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PoliticsRe: Passport Issuance Resumes May 31 – Aregbesola by Jsaviour(f): 8:59am On May 15, 2021
Is there anything this administration can do right?

I know some unfortunate animals will ask of it's Buhari that is in charge and yes, he is because he is saddled with the responsibility to appoint a reasonable person to head and manage the immigration.

May God never punish Nigeria with anything like Buhari ever again
TravelRe: Real Reason Nigerians Can’t Get Passports Without Tears by Jsaviour(f): 8:54am On May 15, 2021
Is there anything this government can do well?

Nigerians suffer to get basic things since Buhari got into office.

Are they doing this ok purpose to stop the jappa process of young Nigerians or just Buhari's cluelessness and his incompetent men?

And some living beings still support this useless government?

I don't even know what Nigerians did to deserve a statue like Buhari.

Can't this government do something well in this life?

Why employ only incompetent people to run down the whole part of the economy?
PoliticsRe: Sex-For-Food Destroying Girls, Women In North-East IDPs Camps by Jsaviour(f): 7:16pm On May 14, 2021
Don't forsake these ones folks. They are the real Hausas' that the fulani's dislodged and wants to annihilate.

The fulani's are strangers. They have turned the Hausas' to slaves in Nigeria and are working to do same to the south.

Pity these women don't just categorize them as North.

They are suffering both hunger, rape, kidnapping, dislodgement etc

Pity the Nigerians and reject the fulanis, Fulani's are the real enemies.

They are strangers and jihadists.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Jsaviour(f): 9:28am On May 14, 2021
ahiboilandgas:
she is doing psychological work on your mind called mind games.teleguiding you to marriage.
When did we get here? So feeling guilty for sinning is now manipulation? So them having sec while they aren't married is cool? I don't even know where this generation is headed. If your conscience is dead, other people's own aren't.
PoliticsRe: Why North Doesn't Want Nigeria To Break Up — Arewa Consultative Forum by Jsaviour(f): 1:32pm On May 11, 2021
Nigeria can divide peacefully without war. Why are the north against division? Ohh.. I forgot that they are parasites.

They are the only ones benefiting from these useless country that doesn't value human life. No wonder he said "relatively okay the way it is".

So a failed nation like Nigeria is okay?

No wonder people say the north doesn't deserve to share a space with the South.

A nation ravaged by hunger, insecurity, lack of value for human life, bokoharam, banditry beheading and kidnapping is OKAY?

Who did we offend to be joined with the north?
Christianity EtcWhy Are Most Nigerians So Religious To A Dangerous Degree by Jsaviour(op): 1:21pm On May 11, 2021
This sentence #whatGodcannotdoesnotexist ( What God cannot do does not exist “) has been breeding and fueling a bunch of irresponsible religious fanatics.

These are all Religious traps that makes destinies to loose color and dignity.

The Glory and color of your tomorrow is in the how much investment of ( spiritual, intellectual, physical and financial) you are making into the works of your hands today.

God is all powerful mighty God but there are things he can’t do without you playing your own part of the responsibility.

There’s no miracle under the sun that will make a student who refused to read his books to pass an exam and the list goes on .

This is the reason why Christians are among the poorest set of individuals on the earth because they expect God to do everything including the ones God has enabled man to do for himself.

There are things God cannot do without you completing your own part of the equation>>>

By TMC
PoliticsRe: IPOB, Yoruba Separatist Groups Plotting To Attack Lagos - CP by Jsaviour(f): 9:23pm On May 10, 2021
How can Nigerians be so gullible. The police that's extorts you, killed unarmed youths, couldn't save Umoren, couldn't stop bandits or kidnappers is telling you that Ipob wants to attack Lagos.

IPOB means indigenous people of Biafra. This means all Igbos.

So how can an igbo man go to Lagos to destroy things when all he only needs is secession?

And don't tell me the Igbos destroyed things in Lagos during endsars. That's a lie from the pit of hell. Things were destroyed only after the blood tasty fed govt and army/police killed innocent people. And the destruction was done by every angry youth available there.

