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Pets › Re: Horse Escapes And Bumps Into People On Busy Northern Street by JuanDeDios: 4:01pm On Oct 07
BewareOf419:
The horse was later gun down when it couldn't be safety caught back
That's the only way. When a horse is running without someone on its back, you can't stop it.
Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 2:46pm On Oct 07
elevated2:
Good points. It could also be ADD which can be due to lack of love from one parent ( Not a proven thing though).
I think medical consultation should be considered my the fellow.
I also suggest deep mediation , physical exercising and herbs to help desk with some of the symptoms.
You think ADD is caused by a lack of parental love?
Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 2:44pm On Oct 07
Ogbon420:
I suffer from low self esteem before I discovered God. I will want you to try and discover God. If you know how much God loves you. You will not be talking down on yourself. Try to get a Christian book and begin to read it so that you can discover the power of God.
I would have expected you to mention specific books for him, not "get a Christian book".
Foreign Affairs › Re: Anojan Sivarasa Sentenced To Death Over Comment About Prophet Muhammad In Saudi by JuanDeDios: 2:36pm On Oct 07
Godfullsam:
The guy doesn't sound like someone fighting for any mohammed.

The truth of the matter is you don't play fire and still expect it not to burn you.
Saudi is an islamic country, you don't go there to criticise mohammed and expect to escape the penalty.

Even Nigeria that is a secular country (on paper), you don't go to the far north to f*CK with mohammed and go free
This was not a premeditated act of provocation. He was exchanging insults with a Muslim. Once he realized what he'd said, he deleted it and showed remorse. If you see nothing seriously wrong with his death sentence, something is wrong with you.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Anojan Sivarasa Sentenced To Death Over Comment About Prophet Muhammad In Saudi by JuanDeDios: 2:33pm On Oct 07
CodeTemplar:
Even though he repented and apologized about the reactionary comment that was fairly weighted against the provocation, they still gave him death sentence.

This is the liberal Saudi our leaders sponsor 60,000 pilgrims to yearly.
First thing that struck me.
Politics › Re: World Bank: Fuel Price To Slow Nigeria’s Poverty Reduction by JuanDeDios: 1:35pm On Oct 07
Racoon:
Same world bank that asked the druggie to devalue the naira and remove all the subsidies that can benefit the poor masses?

These economic slavery organization will goad poor third world countries to accept noose tightening economic policies then turn around to blame you when the ripple effects backfires.

Blame the wicked myopic African leaders who are always going cap-in-hand to these imperialist Brentwoods institutions. P
They're stating FACTS.

WB, today: Fuel subsidies are hampering Nigeria's macroeconomic development:
WB, tomorrow: High fuel prices hampering Nigeria's effort to reduce poverty.

Both are facts. If you choose to follow them foolishly, you're to blame.
Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 1:09pm On Oct 07
Sterope:
We shall have this discussion again when you are licensed, or when you have chosen to open your mind before then. Another tip for you: long before modern psychology and psychiatry had names and diagnostic criteria for these things, scholars and physicians were already observing and describing behaviours and symptoms that we would now associate with neurodivergence.

These things did not suddenly start existing when modern medicine gave them a name. You are welcome.

Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 1:07pm On Oct 07
skultrick:
Only people who have ADHD will truly understand everything you wrote....

Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 1:04pm On Oct 07
zenburster:
Someone who can't concentrate or focus on things is who you are telling to go read some phony book?

Did you even think before proffering that solution?

Are you okay?
ADHD typically does not stop someone from reading well. Sufferers are usually unable to focus in class when the teacher is teaching, but they generally do better with reading.
Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 12:55pm On Oct 07
LordIsaac:
When it comes to mental health issues, you can't self-diagnose as it can be a range of issues, including vitamin B12 deficiency and in the extreme, witchcraft!
grin
You can self-diagnose. You know why self-diagnosis is very reliable? Because only you truly know how you feel. You're right about "range of issue". That's why you must run necessary tests to rule out deficiencies and see an expert for a proper diagnosis to confirm what you suspect.
Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 12:50pm On Oct 07
FSBoperator:
That's another word for autism.
No.no no no. It's not. Some kids receive both diagnosis. Some receive one.
Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 12:48pm On Oct 07
FSBoperator:
That's the scam.

Psychiatry now has an autism spectrum diagnosis guide that even a normal 4 and 5 yr old displaying tantrums is diagnosed as autistics.

Don't fall for it.

BigJewishPharma in the US are making money by over diagnosing and misdiagnosing to get children to be placed on their poisonous medication.

