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pussyphilia:
Sophia is obviously a better fuccker than you madam. She understands your husband's sexual psychology better and use it on him while you think she's using juju on him. Whenever a side chick turns the man against his wife and family, na because she fvcks the man better. While the wife at home doesn't even care to dress hot nor explore the man's sexual fantasies, the side chick drives him crazy with her dressing and sexiness. A man may want femdom bd$m which only the side chick knows and gives him while the wife is at home doing missionary style. So, the side chick holds the key to the man's sexual fantasies and gives him all the excitements he craves, that is why she can easily turn the man away from his wife and children.
So madam, go and beg Sophia to tell you your husband's darkest sexual fantasies which he cannot disclose to you but to Sophia.

What are you even saying? I keep saying it that, as a man or woman, if your eyes are still outside, or you're not ready to fully be committed in your marriage, then don't get married.

What's the essence of getting married and you still want to cheat? Hence, putting your spouse through mental and emotional torture. Doing things you know you can never take if done to you?

You writing the above, is your type that they easily lock inside a bottle, and throw away the keys. When you're all spent and useless in all aspect of life, you start regretting, and asking for forgiveness. But then, it will be too late.
Proverbs 6:24-26

Her life, her business!

Rest in peace to her. Anybody way dey vex anyhow, na to mind how to follow am talk.

His life, and his choice! Everyone has their lives to live the way they deem fit . I wish them well.

Rhymesy:
After defending my Bsc Geography and Natural Resources Management from the department of Geography, University of Uyo in August, 2024, I waited in Uyo hoping to see a part time job. Unfortunately, I didn't locate any good one. Things began to be tougher because my parents didn't send me money again.

I decided to move to Port Harcourt this year. On getting to Port Harcourt, I applied as a Geography Teacher in one of the prestigious schools. Fortunately, I got the job after series of interviews and started teaching.

Yesterday my account was credited and I went and withdraw half of the salary.



To God be the Glory.

Congratulations to you! More wins Bro.

GOFRONT:
With these series of malfunctional incidence of robots, I just hope my sexdoll wont malfunction one these days and grap tight on my deeq while I'm in service mode..........

Her left arm got pulled off while greasing it a forthnight ago....

Sexdoll? What happened to the main deal?

Little wonder, there was a time I bought fufu from the market. The smell was so off, but at the time I couldn't place the smell. I ate two from the ones I bought, and was feeling funny in a way, I just trashed the rest. And since then, I prefer eating either semo, wheat, or eba.

Omo, most Nigerians are naturally evil walahi, nothing way you wan tell me.

GOFRONT:
These oyinbo and their wahala........How about me that has driven the corpse of my friend's younger brother from Kano to Imo state??

Dude was seated beside me on the front passenger seat as though he was still alive!!!

Wow! You get strong mind oooo. May his soul continue to rest in peace.

Hmmm, most folks follow all these good steps yet are still held up, or delayed by powers beyond their control at the moment.

Note: A man might prepare his horses for war, but it is God that showeth mercy, and lift up men. If you know you know!

Shalom!

By God's grace, I am this rich. Isn't it better to use the money and create a great name for myself, family, and unborn children? Rather than, going to another man's country in which the next administration might wake up one morning and frustrate all my efforts.

Oh, God help me, and have mercy upon me. Na you know the reason you send me come this country called Nigeria baba God. 🤲

Such inhumane folks. If you watch most Chinese movies, you'd see how the elites treats the commoners in their country. If they can do such to their own people, how can you expect a different treatment from them as a foreigner?

With this, I hope your brains would reset at least. Your coconut head has cost you your job. Qatar isn't one of those nations you do or behave anyhow, most especially when you are a foreigner.

Next time, be humble, and be open to corrections.

Shalom!

I honestly don't know why a grown up guy like this will be behaving in such a manner? He should go and find something much more better to do already.

Even if VDM is a gay, is he the first? Why is this even in FP though, it's not worthy to be at all.

This is great! I hope the distribution is done evenly, to farmers that needs it across the nation? Make we no come dey hear or see anything later on.