Bokoharam, bandits and fulani herdsmen have infiltrated the south and their plan is to use divide and rule.

I didn't know people can be this gullible
Christianity EtcTithe Explained To The Lay Man & Christians by Jsaviour(op): 2:57pm On May 09, 2021
BREAKING NEWS...
PASTOR JONES JAILED FOR TELLING MEMBERS TO TITHE 10% OF THEIR INCOMES...(Read Court proceedings �)

Courtroom exchanges between a Judge of the Law and Pastor Jones.

The truth about tithing
(unknown author)

Judge: Mr. Jones you have been charged with multiple counts of extortion. Your crime spree covers 20 years and thousands of victims. You have defrauded people out of their money with fear and manipulation, telling them they had to tithe 10% of their income as per the LAW to your Regd. organization (called Church) and that God would bless them if they did. You also told them that if they didn't tithe God would curse them.
How do you plead?

Mr. Jones: I plead not guilty your Honor,
I have done nothing wrong. I have only preached what the Bible says. In the Bible Abraham tithed to Melchizedek and God blessed him for his faithful giving. The Bible even says he was rich in silver and gold.

Judge: Is it not true, Mr. Jones, that in Genesis chapter 13 verse 2 the Bible says Abraham was rich with livestock, silver and gold?

Mr. Jones: Yes, you are exactly right, that's what I just told you.

Judge: Ok, we read about Abraham being a rich man in chapter 13 but it is not until Genesis chapter 14 that we read about Abraham's tithe to Melchizedek. So Abraham was already a rich man before he tithed to Melchizedek, wasn't he?

Mr. Jones: Yes, I suppose you are right.

Judge: So his riches were not the result of his tithe to Melchizedek?

Mr. Jones: No.

Judge: Mr. Jones, you also say God blessed him for his faithful giving. How many times is it recorded that Abraham gave tithes to Melchizedek?

Mr. Jones: Well, just once.

Judge: So the Bible never said that he gave week after week?

Mr. Jones: No it does not.

Judge: Where did Abraham get the things that he gave to Melchizedek?

Mr. Jones: Well the Bible says it was from the plunders of war?

Judge: So you are telling me that he gave from the plunders of war?

Mr. Jones: Yes that's what the Bible says.

Judge: So he basically took things that were not really his in the first place and gave them as the tithe?

Mr. Jones: That is what the scripture seems to indicate.

Judge: Is it recorded that he ever took anything from his own possessions and tithed them to Melchizedek or anyone else?

Mr. Jones: I guess not

Judge: You guess not, you are a teacher and you are only guessing, is it or is it not written that he ever gave any of his own possessions as a tithe to anyone?

Mr. Jones: No it is not written anywhere that I have seen.

Judge: Is it recorded as to what exactly Abraham did give Melchizedek?

Mr. Jones: I believe it says plunder?

Judge: So plunder could be any number of things?

Mr. Jones: Yes, I suppose

Judge: It could have been food, cattle, sheep, the people's possessions or any number of things. It does not say it was all money correct?

Mr. Jones: Yes you are correct, it does not say just money

Judge: As a matter of fact money is never mentioned in that account at all is that correct Mr. Jones?

Mr. Jones: Yes your Honor, money is never mentioned just goods and food and people.

Judge: So there is no way you can say with any certainty that Abraham in fact gave Melchizedek any money at all?

Mr. Jones: That is right.

Judge: I only have one last question for you Mr. Jones, did God command Abraham to give this plunder tithe to Melchizedek?

Mr. Jones: No, it appears that he did this voluntarily.

Judge: So are you trying to tell me that because of this voluntary, one time gift by Abraham, that may not have even consisted of money, all Christians everywhere are obligated to bring 10% of their weekly paycheck to a local Regd.Organization-church?
Considering all the evidence I would say you are beyond any shadow of a doubt guilty of deliberately trying to make the scriptures says things they have not said for financial gain.

