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Good morning all. Pls, I need some1 2 help me with servant Vic's MTN number ASAp. I have his GLO but I don't have a GLO line so its very difficult talking with him 4 as long as I would really like. I intend 2 be a part of this month's deliverance session. I'm not conversant with Sango Ota @ all o. In fact I would be coming all the way from Benue State n I have a seven month old baby. Any idea on where we can lodge that would be affordable n comfortable?can some1 pls post d Hotel name n price range n location 4 me? I need 2 start preparing 2wards it, pls. I await d MTN number n hotel information, pls. Thanks.

@MrbrownJay, are u a christain who believes in the bible? Can u really do what u advise this op 2 do? Do u believe in seed time and harvest time? Do u know what the bible says about a man who cannot provide 4 his family? I am so pissed @ ur posts! The bible says a 'man who cannot provide 4 his family is worse than an infidel' This op is totally wrong and shouldn't be encouraged 2 continue with his wicked acts any further. @ op, u will certainly reap what u sow! U can't reap what u did not sow. Whoever supports what u have/still doing is only misleading u and will not be there when u pay 4 it.

MamaT, cjnone has said it all. All marriages have issues. Maybe if I tell u what I'm going through now, u would quickly wipe ur face, jump on ur feet N begin 2 praise God. Its a phase and it will pass soon. Cast ur worries upon the Lord and He will see u through. It is well!

Just like Biolabee said, ur hubby seem 2 be the major problem here. Abeg, when next u are watching your preferred channel and he begins 2 complain, just pretend like u are deaf. I'm sure, after a while, he would get the message u are trying 2 pass across. Pls, address this issue now, else, if u have any of your relatives visiting, he would behave towards them the same way he does towards u. Give him enough space, such that when he gists, don't respond unless he's talking directly 2 u.

@ firsttimer, this is actually more serious than I thought o! How can he say ask if u are drunk? What kind of silly joke was that? What was your response? I think this guy does not deserve any kind of respect from u @ all. Pls, from now on, make him understand in whichever way possible, that u are the madam of the house and as long as u are home, everyone, except ur hubby watches any channel u tune into. He really has guts and very disrespectful too. U don't even need 2 report him 2 ur hubby any more. Show ur BIL that it is ur home and u run it in the manner that suits u. If he disrespects u, do the same to him, let's see who gets more offended.

Pls, what are the other issues u have with him? Did he @ any point ask u out behind d brother's back? Don't u think its because of these other issues that u are being 'rigid' 2wards him? Can u tell us those things so we can advice properly? Maybe u should just relax with him a little bit and see how it goes. It could be that the guy feels u should be the one respecting him since u said he's older than u are.

@ Moyinoluwa83, pls tell your cousin 2 stay put in that marriage and ask God 2 bless them. Smoking and drinking is serious addiction that requires the grace of God 2 come out from. Where is she leaving to @ this age and after four years of marriage? Does she have someone on standby 2get her pregnant when she leaves? How is she sure she would get pregnant immediately by another guy? If she got pregnant before by the same man after he abstained 4 2 months, let her encourage him 2 abstain again 4 some time 4 the miracle 2 take place while she prays about it and expect a miracle from God for total change. The devil is just trying 2 frustrate her. God has the final say not any doctor!

@ Jade, thanks a lot. I will go get the tribotan cream u suggested . I think I would consider getting cheaper diapers 4 now until d poo gets 2 d normal once in a day poo. I feed my baby rice cereal (cerelac). Don't know if this has anything 2do with d poo, though I started introducing that not too long ago as advised by some1 so she doesn't end up refusing it when she's six months old. Its d foreign one (made in spain). Pls, can u tell me if this has any negative effect on children? Somebody was saying its better 2feed them the Naija cereal but I really don't know if its true.

@ all, my baby is 5months old and she poos 4 to 5 times daily on d average. I know its not normal but don't know what 2 do as d poo is not watery (she's not purging). I buy a pack of huggies and the maximum it lasts is about 2weeks as I have 2 change her like 4 to 5 times, though most times the poo is usually very little after the early morning one. I spend an average of 8 thousand naira on Huggies every month o! Pls help me with suggestions as to what to do.

@ Jade William, pls how do u use d Sebamed soap on the affected area? Do u just use it 2 bath or u apply after bath 2 the affected area? I need 2know because my 5month old girl has some rashes on her private. It doesn't cause her any discomfort but I just hate 2 see it whenever I'm changing her diaper. I have used Seudo Crem without result. Thanks.

@ Mouthcuffed, everything u said is a big deal. I can see ur wife is in 4 serious trouble as u are not even ready 2change anything ur doing. A husband is different from a son. Pls get that! U can never be ur mum's husband, period! What happened 2 calling u during the day 2give u bible passages? If ur wife's mum or dad was calling her very frequetly in d middle of d night, how would u feel? How selfish can people get these days self!

@ Babz temmy, I think only prayers can help u. The question is: does ur MIL like u enough 2 relate with u like a daughter? U can only draw close 2her if she trully likes u.

Let me share a story with u: We got married a day apart with my husband's cousin and almost immediately, the wife conceived. She delivered and I evn went over 2 spend some time with them. Maybe what gave me a speedy miracle was the fact that I was sincerely happy 4 them. Its a very long story but the high point of the story is: Gods time is the best. Never envy any one as u don't know what battles they are fighting. The couple was travelling and had a fatal accident and lost their baby instantly, lost the wife's sis, the wife had her 2legs broken. It was disasterous as they didn't know hw 2tel her abt her sis and baby. Now, they are starting all over again with the pain of loosing a child in that manner. Every delay is a blessing in disguise. Yes, pple might have gone ahead of u but remember, ur destiny isn't the same with theirs!

@ all, I wouldn't want 2 bore u with my story but I'm so confident that the Lord who did 4 me and Iam now a mother of a very beautiful baby would do it 4 u. My case seemed an impossible one because my husband and I were not staying 2gether right after our wedding. All the times I had false pregnancy symptoms, they never turned out positive until I took my mind off AF completely. The month I tested positive was when I never expected. In fact, I already bought my pad and was awaiting d arrival of AF. Waited and waited without anxiety o! Kept waiting that it would definitely come. Tested after one month of waiting and it came out positive. Pls note that all this period of waiting that turned positive, there was no symptom @ all except 4 frequent urination which I didn't even take note of until one of my colleagues jokingly talked abt it. Pls, I think anxiety is what gives u all those false symtoms.

@ Marriedbtlonely, cast ur worries upon d Lord 4 He alone knows d end from d beginning. He's never too early nor too late, He's always on time. He doesn't need 2 consult ur past 2 bless u and He equally doesn't need 2 dialogue with ur husband b4 giving u another child if its d right time. Just continue 2 have faith in Him regardless of d situation u find urself in. He is too faithful 2 fail. Belive me when I say, everyone married is fighting one battle or d other and d reason is because d devil doesn't like anything good. Ur husband is a gift 2 u from God and reMember, He doesn't add sorrow 2 His gifts. It is only a matter of time and ur waiting period would be over 4 good. My dear, initiate sex if he doesn't and see if he would turn u down. The Lord will change ur story soon!

For those saying she brought shame 2 the man, didn't she equally bring shame on herself and family members? Do u think any1 in her right senses would do a thing like that? Whatever manifests in the physical must have been settled in the spirit.

@ Modalayo, this is what u requested 4 in your last post: 0haecc0idgi. Hope u understand it. All the best.