This is too much for me. I dont want to cheat. Sometimes it is not easy. Guess you have been there before. People blame others because of one reason or the other. Imagine a faithful wife suffering with kids not knowing where the next meal would come from. Just imagine her thinking about taking care of the kids. Sometimes the food they will eat,the clothes they would wear ,school fees and more like if the children are sick. When she decide to go extreme probably cheating on her husband to help raise the money needed ,some holier than thou will start talking trash. People who refused to assist you automatically become a critic. Married women,it is not easy. Prayers are good .
We the married women understand what we go through. Someone should keep me in prayers. Believe it or not, no married woman really wants to cheat. Sometimes we do the extreme because we want our family better* please help someone if you can . cheating might not be the best option. But what op do people give*Don't blame every you see

[quote author=Stephen0mozzy post=108700780]A better extreme is to put pride aside and do something to bring money. Not shamelessly hawking one's body to feed.

Look for something to do and damn what people will say[/quo
Just that my sewing machine spoil

Truvelisback:
1.How many kids do u have?
2. Do u have a job?
3. Does ur husband have a job?

1. 2 kids
2. Yes. Tailoring but my machine is bad
3. Not yet. Searching for. Pls do u have to give him?

This is too much for me. I dont want to cheat. Sometimes it is not easy. Guess you have been there before. People blame others because of one reason or the other. Imagine a faithful wife suffering with kids not knowing where the next meal would come from. Just imagine her thinking about taking care of the kids. Sometimes the food they will eat,the clothes they would wear ,school fees and more like if the children are sick. When she decide to go extreme probably cheating on her husband to help raise the money needed ,some holier than thou will start talking trash. People who refused to assist you automatically become a critic. Married women,it is not easy. Prayers are good .
We the married women understand what we go through. Someone should keep me in prayers. Believe it or not, no married woman really wants to cheat. Sometimes we do the extreme because we want our family better* please help someone if you can . cheating might not be the best option. But what op do people give*Don't blame every you see. Sometimes it is not their fault.

JONSYN7154:
wait o. How am I sure its not a male that's behind this moniker?

I just saw this. I am not surprised because a lot of people have made others to see others as liars. I stay at upper sakponba in Benin. I can't post anything here because of my above message. I will send you a mail and pictures. If you can't or you won't . thanks so much for even wanting to help. I am working with my Friend's machine for now because I have a lot of clothes to sew. Thanks once again

JONSYN7154:
Expect something.

Thank you so much sir. God bless you sir

JONSYN7154:
no account name?

Chioma Okafor

Drella:
God please bless me so I can be helping people.
It pains me to so someone in need and I can't help.

Because you have a heart to give, your blessings shall know no bound

enilola5:

Pls put your account name.

Chioma Okafor. Thank you so much. God bless you. I can't repay you,But only God will and He will bless you abundantly

JONSYN7154:
Where is your location? And how much will it Take to repair it??

Benin City . 18,500. Thank you so much. God bless you richly. You will always have more than enough in Jesus Name
2216328387 Zenith

Benin city . 18,500... Thank you and God bless you richly sir

I sew clothes but my sewing machine got spoilt this December. My husband lost his job 5 months back. I need a new sewing machine or repair the one I have now. I would like anyone to assist. I am a married woman with two kids. My husband doesn't have much. If you can help ,pls send me email. I can't put my account number here because my husband is also a nairalander. Pls help

I sew clothes but my sewing machine got spoilt this December. My husband lost his job 5 months back. I need a new sewing machine or repair the one I have now. I would like anyone to assist. I am a married woman with two kids. My husband doesn't have much. If you can help ,pls send me email. I can't put my account number here because my husband is also a nairalander. Pls help

