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Mariangeles:
Don’t mess up your life any further.
Stop causing trouble and get your acts together!

I don suffer. Lol. See a nobody giving me advice.

Mariangeles:
You’re not worthy to deserve that of me!

Then shut up

Mariangeles:


I’m neither bitter nor single!

Go gather your brood and stop being a nuisance!
Raise them well so that they don’t grow up to be irresponsible like you!

Bring the one you birthed for me first.Ashii.

Mariangeles:
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E kwela m gi n’ehihie a!

Kwanyere onwe gi ugwu!

Stop saying rubbish. Always blaming men that's why you so bitter and single. Onye iberibe.

Cheap ladies.

Mariangeles:
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Get out!

Ode. As if we have not seen and heard of women throwing their new born babies in the trash. Does it mean they fear responsibilities? Always thinking shallow. No sense.

Mariangeles:
Isn’t it usual for most men to want to runaway from their responsibility, talk less of one that has been proven not to be theirs?

Stop typing trash. Are you a man? Or you just open mouth waa and say what you don't know.

Candidlady:
Do you believe that dogs are man bestfriend., do you also believe that dogs see things that our human eyes cant see?


igot a story to tell


#sayNO2DRUGS

Drugeeeee. What's up? You still dey do drugs.?

I don't know why you all still take this old hag nursery school teacher serious.
40 something years old hag without a womb trying to manipulate an innocent man into committing an act he will always live to regret.

Mercychen:
Hi fam.

Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.

There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.

Before, I deliver into the main discuss , let
me quickly highlight how it all started.

Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.

He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreey with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.

So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me.
That was how I got to meet bro.

Now fastforward to the main reason of this post.
There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!

I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?

If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?


Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me but can have more else where or is vasectomy a life threatening condition?

I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free.
I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.

He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.

The big question is ..
WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?

COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?

IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?

Yes opt out already before you destroy the life of an innocent man.

Candidlady:
you should try it too.. Relaxation to the nerves



shows you took your time to go through my profile lol

yeah he stil with his side chick(s). He even searching for more.. Hows your mum.. My dad loves 'em old and slutty too

Since he loves them old and slutty. Why then is he running away from your old and slutty momma? Is her vaginal odour that bad?

Candidlady:
oh now isee! Aint you the same jobles troll with lil or natin to live buggin the op?

igot enough time on my wrist!

all men including your dad your brothers your uncle your male friends your pastor your deacon damn your male tutorz too oh sh:t your babes dad and all the males in her life,. Ihavent added you and my dad are irresponsible

awaiting your reply

I can see that the drug addiction is still very effective .No normal human talks this way. Madness is coming gradually.

Candidlady:
lmao!! Give me our dogs, mum and dad.. Save two

¤nextday

chiln with mum, sassy, shadow, and rambo



oh thanks it has...

Can you see how stewpid you are! Wont you wanna confirm if my smoking too has reduced? Uncle ode

i didn't ask because I enjoy the way you smoke.Is your dad still with his sidechick?

Candidlady:
show me a responsible man and iwil show you a skyscraper without a foundation

Sorry madam. For the fact that your father is irresponsible does not mean that we don't have responsible men.By the way,hope your drug addiction has subsided?

Slavishbenin:
The guy is sick mentally, since he believes the wife shouldn't contribute why is he enjoying the wives Contribution. He should have carried the cross alone

You no go blame am. Naso people weh women dey feed dey always mis yarn so they don't loose their meal ticket.

elyte89:
Intentionally sharing bills means u re telling ur God to share d blessings meant for d man alone..like d op rightly said,let it b a willing act from d wife

Besides if u as a man don't bring DT sharing formula of bills to ur woman ,d woman @ d long run trust u wholeheartedly with her money and support u willingly wout been forced because u av already earn her trust,and such a wife can go any extra length to assist his husband financially, morally most especially during d down times of d husband. This is what I av noticed in married woman whom dere husband takes d responsibility 100%

Nb...I am married

I can bet that with this poor writing skills of yours,you can't even feed yourself talk more of a family.

wunmi590:
Stop crying, go and double your hussle and start being the man you call yourself....