This has seen the US to have the highest diagnosed cases of autism .

Only the US drugs their children in the name of mental health care which only benefits JewPharma.

Americans are the most over medicated people to ever exist .

They even have JewPharma advertising directly to them on TV programs 24/7.

Have you asked yourself why it's only the US, UK , Australia and New Zealand that is having an epidemic of autism ?

The answer is simply because JewPharma dictates medicine in these Jewish colonies.
I also have a problem with the medicalization or mental health issues. And I had mixed feelings when DSM 5 combined Asperger's and autism in a spectrum. But that doesn't change the fact that real sufferers exist. Even with DSM 5, the diagnostic criteria are still strict. It's not every tantrum.
Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 12:36pm On Oct 07
dgitrader:
You are not alone

There are hundreds of thousands of Nigerians with more of this defect.

However, it's a hopeless condition, you live with it like that. Religion, books, medication or therapist cannot change it. You live with it.

But you can be happy and have a fair life by deliberately....

Not giving a damn about anyone's thoughts and actions about you.

We are the apples that fell far away from the mother tree.
True. I think it's the day to day challenges that can get in the way of making a living that make it really the hard to accept. That's why the suicide rate is high among neurodivergent people.

In some countries, these problems are recognized and there's some assistance with university education and job placement and things like that. If you can eat and have decent shelter, if you can't make friends or form meaningful relationships, you accept it and live your life.
Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 12:33pm On Oct 07
psalmsjob:
What can anyone tell you since you are the patient and doctor of yourself.

The only thing i can tell you is that if a person has known his problem then that problem is half solved but taking your life to find peace as you say is self delusion there's no peace if you kill yourself. I personally do not say rest in peace to any suicide victim i usually heap curses on them because that is the most selfish thing to do so don't do that rather be yourself and let those who will not like you to not like you and live for those who like you just the way you are.

Stop trying to seek acceptance from people rather consider them like you that thry don't even know that they have issues too and therefore projecting their own worldviews on you.

And stop the self pity bro and enjoy your life that God gave you to the fullest.
Bolded is probably true. But stop heaping curses on them naa.
Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 12:31pm On Oct 07
LordIsaac:
The question remains who diagnosed him with ADHD in the first place!
You can self-diagose. No evil In that. You just need a professional to confirm it.
Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 12:28pm On Oct 07
FSBoperator:
You have a personality disorder and not a biologically induced state .

Yes, severe autism is biological due to brain hormone imbalance and chemistry we don't really understand but your case is just one of child hood trauma and shock.

Psychiatry is by far the fakest science out there with 90% of whatever bs papers and diagnosis being just made up bs.

You are presenting more of childhood trauma from the shock of losing your mum and material comfort you had .

What of your dad?

Normally, children raised by a single mother without a fatherly figure show this same behavioural traits .

It takes two to raise a child and a man's role is very vital especially for a male child.

Even in children raised in a two parent home but with, an absentee father who refuses to exert firm but loving guidance, also display such traits.

Autism by the way is the very opposite of what you are describing.

Autistic sufferers display extreme compulsive obsessive syndrome and can not multitask and have tunnel concentration which makes them have very good memories and recollection abilities.

The only problem is that they obsesses over trivial issues


I read of an autistic guy who could recall the weather forecast for every day back to when he was a child in the 70s.

Autists are also great at trivial problem solving which makes them extreme geniuses in maths, computer programming , chess and other abstract sciences.

You my friend are not autistic but rather suffering from childhood trauma.
Every autistic person is different.
Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 12:26pm On Oct 07
FSBoperator:
You have a personality disorder and not a biologically induced state .

Yes, severe autism is biological due to brain hormone imbalance and chemistry we don't really understand but your case is just one of child hood trauma and shock.

Psychiatry is by far the fakest science out there with 90% of whatever bs papers and diagnosis being just made up bs.

You are presenting more of childhood trauma from the shock of losing your mum and material comfort you had .

What of your dad?

Normally, children raised by a single mother without a fatherly figure show this same behavioural traits .

It takes two to raise a child and a man's role is very vital especially for a male child.

Even in children raised in a two parent home but with, an absentee father who refuses to exert firm but loving guidance, also display such traits.

Autism by the way is the very opposite of what you are describing.

Autistic sufferers display extreme compulsive obsessive syndrome and can not multitask and have tunnel concentration which makes them have very good memories and recollection abilities.