Before I begin, may I pray this two prayers for you. Firstly, "May the food u did not eat not be seen on your lips". Secondly, may the devil or enemy not use your weakness against you.
My younger brother is an extrovert. He plays with children, teenagers and adults. He is very humble to the core. Everyone can attest to this. He is a teacher in a reputable school. While discussing with him, he said every boy must be very careful in dealing with teenagers,especially the one's that is getting mature from age 13 and above. While he school,he observed
1. These teenagers are not contented. They can do anything to have a phone
2.These teenagers from 13-16 are already in a relationship and their parents are not aware
3. These teenagers plays with you as if they are babies,they can hold you close in a certain manner that u will think they want to sleep with you
4. Some of them are already sexually active.
5. They don't listen to advice. The only way they will even listen a little is if they see the teacher as their friends.
6. if you discipline these teenagers,they will grow from bad to worse
one of them ran away from the house,she was missing for two weeks,she was with a boy until they found her
please parents in this group,if you have a child who is between this age,monitor them. whether he is a boy or a girl monitor them.
To avoid rape accusations,one must do all your things in public. Don't go to private by saying you can control yourself. The devil can use anybody. Besides if u can control yourself doesn't mean that the other person can control his or herself. Be wise. Let all your friendship be in public

Before I begin, may I pray this two prayers for you. Firstly, "May the food u did not eat not be seen on your lips". Secondly, may the devil or enemy not use your weakness against you.
My younger brother is an extrovert. He plays with children, teenagers and adults. He is very humble to the core. Everyone can attest to this. He is a teacher in a reputable school. While discussing with him, he said every boy must be very careful in dealing with teenagers,especially the one's that is getting mature from age 13 and above. While he school,he observed
1. These teenagers are not contented. They can do anything to have a phone
2.These teenagers from 13-16 are already in a relationship and their parents are not aware
3. These teenagers plays with you as if they are babies,they can hold you close in a certain manner that u will think they want to sleep with you
4. Some of them are already sexually active.
5. They don't listen to advice. The only way they will even listen a little is if they see the teacher as their friends.
6. if you discipline these teenagers,they will grow from bad to worse
one of them ran away from the house,she was missing for two weeks,she was with a boy until they found her
please parents in this group,if you have a child who is between this age,monitor them. whether he is a boy or a girl monitor them.
To avoid rape accusations,one must do all your things in public. Don't go to private by saying you can control yourself. The devil can use anybody. Besides if u can control yourself doesn't mean that the other person can control his or herself. Be wise. Let all your friendship be in public

please guys tell us why you don't want to marry. tell us we women what we can do to make you guys want to marry. not all of us women want u to be rich before u marry. we want to start life with you but u are only after sex and pleasures. this question is for only sincere guys.
MOST OF YOU GUYS HERE ARE NOT BEING SPECIFIC WITH YOUR ANSWERS
A LOT OF LADIES WANTS TO GET MARRIED BUT U
U CAN START BY TELLING US WHAT IS STOPPING U FROM GETTING MARRIED
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how do you reply

Thanks for the advice but to be sincere the girl is loyal. Everyone can attest to her good character
Still confused

believe it or not, this is true and happening.
my brother called and told what he saw in his girlfriend phone. he has been dating this girl for sometime now. she is a good girl
she is not materialistic. she doesn't even care about the guys money. two days ago, something happened. he secretly took the girl's phone to check her chats. on one of the cha , he saw the girl was always referring to a boy as "my baby". The guy calls her my love. before this time,she has spoken to the guy in his presence and she told my brother that the boy is her brother. is it possible that they are siblings?

that is it. I am one of the best staff. everyone knows. even clients do testify that I am pretty good in my job. but lateness is my weakness. some times, client wait for me to attend to them when am not around on tim

I work in an organization and I am one of the best staff there. I am so committed but I have a weakness. I usually go late to work. Sometimes, it is intentional and sometimes it is not. every other staff took notice of it. recently, I was made the of those that check on people who come late. I hold the office sign book. for quite sometime now, I have started cultivating going to work on time because as a leader or head, I don't want to be found wanting.
Yesterday, my co staff said she was really surprised because they know lateness is normal to m. i now go early to work
it is like giving your money to the thief in the house to hold for you. that money cannot be stolen
have you ever had this experience, please share yours

I work in an organization and I am one of the best staff there. I am so committed but I have a weakness. I usually go late to work. Sometimes, it is intentional and sometimes it is not. every other staff took notice of it. recently, I was made the of those that check on people who come late. I hold the office sign book. for quite sometime now, I have started cultivating going to work on time because as a leader or head, I don't want to be found wanting.
Yesterday, my co staff said she was really surprised because they know lateness is normal to m. i now go early to work
it is like giving your money to the thief in the house to hold for you. that money cannot be stolen
have you ever had this experience, please share yours

