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SOZINN:
Whatever you do
Please don't give up a girl that's willing to build with you for one that just wants to take up residence. ooo.

Wouldn't this lead to oneitis?

Peaceyw:
Today, I was sitting down in front of my house pressing my phone when this girl walked up to me and said that do I have call card that she wants to make a call, I said no whereas I have call card. Then she asked if I was using airtel sim I said no mtn but I was actually using my airtel sim to browse. I found the whole encounter funny and it made me laugh. If it was before I came in contact with trp, I would have given her my phone to call.
After reading one of ubuja miseducation that she should stop helping women that we are not gaining anything from, I stamped that into my head.
#Deathtoallsimps

...... Easy though. I believe you should help people when you can, male or female. What is being preached is avoiding manipulations.

It can be quite tricky sometimes. What I do now is, If a girl asks for my assistance, I analyse the situation to see if it's something I would normally do for a fellow guy. If so, I go ahead. If not, I don't.

Jessepaid:
I didn't collect her number tho...

If I collect a girls number I usually wait a day or two before calling...


Some I don't call at all...



After about a month I still didn't get a call from her........


I was still patronizing the shop cuz it was nearer and more accessible to me..


Then one day I asked why she hasn't called,
She said she lost the number...


I was once again irritated...


I asked for her number, took it, paid for my stuff and went home...


Once I settled, I called her...


We spoke briefly before she said she has to attend to customers...


She also said she is not on WhatsApp which I sensed was a lie but I decided to play along...



She gave me her Facebook name.. I searched the database of facebook but no match...


I have her my Facebook name to add me up...


She said she doesn't have data that when she recharges, she would do so..


2 weeks passed.. I called her again and she said she still doesn't have data....


That if I want I should come and take her phone and add my self....



I was shocked.....



Crazy ass stupid shocked...


I was so shocked I started laughing....


Then she made another excuse that she wants to
Attend to customers...


I was still laughing when I deleted her number..


Matter closed..

You were overthinking. Obviously she's not into you. She kept lying. She just didn't want to turn you down outrightly. She gave you a wrong FB username. She would have asked for your number when she saw you again if truly she misplaced the one you gave her (without her asking you for it in the first place). Then you felt irritated because she didn't call and said she misplaced your number. . Then you had to ask for her number -- you started getting needy.

Sometimes, we overthink some of these things and misconstrue something else for greenlights. You should have moved on after you didn't get a call from her. Every other thing you did afterwards was wrong move.

Thanks for sharing.

4ckz:
I get you.

But, in the case a guy is yet to control or not willing to control his urges?

Sex is a part of me and my only get away from work, I am a very busy person.
I just use it to relax.

I won't lie, my life has improved a lot since I took my first pill, and cut off my numerous girl friends, been a lot more peaceful, a lot less spending and I got time to only worry about me.

However, I have been living like this since my university days, always fuking random people steadily.

You can't just wake up one day and tell me, "hey, control your urges". This is already a part of me, and it seems impossible for me to reduce it, or even stick one pvssy.

In my case, and I know there are others like me, wouldn't it be better we limit or don't over spend on pvssy, minding our income level, rather than the control urges thing.

It seems impossible to me, and frankly I can't suffer my self like that.

This is sexual addiction

Dliquidmetal:
I agree with you bruh but what I'm saying is that the majority of men are being dragged behind because of females,I believe when you conquer that part of your life and acquire self control your chances of being successful increases. life no really balance and there isn't really a manual to follow but just increasing your chances at success.

Okay, I totally agree.

Dliquidmetal:
majorly na women! if you conquer that then the rest na smalls.

Omo, taking women out of your life is no guarantee for success. Life hard, with or without women. There are way bigger problems than females. A lot of people in fact don't have time to think about women because they have serious challenges weighing them down..... It might be an illness, it might be attempting to make ends meet, it might be trying to graduate from school, etc.

TheUndercover:
If a guy can control his sexual drives and can avoid distraction from women.

It is impossible to not to be successful.

Nice. But women are not the only problem a man faces.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 71, REDPILL 2021.

IQ is inferred by genetics and the environment a child experience early growth and development. If both parents are high IQ, automatically the child becomes high IQ. Environmental circumstances are added advantages to grant the child experiences and prudence to learn and know how things work.

As a man, you can't change your IQ. It's fixed! There's nothing you can do about it but there are ways you can go about it should in case your IQ level is low or average. Surround yourself with the high IQs, read good materials, practice and test every of your knowledge in the open field, involve in creative arts etc.

