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Harry Potter:
@Donvilo and Uche are both of u talking 4rm experience or are u just imaging things?.look wen u treat a girl badly she seems 2 hate u the more but wen u show her love despite all odds,than she will make u feel like a king.just try dis and u will see.

Some, not all girls respond positively to a good treatment by her lover.

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Donvilo:
He he! Well, I think u're right sha. U see, some women are quite frustrating. Especially the ones that likes messed around. I do not doubt that though. Cos' that's what life is all about. Anyway, how are u? From what I can verify from your profile, u seem new to this thread.

Yes uchedude is right, sometimes i think this love thing is like playing loto, very hard to win big

U are everything, car dealer and bogus travel agency. Think

posakosa:
If you catch your girl in bed with another girl, YOU JOIN them,

U never disappoint me

STORM2:
@justwise, u're saying dat if a man really loves a woman he's going to be used. Is dat it? So as a 'real' man u can't love a woman cos women are opportunistic and will end up controlling and humiliating u. Am i right? I don't know wat kind of girls u've met, but i appreciate d little things. Spending on me isn't love. I'm not broke. If i need perfume i'll use my own money. A guy could buy a bon bon 4himself but if he bites half of it and gives it to me it'll make my day. Its not wat u give its how and why. Loving isn't a sign of weakness. Don't let your fear of being vulnerable stop u from being d great lover u can be. Keep in mind though-if she's only after your money, u should stop sleeping with her!!

When i replied u b4 i didn't want to be so blunt as u have done(bolded) but i'm glad u read in between the lines. some women are usedto been lied and treated like sh.t, they end up thinking that all men are like that and go on revenge mission and i have been at the receiving end of it sometimes, i'm not a saint, i have made some mistakes in the past, not knowing who really loves me, hence letting the good girl go and regret it later.
I'm not selfish when it comes to looking after the woman i love but from past experience i now have tough skin. Alot of women will say all the right things, all boxes ticked but by the time they come into your life the game changed, attitude set in, and i never wasted any second to show that person the exit door(maybe thats my weak point)
herniec made a good point, staying single untill the right time with the right woman is not wrong, what is the point of staying with a living hell just to save face? No responsible man/woman should stay in meanless rela/ship just to save face

Pple are telling her to hang around and seek help together, even her family and his family too.

They are very happy family, nobody wants to believe her cos the hubby is very likable man.

I'm shocked as well

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Sometimes, they keep it in, in the hopes that the feeling goes away. Others try to prove themselves wrong, sometimes they are just afraid. . .I always tell people to get their gaydar up and running. If yours is strong, you can sense it. . .[/color]

She wants to run but then again its not easy

@Chuksab,

Wake up u fool, u will get no money from anybody here.

419ner

STORM2:
@justwise, so wen u're in love with a woman a mumu is born? And all d other romantic stuff is just too cartoon like for a 'real' man like u to actually do? Nah, u're better than that. Come on, share. What happens wen u're in love with a woman?

When a man do all the loving, caring and providing thing to a woman, 7 out of 10 times he is not taking seriously. he will be likely be cheated on, lied to.
Basically alot of woman prefer the bad boys, they see those who spend on them as mumu, cash machine.
Is there anything called real love? Days are gone

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Ahhhh
Well he loves her as the mother of his kids, wife and companion but he's not necessarily jonesing to jump her bones. It happens. Some couples work that out. . .like having an open relationship, some divorce. . .others struggle to keep the family together and not cheat. . .[/color]

Up untill last wk when she caught him, she never ever susppected nothing, they dated for abt 3yrs b4 marriage, now this

iice:
[color=#9900ff]I don't find it hard to figure that out. If he cheats with the same sex. . .it would mean that he was either bisexual or he hadn't known/settled for sure that he was gay. Besides some gay men have wives and kids _*shrugs*

If it's with the opposite sex, again _*shrugs*.
I doubt i would be thinking that. . .I tend not to react as what people call 'normal' [/color]

Absolutely! that was y i started this topic. A friend, married with 3kids caught her hubby with another man, but she is confused.
He still confess his love for her, very good dady and husband, he works hard and look after the family. She is really confused about the whole thing

posakosa:
I must have been in a haste to respond or [b]maybe the OP edited the original post, I didn't know that this was about same-sex/homosexual relationships, [/b]


But urm,

No i did not edit it, i see u are struggling to get ur head around the whole issue.ahaha

Bros move on, yes its not easy to move on but give it a try, u will with time.
Stop calling and begging her to come back, pick urself up and get busy with other activities.

Pretend to be happy(even if u are) anytime u are close to her or her friends, don't give the impression that u still hurt abt it.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]No cheating. . .[/color]

U know sometimes when one is cheated on with an opposite sex, u will be thinking why did he/she do that? Was it cos i'm not doing enough in bedroom department or the other woman/man is good at something.

But when the cheating is with the same sex, its hard to figure out what exactly that drives him/her to that.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]More or less, same thing i was thinking[/color]

If u are madly inlove with him will u let him off and keep him?

Missy B:
That would seem more normal and hurt less.

Hmmm, to be honest, its a tough one. I'm not sure what i will do if i caught my gf screwing another gal

Missy B:
Catch my man 'hitting' anatha man's butt?
It's not the cheating that would hurt me . . . .It's knowing that I once allowed him
into my life.

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Would u feel that same way if u caught him cheating on u with a woman?

posakosa:
If the person has informed me from the beginning that they are NOT monogamous in anyway and its been my choice to continue the relationship, then it may not hurt as much because I, myself, will be playing my own game. As they've been upfront with me from the getgo,

I imagine that it HURTS more when theres an expectation that this individual is monogamous and then, aarrgh, they're with another person.

If he tells u from day1 wouldn't that be a turn off?

Ani Lee:
I think my first reaction will be a major turn off. Then definitely followed up by disgust. And then may be awe i.e. after getting over the fact that its a man. [b]But generally I dont think I will get hurt because it would be a strange and shocking position to be in. But u never know, posa dearest might have a point there too. [/b]

Exactly! cos u be wondering wht is going on then again u will think well, he is getting what a woman can not give him but u can't figure out what exactly its

Pple are really funny. I have my fear with all these pple here.

U want to go to aso rock or visa? Since u are a good footballer start with lower team there in Nigeria, u will be spotted by a bigger club.

For guys, will it hurt u more if u caught ur gf cheating on u with another girl than a man? Same question to the ladies, will it hurt u more or less if he cheats with another man?

Andyjoy:
, a new mumu is borne

Best answer

Gabry:
he makes her laugh when she is down. . . he is by her side when she is in pain. . . he is her protector when she is in trouble. . . he is her shoulder to cry on when theres no one around to listen to her worries and fears. . . he is her best friend and life long partner. . . he is her second brain when it comes to making decisions, he is her wisdom, he is her man!. . .

U watch too much cartoon

davidsoj:
Why do Shenghen countries behave like that. My pastor wa refused Holland visa and he went ahead and delete the stamp on his passport, i hope it will not affect him as he wants to apply to germany

SHALOM

Man of God indeed.

posakosa:
Kill the Arrow.

Hmmmm, u ok?

U self, how u go suggest such thing? No congo? Who u wan kill? Abeg oo

follypimpi:

We Men should stand up for our rights,with em tites poppin out and Big ass,We should say No to Sex,if you are with me Say YEAHHH

U are on ur own on this one

kaytues:
Call girls no dey call, na only flash dem sabi . Guys make we no dey decieve ourselves jo, No girl ready to spend on guys these days.

Surpriingly, one just flash me as i dey respond to this thread now. So no long thing,

Hahahah, nothing do u my bros