involved, u will just run off or disown your family... If u are not ready to foot the bill, why propose?... U better relax first and hustle, so that u won't bring children talk to this forum again...

I'm a woman but I won't support this your talk.

Why should he foot her bills when she is not his wife?

It's this attitude from men like you that make women misbehave thinking all men are fools.

You owe a lady nothing until you guys are married ( you can give her things based on what you feel you want to give and not by compulsion)

She on the other hand owe you nothing but the mutual encouragement, respect and companionship.

It's when you start demanding for things that aren't yours yet that she will start demanding for what isn't hers yet.

It's true women love gifts but you don't owe her money or gifts because you proposed to her. You give her gifts because you want to.

She has hands, let her work and make her own money.

omoolomo678:
Yes, its never used

Okay

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It's obvious most Nigerian men don't know what they want.

A woman makes her own money you all call her hoe, arrogant, unsubmissive, proud etc. Words spoken from the point of low self esteem.

If a woman doesn't make money but depend on men for money she is called hoe, gold digger, empty brain etc words spoken from point of defenders of "build your man" FC

What's stopping everybody from building themselves and not feeling entitled that a woman must accept you poor or that a man should foot your bills in case of the woman.

I am tired of some Nigerian men seriously.

Anyway, you guys fit each other.
The entitled men and women.

The man sees the woman as one who will build him out of poverty while the woman sees the man as poverty alleviation program.

And the result is 'the poverty capital of the world'

Meanwhile, those who understand life are building themselves both man and woman without waiting for anybody.

babadigu:
i now understand in that Nigeria...ritualists are right to use useless bitches like yours to perpetrate their rituals. u deserve it in fact. and God should bless them for never being arrested by the police...only in cases of girls like yours with type of thoughts!

It's funny how bitter some Nigerian men become once a lady talks about her choice in a life partner.


If you a man can make a choice of a lady based on what you want (beauty, money, wife material, virginity etc), why can't a woman make her own choice based on what she wants ( handsome, money, faithful etc)

Stop getting worked up unecessarily. Nobody is using anybody for rituals.

The ritualists are men like you who think killing someone can give them money.

The source of money is hardwork and smart-work. Being able to spot opportunities, being able to prepare and position to take on opportunity when it knocks.
Building systems that generate wealth like others are doing by building yourself into a valuable wealth magnet.

Only a fool thinks he can get rich by rituals. They are those whose brain are so empty that their strategy for wealth creation is hope, prayers, wishes, waiting on luck etc.

Go and build yourself to make your money so that you won't defend poverty like it's your father's heritage.

A woman can make her choice and you have to be mature enough to make yours and let her be.

I remember how you all insulted Regina because of her choice. It's her choice damn it.

Can Nigerians stop all these their jealousy and suffer head mentality already.

A woman earns her own money, you guys are threatened by your low self esteem.

When she doesn't make money and depend on a guy, you call her gold digger etc

What do you guys want?

Get rid of those confusing limiting mindsets before it ruins you all.

It will end in tears as usual.

Religion will crash your IQ....
Religion is a direct assault on your intelligence...
Religion is a declaration of war on your logic...


This bishop died because religion blocked his logic, raped his intelligence and crashed his IQ.

Don't drop your sense and test the Lord your God as if he is a magician

Onyi22:
Regina Daniel is a Bea, she dumps her ex boyfriend and got married to a Multi billionaire, that's exactly what a wise lady would do..
Dump him!! I repeat, dump his useless ugly broke ass when u see a richer guy/man than him..
Don't be deceive that "things will get better" he's a bloody lier.
Don't die before ur death with a miserable, frustrated guy that has refused to make money.
Finally my sister, Marry money because Love na scam..

This your talk portrays one who will desperately fall into any mess for money.

Believe me, you can make your own money.

Money is not only meant for men to make.

Build yourself and make your own money so that a man with money will now be a plus.

LordOfTheWeed:
Just a look at this fool.. .. .. smh

What makes her a fool? She made her choice so kindly make yours. You can say you can't marry a girl with her mentality.

If they use her for ritual, it's her choice.

The same way you may not be able to marry a prostitute is same way she can't marry a broke guy.

Life is simple my brother.

I hate two things in life

1. Broke/poor girls with high taste who look for a man to buy for them what they can't afford themselves

2. Broke/poor guys who think a woman must date or marry them to prove virtuous woman

If a man can make a choice or a lady based on what he wants (beauty, money, wife material, virginity etc), why can't a woman make her own choice based on what she wants ( handsome, money, faithful etc)

Don't be an entitled fool.

