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Equity15:
honestly. It's sooo annoying. I wonder why up till this time, one can't stream on YouTube. It's fvcking annoying.

check rojadirecta.watch

I understand u perfectly, but saying u can't build a relationship with people u barely know is like saying his family never existed all this years u have been dating... U even said it that he flows with ur family perfectly..my questions are, is ur family around where ur boo is that gives him the freedom to relate with dem smoothly? How did he do it ? How do u relate with ur own siblings? What's your perception about handling marriage and extended family?
...the truth is, if u can be free and cosy with ur siblings then u can also do same when u find urself in ur fiancè family space. Most Men who are extroverts are very particular about family ,hence his cordiality with yours. Its not a big problem, jus remove the part of your thought that will always use "I AM AN INTROVERT" to excuse u from taking the bold step of accommodating visitors and family members .

U r a good person (at least u told us so)..but how will ppl know u r a good person when De can't access u becos u r always hiding under the guise of "I am an introvert".. If u r a good person, no matter how introvert u are ,ppl will feel ur vibes... My gf is an introvert to the core n i am an extrovert but she relates with my siblings even more than i do...I hope I wasnt too harsh on u... Make the decision now dear, we all make sacrifices to make our relationship work... Ur boo is a family kinda person, accept that bitter fact or walk away dear.. Either ways it doesnt make u a bad person

Havilaah1:
Good day all, i want to pour my heart on what's bothering me and get people's view and possible solutions to the issue.

I've been in a relationship with my boo for a couple of years now and it's a serious relationship, we're are very close.. infact we're practically besties aside relationship. For some months now i noticed he no longer gives me attention like he used to, the vibe between us dropped and it was getting me angry. He stopped doing the things he knows i like, he knows my love language is attention/care as well as complement but he stopped doing all these. I'd send him a photo where i look so beautiful and he'd only say you look good, at a point i started preparing my mind for the worse.

Just yesterday he told me there's something he wants us to talk to me about and it's been bothering him and i asked him what it was, he said it's about us. He said 2 of his siblings asked him same question on different occasions but, he didn't see it as a big deal the first time but when it was asked the second time he got angry and that's the reason he hasn't been flowing well with me.

The question was how can you get married to someone who is not close to your siblings, when he said this i was weak. I know when we started the relationship he told me his siblings are free people i can relate with, i told him i will try. I was in contact with 2 of his sisters before this year( i sometimes chat, text or call during birthdays, new month and festivities).

This year i started chatting with the 3rd sister, her wedding was coming up and she sent me IV. I congratulated her and she asked if i will be around, i told her i will try and create time so i can travel down to attend. I really did travel down to attend the wedding, she was surprised when she saw me but i noticed my boo wasn't happy with me all through the event.
Now he's saying he's in close communication with my mum and siblings, they talk all the time but same can not be said about me. He was thinking how can he get married and his siblings will refuse coming to his house because there's no relationship between us.

I'm a very introverted person while himself and his siblings on the other hand are extroverts and ambiverts, i don't find it easy building up ties with people from a distance. I have very few friends, i can be in a place and i won't talk if I'm not used to the people or there's no serious thing to talk about (that's the reason i talk to his siblings during birthdays, new month or festivities). I don't know how to build up a strong relationship with them before marriage, it's even worse because we don't get to see often cos they're in a different state but I've visited them on a few occasions.
How do i handle this issue. I was in deep thought all through the night, i couldn't get up to 4 hours sleep.


God knows i love his family as much as i do mine, he himself said he knows i care about them 100% but his family cannot read my mind to see that i have them in mind. After our discussion last night i couldn't sleep, I've been feeling bad about the whole thing. Introversion is making me look like I'm not a good person.

I really don't know how to go about this, please i need advice from people who have been in similar situation.
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chiommy123:
I understand her sha. Some of us do not feel very comfortable in some churches

na to jejeli find person for your church marry na,.

This is not the way na...naija how far na

Please how do I get to jkk from wilmer bus stop ..please its urgent ,please help a brother.

I will fill the same thing solomon filled in that cheque o..and a guarantee for a heavenly slot ..