Severally people have come only to ask about who they are about entering relationship with. they can even ask for advice in order to know the right way to go. someone recently came to ask me about a close friend to me, and I couldn't tell her the truth about the guy because the guy is close to me. I would have also love to tell her but what if she reveals my addvise to her. the so called guy my friend. the girl is also my friend. the guy said he wants to eat and run. but I really want to tell her but I can't because she might leak it later. so I sent another close friend of hers to her to warn her but she refused to listen. she is a good girl.


what should one do if you know your friend is about entering the wrong relationship? what if she ask for your advice. would you prefer to tell her the bitter truth?

can't forget a time when a secondary school teacher to flog me because he thought he saw me with other kids insulting him the previous day.

fghh

thjjjj

Gone are the days when we women and girls refuse to voice our opinions and feelings because we are afraid the men may want to end the married or break up with us . I was listening to a radio station yesterday in Edo state. and this was the topic. Only ladies and girls were allowed to call and comment. one of the ladies that called said there was a day she was trying to lay are head on her husband's lap. Her husband refused and said they are no longer in for that. They have been married for years now. Another one said that her husband no longer comment on her beauty especially when she make a new hair. Another one said that her husband is not romantic and that she has told him although he pays the bills. Another said that some husband and boys are very dirty. Some husband's can put on boxers for days without washing, unshaved armpit, including the main place. Some husbands and boys mouth have odour like. They don't brush properly and they expect their wives or boyfriend to kiss them. They can pick offence when you continually tell them to brush.
A girl called and said some guys will want to know you at the beginning of a relationship but they will start asking things about your sister,as if your sister is the one they are going to date. Even if a husband wants his d to be sucked, he must be neat.

For we women and girls only.
What does your husband or boyfriend do that turns you off?

Men can only learn from us if we speak our mind.

I will start by sharing my experience. My husband is a very good man but he has his flaws. one of the flaws is that my husband can know that you are cooking, he will still send you two messages. he can make you do different things. when you are tired and he is back from work. he will be sending you do things knowing that you may be tired. Another thing is he does play with me that much because he is always serious on things he does. He is still the best husband. No man or woman is perfect

Something that can fetch quick money or bring in income every day. Please someone Should help

majamajic:



Listen I do not stop u from sending him money ,

But some are taking advantage of this period to ripe off others , this guy has like 3 different monikers begging money with different stories and issues , all of them new.
But nothing stops u from sending him oooo
Am just trying save the innocent givers from giving the wrong person.
This period we all need money , but should we all turn to beggers , of course no ! One guy here was using pics of a family to beg as his current condition, until one guy burst him , meanwhile this same picture has been online since 5yrs ago. If u really hungry , u will beg with your real moniker , if u have shame to go get a new 3 or 4 different monikers to beg , it's scam ! If u beg for 10k and u get it don't come again next week for 20k , it's wickedness !

Have you ever imagine if the op is saying the true? The best and the worst place to be is on nairaland where we have mixture of different people. I created a story about my life and people started saying it was fake. I had to check comments to pick advise from people. Because so many irrelevant reactions. I still believe there are good advisers on nairaland because my husband has been transformed after that advice. I will say the testimony here someday. But some fellows will say it is fake. I will always give people the benefit of doubt

Things are no longer what it seems. It just looks this lockdown have a long way to go. My husband and I have been eating from our savings and now I fear we might start eating our capital very soon if this lockdown is not over as soon as possible. My husband usually send money for upkeep to his mother every month. But now, he had to reduce the upkeep. Even up to feeding,we had to cut down expenses.
What business can one do this period ?
Something you can easily get profit

majamajic:


He had another new moniker , he used to beg last month during lockdown , now he comes with a new moniker, to beg house rent . Seems he is enjoying the begging , opening new new moniker to beg . He used to be justin559

Some people just use themselves to judge others. For instance, before this lockdown started,my husband and I were always shopping at least twice in a month. We had alot to spare. But now it is two months plus, I have started reducing the rate of eating at home. My husband is a not a a man who will go and spend all his money outside on women. But presently things are not the way it used to. I am married for two years now with a child. It is not easy this period. The op case might have increase. The op might really be suffering. You can't tell what he/she might be going through. Life is in stages,we are all in phases. My prayer is God blessed me so that I can be a blessing to others.