Mr. Jones: Ok your Honor, I can see how foolish I was to try and use the story of Melchizedeck to try and get the people to tithe money. But there are many other verses that will support my belief on tithing. Jacob said he would give God 10% of everything. I think we should follow his example.

Judge: Let's see what Jacob said. Please read the verse you are talking about for me Mr. Jones.

Mr. Jones: In Genesis chapter 28 starting at verse 20 it says. Jacob vowed a vow, saying, "If God will be with me, and will keep me in this way that I go, and will give me bread to eat, and clothing to put on, so that I come again to my father's house in peace, and Yahweh will be my God, then this stone, which I have set up for a pillar, will be God's house. Of all that you will give me I will surely give the tenth to you."

Judge: You said we should follow Jacobs example, is that right Mr. Jones?

Mr. Jones: Yes that is right, he vowed to give a tenth and we should too.

Judge: Let me point out one thing for you Mr. Jones, Jacob said he would Give God a tenth, ONLY if He blessed him first. So as you said previously, we should follow Jacob's example and tell God that we will only give him a tenth if he blesses us first. Is that right?

Mr. Jones: That is not what I meant.

Judge: What did you mean then?

Mr. Jones: That we should give God a tenth also.

Judge: There you go again, trying to make the scripture say what you want it to say for your benefit. I would also like you to tell me the scriptures that say that Jacob kept his vow with God. I would also like to know where he gave the tenth to because there was no temple or levites to give it to at that time.

Mr. Jones: I can not think of any scriptures that say where or if he ever tithed after his vow.

Judge: It seems fairly obvious to me that Jacob made a voluntary and conditional vow to God. This in no way can be used as a reason to demand others to bring their income to you or any other place.

Mr. Jones: I do have a few more scriptures that I believe will show that we are supposed to tithe.

Judge: You have not said anything yet to convince me one little bit that people are obligated to tithe money to the local organizational institutions -churches and that you were justified in what you were doing. You have taken scripture and misapplied it to your beliefs and for your gain. But in order to be fair to you I will allow you to present more evidence.

Mr. Jones: In the book of Malachi chapter 3 starting at verse 8 it says, will a man rob God? yet ye have robbed me. But ye say, In what have we robbed thee? In tithes and offerings. Ye are cursed with a curse: for ye have robbed me, even this whole nation. Bring ye all the tithes into the store-house, that there may be food in my house, and prove me now with this, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it. So you see your Honor, we are commanded to bring the tithes into the storehouse or God will curse us.

Judge: Answer me this Mr Jones, Who was God Speaking to here?

Mr Jones: To the People of Israel

Judge: Can you please read Malachi 2: 1 Please Mr Jones

Mr Jones: Now This command is for you O PRIEST !!

Judge: Did God stop talking to the Priest in chp. 3 Mr Jones?

Mr Jones: No your Honor!

Judge: Answer me this Mr. Jones, were you aware that God never required anyone to tithe money?

Mr. Jones: No I didn't know that.

Judge: The tithe spoken of here was always edible products never money.

Mr. Jones: well your Honor that is because they didn't have money at the time so God had them tithe food instead.

Judge: Not true, money is first mentioned in Genesis and Malachi was written hundreds of years later. God had them bring food in so that the levites, the fatherless and widows may eat and be satisfied. The tithe was used mainly to take care of people. Also notice it says in the verse you quoted, that there may be food in my house. The food was the tithe. How do you completely overlook the word food in those verses?

Mr. Jones: I don't know

Judge: I also want you to know that these verses speak to nation under the Old Testament law. As you may or may not know Jesus fulfilled the law, it is no longer binding.
Once again you have tried to completely take a scripture out of context and apply it to others for your benefit. Can you give me a single scripture where God changed the tithe from food to money?

Mr. Jones: I do not know of any.

Judge: So if God never changed it from food to money who did?

Mr. Jones: Man must have.

Judge: So far all you have done Mr. Jones, is take Old Testament scriptures out of context and try to apply it to believers under the New Covenant. Is this all the proof you have?

Mr. Jones: I do have a New Testament scripture that will show that Jesus told us to tithe.

Judge: Ok let me hear it.

