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agarawu23:
so why are you telling us ?
How can we help you ?
Mitchew

Modified: OK the thread is now in business section, but I still have nothing to say.

I tire oh... Na new thing to be honest. E even make front page sef.

Mumuuu:
Am currently walking on my street right now, but something is confuse me as am i wright now, am see a lady with flat chest and a guy with big boobs walking almost closed to eachorder, please winch ones of them is a boy and winch ones is a girl ? Am verily confuse wright noun, thank you.

You are a fool.

01emek:
Any time i see girl imbec'lie my thing go come dey raise. Pls advice me

You don't need advise cos u don't have a problem. They are humans just like you,so you can go ahead and date one. They will not tough time and they are not demanding very easy and no one will snatch her from you...m

seunfunmi33:
I have a girlfriend have dated for 5 years. Am the very sexually active type but I don't make love to her often because I want to keep her in good shape till l when we will get married. So I do visit brothel to satisfy my sexual desire which she is unaware of because of the little distance between us.
I decided to stop patronizing prostitutes and have an extra tyre (gf). So I got one living in my street. The new gf did not disturb my relationship with my long time gf. She loves sex more than food and am happy I met my type. I started having issues with my main gf and broke up with her to stay with someone that lives in my street and ready to give me sex daily.
She always want it raw saying she is under medication. But she got pregnant 6 months into our relationship. My family forced me to accept the pregnancy and marry her because am the only child of my parent.
She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy last 2 months and I have never made attempt to make love to her. Though she is doing well in her business and doesn't disturb me financially but she keeps deleting her calls and chats which am not comfortable with. Though she has got good character but am afraid she will cheat on me because of her love for sex.
Nairalanders pls help me out so I won't regret this decision I was forced to take

She is ur wife and you haven't caught her cheating on you. So give her the benefit of the doubt.

boombay:
I went to Italy last week to see my girlfriend...
I didn't realize I sat beside Tania omotayo in the plane!!
wizkid"s girlfriend.......
we chatted for very few minutes and she collected my contacts..
the next day she called that she's bored in her apartment in Rome here in Italy.... I went to her apartment and we went out on a date...
she was so into me that she tried to kiss me.. we kissed and she told me that she wants to dump wizkid for me...I was so stunned!
I told her not to try it that the press media will carru the news and it will affect my relationship...
she ran back home crying... I heard through instagram that wizkid came to Italy two days after the incident...
now wizkid know all what his happening BTW omotayo tania and i..
now he is threatening to kill me,..
please what should I do??

Na that small pikin " wizkid " dey threaten you?

Solomon19:
Hey this lady thinks i feel for her...LOOL..i chat in white and she chat in blue...

Which kind stupid thread be this wan.

Nature8:
Do you agree that "NOWADAYS, a person who is capable of unplugging your phone at 3% to charge his phone at 97% is capable of killing' you for real?"


Share your thoughts..

Kill you and rob your grave.

jumper524:
I was sitting under the tree today when this beautiful girl walk up to me and invited me to her church service on sunday.
She was so beautiful that i couldn't tell her anything beside yes i would come.
So guys have u ever been to church because a girl invited you?

Any guy that didn't do that is not yet a teenager.

Love is sweet when they (Naija babes) are with the rich person.

bilulu:
I'll go straight to d point. Am currently dating dis gurls who I once asked out back den in school. I asked her out wen I was in HND1 while she was in ND2. (she's in her finals now). Before I asked her out we were very gud n close frnds so I felt I should ask her out cuz she's kinda decent n cool. But d moment I voiced it out I got d embarrassment of my life. She so insulted n embarrassed me in front of her roomies. From dat moment we stopped talking till wen I visited home for Christmas last year December. We met n during d discussion she learnt dat am in Abuja now tho am not working yet. So I brought back d old issue and it didn't take weeks before she accepted.
The issue now is am confused cuz I don't no if she truly luv me or she decided to accept me cuz of frustration. Pls ur opinion is highly welcome. thanks

Lol... Accept you because of frustration! That's funny.

Anyway u got to be careful. If she embarrased you the first time, chances are now she has a reason for accepting you and its not love. Just try to figure out why before you commit urself emotionally.

mrfree:
My Dear Nairalanders,

Please help me, am confused I want to know what it means, because she started the chat and requested for my pictures.

Thanks as you comment.

It means she wants to show it to her family and friends or babalawo.

scantee:
bro believe me i am really hurt right now, i am not siding her, i am only seeking for a way out nt to make mistake that will backfire...