The only problem is that they obsesses over trivial issues


I read of an autistic guy who could recall the weather forecast for every day back to when he was a child in the 70s.

Autists are also great at trivial problem solving which makes them extreme geniuses in maths, computer programming , chess and other abstract sciences.

You my friend are not autistic but rather suffering from childhood trauma.
I think he's talking of ADHD, not autism. Trust me, both are real. I've seen them.
Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 12:23pm On Oct 07
imdivergent:
I think Ritalin improves the condition, try and visit any good psychiatrist to help you. Unfortunately many Nigerian psychiatrists are half baked, the last time I visited one he gave me antidepressants when I complained of Attention deficit disorder. That rubbish medication did nothing for me, doesnt help that ADHD/ADD drugs cannot be gotten OTC.
Most things are half baked in Nigeria. Doctors are almost always a waste of time. But he might have some luck with a therapist who specializes in it.
Health › Re: Omo ADHD Has Ruined My Life What’s The Cure ? by JuanDeDios: 12:21pm On Oct 07
Goodmarlian:
Since childhood I have always being a forgetful, hyperactive and talkative person, no matter how hard I tried to control this condition and worst of it is am a very disorganized and overly emotional person no matter how hard I try to control this weakness it was to no avail it seems that just who I am.

It has attracted so much criticism as a child that it destroyed my childhood because I lost my mom at the age of 7 she was our bread winner, so my family scattered up after her death so I went to live with my uncle and this condition really severed my relationship with my uncle's family because I was brought there to serve as a houseboy.

I couldn’t live up to expectation as a houseboy I was also losing money when I am sent to market, I always forget what I was sent to buy so the insult on me was on a daily basis.

I was a victim of verbal abuse for 3 years until it destroyed my self esteem totally, omo life has really being unfair to me I sometimes I regret being born into this cruel world.

The worst part of my life was my teenage years, I lacked self esteem and suffered severe inferiority complex. I was a totally withdrawn teenager I always compared myself to my peers and saw myself as shit, nobody understood me, not even my family, they were even my worst critics.

But all in all I believe I would have a better adulthood but that was a lie.

I am an adult now in my early 30s and experience and exposure has taught me a lot and I have improved my self esteem and feel a lot better about myself to some extent but I notice that those traits still persist. I am still a forgetful, talkative and restless person.

One day, I was scrolling through the TikTok pages and I discovered a video talking about the mental condition ADHD and it described my condition a 100 percent, that was the first time I knew I had a mental condition not normal.

It has affected my relationship with people.
The way I communicate and express myself was bad i have become a forced introvert and forced to stay alone because they wouldn’t like my personality.

I discovered it doesn’t have cure so I feel suicidal. I wish death could just take me soon so I can get some eternal peace I don’t even care about eternity or reincarnation I just wanna fade off into oblivion.
No cure. But therapy with a professional who works with ADHD can help.
Health › Re: Warning For Sex Lovers: Free Antiretroviral Drug & HIV Tests Are Hard To See Now by JuanDeDios: 12:17pm On Oct 07
ChildOfDoom:
Growing up, the awareness against HIV was high. With USAID and other NGOs involved in it, one could feel safe despite one's randy or promiscuous nature.

Agencies in hospitals in charge of the exercise were swift in attending to those who came for enquiries. Some of them moved to churches and companies to give sensitisation and free tests.

Now, little or no attention is given by international bodies to this ubiquitous disease, exposing the neglect of government to this critical problem over the years.

The new drug introduced to prevent AIDS for six months costs a huge sum of 75000 naira. The few free ones brought into Nigeria have been hijacked by a few.

I went to a General hospital to run 'free' routine HIV test (considering my intermittent philandering) and I was told i will now have to follow the general process of staying in line, purchasing hospital card and then wait for a doctor to recommend the test before the lab will attend to me. This wasn't so in the past.