Mr. Jones: Jesus said in Matthew 23:23 "Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you tithe mint, dill, and cumin, and have left undone the weightier matters of the law: justice, mercy, and faith. But you ought to have done these, and not to have left the other undone. See Jesus said we should be tithing.

Judge: Let me ask you a question, who was Jesus talking to?

Mr. Jones: The scripture says the Scribes and Pharisees.

Judge: Are you a scribe or Pharisee?

Mr. Jones: Of course not.

Judge: Jesus also said in that passage, you have left undone the weightier matters of the law. Are we under the law Mr. Jones?

Mr. Jones: No.

Judge: Why not?

Mr. Jones: Because Jesus fulfilled it.

Judge: When did Jesus fulfill the law?

Mr. Jones: When He was crucified.

Judge: So the law was still in effect until Jesus death?

Mr. Jones: That is correct.

Judge: I think you know where I am going with this don't you?

Mr. Jones: Yes your Honor. Since Jesus had not yet been crucified and the law was still binding the Pharisees were required to tithe because it was part of the law. Once the law ended, tithing ended also.

Judge: I want you to take a look at that verse again. Also tell me, what were they tithing?

Mr. Jones: The scripture says it was mint, dill and cumin.

Judge: Is money mentioned?

Mr. Jones: No it was not.

Judge: Once again it was edible products that they were tithing, not money. Do you have anything else you would like to say?

Mr. Jones: If people only tithed edible products like the scripture says, then how would the church survive? We have our mortgage payment, utility bills, staff salary and a host of other things that we have to pay each week. We depend on the money from the people.

Judge:By "church" you mean your organization isn't it Mr Jones ?
-The need does not justify the means. In other words, just because you have all these debts does not give you the right to twist and manipulate scripture and cause people to give under fear of being cursed by God to meet your needs. Does It Mr Jones?
In closing, let me recap a few things for you Mr. Jones.
-The tithe was never money;
-The tithe was an Old Testament law, which is no longer binding. When it was binding the tithe was used to take care of people, not buildings.
- We are under a new covenant now.
Paul instructs the Corinthian believers how they are to give. He says in second Corinthians chapter 9 verse 7, Let each man give according as he has determined in his heart; not grudgingly, or under compulsion; for God loves a cheerful giver. So each believer is supposed to give as he or she has determined in his or her heart.
If they determine to Give 10% well and good, If they keep aside some every week to meet this more better.If you are trying to make people give under the threat of being cursed or any other reason even blessing, you are wrong. Someone can not give cheerfully if they are being forced to give. If 'your church can not survive on freewill offerings maybe God is not part of your church at all.
Mr Jones, Do you intentionally put your people under a Curse or a Bondage?

Mr Jones: Of Course Not !!

Judge: Can you Read in context Gal 3:10-11 For as many as are of the works of the law are under the curse: for it is written, Cursed is every one that continueth not in all things which are written in the book of the law to do them ....
AND
Gal 5:1-4 Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage....

Mr. Jones: I never realized all these things, I have always been taught that we had to tithe money to the local church and that is what I have always taught. I can see now that I was completely wrong. I did not study the scripture for myself, I only took mans word for it.
Yes ' am guilty. I will not teach this error anymore.

Sentencing....... All Arise .......!!

(Share this until it gets all pentecostal preachers who lack knowledge of the TRUTH. Don't fear your pastor, have this conversation with him to save him and yourself from mammon).

Maranatha.
RomanceRe: “Someone Should Marry Me It’s Urgent, I’ll Explain During Honeymoon” – Lady Begs by Jsaviour(f): 1:19pm On Mar 04, 2021
sapphiere:
Men will use "I Will Marry You" to sleep with you if you show sign of desperation.
After sleeping with you, they now remember that their parents this, their parents that.

God will punish every man that has gone in between my legs with fake marriage promise.
Even with fake promises, they should not have been able to enter in-between the legs if you really wanted them not to.

He who breaks the edge would be beaten by the Snake.

The point is that the way we have made sexual immorality a norm will keep affecting us until we change our ways.