Nice one! All these our heartless politicians, after causing the masses pain, and hardship, they will be running to the abroad to chill with their families.

uche87:
Osahon George Osayimwen writes from England.

How do you expect most marriages to work, when some marriages these days, has become transactional? Most folks are now getting married to strangers instead of to their friends. Some just want to get married cos all their friends are already married, and they seem like the odd one out.

If you ask me, marriage is beautiful. Pray to get it right with the right person, and who knows, you might have your happily ever after here on earth.

TomjoTM:
Nah they ain't daydreaming, it's like going to the market to buy fish, you won't actually see a stale fish and a fresh fish and actually go for a stale fish, it is a buyer's market, if buyers want fresh fish, it is the duty of the vendor to have fresh fish otherwise they won't sell. Always know what your buyers want.

Dey play! But a stale fish when not sold and put in the freezer again to freeze, will definitely look fresh na. You can only know the difference only when you are very observant! And when you aren't, you buy it as being fresh!

Quality20:
In the past, many pastors married and converted ashewo women and they became responsible and religious but these days, many guys flow with hookup girls.

Guys can u really marry those religious hookup babes u are dating or u guys are only having fun? Are u trusting enough of ladies? Remember some of them only did hookup because of some problems bordering on finances, like been with younger siblings who need money or sick parents etc.

Those of you being judgemental and yawning rubbish on this post, will someday end up codedly marrying once upon a time olosho. Some of you here even sleep with them on a regular.

After doing all that rubbish with them, so you now expect that karma won't somehow, or someday catch up with you later in the nearest future? Be daydreaming! Your toxic or overused gf or boyfriend will someday be someone else's; BAE Or LOML.....y'all should continue playing, or daydreaming!

Nice2023:
I remembered when they both toiled to see me through this difficult world,especially my dad who made sure me and my two brothers attended University and graduated.

Today,I decided to build this house for them and to make their remaining years on earth a fulfilled one.

Below are the pictures.

Wow! This is applaudable. God continue to bless you real good. May God Almighty grant your parents more peaceful and fruitful year ahead to enjoy the fruits of their labour, Amen! Congratulations 💐

Peter532:
I don't know if I should be angry or just smile and take it as it is. This is someone that I fed, I clothed despite us being closed friends since we were kids. He knows everything about me that my parents don't even know till dates..We could go to a gathering together and I will be the one ordering and paying for everything we bought even recently because I always acted like the big bro and he accepted I guess .. Just last week I saw it on his status about is house opening invite. I later got a dm from him that same evening telling me about it that I should come through.

It came as a surprise I admit, even though I know he was doing quite well for himself. I know some will call it entitlement mentality but since I considered we were close like a brother we even ate from same plate last 2weeks, I thought I should have known atleast.

Note: I noticed so many people will come in here to call me names, even some accusing me to be someone with bad motives and sort I smile. Not everyone has a evil mindset like you or some persons you know, It's just that when you expect so much from people you hold very close to your heart you might get disappointed and it hurts badly.

Especially when you know you can't do that same thing to that person. I only brought it out here because I wanted to know maybe I'm overreacting because I feel a deep level of betrayal but hey I am happy for him and I will attend the house opening tomorrow.

File Photo for Illustration

Now you know how he regards you!

I'd always say, be a good or a kind person. But dey use your brain too. If you are being good or kind to someone and they don't treat you in such ways, give yourself sense say they are not for you.

Attend the house opening or warming, but now you know how he takes or sees you, or regards you! Shalom!

YourGFsnatcher:
A lot of girls do it

The word most should be used, not generalizing it that all women warm up to their ex's....

Scholace:
Good day all

My dad is from a nuclear family of eight. Seven boys and a girl. Their parents are late. My dad owned 8 rooms apartment in his village. He singlehandedly bought the land and raised the building. We reside in Lagos in a rented apartment. Obviously that was the only building owned by my dad. We hardly visit the village, but I've been there twice, likewise my other siblings. My mum and dad are the only ones that frequent there back then, and they're well known. My dad and the sixth child of their parents are the only ones that owned a house. The rest of them live in a rented apartment and had no house to their namew.

