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NYCnextStop:
I'm interested in point 3. How does masturbation destroy your looks?

Only if you're addicted and you're not replenishing yourself with enough nutrients.

Richandcuteguy:
dontai: dont listen to what he said about masturbation

if the red pill preaches self development above all else, then surely it is against masturbation

Some cool anecdotal facts about masturbation:

1. It destroys your self esteem

2. It reinforces the scarcity mentality albeit sublimely. If you could bed the woman you desire, would u masturbate?

3. It destroys your looks

4. It weakens your immune system such that you are unable to tide over illnesses and adverse life events. All roads lead to depression here

5. It dulls your spirit self and makes you extremely lethargic

6. Gradually, you will be unable to maintain a rock hard erection with a lady but fully erect when masturbating. All roads lead to eventual and certain erectile dysfunction.

7. It depletes your testosterone. Isnt this what makes a man a man? Without testosterone, what is left of a man? People take drugs to get testosterone and you want to willingly deplete yours?

8. Eventually, your self esteem will be eroded and you will question everything about yourself ranging from your looks, intelligence, self worth etc.

9. Masturbation is the opposite of testosterone. Everything you are able to achieve with testosterone, Masturbation will rob you of it

10. It leads to neurotic disorder

11. It brings bad luck. According to Napoleon Hill, Elon Musk and many other great men, the more Hot you are, the more magnetic your being and personality becomes. You will easily attract people and what you desire this way

12. One of the key components of the semen is zinc. Masturbation will erode your body zinc. Google up all the uses of zinc and know that the exact opposite of those benefits are what shall become your fate

13. Dont believe me but do me a favour. Research other platforms such as reddit, NL, etc and see what people who are able to control their urges and stay away from sex for even as much as 2 weeks experience. Maybe we are all lying but then to what end?

I agree with most of your points and disagree with a few. I know these from personal experience.

Number 1. only happens when you're addicted.

Number 2. is false. I could be a able to bed a goddess and still choose to self-service instead. mgtow.

Number 3. happens only if you're addicted. And it's not really your looks but your body build that will be affected.

Number 4 is true. When you eat and take in nutrients, your body uses the nutrients to build cells. Now, when you self-service often, the nutrients will go into reproducing sperm cells and leave little to nothing to produce white blood cells.

5. is a bit true.

6. This happens only when you're addicted.

7. This is true

8. Only if you're addicted

9. A bit true

10. Only if you're addicted

11. False

12. This is true

13. Okay

MJBOLT:

na the man lose

Sure. Foolish somebody

Deejay1000:
good morning
pls it has been modified
you can click on the link thru my signature

You haven't edited out the line that says they should drop their emails

Skepticus:
You are not wrong to think that way. It just shows that you are red-pill aware.

Date who you want to and understand that your leadership as a man is easier when you are chosen.

Relationships like the ones you described may often have the wife or your in-laws abuse and disrespect you, but as a man, be positive, about what you are getting into, while having your brain switched on 24 hours to be able to spot any manipulations/disrespect (without being overtly insecure like an emotional man) being done on you and how to address it. Some may not be manipulative and abusive but this doesn't mean you should lose your guard, get caught in emotions till they lose respect for you and begin to walk over you.

Don't just sit there as a "horse-band". Use her family's wealth and connection to build yourself to earn the family's respect as man who can hold his own.

If she turns out to be a spoilt, cheeky brat with in-laws who are also not respectful of your commitment to their daughter, use the EXIT door. It's better losing all and having your dignity and worth as a man, than surrender to their abuse and disrespect where you'll also be written off and probably dumped in the end.