Say no to premarital sex or stop complaining of being used by guys.

It's bad on their part to have lied or faked promises but it could have been avoided.
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi: Nigeria Rewarding Bandits While Owing Lecturers Salaries by Jsaviour(f): 1:13pm On Mar 04, 2021
majole:
I taught this guy was the only not too looting politician around that could turn this country but this Reckless statement shows how stupid this man is. If your Kids were kidnapped what would you not do to get them released safely? Very Reckless statement
You need brain surgery. Sometimes, it's better to keep shut than to show how foolish you are.
RomanceRe: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Jsaviour(f): 7:49pm On Mar 03, 2021
abigail11:
I have been dating this guy for 8 years now. My relationship with him started since my university school days.

Ever since we graduated and started working, I have been expecting him to propose to me, which he didn't.

When I confronted him, he said he needs a tangible source of income first before he will marry me.

His current salary is 60k, yet he doesn't want us to go into marriage now.

I personal told him that we can manage what we have and plan our life together since I'm also working. But he said no, his reason is that he doesn't want us to suffer.

My problem is this:
1. Time is not on my side
2. He want to make millions before he can marry me, what if it takes more years to do that?
3. I'm ready and he is not ready.
Please I need advise. I don't know what to do.
Accept your mistake and errors and move on.

What on earth will a lady be doing with a guy for 8years without proper commitment?

Nigeria is hard so I don't blame the guy. The only issue I have with him is keeping you when he knows he is not ready.

Madam, wake up, dust yourself and look forward.

The more you want to stay because of 8 wasted years, the more wasted years you may add on top the 8.

If you are ready for marriage and he is not then leave him so God can bring someone else for you.

It's not easy but it's a choice you have to make or...

I wish you grace
RomanceRe: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Jsaviour(f): 1:55am On Mar 03, 2021
Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?
She is a parasite who is emotionally blackmailing you.

Hope you do for your mother all you do for her.

She is not wife yet.

You owe no woman any duty until she is your wife.

Don't allow her entitlement mentality get at you.
RomanceRe: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Jsaviour(f): 1:50am On Mar 03, 2021
MediMedi:
You called her your bae and you can't afford her responsibility.
If she start sleeping around with men like us pls pls don't come begging
Enablers!! Babe is not equal to wife. She should go ahead and sleep with other men nah. The guy will go ahead and get a better babe. Gone are the days you threaten people with nonsense. Is she handicapped?
RomanceRe: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Jsaviour(f): 1:47am On Mar 03, 2021
Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?
I'm a woman but I'm ashamed on your behalf.

So a man should pay your bills because you have a breast and vagina?

Are you handicapped?

This is the entitlement mentality that is making some Nigerian men insult Nigerian women.

Please stop this useless talk before you insult yourself the more.
RomanceRe: NAIRALAND FEMALES APPRECIATION POST. by Jsaviour(f): 1:42am On Mar 03, 2021
needanswer:
Yes o, everytime shouldn't be fight or a clash of words, sometimes we need to appreciate some insightful female monikers.

Sorry I dont keep tabs of their names but I will state the few I can remember, in no particular order.

Erojepromise
JaneYave
Lucrativress
Hatima
pretteemee
Jsaviour
Ishilove
pozehnani
Cakhama


I'll keep updating the list as I remember their monikers.

You can add yours.

Seun
Thanks for the appreciation.

I'm glad it's not always fight as usual.

More grace to you
PoliticsRe: Mob Destroys Ahmed Mohammed Ketso's Private Residence by Jsaviour(f): 1:07pm On Mar 02, 2021
BigBashiru:
After having travelled the world and compared different peoples, cultures and their ways- i came to the conclusion that empirically and statistically the Nigerian is more wicked than international average.
Yes, they are wicked and lawless. So what are the elected leaders doing about this if they aren't the master planners of evil and lawlessness?

Blame game? Refusing to take responsibility?

The day change begins in a man or nation is the day they begin to take responsibility.

Nigerian citizens weren't elected to make the nation work, the politicians were.