The house at the village wasn't occupied by anyone nor let out. Recently, one of the family members from their mother side at the village suggested to allow someone occupied the house. He brought in some people who i learnt were church people. Someone gave my dad info that they want to sell the house. My dad was surprised. We later got info that my dad elder brother claimed he owned the house.

My dad called his elder brother immediately he got the info to confirm what he heard. The so called brother asserted, and he was ruthlessly lashed by my dad. He was surprised by my dad's reaction. Two of my dad other siblings came around to apologise on behalf of their eldest brother outburst. I was around then, i overheard one of them saying it's a family's house. I was like, why are they fighting their eldest brother then?He claimed he owned the house while some claimed it's a family's house.

Apparently, my dad discussed this with two of his friends and they both advised he sell off the house and get a piece of land in Lagos or Ogun State and put up a small building on it. They told him if he didn't sell it, the family will take over the house when he kick the bucket, and his children and wife will be thoroughly dealt with if they attempt to be in loggerhead with them. He called one of his friend that reside at Ibadan, he said the same thing as suggested by his two other friends. He also added, if he can get a developer to take over the building because only 4 rooms had been roofed. By doing that, the developer will complete the building and write a will when to recoup their resources and the building taken back from them by we the children.

My mum suggested he sell it and start up a business, considering the fact that things aren't going well financially with him. My immediate younger brother may likely drop out of school due to finances. According to my dad he has really helped his siblings when things were going well for him. He financed his elder brother's wedding, sent his two siblings to school, put some in trade as mechanic and electrician. Sponsored two of his younger siblings wedding ceremony. He linked one of his younger brother's to my mum's brother who happened to be a staff at Mobil. By the grace of God, he got a job at Mobil. That my mum brother is late, he died 2016. After all the favour my dad has rendered to his siblings, the best way they could say thank you was to inherit his only house. None of them has ever given even our last born #100. I graduated from school and still in search of job, none of them had shown interest. Glory be to God, we've never had the course to call them that we're hungry. I wasn't surprised regarding the recent development from my dad's siblings. I was envisaging taking it to a radio station, but i got to realised I'd have to spend some money towards that. I was discussing with my brother and he suggested i put it up for wider view

Please what steps would you suggest my dad take inorder not to lose his property to his siblings.

Thank you.

From a true life experience, I would say fighting over landed property, or land, most of the time, does not end well. Your dad, should better act very fast, and heed to the advise given to him by his friends.

If he doesn't, like someone commented earlier,most of the time, paternal side of ones family are the most wicked, and ruthless sets of humans one could think of, now that your uncle's or father's siblings are behaving this way while your father is still alive, imagine what they would do to you, your siblings, and mum when or if your dad should pass on.

GO0DHardDick:
Damnit!

The average Nigerian girl cannot get over her ex, especially if you're the one that dumped her. I can confidently tell you you'll remain stuck in her memory forever because she'll never forget about you. If you try reaching her again to knack her, na straight free ticket be that because she'll always come back for you to knack her simply because she hasn't gotten over u no matter how many years it takes.

Dear men, always be the first to dump her and end the relationship, this gives you higher chances of chopping her kpekpus anytime anyday twice on Wednesday night. Moreover it also shows you're in command and control of the relationship and can decide to end it whenever you want.

I wonder where you people get all these ideas from? Not all women are the same. It's because most women don't have sexual discipline, and self worth. Like why give an ex access to your body again after he dumped you for someone else? Only to come back after some time again, to sleep with you and leave again? Isn't that stupidity? It's okay, to chit chat, and be cool if need be, but warming up so to get in-between your legs again, should be a no no at all cost!

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to you naira landers,

I know some of you will criticize me here for always bringing my marital issues here.

Well i believe we got lots of married responsible people here that might have gone through what i am facing through and may have one or two advice for me on how to navigate through my issues.

Some of you are unaware of my stories, i will urge you to read through my stories under my profile name and have better understanding about how it unfolded.

Now i am still struggling emotionally base on the problem am having with my wife, the disloyal, cheating and dishonesty from her ever since she got the job and get an accommodation in the barrack.