I also hear of infected patients finding it hard to access the Antiretroviral drugs. Those of us who can't control our sexual urges and like to practise unsafe sex, are in trouble.
75k? I thought they said it's 300k?
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Russia: International Friendly (3 - 3) On 6th October 2026 by JuanDeDios: 2:44pm On Oct 06
Gentlelife50:
Russia don dey play again?
I think say dem dey under sanctions?
Well, thank God Ukraine doesn't bomb stadiums.
Education › Re: Fake Professorship: University Moves Against Kila, Removes Him From Website by JuanDeDios: 8:18am On Oct 06
enemyofprogress:
Mr Killer? Na which kind name be dat?
Kila. It's a shorted Yoruba name. I think Kilanko or some other thing.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Is Sending Spies To Defecate In The Toilets Of Finland’s Politicians by JuanDeDios: 8:15am On Oct 06
EdiskyHarry:
All these western propaganda self🤣🤣, I remember when they told us that idi amin used to eat humans, killed ugandans and store them in the fridge for consumption, they also told us how gadaffi subjected thousands of libyans to suffering and kill them everyday at will, and also how thousands of people are falling dead in North Korea due to hunger.If not for social media, wetin dem for tell us about Ibrahim troare 🤣🤣
Smh for you. Idi Amin and Gadafi killed people - that wasn't propaganda. People die of hunger in N Korea - no propaganda there. As for Traore, that's a matter for another day.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Is Sending Spies To Defecate In The Toilets Of Finland’s Politicians by JuanDeDios: 8:13am On Oct 06
Reference:
How can all these high ranking people not have better security systems including remote CCTV sensing to factualise these incidents.
I trust the Finns. They will address this going forward. They've always had the antidote to Russia's madness.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Is Sending Spies To Defecate In The Toilets Of Finland’s Politicians by JuanDeDios: 8:11am On Oct 06
Patriotic9ja:
Even those that couldn't impregnate their wives... Russia is the cause lol
Well, that's entirely possible. Russia secretly poisons people to make them ill. Russian citizens who get in the Kremlin's bad book either get pushed out of windows or poisoned.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Is Sending Spies To Defecate In The Toilets Of Finland’s Politicians by JuanDeDios: 8:07am On Oct 06
BlackViper:
●Putin’s dirty tricks reach Finnish lavatories

●Russian spies accused of leaving faeces in homes of politicians to intimidate them




https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2026/10/05/kremlins-dirty-tricks-reach-finnish-mps-lavatories/
Russia plays in the gutters. Always their modus. The Europeans refuse to learn. But I trust the Finns – they know how to deal with Russians.
Politics › Re: Baba Alado: Rise, Power And Controversies Of Mushin ‘strongman’ by JuanDeDios: 12:50pm On Oct 05
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 20k Monthly Salary: Farm Owner Receives Backlash From Nigerians (Pics) by JuanDeDios: 11:17am On Oct 05
Blunt99:
If it is a very small pen as you mentioned, he/she wouldn't need a worker.
He would if he has a full time job. Note he wants someone that will be going there in the mornings. That means he goes to work there in the evenings after closing from work.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 20k Monthly Salary: Farm Owner Receives Backlash From Nigerians (Pics) by JuanDeDios: 10:34pm On Oct 04
OriOko88:
Why are they surprised. Some filling station and pos centres still pay their workers 20k. I know two young girls earning that amount per month. Nigeria is a jungle. People just do wat they like. No regulations atal.
Filling station and POS work require, maybe 8-10 hours of work every day. 20k is a terrible pay for that.

If this here is a startup farm with a small pen having 2 or 3 pigs, he'll be working 30 mins or so every day. Huge difference. The key to knowing whether this farmer is being fair or not is to know how many pigs he has.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 20k Monthly Salary: Farm Owner Receives Backlash From Nigerians (Pics) by JuanDeDios: 10:29pm On Oct 04
richmond500:
while it depends on the number of pig, I'll always choose cleaning a pig pen over a goat or chicken coop.

It's among the easiest farm animals to clean.
20k is not bad, but still depends on the numbers of pig

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 20k Monthly Salary: Farm Owner Receives Backlash From Nigerians (Pics) by JuanDeDios: 10:27pm On Oct 04
Rapmoney:
The salary is too poor. It won't even be enough to feed the worker for a week. The employee might even sell off the pigs and run away with the money.
Context. How many pigs are there? How many pens? If it's small outfit starting with just one pen and two pigs, there's no way he can pay more than that. Whoever takes the job will work there for 30-50min every morning before going on this other hustles.
Politics › Re: Atiku & Obi must get the Governor's approval before coming to Edo - Tenebe by JuanDeDios: 3:25pm On Oct 04
Richtaiwo:
To be forewarned is to be forearmed.

If you enter a state without notifying its Chief Security Officer, don’t expect him to take responsibility for consequences arising from your deliberate disregard of protocol.

Following laid-down procedures costs nothing. But if you prefer social-media rats cheering your recklessness, by all means, ignore the authorities and proceed.
This is nonsense. Which laid down procedure? As PEPs, and given the state of security, I'd expect them to inform the police.

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