You should ask what are they doing other than excuses.

I laugh in chinese again
PoliticsRe: Mob Destroys Ahmed Mohammed Ketso's Private Residence by Jsaviour(f): 1:04pm On Mar 02, 2021
BigBashiru:
No this is flawed reasoning. The real top is the State Governor and State House of Assembly combined not president. I don't want to enter into argument. The president is commander in chief of armed forces. He can't query a state governor or fire a state govenor because state governor is democratically elected.
And you think the head I mean is just the president?

Well, I can see your defence.

Buhari told GEJ to resign if he can't safeguard lives and properties and reduce pump price.

But now you have mouth to say the blame shouldn't go to the president.

I repeat, your hypocrisy is glaring.

The head that failed are both the president, governors, senators etc.

These are the real people that pushed the citizens to the point is dehumanized beings hence their animalistic nature.

An average Nigerian is constantly at the survival mode. You think a person who hasn't seen food to eat won't join bolo haram just to eat?

The politicians both past and present failed the nation.

Typical case is Abacha that stole the whole nation and then constant high cost of governance etc.

I rest my case sha
PoliticsRe: Mob Destroys Ahmed Mohammed Ketso's Private Residence by Jsaviour(f): 10:49am On Mar 02, 2021
BigBashiru:
The lecturer that demands sex for marks is a leader failed. The police man that collects bribe is a failed leader. The motor driver that refuses to slow down for a pedestrian crossing the road is both wicked and cursed. The Nigerians that refuse to stop at red traffic light are barbaric. It's quite easy to blame "leaders". The youth are doing wat "leaders" are doing. It's about the people. The Nigerian race is inferior bro.
Nigerians are easy to control.
If the head is working, the body will work.
The lawlessness from the top gave them the enfontery to do so.
Let them have putin as president and try such rubbish.
We have no leader at the top so everybody does what they feel like
PoliticsRe: Mob Destroys Ahmed Mohammed Ketso's Private Residence by Jsaviour(f): 10:46am On Mar 02, 2021
BigBashiru:
Nigerians are just as wicked and selfish as their leaders if not more selfish...m
I'm a Nigerian and I'm not wicked and selfish.

I manage other people's company and I know how I treat it and how they praise me.

If you are wicked, selfish and heartless, say it with your chest and stop involving us.

The day will come when you won't have mouth to defend those animals we call Nigerian politicians.
PoliticsRe: Mob Destroys Ahmed Mohammed Ketso's Private Residence by Jsaviour(f): 10:37am On Mar 02, 2021
BigBashiru:
The capacity to get Nigeria working lies in the hands of the Nigerians themselves and not in the hands of their leaders....

To lead, you must have willing followers.... the Nigerian followers aren't willing to be led, they are still all about their own selfish gains/ends....
I laugh in chinese language. So the fools embezzling are leading right? The fools that sent soldiers to kill peaceful protesters but embrace and pay bandits that kill people are leading well?

So the fools that have kept the nations as a poverty capital while they push the nations money abroad to their personal accounts are to be clapped for?

I fear who doesn't fear you.

We have no leader in Nigeria. We only have wicked and selfish politicians who rape the nation dry
RomanceRe: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Jsaviour(f): 9:56am On Mar 02, 2021
needanswer:
Yeah, its hard o. All girls are the same to me (when I say all girls, I only mean gorgeous girls)

But beauty aside, most girls are the same. They are just in different packages but once I look past the beauty and into the person I get discouraged...nothing makes her special than the last or the next even my current girl.

Only one girl ever stood out, beautiful, emotional intelligent, charismatic, funny, homely, ****** and she was smart about alot of things, we both Learnt new stuffs talking with each other, things most girls normally dont like. She is a big GOT and Kdrama fan and because of her I looked into Korean movies and culture even wrote two novels based on kdrama that I published. But she could kill if she got angry, very violent. she spoilt my stuffs, na there matter spoil with her anger. If she had stayed maybe we would have killed each other, but if she wasn't violent she was a perfect fit. She has her own money (last born for that matter) and her family are well to do like mine, it would have been perfect.