Whether you are a man or woman, work hard, build yourself and make your money so that you won't
1. Marry a chimpanzee, ritualist or Yahoo boy because of money
2. Defend poverty as if it's your father's heritage by forcing women to accept your poverty stricken self.
3. Become jealous/bitter when people like Regina choose baby girl life instead of suffer head.

Let no man or woman wait for someone to build them or build with them. Everybody should build his or her self so we can all meet half way at the top.

This life is easy but we like complicating it

Do you and let others be.

azmanaty02:
The person will also not force that his daughter. The sins of the father re always visited upon his children.

Go and sit down please!!
It's either hypocrisy or jealousy that is killing you

The girl is not a minor. She made her choice and you are here drinking Panadol.

If Ned can afford 10 more beauty queens between 18- 22, he should go for them

This life is too sweet to die in bitterness or carry other people's case on the head like gala.

Righteousness89:
Not completely correct!

A Marriage needs to be Blessed! Someone who stands as a Representative of GOD needs to Bless the Marriage. E.g Pastor, priest, etc

GOD ALMIGHTY in the Beginning Blessed Adam and Eve..

Gen 1:28..

The Blessings spoken to a couple is important!

All the other things are not really important!

Modified; Ignore what people say! GOD ALMIGHTY is a God of Order.

Parental Blessings are good and important

But do not ignore the Blessings of your Pastor, priest ,etc.. it's very important

So you are a representative of devil?

The parents that gave birth to them and blessed their marriage are representatives of the devil?

Which other blessing is higher than that of your parent's?

I pity you brainwashed lot that only hear what pastor said not what scripture said.

This is how they twisted " the touch not my anointed and do my prophet no harm" passage.

The people referred to there were the whole of Israelites but pastor brainwashed you to think he is the only anointed to whom the passage was referred to.

I pity some people Sha.

Leave religion and it's bondage and embrace spirituality, they won't hear.

BlackFlamefromP:
You weren't getting my point. Men ought to be the once who work hard enough and who should be responsible enough to own a house and bring in a woman they want to spend their life with rather than a man going to live with a woman in her own house! That is the point I was trying to make.

Okay, now I get it.

BlackFlamefromP:
@bolded:. Did you just say you would kick the man out of 'your house'? Hmm! Men don suffer! This is indeed an endtime.

Who did this to men that they have to live in the house owned by their wife and risk being thrown out at any slightest provocation while it suppose to be the other way round?

Did I hear you say "while it should be the other way round" so you mean only men have the right to throw an irresponsible cheating partner out?


The truth is that nobody has the right to throw anybody out except in the case of gross misconduct (cheating, domestic violence etc)

Besides this response wasn't for the main post but for the comment that says " a woman ought to give maximum respect to the husband even when the man is cheating and she is the breadwinner.

I said and I repeat, " I won't bat an eyelid to throw the man out like the trash he is" (any man that is been fed by a woman and still go on to cheat is a trash that should be discarded)

The same way a man is asked to send his wife back to her father's house of she is caught cheating.

So men should better hustle so that they can cheat in peace without risking being homeless (since that was only what you saw in my comment)

That treatment is meant for only irresponsible men not the good men.

Hope you get it now ?

In life, you receive exactly what you sow.

A man of peace will reap peace but an irresponsible man will reap double shame.

Ariza:
Lol @ posturing... I remember a guy called me a "beg friend" to the females the other time I supported them. Lol people trying so hard to put me in a box like I care . Na them go tire.


You are not totally correct with that, I know of a woman who supported her husband for ten years because it took him that long to secure a job. This woman fed and cater for all expenses of her, her husband, her children, her own siblings and the husbands siblings who came to live with them. Thing is no one knew all that happened until the husband got a job, and started misbehaving. Spending money on Alcohol and ladies while he left the woman to continue footing family bills. Frustrated the woman exploded and let out the cat.

You see, that attitude you say women display when the earn higher is mostly out of frustrations. Most Men are egoistic in nature, in situations where roles are changed, it is expected of any sane being to at least be of good help to other partner. But Men in such situation will rather want the woman to continue her roles as a wife and also provide for the family. It isn't that easy for anyone. A woman will go out to work , then she still have to come back to cook, take care of kids, clean the house and still perform in bed. It isn't that easy.

