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kay29000:
lol! I feel you. Earlier own, I used to try and let people around me understand why I am the way I am, but now I just keep quiet and keep my belief to myself.

mybdear continue like that and you will live long. the only way one can change he/her mindset is if they look within

Muyogoa:
mtcheew, go away jor

but its the truth na, why will I feel attracted to a big headed guy? I will feel its kwashioko

lies from the pit of hell!

kay29000:
So so true. About enlightening people, you do know that is really hard though...people are so close minded and feel you are "evil" if you are a free thinker, so they don't even give you a chance to talk them into knowing the truth.

as a person I don't know how to explain my mindset to such people so I tend to keep that info to myself. what annoys me the most is when some people knows and startsvasking me foolish questions like " what happened to you that makes you say such?" , " my dear you are still a believer, you're just angry, pray about it and god will answer" and another infuriating statement like " you weren't praying harder ", "your faith wasn't strong enough"
what arrant rubbish!

so I just keep mum and let them bask in their intellect. I no fit shout am too old for that.

it's not as if Africans wont be liberated from religiosity but it will take centuries before it happens and you and I know its not going to be in our life time. but the foundation can be laid down starting from me, you and other people who are free thinkers. how that can happen is by enlightening our future generation and yet to be generation.

Royal155:
And who told you Buhari is playing game with OBJ. Actually the post didn't say that 'buhari' made the the statement, Roland Owie Did

I know I was referring to the mans statement about buhari staying away from obj. if buhari is taking advise and comes across such advise like that he has to think well before adheading to them, its quite tricky. obj is a powerful man and he's very clever. I never said he's playing games with obj.

this one get as e be o.
its too early for bihari to be playing rebel games with obj because he's yet to be inaugurated and too early to play over cautious. obj is a very clever and cunny powerful man and should be treated with care, then later caution before any other thing. so this man should just pipe down. I believe bihari knows what he's doing.

Jwonder:
U must be high!!!!!! Am happy people replied u

me too, now that you're happy , go and drink origin and relax.

25omega:
bold number 1: you were broken up and he owes you no explanation of his sexual actions
bold number 2: He is finally showing you his trueself
bold number 3: Sleeping with a prostitute doesn't make you a good or bad guy. society frowns on prostitution but it has been around since...
bold number 4: Who said he wasn't drinking before? why are you still talking about getting back together if he is still seeing prostitutes?
bold number 5:was this guy a virgin before? because it seems like sex has driven him crazy. if you are a virgin and you know he is sleeping with prostitutes, then you have to make the choice to either stay with him or move on with your life.

Guys enjoy prostitutes because some men are driven by the thought of sex and the variety that comes with sleeping with different women with no emotional attachments. A relationship is not only based on sex but it is an important part of any relationship. ?You should stick to your virtues until marriage but never expect but, hope that you find a man who is either a virgin or at least not promiscuous.

I so despise you for typing my mind, how dare you! kidding lol

op you know what to do.

Fashel:
An intimate friend of mine is in need of a responsible lady for marriage.The guy is a responsible and cool headed man.He is from Ogun state but based on Lagos .any interested lady should notify me.

op nice business but your moniker shouldn't be casual it should have class, something exotic like...........like.......
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wait for it.......


thinking......

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got it!




FASHEL DA love-vendor!!!
your welcome , my advice is for free.

faith551:



Yea u did, and u definitely got ur point across

thanks *dancing shoki*

self servicing is not good and to me has no advantage, for some people it's addictive for others its just a way to control their sexual hunger. but the issue behind it is that the desire for sex can either increase or drastically decrease or make some people (male) impotent. while the women can lose interest in sex all together or make her vagina lose its elasticity, and pleasure spots which can lead to broken marriages or relationships so self service should either be crushed or reduced.
pornography is as well kinder worse but has some advantages and when I say advantages, I mean, soft porn were you come across love making kind of scenes that can be safelybemulated by couples for a lasting relationships and help educate and mend matured people but thedisadvantage lies on hard porn where one comes across marathon sex, incredible positions and disgusting activities (for instance anal sex) are practiced and many gullible people fall for such falacies and try to emulate them causing problems in cases were the man wants hard sex the woman prefers lovemaking then it becomes a thorn in the relationship. best thing is soft porn should be recommended to people with low libido on sex and people with no idea on how to perform in the bedroom.


did I just type all that!

op, honestly if its true you're feeling this way why don't you try and look for a job to occupy you mind as well as adding to your ever green account to. become like dangotes, instead of doing amebo Mrs itk .
if not you're just looking for attention, you're just a troll.