I see my friends get married almost monthly but truth is their babes seem shallow to me, yes they are beautiful like mine but shallow. Me I cant cope o, after 1 months I will be bored of the entire marriage, if not for boredom I for dey with my babe and not here o grin

Guys how did you select your partner?

Me I am thinking this marriage is not for all o.
I can agree with you that most women are shallow. Most men are shallow too.

I think it's predominantly an African thing.

Nevertheless, there are still inspiring and interesting men and women just that they are few.

I guess it has to do with your birth month, exposure and self awareness.

Some people get bored easily when the spice isn't there.

Why you don't always see women complain same thing about men is because they either can't wait to see who will take them in or don't have any level of self awareness.

Keep looking until you see what you are looking for. Never settle else you might become miserable.

This is a wake up call to both men and women to develop and work on themselves.

Some women only care about their makeup, and body while their brain, emotions, social capital etc are zero.

I don't like boring or shallow men either.

I get tired of people who have nothing else than money and sex to talk about.

Can we talk and discuss about business ideas, global issues, books, events, future aspirations, vision, goals, leadership etc.
CelebritiesRe: Kim Kardashian & Kanye West Divorce Papers Reveal Real Reason For Break Up (Pix) by Jsaviour(f): 8:27pm On Feb 28, 2021
Igboarecriminal:
Her father Robert is a good Christian but somehow Satan took over his family, especially kim, she tried many stupid things to get attention, until she tried porn. The film Get out" is about Kanye, he is afraid kim will use their children for child porn, she may have already did it. The Big cults they joined is about worshipping Satan engaging in Child porn, LGBTQ, BDSM, killing innocent people, drinking their blood and some nasty stuff, for fame, money, power. Not the stupid types cult in Nigeria where most of them are deadbeat, poor drug addicts. Kim, Kanye, kim's family, their friends thy all have sold their souls. Non of them will die in peace. IPOB terrorist and some stupid brown roof republic are all into Devil worshipping. The Devil takes and takes until they die and suffer internal fire. Righteousness preach to your people let them stop signing contract with the Devil.
You are high on some shitty stuff. What are you saying? And some are liking the crazy comment undecided undecided
CelebritiesRe: Meet Mya Yafai, Davido New Girlfriend (Video, Photos) by Jsaviour(f): 8:11pm On Feb 28, 2021
adedayoa2:
why can't he stick with her? After so much PDA
What is PDA? Even married men cheat on their wives and you think ordinary PDA will keep a man?

grin grin grin

Women will never learn. Whatever you do in life never put your hope on any man.
TravelRe: Life Of A Nigerian Student Nurse In Canada- Lonely. by Jsaviour(f):
Get to know yourself so you can identify your interest, values and all. With this you can engage people in a healthy discussion without being boring.

Again, try online dating sites but be careful while at it.

Lastly, relax and not force things. Learn to enjoy your own company and create your own happiness.

Loneliness is a normal thing in white man's land.
FamilyRe: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Jsaviour(f): 11:40pm On Feb 21, 2021
NikAustine:
Do you know if he reports this to the family especially the mother, it will make the wife become an enemy to the family? The mother and possibly his siblings will make it their point to end that marriage. And you know the way a Son takes his mother, she comes first before his wife.
Only jobless people carry another man's family on top their head. If one is busy with his life, he or she (be it mother, brother or sister) won't have time to carry their brothers marriage or house on top their head.
You go fear report card
PoliticsRe: Mob Destroys Ahmed Mohammed Ketso's Private Residence by Jsaviour(f): 1:29pm On Feb 17, 2021
2mercy:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/mob-destroys-niger-deputy-govs-private-residence/%3famp=1
This is exactly what should be done to the houses of all politicians in Nigeria. East, West, North, South... All should be demolished until they stop looking the nation dry and get the nation working.
FamilyRe: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Jsaviour(f): 12:02pm On Feb 17, 2021
iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.
You shouted back at her?

In her house?

I hope you know you are just a visitor to that house?