She has been a complete different person entirely and still surprise how she turned to be who she is now. well i have decided to divorce her and sent her away because she had caused me enough pains emotionally which am yet to heal from, my peace of mind and mental health is at stake and dont want to run mad because of a woman. I dont think i deserve that. .

My advice to single men and women planning to settle down soon should be very careful with the person they want to marry and know the person very well cos people do change alot when circumstances struck.

That man or woman you are so in love with now might turn out to be a beast when you later end up getting married. Marriage is a very difficult journey.

Now i and my wife are separated living apart but my two daughters are still leaving with me and with the help of my aged mom and sister, they are taking care of them and doing well.

Now am kinda confuse whether i should let the kids go stay with their mother or they should stay with me. Though she is not dragging custody with me but I realize the kids staying with me for now gives me that emotional strength and doesn't make me feel lonely, but if i take them to their mom, i might start missing them and loneliness and depression may strike being that i will be living alone.

I just want to get advice from divorced or separated men or women and even married and single here how they handle the custody part of their kids when their marriage ended, is it easy as a man to raise two girls age 5 and 6yrs and what are the issues relating to these.

As i said, i have a mom and aunt that can look after them very well and all i have to do is provide for them all they will be needing physically and financially, but i just what to be sure if am taking the right decision and wont regret taking their full custody.

pls anyone with useful advice should drop here cos am in a dilemma right now and want to get solution to my issues.

Pls sorry for the typo errors, am writing this with emotions scattered.

I am not criticizing any profession. But any man or woman working in the force, it will only take the grace of God for that man or woman to be responsible, and be an upright person.

It's best your raise your daughters. Since your wife is not even fighting for them to be with her, it shows she doesn't need them to come and be an obstacle to her.

May God help you!

joeargy:
Hi everyone, I will appreciate ur advice...

My son is 2yrs old , when he was born I and my wife named him Charles but my wife's mother and father can't stop calling him Daniel, when ever my son is at their place for holidays or visits, they call him Daniel and all their neighbors and friends now call my son Daniel.

I remembered I told my wife about it and her mother heard and felt bad, he is my son and not theirs, I understand grandparents give their grand children names too, I have a name from my grandparents but they call me by the one my parents gave me...

What do I do house?

You are just giving yourself unnecessary headache. Me that my parents named me after each of their mothers. If they call me either of the names, I answer.

My siblings too, any name that entered their mouth, they call me too. And I answer, at least, I know the name stated in my certificate at my time of birth.

Life no hard ooo.

Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

You love a wicked, pretentious woman who doesn't love you! It seems you are thinking with your heart, and d**k instead of your head, and authority as a man.

Didn't she know you had a child(daughter) with your late wife before marrying you?

Most women need a very firm men to lead them right, and call them to order whenever they start their nonsense attitudes. If you condone such, you would only have yourself to blame on both short, and long run.

Well, if don't want your adorable daughter to resent you some years from now, better do the needful now!

bluefilm:
Everybody thinks they are good people.

So there's really nothing special about you and your belief that you are a good person.

But the most ridiculous part is when you actually base that your belief on being a good person on that fact that no dog on this planet barks at you.

Dammit!

As if that's not enough, you still went on to advise a lady to leave a relationship because of a dog that doesn't want her?

And you still want me to think your senses are perfectly inorder?

Well, I guess it's always easy to give such a useless advice simply because you are not the one wearing the shoes so you don't know where it pinches.

I understand how you feel, honestly I do! If you had not mentioned that, you have told your boyfriend of 3months repeatedly to kill his dog, or sell it. I wouldn't have replied you the way I did.

Why sound so cruel to an animal such as a dog simply because it doesn't like you? That's evil, and it shows you can easily kill/cause severe harm to a human, if he/she stands as a threat to you.

Do whatever you wish! But don't do, something that will come back to hunt you later.

This is the last reply ,you are going to get from me....so

Shalom!

bluefilm:
So what you are saying is that just because one stupid pitbull didn't bark at you, it then means that you are a good person and there's nothing sinister about you?

What a poor and myopic way of reasoning!

