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Treadway:
he has a lot of wildly unpopular opinions. It's allowed. Lol

He is trying to be smart by half.Lol.Maybe if such happens to him he will allow his other kids to die too because no woman is there to take care of them.

baralatie:

I find this funny that y'all shouting repercussion,no forgiveness,she can poison,and all that do not have a solution on how to protect the 3 kids that belong to the op from harm!

You are the deluded one here. Assuming you lost your wife during childbirth. What happens to the baby? How will you protect him or her from harm? Or will the baby also die?

virginprincess:

Are you dumbfounded? You ladies no dey use sex joke but Una too pretend.

einsteine:
Them suppose bathe you with pepper water, then two people go flog you. One with awusa koboko, the other with Oraimo cord.

Abeg no mind that ode. Na big fool him be. Seems his wife did exactly what the op wife did. Nonsense.

Elsueno:
Da hell is wrong with u, U want him to find out after sacrificing years of his life to care 4 a child only to be abandoned at end?....I do not cheat on any woman....but d moment she cheats on me, dats d end of d relationship, No amount of apology or pleading go save it even if she comes together with Jesus himself!

Most people here don't have sense like the person you quoted so don't be angry

obidaddy:
Hope my advise is not coming in late. I read a few advice & i am afraid they are very harsh & hard.

I am surprised your wife could move on that fast even with 3 children at home, but none the less, if deep inside your heart you still care about her & the relationship, please forgive her. Forgiveness is even paramount now for the sake of your children. Broken homes break children & make life, particularly growing up, hell for the children.

As for the fourth child, you could overlook your wife's transgressions & raise her as yours. Yes, you may not be her biological father, but you can be her daddy. Raise her with love and understanding.

It is not easy to forgive & accept the 4th child. But i have seen many men who forgave and carried on. I know a man whose whole 3 children are not his own, but he accepted and raised them. Upon growing up the children, refused to accept another man as their father, except for the man they grew up knowing as their father.

If you still value the relationship, your mental, spiritual & psychological well being, consider forgiving your wife & accept the innocent child. But you must confront your wife with the truth & see her response.

You may also consider watching Paternity court on youtube to see how many men accept such children with love & move on with what is left of their lives. May God guide you.

How many of your children where from another man?

Maynman:
Same goes for you, a dullard thinks he is making sense not knowing he’s embarrassing himself.
A dullard doesn’t know what “wisdom” means, talkless of having a monopoly of it.
According to your dull logic, women should sleep around with various men to sustain herself and her biological kids, you are wise.

Don't mind that old fool that claims to be a grandfather.

HRMK:
NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY:A FOOL ALWAYS REMAIN A FOOL!HE BLVS HE HAS THE MONOPOLY OF WISDOM!HE IS BETTER IGNORED!GOOD DAY!!

Please just shut up.Go and be taking care of other people's children your wife brought to you.
Imagine what a supposedly grandfather is saying. Tufia.

emmanuelbrown26:
Dont mind dem jare, sometimes, i feel ashame of sharing dis generation with some idiots like that

Same here.

Maynman:
Before a woman can cheat, alot has to happen and it deals with her emotions, talkless of a married woman, if the other man wants to fvck her tomorrow, he’ll.

Don't mind the guy. He doesn't understand the gravity of the woman's offence that's why he is talking like that.

Starz825:
I just went back to read all of your topics...
Very interesting...
You don't even write like one who didn't see the four walls of uni....
I appreciate your writings...

I understood your story and here is my advice...

You mentioned that you don't want divorce..
You are a good man like somebody said up there....
Now....sit your wife down..... explain everything to her....
The father of the child should come and have his daughter.
Now if the father is no where to be found...adopt the girl....

Infact...... Adopt the baby...that's my advice...
Everything will be settled in the future...
Treat the baby as your own...

That's all..
Thanks

All this weak men with there advice. Seems you are the man she's cheating with.

Johnnyjohnnyman:
She is aware of the result she swear that the child is mine that she wasn't pregnant when she breaks up with the other guy in July 2020. It can't be possible because she conceived in September2020 and put to bed in June2021 if she breaks up with him in July and I am not the bio father there is no way for the child to be born in June.
Unless she was slept with another guy before we got back together which she denied. She can't poison me I don't eat her foods neither do I share the same room with her, I eat out and I come home and spend time with my kids then I sleep. I don't know what to do about her and the baby yet but I was thinking about calling both families next week Sunday for a family meeting. I will update you guys on whatever decision I will take.