I know how you feel bro... But its better to feel this way once and for all. So dump her now feel the heartbreak and move on. Otherwise u will mess up ur life and ur future and eventually divorce.... Trust me most of these girls forming decent are worse than hoes.... Be wise bro.

scantee:
bro the guy is not her ex, is her gf brother, though she is older that guy but the guy has huge body structure that u will not believe, my problem is nt really about the guy spending 2 weeks in her room since i believe in trust, bt the fact she never told me about it until i found out myself, i would'nt mind paying for a guest for 2weeks 4 d guy, bt she believe she dnt want me to get upset that was why she never told me abt it. The funiest part is sharing same bed 2geday when i asked her why so? Her defence was weak, that is raining season she can't the guy to sleep on the floor, niether can she. I told her why not beg ur lodge mate guys to allow the guy be sleeping there while he eats and bath in ur house, she don't want to inconvience anybody.

you seem to be making excuses for her. But the decision is ur though. But I think a decent will not share her bed with any male who isn't her man. I hate to see ladies using us men. But u need to make up ur mind urself.

scantee:
i really do appreciate ur input, we had misunderstanding sometime last year i called of the r/ship, guess what? SHE FAINTED AND PASS OUT WE RUSHED HER TO THE HOSPITAL FOR TWO DAYS SHE WAS IN COMA, the Dr warned we should avoid anyting that we make her think deep or angered that she has fregile heart, and is fond of crying and fainting anytine i threaned to quit the r/ship, her mum has been the one controling her heart if i may put it that way.

If she like let her collapse and wake up under truck and Oshodi. Call it off. She was pretending.

scantee:
no bro i live in naija here, i work offshore mostly thats why i am always in such condition, believe me everybody that knows the gal confess she of gud character, both families is involve in our plans, the only problem i have with her is only thsese two occations i mentioned above, evry other things is perfect for nw

If she ignores your calls for any reason other than she is about to die, then she is not a gud girl. She should know that you work offshore hence you naturally would be insecure so she has to always pick ur calls. And when ur fiance tells you that she had her ex or whoever it is spend 2 weeks in her room, dude u shouldn't even be seeking advise... Guy u dey craze? Abi you be yoruba boy? Bro wisen up oh.


I had a friend in the university, a very close friend and she was in a relationship with a guy who lives in lagos and we were schooling in delta state. She had issues with her boyfriend and he travelled down from lagos to see her, they resolved the issue,yet at night she let her boyfriend sleep in her room while she went to the next vacant room that had not been rented to sleep. She spent her night on the bare floor in an uncompleted room. And she was a virgin and 27yrs. That's a gud girl. Not a girl that let's her ex sleep in the same bed with her for 2 week when she is already engaged to another man. Bro unless you want to quit ur offshore job after u get married dump that chick o.... These are signs don't ignore them. You will feel heartbroken but trust me its o.k and it will only be for a while. Unless...hmmmnn. You may find urself raising another man's child or die of heart attack.


A wink is enuff for the wise.






Marry that girl, the kind slap wen I go give ehn?

Do you need a prophet? Stop this distance relationship, it never works. Date someone you can see daily or weekly not someone you can't see in 5months. Sorry to say bro you have been a source of steady income for her and I think she is done with you. Look for a lady around you with similar interests and goals... You live in nertherlands and ur dating a lady in her early 20s in a Nigerian University and spending on her..... Hahahaha.... Sometimes I wish am a pretty lady..




Bro you are a Maga. You better move on.

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cuvox:
I don't just know who installed this mentality that a guy has to love the girl more than she loves him in a relationship. it's really making love so hectic and suffocating for guys.

Just yesterday i was at a friend's house discussing, and he started telling me of his past relationship and why he broke up after 3 years of dating this girl.

He started preparing for the girl's birthday a month before it came, Designed her photos, videos and other great lovely gifts in his way of celebrating her.

But when it was his birthday, Na facebook notification remind de girl.


E dey fair?

Aside that, She's would not really reciprocate his affection, gifts, and she hardly feels remorseful for doing what's wrong, leaving the capacity to make everything work to the guy.

After some time, He was emotional stressed, mentally too, Couldn't take any longer cos she was also proud of her wrongs, and now making it look as if the guy can't leave her, So he had to opt out.

These things happens daily, I've had my Share of it in the past.