In situations where both are earning but the wife earns more, believe me it is only when there is no real love will a woman disregard her husband. A woman in love is very submissive with her money too. But in a scenario where the husband has always inflict the woman and luckily tables turn, she earns higher and decide to pay the man back in his own coin, you will hardly hear the stories behind these narratives men pass to another. There are always two sides to a coin.
But if you insist on the narrative that Women don't respect Men when they earn higher. Then you should know that money is power, power is intoxicating and it knows no gender. Just like Some Men will disregard their women's opinions and rights because they pay the bills or bride price.

Please tell them. The only sincere comment I have seen from a man.

This doesn't mean that some women are not unecessarily disrespectful to their husband because they earn more.

Power intoxicates and it knows no gender

AfroKnight:
Why? Cos they think you’re posturing.

Why can’t wives take care of their husbands without taking him through hell? A husband can marry a jobless wife and take care of her for years but a wife cannot abide a husband that loses his job and remains unemployed for 6 months. She will wake him up with nagging and say goodnight to him with insults.

Then one day, they’d have a small fight and their next door neighbour would hear how she has been feeding the jobless man.

This is because when the man was providing, the woman wasn't idle. She was managing the home.

Now tables turned, the man wants her to do the job of providing and also managing the home.

Soon he will become a complete burden to her.

Double useless status is not a good thing.

If you fall short in one, argument it from the other end.

Stress can make a good woman turn agressive

Some Nigerian men like trouble. They want to eat their cake and still have it.

I hope you now know why a woman will complain after feeding a man for 6months.

spiritedtete:
I was just being realistic... expect everything and anything from a man... we might say he will be faithful and boom... he bleeps up and we might say he will mess up and he will stand by his spirit...

I am man... i have mingle and gist with all and sundry.. you see that thing called faithfulness it is with Grace.. Age and time. It is not principles, discipline nor vows no!

I know you were that's why I said, " a man can't be double useless" you can't be poor and a wizard at the same time.

A man who feeds a woman can do that and go free because the woman will endure cos she can't take up her life and bills responsibility.

She can't be taking the bulk of the bills or feeding you and you still have the guy to cheat.

I will kick him out of my house with speed of light that it will be like film to him.

My colleague did that, I know others who have done same and I won't bat an eyelid to do so too.

Being irresponsible is his cup of tea, defining what I can take from him is my cup of tea.

If you dishonour the marriage, you lose the right to any respect and honour I have for you.

Simple!!

sammysticks:
Hello,
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AIN means Already In Nigeria i.e the phone or gadget is readily available with the seller in Nigeria for pickup.You can meet up physically or use escrow service if you are far way from the seller’s location.

Thank you so much

Hi,
I'm new hear so don't be offended if my question sound naive.

What is TLC and AIN etc.

I need iPhone 6s or 7 but I need to understand what you guys mean by those acronyms.

Thanks

mdan:
It's widely known that love alone, is not enough to keep a family standing. There are other factors contributing to a healthy marriage of which respect, loyalty, money etc are involved.

Now, in a situation where a wife earns more than the husband, will there be respect?

And if there is, how long can a woman keep up before she starts acting weird?

For the ladies do you think it's an issue earning higher than your husband?

There is no need to act weird in the first place and nothing wrong with earning more than your husband provided the man is not one with low self esteem who will make life miserable for you because he feel inadequate.

The money is for the family.

Provided he is doing his duty as the man of the house and he doesn't abdicate the whole of breadwinning and bill footing to the woman, nothing is absolutely wrong with.

TomatoSauce:
This reminds me of my neighbour who single handedly built a three bedroom apartment for her family (2 kids and her husband). I think the husband was out of work or he earned less. Only for the man to impregnate a young girl on the same street. The wife didn't even hesitate to throw him out lol. The funniest thing is that the penniless man had to go leave with his babe in a batcha house, it took him months before he could afford rent for a self contain apartment.

She is my kind of girl. I have no time for trash.

You mess yourself up, you lose all respect and honour I have for you.

She defined who she is and what she wants in life.

babakb:
It's like you don't know that a lot of many are beasts these days, I am a guy and I work with over 22 Male colleagues that are married and 15 of them cheat, how did I know?
We hold quarterly Regional meetings in a hotel and you will all of them come with runs girls and fvck them for 3 days.

Like Putin said " if you are a terrorist, it's God's duty to forgive you, it is my duty to send you to him"

Men being beasts is for their pocket, the beast only eats whom he can get close to.