If the disrespect comes to physical abuse like a slap, retaliate with another slap damning the consequences or if you are the type who don't like noisy confrontation, walk out the door and cut her out completely. Once she has done it once, she is very likely to repeat it again. Also, men should try to work on their appearance, and demeanour that women find "intimidating". I'm not talking about being a bully or being aggressive. Your tone of voice, body posture, having muscles (I'm a body builder) instills "fear" in women and she'll think twice before trying to hurt you physically. Once you look weak, bitchy tone of voice, these damaged women won't think twice in hurting you physically. There are crazy, hyper-damaged ladies though who would need an equal measure of violence to be put back in place.

Like it is with men, if you are in a relationship/partnership with a woman where you think you can't have it better in life and other dealings, when she (or he) leaves you, or you leave her (or other men), you are under bondage as a slave.

Nicey. Thanks

Deejay1000:
between can you be redpilled and be broke ?? cos that's the main problem in this country.. girls always feeling like you owe them even if you guys are not dating.

if you want to run a side hustle online which can be paying you.. i have a pdf book on affiliate marketing which i believe is very helpful to you all.
drop your email address and I'll send you the book for free .

Boss, Why did you say they should be dropping it here?
Please modify your post so that they can stop dropping their email addresses here. It will derail the thread

luminouz:
1. No girl who sees me would wanna get physical. This is not only because I look very ruthless and I'm fuqin strong. I always lay down a no domestic violence rule at the start of the relationship. Girls who have played with me and seen my strength don't overstep their boundaries

2. Any woman who slaps me,gets slapped in return. No excuses and no handouts. All I can do is make sure I have witnesses who can back me up if shit hits the fan.

3. The worst her dad would do is arrest me. I will bail myself out. This is one reason why I cultivate friends in the police and army sections.

4. If all of the above failed, then I have a plan E. I would let her leave my house in peace and give her a month or two, then I will strike when the moon is down and shadows are about. But one thing is sure,no one,woman or man,slaps me and gets away with it.

This is all my personal opinion

All right. Thanks for your replies so far.
Wish others could chip in a thing or two into this as well.

samuelpeters:
Bro, No man should ever use his clear eyes and buy wahala oh...
If you can't control your girl because her parents are very influential, you dump her and move on.

If you continue in that kind of relationship, you have lost already.
You never fight a man of influence except you are influential yourself.

Personally, I cannot date a girl that her parents are so influential they could literally buy up my life.


©️2021.

Noted.

luminouz:
Your first paragraph shows exactly my point. I said never be afraid to correct them, not beat them or whiplash them na. Why on earth will her parents deal with you for tongue-lashing their child.

Women are like children. They test you to know what they can get away with. Your leniency determines their audacity. If you don't put your foot down in the beginning on what you don't like, she would ride over you and you'd be like all the other whiny-whiny niggas she rolls with. Her parents already indulged her bad attitudes, must you also? The sensibles ones will take to correction and stick with you while the overly rotten ones will leave.
No matter what a spoilt brat tell her parents, so long you don't rape/beat or something, you are ok.

Fearing to speak your mind based on her parents status already made you her bìtch. She would never respect you.

How do I know all this? I have rolled with rich babes before...I'm talking senator/deputy governor levels... I don't see the chicks as goddesses or Dresden China pieces. I see them as normal women and treat them as such

Peep this:

You both get in a heated argument. She accuses you of cheating. She gets really emotional and slaps you. You return the favour.
Next, she's at her dad's shedding tears while telling that you've beating the hell out of her.
What do you think will happen afterwards?

luminouz:
Date anyone you feel like dating, your level of game determines if she go respect you or not. If you have seen the way young bodija tomato sellers abuse their boyfriends,then you will know it ain't about wealth,but respect.

Why would you be scared to correct any woman,whether rich or broke? Correct her if she goes out of line. The hardest choices require the strongest wills

I'm not sure it's as easy as you say it.
Because I feel If for instance you correct a spoilt brat, she will run to her parents to report. Her parents will fight you. They will use their influence to deal with you. Or am I wrong to think this way?

