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dayokanu: So Op give more clues

Where does he live, How old is he? whats his height, How long does he last for

Congrats DK..........btw, will these questions help solve the puzzle?

Donxavier: I think it's you

Yaayyyyy......it's coogar.

kenyarttar: When OP said she quit her job I just knew it was super story. Keep working on your writing skills, you dey try.

Even if it's super story, shits like this happen. Their was a time a video went viral where a girl of about 12 or 13yrs asked a boy of about 5years or there about to suck on her vag1na. She in turn will suck on his pen1s. She also asked the boy to insert his finger inside her V. You needed to see that video
The day I watched it, I cried. I felt the pain as a mother. The most annoying thing was that it was an adult who saw them, instead of the person to stop the nonsense act, he/she rather decided to hide and record the rubbish they were doing. A parent has to be extra vigilant. Watch your kids very well. I use to think only girl child has to be watched over to avoid cases like this, but when I saw that video, then I realised that even a boy child can go through molestation.
As for the mother quitting her job, if she feels that's the best thing to do, fine and good, at least when the boy comes of age, she can always decide to start working again or better still establish herself.

Very good. God bless us all.

Why are you disturbing yourself? Na God wey wan catch am. He should go and sin no more.

Yes oooo....the love is still there. In fact, it's waxing stronger. I love him so much cos he has never changed from whom I've known him to be. He's loving and caring. I and my kids are his number one priority. Just yesterday, he organised a surprise birthday party for me even though he wasn't around.

Baby I love you so so much and will always be there for you. You are one in a million, my jewel, my prince charming. You are indispensable. Nothing can ever come between us.( amen).

HBD to your sister.

na really tallest man in lagos.

Chillisauce: Check and get back, meanwhile more contributions are welcomed.
You must start something tangible before or in the beginning of next yr. amen
But you gat to work hard for it now

Your call!

God bless you chilli. Just imagine someone with all these grades and no job for 5 years.
Nigeria I hail thee.

Nonso23: Halfway through reading this post i assumed that the comments /posts that would follow will be aimed at turning the tables to place the role of the victim on women and the BLAME on men. 3 post down and i am not disappointed.
Whether you people agree or not Men get hurt too and can be faithful. Just because some MEN cheat doesn't make all men cheats. Women cheat too but no one organizes a pity party labelling the women folk as whôres.
Stop the stereotypical slander already.

Gbam. Don't mind them jawe. I thing issues should be dealt with the way they are. No need turning round the table. If the man is at fault, he should be blamed. If it's the woman, she should also be blamed. Yes we all know men cheat but this particular thread is talking about a cheating wife. So let's face it.

Op, where are thou....come answer the questions thrown at you. from there we'll know the next advice to give. As for your little daughter, 4:30 am is just too early. This shows you the parents ain't even putting her into consideration. Maybe while others are in class learning, she will be sleeping. You and your wife need to discuss this issue very well.
Will be back when you've supplied the needed info.

ileobatojo: It's really quite sad that after 107 pages, some people still cannot recognize clear red flags for abuse until it turns physical.

I tire oooo. So blurr you are waiting for the day he will finally hit you abi....then you come to nairaland to create a thread : pls my boyfriend just hit me, what should I do. That's if he doesn't even do something nasty that can take your life. My dear, pls run for your dear life. For him to to have looked into your eyes and said he'll beat you if you ever refuse him sex shows that he's an animal( sorry for calling him that). But my dear that's what he his. So if you don't give him sex for a day, he's going to die. Mtchewwww. You've been given enough advice already so you should know what to do except you want your family to come carry your corpse one day( God forbid).

baby_123: I dont know if it is the fashonista in me. But if my childs school uniform is not cute, they are not attending that school. . What is that tie doing on this uniform. It just spoilt the cute baby's swag. . Congrats OP, i wish him success in all his endeavors at this big step of his life. He is soo cute

Lol....but it's not uniform that determines how good the school is.

Wetin you want make I talk now

Chiidi: .

That's uncalled for. How can you say such to a poor innocent child hun? If it was your own child and someone makes such comment will you be happy? Pls modify your post joor.

Very interesting topics, and good points from contestants both for and against each topic.
But would have loved it if names of contestants were revealed.

Goooooaaaaaaallllllllllllllll..


We are on fire meeeeeennnnnnn

So sorry op. May you never bury a child in your home again. I pray that the next child God will bless you with shall come to stay and fulfil the glory of the Lord.

That being said, I think you should stick to other posters advice that you see a medical practitioner. They will run necessary tests on your wife and be able to tell the reason why the babies are always underweight.

All in all, be steadfast in prayer. The doctors only do their best but God Almighty has the final say.

Congratulations sir. So when are we getting our e aso ebi?

You need to stand you ground. Just say it in a polite way that you want your naming to hold in your own house and not in his. For God's sake you are a grown man now and your dad should allow you make your own decisions.
Btw, what is your mum's suggestion?

Yansh of life.

Yes. Little stroke of cain will work magic. If she's not corrected, she'll continue biting her peers. Could remember when my daughter was of that age too, that was her fighting weapon. The first time she did it in sch and the teacher reported her to me, I told the teacher that when next she does that, she should please cain her for me. No child likes being flogged. So when your daughter's teacher cain her once, twice, she'll definitely stop it.

Your neighbour is mad.
While your own case, you are about to be mad.

Your thread is so funny.

You can say that again. Wishing her safe delivery.