ObiOfOnistha:
Catholics are neither here nor there, they are always jumping like monkey from one place to another, they are like the biblical Simeon the sorcerer. they are unstable like the sea

. and where are you if I may ask?..

Walai u r a comedian...lwkm

Ur watsapp number sir...

nwekeugochukwu:
https://igberetvnews.com/1383863/ransom-paid-rescue-kagara-students-niger-state-governor/

No ransom was paid but u incurred a lot of logistics by paying traditional rulers, vigilante , security operatives and OTHER STAKEHOLDERS ....����.....

So the kidnappers will just kidnap people, take them to d bush and feed them for 10days then release them without collecting anything becos they r running a charitable organization or school feeding campaign ..�����... These people the whyn us...

owukpa:
Rev Fr Joachim Makama, a pioneer Teacher of Our lady of Fatima, and Pioneer member of St Dominics Catholic Basilica Ungwan Pama is dead.

IDOMA VOICE gathered that the priest died in a fatal accident after his vevilce had a head-on collision with a truck.

His death came barely one month after Rev Fr Vincent Tanko of Ankwa Parish died in a terrible accieent.

It was gathered that Makama just resumed at his new station on the 5th of December in Gumel as a School Administrator before he was crushed to death.

SOURCE....https://www.idomavoice.com/2021/02/joachim-makama-another-kaduna-catholic-priest-dies-in-terrible-accident.html

rest on dear father.

So the clerics can locate them whereas the nigerian army can't pick up their trail....something is not adding up here..

Chai...wat a lost....
When bokoharam kills, we see pictures but when the military technically or kinetically defeats bokoharam we dont even get to see half a dead body of a bokoharam terrorist...
Who r we deceiving I this country?... Tueh...
To know that a soldier that spoke out was arrested n detained still baffles me...

May their soul rest in peace amen....

There is a thin line between LOVE and INFATUATION.. You can never eat your cake and have it... Decide what u want today and stick to it...the truth is, you will always find someone that is more better even after marriage but will you resolve to changing men like cloths?..I beliv u know the answer in your heart... SHALOM

TheSourcerer:
You still be thinking you are special o and God will come to your aid when you need him because you are special or because you dey read Bible.

Sometimes I wonder if some people have brain inside their thick skull...
Its not compulsory to comment ...just dont bring on ursef wat u can't carry.... U had better stop blaspheming and stick to wat u can swallow.

Indeed God's not dead...

Guy, please and please ...try to get her to talk and have it recorded...that will be the only proof u will have when things go sideways ... She will eventually tell on u to protect herself if u continue to keep ur good virtue... Its just a mater of when... Use ur kidney wisely...

Ahh....it means they will have to first short down markets and malls and night clubs and bars and even commercial buses o..ahh...what is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander o.... All na crowded places o....

[quote author=Homeboiy.

A man stabbed a girl near urukpotha hall today, instead of people to rush her to hospital, they where busy taking pictures till she bleed to death.[/quote]And you waited for her to bleed to death so that u can come and report it online abi?... Let's all do wat we know is right without waiting for the majority...

Rest on, great legend, live beyond the skies forever with Giana by ur side... Peace...

Wetin man no go chop for restaurant....

Again?

Congrats to him

RillJ:
A joke taken too far by every standard.

1. Moving N400M cash under any guise is money laundry.
2. Who is this VIP No Name that purportedly owns the cash? How did he source for the money?
3. What business did the VIP No Name do in a Conflict Zone to generate the cash sum of N400M
4. Why was the money not routed via a bank?
5. What is the Army's involvement in interstate cash movement?
6. How many other times have these set or other officers engage in transporting cash from one place to another?

Sure, this is a huge joke.

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I tire o....
Now them d try soldiers way whisk money but them no wan report the owner of the money...

#400mil to b delivered to someone, what for ?....
I don tire for this country....see as raw cash the fly around for this socalled cashless economy.... If na young boy Dem see with #100k now them go call criminal

wingmanIII:
2 different serial killers

Me I tire o....from catching him on his way to akwa ibom to catching him in a hotel trying to kill another lady...... The whole story isn't adding up here

Passionate888:
Buhari sef

nawa for am o...

Lwkm

Halo starpress