For the aspiring patriarchs, the woman you've decided to commit to must have at least a 3 digit IQ. The lives of your children matters in this present toxic world. If you don't grant them this great opportunity, they will either become the puppets of the macro masters or the cat's claws for causing damages. And at the end they will be ostracized.

However, women with high IQ have a propensity to despise their femininity and tend towards their corporate career embodying the external and dominant male qualities. Difficult for a woman to remain feminine in a high IQ state. Nevertheless, she must at least be very intelligent, smart, in addendum to her femininity which of course is your first priority in choosing any woman.

Authority: Elevate in the hierarchy or perish.

Nice write up as usual. However, I don't believe IQ is fixed. The brain muscles are no different from the torso muscles in that they can be worked on and made to be more efficient.

Adasun:
that high tolerance for stress is something I need to work on.my body systems usually shut down during stress.

Me too. My body is just not made for stress. It has really limited the amount of things I achieved.

yahjac:
baba do wetin dy sweet you, don't kee yourself with unnecessary rules because something looks manly or not.

if going down dy hungry you, my brother better go down.

not going down on a woman is just an assumption of what a hard guy is sopose to be.

E nor dey hungry me. E dey disgust me. I no fit do am . Some even go as far as doing analingus.
These could make her want you forever if you do it so well, but is it really worth it?

when I was in secondary school (boarding) the so-called big boys in my set where the real simps, they would display and preach hard guy mentality in front of the guys but turn around and act like bitches when they where with the girls.
that behaviour use to shock me.

the non-big boys where trying thier best to be like the big-boys by practicing their teachings but they were not aware that the so-called big boys didn't even practice what they preached. looking back at what happened the non-big boys lost.

baba no dull yourself.

I'm not trying to be like the "big boys". The "big boys" actually seem to be pros in the "head ministry" and at the moment that's not something I'm interested in. Was just thinking about it though if it's really an alpha thing to do. I think not. But others may disagree.

doxijaw:
You guys don read the theoretical parts.

If you want the practical, i have receipts , but this thread go scatter because you'll see things have documented corroborates the theories presented herein.

Kudos to everyone, let me know if you would like me to proceed.

It would be nice if we had a fresh thread for it. So Please create another thread and tag us. Thanks

Liposure:
a lawyer once said it makes you less of a man

I agree with the lawyer

Is going down on her an alpha thing to do? Most RedPillers seem to think so. For me, I believe it's simp behaviour. Yuck!

PETUK:
When she starts saying things like "babe.. the condom is hurting me".. Just know my brother...she has seen your payslip...

So she wants it raw

I'm glad sanity has been restored to the thread.

Thanks to all of you with good intentions to liberate men.

Please, I encourage us to also post more of our conversations and dealings, whether positive or negative. As we share our individual experiences, we would learn a lot on how exactly to put the principles into practice in several scenarios. That is, it would help us learn exactly what to say, how to act, what to do, etc. in specific situations.

Thank you.

Good morning bros

yahjac:
redpill has blown.

its just one of those things people know but they don't talk about it openly but there's plenty content on YouTube

besides nairaland I don't think I quote red-pill, I just keep it in my heart.

even women are aware of it (for now few Nigerian women are aware)
places like US, redpill is extremely popular.



the problem we are having now is a case of difference between theory and practicals

many men know the theory but don't practice it.

You've said it all.

The thing is reading the theory aspect is easy and exciting. But practising everything is very hard. You will face so much discomfort. You might not be able to relate well with a number of people as a result in fact.
It is not easy to deliberately decide to be the odd one out. Few days ago, a female course mate came to where a couple of us guys were sitted and asked for money. We were about five. The other guys started giving her, one after the other. When she got to me, I refused. This made me uncomfortable and the odd one out. I don't know what the other guys might have thought of me, but I'm glad I applied the redpill and didn't yield to her persuasion.
The university environment is really a place where guys are in bondage. The girls easily have their way and leech off of every guy in cash or kind. The guys are clueless and do everything to please the girls in hopes of getting sex or approval. The male lecturers are not excluded.

Everyday, I watch as events play out. I see constant manipulations in class, in the exam hall, in eateries, in fellowships, in clubs and associations, etc. The female folks are constantly being favoured over the male folks.
Recently, a guy in my department defeated his female opponent to become the president of our department association. The male lecturer in charge did not approve it. He had them redo the election until the girl won. This is just one scenario. I've lost count.
Seeing all these, sometimes, I begin to feel disdain towards some of these girls. But I'm quick to calm myself down. Now, most times, I just ignore most of them.