When you're dating a girl with influential parents, I feel you will be worried knowing that if things go wrong and her parents get involved, they can easily fvck u up, regardless of who was right or wrong. They will certainly side with their daughter. Or am I wrong to think this way?

Greetings bosses.

I want to ask.

As a relatively broke guy, is it advisable to date a lady whose parents are rich and influential?

I feel the guy will be emasculated in that kind of relationship because there will be oppression from the girl's people. He will be scared of putting her in her place when she goes out of line.

What do you think?

SOZINN:
OK your comment had two likes
Plus you that's three
I was expecting more likes
Cos you said a lot of guys have a hard time reading pidgin
You said 90%
A lot of them don't agree with you
If they did you would have gotten more likes
Some times I get more than 20 likes when I post something
I think a lot of my hommies will be able to relate if I use pidgin
Even this evening
When I checked I had already gotten 6 likes on that post
And am faster when I type in pidgin
I hope you understand
Good evening

Lolol. You mean you get up to 20 likes for those pigin posts? Okay then. I see. Maybe it's just me.

By the way, I do not post and use likes to guage the correctness of what I say. So, I just air my view and move on. A lot of people may agree with you and still not see the need to hit the like button, especially if the post is not directly on topic. I don't like such posts too, eventhough I agree with the poster. I only like the strictly redpill contents. And it's not possible to like your own post.

Anyway, no problem. If you're getting up to 20 likes, it maybe means I was wrong in my 90% assertion. But I feel that people are liking the posts doesn't mean they aren't having a hard time reading it. If after finally reading to the end and it turns out that your point is one they agree with, of course they would like it, whether it was a tough read or not. This reply of yours to me now was easy for me to read.

That said, it's okay since you find it easier and faster to type in pigin. I used to think it was harder for everyone to type in pigin due to autocorrect. I understand better now.

Shalom.

SOZINN:
Bro
I no mean any offence to quote
U see this your talk na
D tin dey do me some how
First of all
Let me start like this
You know say
E get women wey dey this world
Wey think say life dey easy
Some of them just think
All I have to do is look good and before you know it
I'll get one rich guy wey go dey worship the ground I walk on
That's why most of them dey look their best
Anywhere wey dem won go
Cuz Dem dey find maga
What makes it so
Why is it like this
Cos some rich guys at the top are simping
AND MIND YOU
Any rich man wey don simp in the past
And then take the red pill will REGRET that simping
Bro if you get friend wey be billionaire but in con dey simp, dey spend carelessly on to one gyal like that wey no even dey there when in dey
You have known this guy from day one
Which kind advice you go dey give your bro.
I agree
Say women come this world to come enjoy
To enjoy life and get whatever they want
Then we men
Ma we dey pay the price
We have to hustle and work hard for the sake of woman
It's our fault that the world is like this
Imagine when a lady post pics on instagram
Con dey type say
She got a rich nigga in her DM
Disturbing her just because he wants to have a taste
I blame men
Women didn't make the world like this
MEN DID
even for my guys I dey see am
All of us go get the same contracts ooo
But the way my guy choose to spend in own money Woman
Before you know am
Phew e don suck the boy dry
The best way to start rebuilding this world
Is if those guys wey dey up there
Highest class men start taking the red pill serious
In fact them need to take the reddest pill
REDDEST
We need to eradicate that mentality of
Once I make am the next thing woman
Thank you

Bros, no vex, but this pigin wey you dey use dey irritating to read. E dey give me headache. Please boss keep it as short as possible if you'll be using pigin so that we can read easily. I'm sure at least 90% of us here have a hard time reading it.
You're the first person I'll see writing a long post in pigin . No offense meant please. Just a concern.
I've been skipping your posts lately, because I can hardly read it. And I want to read it to learn from it.

Evolutionlove:
Lol I get you though but this assertion Is Applicable and Exclusive to Nigeria precisely. You are almost useless to most people If you are dealing with brokeness.....