Goodluck bro. Just be very careful and observant.Pls send the result to both parents/ families and let them also know that anything that happens to you now that she should be held responsible. Do this even before calling the meeting. I know how evil a cheating woman can be talk more of the one that was caught red handed. Device a means to protect yourself at all time as long as she is in that house.

Oga op. For the sake of your life. Discard her and the baby at once. If she finds out that you have known the truth,she will poison you to cover her track. Discard her immediately.

Sweetplum:
I spit back on you. Very stupi d biynthat knows nothing about union or marriage. Very daft nonentity that doesn't know that to divorce a legally married is not easy. Your selfishness didn't allow you to consider the welfare of the other legitimate kids when they are without their father or mother.
If them born you well, quote me again without sense!

Classless slum girl.

Sweetplum:
Bad decision. Who ll take care of your other kids?
Broken home is one of the major causes of BD kids behaviour out there.
Return the child. Ask if she ll still be with you. Count your loss and appreciate the remaining.

I don't know why you don't have sense. He said he will prefer she leaves with the kid,you said it's a bad decesion because she won't be there for her other kid and that broken home is the major cause of bad kids but you still went ahead to tell him to ask the wife if she will still be with him and then count his loss. Since you don't want him to separate from the cheating wife,why are you telling him to ask her? Why repeating what you said is a bad decesion? Or do you like to talk plenty without reasoning just for talking sake. Spit.

Ken4Christ:
I don't support abortions. I am advocating for child care.

You are already in hell for been a hypocrite .

Franzinni:
haha oga you still dey reason like this.. so small pikin still full your head haha but just relax ... Nah your type woman dey take bele tie down den your film go start..

Like I said from all indications you no fit pass 22 prolly still living with your parents with your sucker still draining your parents wallet so you don't know anything yet. But as pospective man, you go still learn.

Girlfriend and wife be like head and leg.

Let me come and go jare

Why won't you come and go when your oracle is already commanding you to drop the phone and go wash plates?Old man weh still dey wash him wife pant before she go give you Bleep.

Sweetplum:
Lol. The runs girl wey you no pay dey play with your destiny o

Na the guy weh Bleep you and him no pay you na him you dey drag like this? No wonder. Na fool even dey Bleep you data why you fit dey drag am.

Ken4Christ:
The wicked shall be turned into hell. That is the direction you are headed for for neglecting the welfare of an innocent child.

Idiot you are and you will rot in hell for aiding and supporting abortions

Franzinni:
oga be like you be pikin you never marry nah why you dey reason like this .. the guy too be like you just that he pass you small becasue he done enter see as e go.

Go marry oga.

Now I go shut up your head like ofada rice

Ode.If you be man. Na your type go dey wash your wife pant before the oracle go allow you Bleep or give you food. Mumu dem plenty. Tueh.

Franzinni:
You think marriage nah beans ?

Woman be like oracle you have to constantly appease the gods if not .... Thunder go faya you!

Oga the money wey you take treat yourself you for give your wife to cook Amala and ewedu or do like me and buy one pack of Arizona and chill. See now

Double wahala

Shut up. I know say na woman dey talk but fear and inferiority complex no let you put your gender.Oracle weh dey Bleep around.

Your shame dey shame me. Foolish simp.

Virginbeauty:
I thought Nigeria men loves successful,independentand hardworking women,so why his he complaining,abeg he should carry his cross in peace.

This one that normally talk without reasoning is at it again. Tueh.

Sweetplum:
See your head. No reasoning. Just generalisation.
Google is there for you to see how men's muscles relax after sex.

Shut up. You don caste yourself say you be a runs and hook up girl. Stop trying to cover it

Sweetplum:
No the comments are sweet. Does the comments taste like flagyl to you ni?

Smh.

Sweetplum:
How many rounds can he go when them start?
The way men sleep after 2-3 rounds of sex is like they ran from Lagos to Kano. Sleeping with mouth opened and looking useless!

For like 3days now your comments against men is so bitter. Did he dump you after fucking you or maybe he didn't pay you after fucking you?

Ken4Christ:
Because of your wickedness, God himself will lift that child above you so you will be ashamed.

Shut up fool. If a woman has the right to either keep or terminate an unborn child and fools like you don't see anything wrong with that. Then you should also not blame any man who also thinks that he has the right either to take care of his child or not. That equality.

MufasaLion:
A foolish teacher.

You are the foolish one here. He is a very honourable teacher unlike you that doesn't have common sense.

Media Govonor. Nonsense

Sweetplum:
Logically, someone that's cheated on has the right to not just destroy the cheaters properties but his life.

Smh. Well a kid speaks.

Ashawo will always be shameless.