The redpill preaches the truth. I see it play out every day.

I have noticed that the people who have unnecessarily prolonged arguements here are most likely just hiding under some form of guise. They're not really interested in protecting the redpill interest. With time, we keep learning their true nature.

You couldn't ignore that nonentity and was engaging in an "internet war of words" with her. One could only wonder what kinda RedPillers we have here.

We will keep separating the wheat from the chaff.

We move

mosdii:
I have never quoted or mentioned you on this platform hauling direct insults to you, your nuclear & extended family, your parents, siblings or whatever.

On numerous occasions, you have insulted my caterer mom, myself and everything that concerns me, I ignored.

You called Simp44 to get rid of me, I took the ban in good faith. I ignored.

It seems my name puts food on your table or gives you maximum utility for you to be typing my name everywhere.

My name is Mosdii and I said and will continue to say
that Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Ubunja, please what's your take on being friends with girls/ladies/women? How can one be friends with them?

I'm tagging you on this dead thread because I don't want others' opinion. Thanks.

Can we stop the arguments please? You are messing up the thread . cc dapcity247 mrcoldsweat thevictim01

SOZINN:
So are you saying that those on monk mode don't have strong masculinity.

It depends on why they're on monk mode: are they incels or true Mgtow?

Incels are weak. Mgtow are strong.

However, the ability to spin plates is a strong masculine behaviour. And true monk mgtow could do it if they wanted to.

TheUndercover:
I'm kinda disappointed you have this mindset. It's fine. Everyone has his life to live.

It's okay. We all can't always have the same perspective and understanding.

For example, one of the gospels of the redpill is that men should spin plates. A guy that is able to do this effortlessly exhibits a strong masculine trait as opposed to incels. From my personal observations, most straight guys in these feminine professions don't have a hard time spinning plates. Let me stop here.

Saviolamemphix:
Who cares if they get more pussy lmfao
A man's achievement can never b measured by d number of pussy he gets..

Getting more pussy shows strong masculinity. That's the point.

I'm not interested in arguing.

Martinez39s:
I am not saying I disagree with mrcoldsweat, and I am not saying I agree with him.

I have read mrcoldsweat's post, the one above yours. What he is trying to say, I think, is that the society's status quo has changed, it's here to stay and it's not going back anytime soon to the traditional way of things no matter how men desire traditional life. On a societal level, things have changed. Therefore, according to mrcoldsweat, men must learn to adapt and flow with the tide and not remain rooted in CERTAIN archaic stereotypes and beliefs about masculinity that are limiting men and serving them no purpose in the modern world. Mrcoldsweat isn't saying in his last post that you should lose your balls as a man and become feminized, all he meant by modifying masculinity is that we put aside our egos and certain useless, archaic, and unproductive stereotypes and beliefs about masculinity and do what we can to make headway in life even if it comes down to doing certain jobs that were traditionally considered feminine like nursing, working in a hair saloon, babysitting in a daycare etc.

He is not saying men must do these jobs, all he is saying is if a man can make profit from these jobs and if he wants to do it, he shouldn't be seen as less a man and his ego shouldn't stop him since we don't consider a woman who becomes an engineer or doctor (former masculine professions) less feminine by society's standards. If women are now given rights and opportunities as men, and they are free to pursue any job or career, it shouldn't be different with men. Hence the ego and mindset that would make a man rather go hungry instead working in a daycare because he think it makes him less masculine should be abolished.

At any rate, mrcoldsweat's argument is reducible to the adage "as hunters learnt to shoot without missing, birds learnt to fly without perching." He is telling us to adapt or lose out. I think that's what he meant by modify masculinity or lose out.

I will still read his earlier posts to undeserved his arguments betters.

The funny thing is most of the few guys who work in these feminine professions get more pvssy than these guys who think doing those jobs emasculate them.

DharmieDhrey:
. If women were free of financial cares, the majority of them would probably prefer to spend their lives in the company of other women rather than with men - and not because they are all lesbians. What men call lesbian tendencies probably have little to do with a woman's sexual drive. No - the sexes have almost no interests in common. What, besides money, can bind a woman to a man?


I'm still at the anger phase, I think I'll remain in this phase all my life.