Not almost. You are. I swear. They will treat you like a piece of shit. Even your relatives will not respect you. No amount of alpha trait will save you. At that time, any alpha trait will not be admirable and attractive -- any attempt at confidence will be termed arrogance. If you flirt with a lady, it will be quickly termed sexual harassment. Etc.
At least this is what I have observed so far personally and in others.
Thats why the first pill to take is that you must first make sure you're not stark broke. When you're sort of self-sufficient at least, you can then start applying the red pill properly.

emmaodet:
he confidence, the fearlessness, The charisma and also the finesse that comes with being a true alpha - All these inside poverty? Mmmmmmmmm seems u neva jam better poverty.

How will you even have confidence inside abject grade A poverty? Bro, your self esteem will be dealt with massively.
You will virtually be fighting life issues, uneding and piling daily bills. At the end of the day you will gas up and sink.

Do you know how many people hustled and hustled and hustled but never made it? far far far farrrrrrr more than those who breakeven and give sweet life ending stories.
Do you know how may didn't breakeven in music? football/sports? business? etc
Bro, even the so called Alpha, redpill, TRP etc are best practised when a man is stable (Note stable but not rich) anything outside that abeg count me out

I completely agree with you.

My own personal experience taught me this. When I was stark broke, no matter how much I tried, I couldn't be confident, I couldn't have a high esteem, I couldn't be charismatic, etc.
But when I started getting some money, I started getting those attributes as well. I could notice myself exhibiting those nice behaviours. It was no longer as hard for me as it was.

I quickly learned that the first self development any man must do is getting rid of brokeness. Without doing that, it is impossible to be alpha or anything close to it.

ubunja:
poor research skills. Go back again and relook at the stocks issue.

Ok

SOZINN:
Oga be calming down small small
He didn't insult anyone
He only said shut up
Where as you have used the words idiot and stupid in your write up
We are all above this please

So, telling someone to shut up when they're airing their view isn't an insult? Also, Calling a grown ass man a kid is not an insult?
My style is, If you give me warm, I will give you hot. If you give me hot, I will give you nuclear hot.
Careful how you quote me to give orders. Thanks.

ubunja:
and he made back ALL that money he gave her in record time. Even women's gold digger channels admitted he was smart.

He didn't lose just $38b to her. He lost 25% of Amazon stocks to her.
McKenzie got 25% of Amazon stock. At the time of their separation, it was worth $38b. Some time last year it rose to $60b. Making her the richest woman in the world.
Her worth will increase as Amazon stocks increase.
So, I really don't know why we think she was the greatest loser in the divorce when it was actually the opposite.
She played her cards right and Jeff was the loser.
But it's okay still. There's still enough money.

nullboss:
lol.. shut up man.
Omo.. too many kids on here forming redpill merchants

If we check now, you're at most 20. That's the only reason you would be this stup1d. And if you're over 20, you're finished. You will forever remain stup1d.

If you have an objection, the mature thing to do is let it be known without insulting anyone. Nobody here knows it all. We keep learning. That's why there are debates here from time to time.
If someone says something you don't agree with, oppose it but without being an id1ot.

I am not a redpill merchant. I only come here to ask questions and occasionally state my opinion.
I don't know where this moronic talk about kids forming redpill merchant is coming from.

That said, next time, instead of quoting me to vent your frustration, take a chilled bottle of sniper. Thanks.

ubunja:
how was he a simp?

He simped for his ex wife. Wasn't it obvious?
He could afford it. Yes. But it still doesn't change what his actions were. He lost that sum of money to his wife because he wasn't redpilled before they got together. What happened to signing a prenup or something?
The truth is he would still be the richest and by a large margin hadn't it been for that divorce. He would have had more in investments and therefore more ROI. Let's be honest.

But I guess it doesn't matter though since he is still ridiculously rich. Some people can afford to simp. I guess when that is the case, it isn't simping.

