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Awwwww......dis is so beautiful.

For friendship or for rituals

Seconded.

temmytayur: U really do not need a time table, eat normally and take Trevo as supplement den u r gud to go.

Pls what is trevo and how do I get it.

Why dis rain dey do me strong tin naaaa

I can remember when I was growing up, my mum use to tell me how my dad always beat her. Then we were in one of this yoruba states. My mum was actually teaching in a sch then so when they transferred my dad(he's a policeman) to lagos, he told my mum that he would help her secure another job which he never did. When we moved to lagos, he told my mum to forget about the job that he wants her to be a full housewife. (my dad actually stopped drinking before but when we got to lagos, he started drinking and smoking). I could remember their was a day I came back from school and met my mum crying( she found out that my dad was cheating on her) lol. When my dad came back, instead of him to apologise, he was asking my mum if she wanted to leave. My mum told him it's all his decision. That if he wants her to leave that she'll go. He started asking her if she was crazy or mad. The next thing I saw was a slap, he started beating my mum he wanted to remove his wristwatch so that he won't spoil it( can you imagine that. Which means the wristwatch was more important than my mum) my mum just ran out immediately( thank God she wore a tight because her wrapper fell off in the course of running).
Fastforward, he's been transferred to another state but my mum didn't go with him oo. We rented an apartment for her where she stays with my kid bro. I'm married so is my elder sis. My immediate sis stays with me. He's on his own now.
Abusive relationship shouldn't be endured at all.

[quote author=Excellent2010][/quote]Some husbands sha......how can he tell you to give her what she demanded for and that she'll refund it later. how does one even collect money back from her mother in law? My dear, if you know you are capable, then i'll advice you just give her. If you know you can't, give the little you know you have. If she collects it, fine and good. If she doesn't, then it's her own cup of tea.

Really learning from this thread. So that when my kids get to this stage, I'll know how to handle the situation.
Baba oyo, waiting for more updates oo.

Whew......finally read through the 28 pages.
Where do I start from sef....
Uncle seru, I doff my hat for u. I respect you so much. I tap into your courage. Infact, u are one in a million. Your kids and olori are so so lucky to have you as their father and a husband. Your home shall be full of joy and happiness.

@ edeykay, so sorry. My God will bless u with the one that will stay and also be a source of joy to you and your entire household.

@ CC, have always respected you since the day I started visiting family section on nairaland. I wish to know you offline. God has blessed you with so much wisdom. From the various advice you give to people, it has been of tremendous help to me. I have been able to work more on my marriage. Thanks so much and God bless you.

@JK, the first time I read your comment on nairaland, I felt you were being too harsh. You and someone actually started insulting each other. So I was like no no no, I don't like this aunty. Subsequently, I realise that you actually love saying things the way they were. I've come to love you and appreciate you more.

Mr Analytical, God bless you. You've been a source of strength to everyone here.
Aunty spoilt, tgirl and others that I can't remember your names, God bless you. May God fill our homes with love, joy and happiness.

Sorry all for the long epistle.

Lol. Can't stop laughing. Mine was yam and palm oil. I eat it morning, afternoon, night and even mid night. God help us oo.

God bless you RR. I don't know you oo, but I do have this feelings that you are a good person even before reading baba oyo's post. Once again, God bless you.

Lol.....dis is so funny.

What side of ojota is the shop located and how much is it per annum.

Why do you want to sell it

Please I need a shop around anthony village or mende or ojota. I want it to be in a good location. Will be using it for the sales of weavons and attachments.
My budget is 80 to 120k.

Thanks op, dis is very informative.

WTF. My advice is ; let her leave the house and go else where. She should also inform her mum.
But the girl is a dunce oo. How can she be dressing. and undressing in front of her dad at 19 I rest my case.

Can you please stop going through his phone, with that you'll save yourself from having more headaches. Do your own duty as a wife. If you can discuss with him, fine and good. Since the day I stopped checking hubby's phones, I've been enjoying my life so well.

Yaaay.......wat a happy ending. so happy for 2sexy and kenya.

Eid mubarak to all my brothers and sisters in Islam.

What is all these rubbish for Godsake? Mods should please come and clean the mess from this thread. This thread is meant to be of help to those in abusive relationship, but now it has been hijacked by abusers. If you know you can't give advice or give your opinion without resulting to insult, then this thread is not meant for you.
At 2sexy, I'm highly disappointed cos I can't believe you'll use someone's predicament to insult the person later.

Proudly naija

Another gooaaallllll for emenike

Yaaaaayyyyyyy.....penalty

Goooooaaaallllll. Their father.

Hunnn.. Dis is serious. My advice is let her get her child a nanny or take the child to a daycare, with that she can ask her mummy to go back to her house and can only come visiting once in a while. Hope it helps.

Awww...so beautiful

Yes. But most times, I do the writing. So i'm always on a safe side. But seeing students begging you not to write their name was just fun. Come see shakara na and way I use to threaten them then.