D1ck, attention, protection, care, etc.

Soulrebel2:
This was exactly the point I was trying to make earlier.

Women are like wolves, they can sense and smell your weakness and use it against you.

Many people on this thread are not redpillers..they are just insecure.

A true redpiller gives zero Bleep about what a woman thinks and focuses that energy more on himself.

When you love yourself believe it or not, women will follow.

Women are too afraid of an alpha male to cheat on him.

'True alpha male', not wannabe

I've modified that post because I just saw something in his reply I actually do not agree with

Dapcity247:
What you tag insecurity , I tag prudence
The word of God say in proverbs 11:16 that gracious women retain honor and strong men retain riches,even atheist non-believing rich men like Andrew Carnegie who was one of the greatest America industrialist into steel and influenced one of the greatest writings by Napoleon hills Think and Grow Rich, believed that a man must be financially superior than a woman

The more successful your wife is , the more diminished you are as a man,

I disagree with the emboldened.

show a Patriach in the Bible from Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Gideon,King Saul,King David,King Solomon,that was dependent on his wife(or wives),when Solomon started it,it destroyed his legacy

Adam the first SIMP who relied on his wife's authority brought the world into sinfully chaos, if you can't be in charge of your home having authority over your wife and children ( I don't mean tyrannical and dictatorial power) you're not fit to be a man

I agree with all you've said, except the emboldened. "The more successful your wife is, the more diminished you are as a man." This is a fallacy of hasty conclusion. Are you lazy? If your woman gets richer, you should hustle to get richer as well. And while you're at it, you should maintain frame. Even if she becomes richer, so long as you don't go broke and you keep working to improve yourself in all areas, you won't be diminished or degraded.

In your previous post, you said, in other words, that you shouldn't allow your woman to be fully financially independent because of hypergamy. You said it would ruin you. I don't agree to this and the emboldened here at all. And whether you admit it or not, you're being insecure. You're looking at another person's success when you should be focusing on yours. You're more likely to be an oppressor, not even an authoritarian.
The redpill teaches one to focus on oneself, not on others. You shouldn't be trying to hinder your woman from achieving financial independence. Instead, you should work on yourself to become the alpha male every woman would want.
By the way, it's not always about money. She can be richer and still stay in line because of your alpha status -- true alpha status, not wannabe alpha. If you achieve this, it would be highly unlikely that she leaves you for a richer simp. Only a better alpha can have her, and this would be highly unlikely because alphas hardly accept leftovers.

If you have to bring someone else down or hinder them from progressing so that you can maintain power, you're weak. What you should do is continually better yourself so that as others get better, you get better as well. This way, if you were in charge, you'll remain in charge.

yahjac:
if you say majority of women are whores, I might agree with you

if you say majority of women have runs-girls mentality I will agree with you

all women are whores ?....lol

my brother, nothing is plain black and white in this world.

I personally know a lady that gets irritated by sexual stuffs.
every time I look at her I just pity her husband cos sex go be like 2-3 times a year.
that was the reason I hesitated having anything serious with her coupled with some of her bad habits (women wahala too much)

No offense. I believe you were quite gullible to have believed she really doesn't like sexual stuff.

The bitter truth is that she wasn't digging you or whoever else was making the advances, that's why she put up that "irritated" facade.

All women like sexual stuff, including nuns.

Dapcity247:
These goes against the tenets of the redpill and doesn't prepare men for authority in the Society

Allowing a woman to have full financial independence with her Hypergamous nature will destroy you in the long run, you focus on her earning power and don't take account of her hypergamy means you are finished

So, because a woman is hypergamous, you should not allow her be financially independent so that she won't leave you? What happened to focusing on yourself and making yourself way richer than she is if you're that insecure? What happened to focusing on yourself and developing all areas of your life thereby becoming an alpha male any woman will want regardless of financial status?

You just validated some of what MrColdSweat said. This post of yours reeks of slavery mindset indeed. It's not redpill. The redpill is just there to help you know female nature, not to help you control women. The redpill is knowledge. What you should do with this is to use it to be at peace with yourself, not trying to control anyone else.

Been following your posts. You're obviously angry and kind of furious at the female folks.

RAGGA40:
There are some things my mum usually tell me i don't know if it is redpill philosophy she said i should not marry a girl that will love me because of my money or resources, that marry a girl that will love you for who you are.

No girl can love you just for who you are. Girls can only love what you have to offer.