If Bezos hadn't been a simp, he would still be the richest man in the world today and by a very large margin.

Don't be a simp.

You are all right

There are good reasons to cut off your ex completely and there are also good reasons to not do that:

Cutting her off completely might be what's best if she is a problem that persists. On the contrary, if she is someone who could be beneficial and maybe potentially help you improve your status, then that would be a good reason for maintaining her access to you.

Also, there are bad reasons why you should cut her off and also bad reasons why you should not:

Cutting her off might be you potentially shooting yourself in the foot. For instance, the future has a way of bringing us all back together; what happens if you need a favour with something vital and she's the only one that can help out, or knows someone that can? We all don't know for CERTAIN how future events would turn out.
Also, allowing her access to you might be a bad move. For example, some girls will only return to punish you. I once read a story of a lady, after contracting HIV, deliberately going back to infect her exes through sex.

So, as you can see, you're both right. It is left for each of us to do what we're comfortable with and and decide to bare whichever consequences that may occur if what we settled for turned out to not favour us. May the force be with you.

ubunja:
I was literally having nightmares over that post lol. Cool

Wow. And I thought the sarcasm in the post was glaring

ubunja:
lol yizo

Weytin Una dey talk.

ubunja:
they are not going to understand.

The same guys who want zero contact with their ex GFs are the same guys crying that their current GF is cheating with her own ex.
And ex is an ex for a reason but that doesn't erase the past you have. I'm in touch with a few Exes of mine. And some we're still fvcking. Real players know that's how the game goes. Even your ex can hook you up with a job or something because she knows your talents and your interests.
This men VS women mindset of the RedPill needs to really stop. The Game is bigger than people's broken hearts. Your ex must be a connection you have in this life. Like an ace up your sleeve. But because guys break up with women in the most terrible way they can't see past the heartache. Heartache is part of the game. Real ones know this. You need to heal and move on.

Keep contact with your Exes. They offer food eat it. They offer pussy take it. Why?? Because for sex women WILL ALWAYS TRUST AN EX BF BETTER THAN SOME RANDOM NEW GUY.

Guys internalize this shiit. Please. Life is too short.

Ubunja, I agree with what you've said: If an ex offers you something willingly by herself, I don't think it's a crime to accept it. Though It's still okay to reject. Sometimes, building a wall is necessary.
However, that guy was feeling bad because his ex wasn't bringing him food. He felt he had done a lot for her and so, even after their break up, she should still be doing for him the same thing she did for him when they dated.

The fact that he felt bad that she wasn't doing that is what I feel is wrong. Bluntly speaking, It's childish. After a breakup, normally, you shouldn't expect anything from your ex. This may be unfair if you invested a lot in the relationship, but it is what it is. If you must progress, you gotta let go, especially if the ex has moved on. This is why we are learning TRP, so that we don't invest more than we can afford to lose in a relationship.

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JBoy9:
I didn't mean to be rude. Besides, it is a new year. But madam, with all due respect, your phone light seems to be brighter than your brain

Oh my God.

CalliDora1:
Why would you even marry a woman you don't trust well enough in the first place?

It serves you guys right because when they say marry in the Lord, you'll laugh yourselves to scorn now you're all running Helter skelter like headless chickens looking for DNA that is not lost.

I want big boobs, I want big bumbum, I want beautiful face. At the last, no peace of mind as every man wants her too.

Marry the will of God and have some peace.

Nobody should come for me o. It's just daybreak and my brain is still initializing.....

Not even you sisters in the lord can be trusted

Pochettino:
If you dont have urgent 2k for the urgent 2k gang, who do you now have it for? Your sister?

Broke ass

Lol. Yes, my sister and my mother. And it's not just urgent 2k I've got for them. For them, I've got so much more than your impoverished brain could imagine.

My last response to you.

Pochettino:
Unfortunately, you dont have urgent 2k

Yeah, unfortunately for you, I don't have for your type. Fish brain