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Ani Lee:
Eeh me too. I once opted for a LDR (long distance relationship) and initially I was so excited and I think i greatly overestimated my capabilities, thinking I could handle it. Months later, I was bored, irritated when he would call or communicate, eventually, I called it off. It was all for the better for me. And him I believe. I learnt my lesson and dont do that anymore. [b]I can't live on false hope and wouldnt victimize another human being to the same phenomenon. [/b] [b][/b]

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Couldn't see it better my sis

Ani Lee:
Cant agree more. Even though some can manage distanced relationships, others cant. Sometimes people need more than faith. Indeed faith [b]without action is dead. [/b]

Absolutely!!, i know how it feels to keep long distance rela/ship when i know that meeting physically will not happen soon. I don't get myself in that situation again. Even when i visited Nig after 10yrs, i refused to get hooked up only to come back here and start thinking whats she up2 and all that

Obamaa:
Deres dis gurl i met thru a friend(actually he introduced us on fone) and since we stay far apart we couldnt see immediately bt we kept in constant touch thru fone.4 d last 3mths we have bin tlkin daily on fone.She stays in d north n i go dere often bt nw i hv not gone as am busy in ma base.But d thin is dat we r doing gr8 2geda on fone and she is alwaiz hapi 2 hear ma voice and kallin or flashin wen i dnt kal.Bt receently she has bin actin up like she is nt hapi 2 hear ma voice or as if am disturbin,wen i tld her abt it she said dat she is sori 4 d lack of excitement in her voice.Wat do people think is happenin and wat do i do 2 make dis relationship work.

I nid objective views.

Distance kills rela/ship, she needed more than phone calls, she can see her friends and their bfs doing things together. If u can visit her, she is only a human being.

arkangel:
Hey guys,
I need some help for me having problems with this girl. I been chasing this girl 3 months now. I just noe her for 3 months. 2 months ago I propose to her before this and she say she think bout it. After my exam she say she dont want because of 2 reason, language and religion which is buddhist and mandarin. I find it easy to overcome since i am mastering it. The problem lies when she find me for lunch the next day even after she told me the reason. I dont know why. I thought if rejected the girl will start to avoid and not find that guy already. What does that mean?
And just this 2 weeks ago. I ask her to be my close fren since she have no feeling to me thats what i said. And she agreed. I did a mistake there. How do i correct myself? Nw she treating like i have no more interest in her. HELP
She is all that i want about her. I need tips and guides. Cause i been hanging out with her everytime, lunch dinner, outing.which is totally wrong move. And when i ask her go for bowling, she decline, pool also same. Why is that so ?

Yes u are stalking her, i know u love her, want her so much, but gave her some space, stop following her around, she needs breathing space, just stop hanging around her like a bad smell. If she likes u she will talk to u, then u start from frienship and grow from there.

suxes2005:
@ POSTER

go to the general usa visa trend and see an email address of d enbassy dere, u`ll send them mail and book appointment with them. Secondly, try and visit dia site.

@ justwise how is things sir?

SHALOM

I'm good and urself?

freeview:
Do u have a job? staying on nairaland 24 hours a day

And u are refering to?

posakosa:
With the rate at which some women are going: I can reach the safe conclusion that many women would marry any man as long as he has a manliness.

Job or not, is absolutely irrelevant, as long as they can brag to their friends that they have a man.

U are a star!

Ebonyeyes:
Now what now?

Exactly!

Why don't u go to their website and search for avaiable appointment slot?

U are setting urself up for touts to rip u off

@Chuksab,

When will u give up this nonsense? U know it just as i do that its all about scam, fraud, rip off then u left the poor individual to link his/her wound.

Remember what goes around comes around, oneday, just oneday. ur crimes will catch up with u.

nana:
Femi,I need to see your picture b4 I say any other thing.

Are u trying to suggest that his looks maybe the prob?

yorke:
i could remember then how gals used to diss me, the rejection and all that, it was hell, cos they almost killed my self-esteem, i was naive, they made me went broke, they chop my naira wella.lols

Hahahahahaha, oh dear!

yorke:
From previous experience, u are spot on

yeah, give them much attention,they i will take you for granted

I think we went to the same school of women-knowledge ahaha

yorke:
[quote author=justwise link=

Don't force urself on any girl, treat them with respect and allow them to make up their mind whether they want u or not.

don't even have them in mind, keep yourself busy with something else, dont show great interest in them and dont try to please or force yourself on them, wait and watch your time will come, you will be selecting & be changing them like your boxers.

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From previous experience, u are spot on

femialao:
My name is femi, why is it that ladies do not easily agree for guys asking them out, rather, they prefer 2 call someone they do not know on magazine to love them of some one they meet on line? well, if it is so, am single and really needs a lady 4 serious relationship. 08065675156 or 08028567380

If they agreed easily we call them names, when they made us work for it, we complain. Femi, are u new in this game called rela/ship?

Don't force urself on any girl, treat them with respect and allow them to make up their mind whether they want u or not.

sextacy:
hmm, a man with a good job and an alternative source of income, i know u would also want him to be ''tall, handsome,athletic, God fearing and bla bla bla, nonsense!, dont worry, keep creating you own man in your own world of fantacy. if i may ask, HOW WELL HAVE YOU PACKAGED YOURSELF SINCE YOU DESIRE A PACKAGED MAN??

I totally agree with u, they don't want to suffer with the man, only want the made one, who wants a woman who is of no use in a marriage.

mubowa:
I can date him but i cant marry him. ladies lets be realistic, would you like to suffer when you are suppose to be happily married? and when you now see your friend enjoying, you will start forcing on your hubby in d house? HELL NO. am not going on that road with no man. if u wanna marry me. u need to have a job and an alternative source of income just incase u loose your job. coz mubowa is a diamond and need to be treated as such.

What will u bring into that marriage if he has to have a job and alternative source of income, so as to keep u diamond shining?

Go for pay-as-u-go for now. Get vodafone cos topup is just £5, for International calls, get urself Lebara sim card, its preloaded with £5 worth of credit, that will give u about 60-70mins of International calls.

U can use it for local calls as well. If u went for contract line, u will still need to buy calling card.

Maybe other members will tell u more.

Good luck

y me:
with wings honey,
am gonna make you feel alright jare

Hmmm, that sounds nice to me

y me:
ha ha ha ha
there is no big deal about that nah
okay dress like a sexy babe and go get it for me
else am telling
and did i hear you say condom, who gave you the license to purchase it
correct bobo
so are gonna buy it for me

Hahaha, dress like sexy what? abeg oo i'm not gay or trans,,,.

Telling who? Ok i will ask posakosa for some sexy dress

y me:
LOL
nor make way from the question
are you buying it or not?

Pls save me the embarrassment, how will i go abt buying that? Buying condom is enough embarrassment let alone that, ahaha, u are a nut case