Anyway, most Nigerians don't know what privacy is.

If you like be forming entitlement mentality on top another man's house.
PoliticsRe: New Petrol Price Imminent As Landing Cost Hits ₦180 Per Litre by Jsaviour(f): 5:41pm On Feb 16, 2021
Vardanes2:
The fun part of this thread is that most people will rightly blame the government, but then will come and ask the government to worsen the situation by spending more on subsidy. That means that we continue to throw more of the money we could have used to maintain and repair and upgrade refienreis on subsidy

To say nothing of the fact that we would end up spending more money on makrketers who will smuggle the fuel out of the country to sell at higher prices, and make their profit.


Here is a harsh truth. SUBSIDY HAS TO GO.

I'll repeat it again SUBSIDY HAS TO GO.


Yes, we would spend more on fuel. Yes, we would find things harsh for some time, and yes, I agree with you that APC is not the best form og governance either (I've never voted for them self...)


But, eventually

1.More savings from the money we spent on suibsidy....goes to government coffers...which can be spent on things like education, health, and so on

2.More refineries, as people go into rrefining fuel at home , instead of wasting money importing the stuff....more revenue, more jobs

3.More investment in refinereis....from foreign investors.

4.NNPC finally has the money to spend on its refinereis...instead of spending money keeping the price of fuel low.


Yes, fuel cost N87 UDER gej DOWN FROM 97....and it was kept that low...at the expense of our foreign reserves. And GEJ ended up owing many marketers, money that was not fully paid off till 2018...because subsuidy is that hard to pay off. AND EVEN THEN./..marketers still were selling the fuel above the market price.

All I know is, in 2012...if the government then had been allowed to remove subsidy....we would have been in a much better place.

But everyone preffered cheap fuel. SEE THE COST OF CHEAP FUEL....we import fuel and we import fuel


Niger sells us fuel. They have no subsidy. Fuel cost N350 there...and they have the money and the profit to fix their refinereis...as a result.
The problem is that you guys don't reason.

Do you know why subsidy is been removed?

They they will have more money to share among themselves.

Nothing is going to education or wherever you think it's going.

It's going into politicians personal pockets through embezzlement, bogus salary, pension, exaggerated budgets etc.

The problem of Nigeria is "cost of governance" not subsidy.

Buhari said there were no subsidy and protested when fuel was N87 under GEJ so how is there subsidy now and fuel 180?

Anyway, by the time he is done with Nigerians.

Country is running on autopilot with politicians borrowing to fund their pocket/lifestyle.
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by Jsaviour(f): 3:46pm On Feb 16, 2021
I need $150 fnf PayPal fund.
PoliticsRe: Buhari: We Borrow To Finance Budget Because Of Dwindling Revenues by Jsaviour(f): 3:20pm On Jan 22, 2021
The more they keep paying themselves millions and billions, the more they will borrow.

The more they keep embezzling, the more the need to borrow.

The more they include former governors and presidents in the payroll, the more we will keep borrowing.

This means Nigeria's problem is " high cost of governance" and "misappropriation of funds"

Buhari and co, keep stealing until there is nothing left for Nigerians.
PoliticsRe: Be Courageous To Handover Power To PDP In 2023 — Gov Wike Tells APC by Jsaviour(f): 2:28pm On Jan 07, 2021
Thunder fire both the PDD and APC. Useless animals who kept this nation like shit hole. May incurable sickness visit all of them and their families. After 60 years of independence, we don't have light, good road or hospital. All you guys do is to embezzle and wreck havoc. I repeat, thunder fire both WIKE, GEJ, BUHARI, TINUBU, EL-RUFAI, OBASANJO, ATIKU and so on.
PoliticsRe: NIN Holders To Pay N15,000 To Correct Date Of Birth, 5000 For Name, Address by Jsaviour(f): 2:17pm On Jan 07, 2021
Sai baba Buhari. 4+4+4 for baba Buhari. Country is on autopilot. No leader and no president to question this insanity. By the time Buhari's cluelessness is done with Nigeria, all the sai baba's will learn word. ��

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