I know I am a good person. Whether you call it myopic or not, poor reasoning or not it's your opinion. Asides the pitbull, I can't remember when a dog barks at me.

Check yourself, and if you can't bring yourself to accept the dog or the dog to like you. Leave the guy and his dog alone in peace. He's not the only guy in the world.

Shalom!

turmacs:
My boyfriends dog

We recently started dating about three months ago. I've visited his house quite a lot but his dog still doesn't like me. I expected after spending that long time with the dog, she would have gotten used to me but no, that dog still holds resentments towards me.

Anytime I come over, it starts barking uncontrollably. We can't even get intimate with peace of mind, it keeps barking at the doorstep while we are having sex in his room.

Until we're done and he (my boyfriend) goes out to attend to her. The dog does not allow me go near him anytime it's around always sitting next to him and growling anytime I'm close by.

I've suggested to him to kill the dog or sell it so i can have peace of mind but he said he loves the dog so much that the dog was his girlfriend before I came into his life as he had not been in any relationship before(I'm his first girl)...

I don't know what to do and I don't want to say I'm beginning to get tired of the relationship but I'm not happy. Had it been the kind of dog self was all this parlour dog or small dogs, I wouldn't have been complaining, but it's all this very big dogs. I think he said the specie is a boa bull or something...

Please I need advice...

There's something sinister about you lady, that you might know, or might not know.

I remember a friend had a pitbull (Pablo) that was as huge as what I can't describe. The first time the dog saw me,I was so scared. But I didn't run, so he came closer, and stood beside me. And was drolling and wagging its tail. So my friend said, that's strange, he likes you, he didn't bark at you. The first day,I just managed to touch his head.....lol

Subsequently, whenever I am around what I kept doing was say Hi Pablo, you are so grown now. What are you eating, so good to see you again. Then he walks around me, and sit. And also, whenever they want to feed him, I will volunteer to put the food in his plate.

Dogs are wonderful! So, you suggesting your boyfriend of 3months should kill his dog that has been in his life before you,or sell it, only means there is something sinister about you.

advanceDNA:
Haba madam....maid na somebody daughter too ooooo...its just a job

I never said they aren't. I prefer assisting the you g lady from afar, that'd way better.

Persephone1:
Men aren't afraid of successful women perse most men can't relate with successful women because they come with lots of compromise men can't afford. The traditional man wants a woman who will always be available, who won't question his opinions and decisions ( right or wrong) a woman who will cook, do house chores, be a "yes sir" etc. A successful woman may not be able to meet up with all these.

For most Nigerian men money is their bargaining chip in a relationship, there ability to provide a woman's need give them surge of control, relevance and power. Dealing with a woman who can't take care of herself can be very difficult for a man who is yet to realize that his existence is more than ability to provide.


Successful women demands more, for the everyday woman, her wants in a man may be limited to "being taken care of" but for a successful woman she will demand more varying from accountability to loyalty to having a say in decisions, sharing responsibilities etc. Her demands are higher and sometimes impossible to meet for average men.

Of course, some successful women can be proud, unruly and difficult to relate with but trust me, all these stem from "see finish" i.e what can the man offer but truth is when they finally meet the right one, they submit.

Not completely True!

My prayer each day is that, God the more you lift me higher in life, help me to remind humble, respectful, and not loose myself in the process.

I am a woman, and I can beat my chest and say what OP said is the truth. Most women loose it once they are very successful. The ones that are successful,and yet humble are not up to 2%. Most of them, even belittle their fellow women who are not yet as successful as them in the process.

We should call a spade a spade and not turn a blind eye, or sugar coat things that are not right.

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

You see why most people advise that, marrying a virgin in this time and age, doesn't guarantee that she will be faithful. Go for a good woman, who double checks her conscience before she does anything.

She's a girl that doesn't even have a good home training, she is inviting a man to come sleep with her while, still in her father's house.

You can see that, even though you were the one that deflowered her, and she knows your intentions of marrying her, it still didn't stop her from cheating on you, with her full chest.
with a much better d**k.....sorry.

OP, you should thank your star that God exposed her and the type of mother she has. The earlier you break up with her and move on, the better for you.