This is why I tell women to define who they are and what they want.

Learn self love and self respect.

Some call me principled but to me it's called self respect and self boundary.

I work hard to foot my bills so no man would be a burden to me and still form cheat or head when he has lost all respect.

I am well grounded in 101% self confidence and self respect that you would have no choice than to accord me same.

My motto is my peace of mind and happiness so anything that will take that away is not worth it.

I am willing to worship the ground my man walks on if he truly shows himself to be a leader worthy of following.

The problem is that even a drunkard wants to lead a woman and a home.

If only men know the responsibility of being the man of the house, they will buckle up.

The man ought to be everything he desires to see and receive from a woman.

You lead by example.

Anyway, life happens to some while some command life to obey them.

Leave religion and it's bondage/man made doctrines and embrace spirituality and you would be glad you did.

We are spiritual beings having human experience not the other way round.

Man started having issues when religion introduced the God on the outside who men run Helter skelter to seek thereby risk being manipulated by men.

The God you seek is within you. You are the God

It is a journey to connecting with who you originally are- spiritual being with the fullness of God in you.

This is the true gospel

tunjijones:
Am sure u are not married. Get married first and see if you still don't have interest in a submissive wife.

And my guy it wld be worse if you marry a domineering wife. I have seen women that always feel that there opinion is always better than their husband opinion... Can you deal with that?

Can you please define submission for us from your point of view?

CsRockefeller:
It's well. If we allow love as Christ preaches, we would all be fine.

Exactly!!

Self love first then

Selfless love to our spouses and humanity.

The Bible said "love your neighbor as you love yourself". It didn't say "love your neighbor more than you love yourself".

This means
Zero Selfishness (expecting what you can't give or are not willing to give)
Zero low self esteem (feeling worthless)
Zero self hate ( not caring for your peace and happiness by enduring trash because of...)

Most men only remember the Bible when it comes to submission and respect. They tore away the part of "Love your wife like Christ did the church" (selfless love)

The measure you give is what you will receive.

CsRockefeller:
D guy comment touch her wellla.

With d tone she wrote that comment, she fit slap d guy if he dey close.

Not necessarily. I just hate nonsense and it's ingredients.

The points are:

Respect shouldn't be about how much you earn but about how well you do your duties as a man.

A woman is not designed to be a bread winner. She can do it for a while but the man have to get up and be a man - the provider and protector

The men should build their self esteem so they don't feel threatened or become a wizard that stops the growth of their wives because of fear that she will earn more

Be ever committed to growth and personal development so you can upgrade your income should that happen.

Be responsible as a man and foot your bills while your woman support. Once you shift your responsibility, you have indirectly sold your right like Esau.

When.men complain that women become bread winners for a while and start complaining, I tell them this:

When you were the provider, she managed the home.

Now she is the provider and you still want her to do your job and do hers (managing the home)

This makes you double useless to her.

When you provide, she manage the home and when she is providing, take up her own part which is managing the home and you will experience peace.

she may not even allow you do the managing but the commitment to be productive in the home is something valuable to her.

You can't be poor and a wizard at the same time.

The problem is that we all know the right thing to do to make our marriages work but we won't do it.

Ask a Nigerian man to define submission or a wife and he will define a slave or slavery.

They forget that respect is reciprocal and is earned not forced.

Build yourself into a man worthy of respect and your wife will worship the ground you walk on.

When everybody do what is expected of them, there will be peace.

spiritedtete:
Every respect o... but the woman needs to know or learn to be submissive and give her husband the mantle "wisdom" to lead the home.

In this regard the husband will always be proud of the woman he married.. and boast of her everywhere and lookdown on other ladies not fit to be in his wife's position.


It doesn't stop cheating sha o. .. he will only be remembering his kind of wife will be hard to come by.. hence he will guide is home with his all.

You earn less than a woman and still get mind to cheat? When your whole time should be spent on building yourself to upgrade your income?

I don't even know what some Nigerian men want Sha.

Anyway, na to just kick the man comot for my house asap.

You can't be double useless at the same time.

The moment you dishonour your wife or marriage by cheating, you lose all respect due to you.

The worst are those who are been fed by their wives and still cheat or beat the woman.

They no born you well walai!!

Respect is reciprocal. The amount of respect you accord me is what I will give back.

Gone are the days women endure trash just to be called virtuous or submissive.

If you as a man throw your authority to the dogs through irresponsibility, the woman will help you match it to pieces.