If there's anything an average Nigerian girl fears, its a 50:50 relationship. I can remember a girl ran away from me cos I said I do 50:50, she said its not possible.


Guys, Show a woman love, if she doesn't reciprocate, My brother leave her no matter how much she claims to love you.


You use a girl's photo for DP, then you beg her to use yours? Mehn what kind of manipulation is that?

You call her sweet names, but you beg her to call you at least 'Dear'


When you're wrong, you apologise, when she's wrong, she takes more offence then manipulates you to feel guilty of her sins, so you're pushed to apologise when she's wrong, That's imprisonment!!!


The funny thing about it, is that you'll keep doing these things, being the fool, cos you read somewhere that to make your relationship work, you must let go of your ego and value the relationship.


Relationships that worth sacrifice, are relationships where our significant other values us and love us correspondingly.


My brother, love is like an investment, If you're putting in Your effort, and there's no tangible response from the other end, it is a bad investment, my brother change business.


It is better not to know a person than to know them and feel like you don't exist. If you're not treated special in your relationship, then you're not regarded as being valuable. Simply put, Your worth is not known.

And truly you can't be properly loved when your worth is unknown.

When your purpose is unknown, you can't be properly managed, And mismanagement brings about abuse.

Don't jump fence for someone who can't cross gutter for you..

If she's wrong and refuses to apologise, my brother take offence and walk away..

What's the essence of loving a person without feeling when you've wronged them?

Some people are in a relationship but still there's no division of labor, and when there's no division of labour, The load becomes much on the person.
The load of calling them sweet names, showing affection, spending money, and etc, if its not divided, it'll crush you down.

Run for your life bro.

The greatest level of mental and emotional abuse is being in a relationship, giving out the best of you, and receiving little of none of them..

Don't ever place value on an abusive relationship.
When it comes to issues like this, Value your ego first.

When you see girls who say a guy must love a Lady more, run from them, They'll kill you. The more you show them love, the less you'll get it from them..

Let me just add, When two people are really in love, they'll be no such thing as who's to love more. Cos love knows no quantity, When you truly love, you can't limit it, You just love.

After reading this, I'll like to hear testimonies jare. Its not easy being imprisoned for years, some of you up to 5years, some up to 3years. Be free in Jesus name.


Amen.

Solomon Franklin Buchi Bartholomew

U have sense

jephri:
Lol, guy u wicked o

I dey tell u

jornie:
Here's your trophy sir! Undisputed world Champ

That's not even Gold.

nd07:
Sorry 2 say that ds comment is coming from a dead conscience. u need d resurrection power of Jesus

You need to the resurrection of ur dead brain.

rasojie:
I am in my early early twenties. Heavily built but not 'fat'
cc lalasticlala

Ur skeleton determines ur weight. If ur more than 6ft u should weigh around that,but if ur less tha 6ft it should be lesser. But in all that weight is still to much for a person in his 20s living around wire road.

Olucheye:


In The Next 5Years, I'd Have Multiple Entry Visa to any country in the world. 15years, Enough to buy citizenship of any country.

U didn't answer the question.

KhaleesiAdaz:
So far he has not had any accidents, driving is more of smartness and carefulness. Don't we have people with strong Abakaliki yam legs involved in accidents? Abeg God bless his hussle

Until he has an accident and its all over Nairaland. Driving is nothing to do with smartness or carefullness. Even the most carefull and smart drivers find themselves in tough traffic situation where they have to use every muscle in there body to avert an accident. In that situation you need a complete driver behind the wheels. Let's stop being sentimental and pityfull and start putting security first. That guy should not be driving.

Lilimax:
The fact is that he knows the rudiments of driving.
Whether commercial or private, both requires the same caution and safety measures.

The weight of a loaded danfo is different from the weight of a prado.
Commercial driving is more tedious and stressfull than private driving.

If you have ever driven a vehicle you will know that sometimes you have to use every muscle in ur body including your legs to avoid an accident. Let's not be sentimental, there are other things he can do instead of putting people's lives at risk.

Lilimax:
I have a town's man that is crippled and still drives.
His name is Ngwulor
...very wealthy; he has a customized Prado SUV that he drives with his hands

That's private driving. This is commercial.

Oildichotomy:
[size=15pt]Over busybodies will come ranting about safety measures.. watch out! Will you prefer he beg you for money?
I respect the dude!. There is ability in disability[/size]

Are you so dumb? He is putting people's lives at risk. There are other things he can do... Ode.