Stop forcing your wife to share responsibility

Hungry fool. See as him dey look like say na 80 yrs old man. Lol

wunmi590:
I'm not the cause of your present predicament, if you are not capable of being the head of your family by taking charge of your responsibilities, stay single


Stop crying

Fool. The only men that can say stuffs like this are people whose wife feeds like you because they are always scared of saying the truth so their wife's don't get angry.You bought car for her but can't fuel and service it and she does it. When men come out you with your hungry looking head will also come out. Lol.

PreciousBro:
I agree with the fact that no man should force his wife to split bills. But are these things needed to be asked nor you wanting to be told or request to be supporting ?

No...

I do have a problem with your point stated in your initial post where you opined it being only "broke men "

I don't think you fully grasp the idea of a man's principles, his personality,the state of his pocket. Nothing ties a man's principles to the state of his pockets because a man can still have money and expects his wife to share bills and a broke man might not even dare ask his wife for a little support. People are different and one's principles determine his personality.

Why are you trying so hard to teach someone who is unteachable? One who lacks the simple principle of a what marriage is all about A simp who can do anything and type anything to retain his meal ticket. Just stop.

wunmi590:
My brother, I'm not saying wife should support the family, but some men keep forcing their wives to split bills shifting responsibilities....

Gosh, if you are not ready to marry, then stay single....


My wife earn more than me, she earn from 3 different steam of income, she support the family, but I didn't force her to do it ..

The car I bought for her, she has never called me for repair before, yes it is my fucking responsibilities to fix the car I gave her, but she does the fixing herself without even letting me meddle into it

Shut up fool. Simps and their stupid way of reasoning. Just like Tegas husband. Most of you simps who are fed by your wife's will always say something so you don't loose your meal ticket. Some people dey suffer sha.

stayclearofme:
Pikin go to sleep stop embarrassing yourself!

The kid no even get sense sef.Naso some lazy fools go come internet dey form posh.Person weh dey claim master's no even fit follow you reason and I wonder on which discipline she get the masters.

wunmi590:
Point of correction, I'm not a woman, I'm a man with a mall who takes responsibility seriously.....

Ode. Just shut up. No wonder you look older than your age.

kmcutez:
Well I have a Master’s degree. Do you?

Lol. Masters only and you can perform more than 99.9 % of Nigerian men in income department? Who doesn't know how most of you use your Virgina to pass exams.Yes. you have masters in clitocurrency and olosho business. Keep it up soon you will become a PhD holder in same business too.Shameless uGLi

Iyaebe:
No be penis wey go work for different area go get codes?if e no dy work for another woman side nko?

Kido. Just go to bed. This is only for the adults.You can comment when you are more matured. This is not a kid playing ground.

irunoko:
it's what it is.. she's not begging, she's not prostituting and she's not a nuisance to anybody so she's the determinant of what makes her happy, face your own life where it needs transformation.everybody get him own for body, including you

Then let her stop subbing. Her life is full of regrets.

cococandy:
How did her life end? Tell us more

Then let her stop subbing.

Iyaebe:
Don't mind them, bring that spiliting and sharing bills before me and watch me apply it everywhere such that you will hate yourself.A man should just be good,do his best,give love and care and you won't ever need to sound it to your wife to be supportive. But you see those redpillers immediately asking for bills to be shared ehn,me sef will activate my other side and even the air we breath will be shared,down to the bedroom as you'll only release sperm when I want kid,other times I'm going to stop you at your peak because we have to divide the energy as well.rubbish

Kids will always be kids.

irunoko:
Thank God you made lemons out of the lemonade life threw at you and made something meaningful out of your life and I hope your irresponsible sperm donor has finally received sense

Tell us the lemons she made? Do you think she is happy that her life ended this way?

ovieigho:
At age 13 you don get peer wey dey influence you ?

Thats lack of parental responsibility na

Apt