Myself2:
Are you high or something?
A guy and a baby cohabiting in late teens and early/mid twenties when adrenaline and all the hormones are budding in overdrive and you say they won't have sex??
Please edit that rubbish before I woze you.
Even if na gay and lesbo dem go nyash one day

blood of gawd!
no vex.

Wendy80:
What the op is talking about is boyfriend and girlfriend who live 2geda in higher institution which is very common 2day. There's no way such pple won't be having sex as long as they're dating/lovers, that's what I'm talking about. I know pple who are just flatmates and nothing is between them

oh my bad!

that wan go hard o. I understand now.

Wendy80:
My question was 'what are they to each other'
And ur reply doesn't sound like they're dating or lovers.
Maybe they were just flatmates

NNE they were friends , platonic abi casual, just friends. if you say flatmates is that not the same with cohabitation or am I missing something here

raumdeuter:
The guy is probably GAYY

So the girl go dey change for your front everyday and night sleep for the same bed and nothing

Na style style "jarunpa" dey stretch your hand and leg anyhow until una start

walai if I catch you eh....lol

when she wants to dress up, he leaves apartment same thing she does when he wants to dress up.
no be every guy go be like you, okoro.

Wendy80:
Ds pple u know pls what are they to each other? I'm curious.

my brother and his friend he just met

Wendy80:
My Dear, it's only for a while b4 they start having sex. Body no be firewood, except they are blood relation.

true, but I still disagree they must have sex. am arguing this because I know someone that cohabited with a lady and never had sex with her and they stayed together for 3good years . so its discipline sister.

fine boyoyo no pimpoyo

it is indeed true about the saying, monkey no fine but him mama like am like that.

*runs to the loo to pee*

Nl pple no nice at all.
babe I think you hardly listen to him therefore don't advise him and that's wrong. no one can teach you how to advise, you just know. if you really care for him, go to him and tell him you're want to improve on your relationship with him and ask him to share his burdens on him. what he told you clearly has been on his mind since he knows when, so do the need full.

some naija babes giving us the good gals bad names.....smh

at first op wanted to bash you, calling you an unrepentant fool but I won't .
babe ask yourself what do you want?
do you think he really loves you or he's just keeping you for 'in case' proposes?
he has a foreign wife according to him he married for green card reasons but whenever she confronts him he denies the promises he made to you and still sticks to the white woman.
the answer is staring you in the face, if I were you I will be confused as well but being an observer from this your right up.
DO THE RIGHT THING BY YOU.



next!!!

theAtheist101:
Okay o. You win! I would be very pleased if you could prove me wrong, by staying with me for 2 weeks. Lol!

bros I de fear my maley biko. hold your blood.

bettercreature:
As Tiger wood donated half of his wealth to charity ?

after he realized he should have done that before cheating on his wife. talk about medicine after death.

op if you want to cheat, go ahead and stop justifying what is clearly and indisputably WRONG!

if you're rich and don't know what to do with you ever pumping money, give quarter of you money to the less previlage, donate to animal shelters and open a scholarship foundation or whatever , try these for like 5years and come back to thank me later.

oniranu jati jati. mtchww.

theAtheist101:
Hmm, discipline! It is very easy to write or talk about, but very hard to execute. Why did the two decide to live together? People don't just go on the street to pick a roommate. There must have been a physical attraction between them, for them to agree to stay together. Naturally, sexual tension would build up, and all that is needed is just for the more forward one to approach the other.

[/quote]i will still insist that its all about discipline. of course you don't go picking roommates on the streets. you guys must have been close or just good friends and decided to save expenses arranged to live together sharing the bills equally. its not by force to sleep with each other because some close myopic minded people believe that sex must be involved.

and by the way. when a lady friend zones you, Oyo

theAtheist101:
Hmm, discipline! It is very easy to write or talk about, but very hard to execute. Why did the two decide to live together? People don't just go on the street to pick a roommate. There must have been a physical attraction between them, for them to agree to stay together. Naturally, sexual tension would build up, and all that is needed is just for the more forward one to approach the other.

i will still insist that its all about discipline. of course you don't go picking roommates on the streets. you guys must have been close or just good friends and decided to save expenses arranged to live together sharing the bills equally. its not by force to sleep with each other because some close myopic minded people believe that sex must be involved.

and by the way. when a lady friend zones you, Oyo for you except you wan rape am.

theAtheist101:
So would they avoid it? Even two different coloured materials diffuse together.

discipline brother, its all about discipline, don't let other people dictate your life that this is how you will behave if you do this. there are people that cohabitate and have nothing like sex happening at all.

dancok:
i did'nt see any thing wrong in that,just because i did nt send money does warrant* grow up*.

when you say you will do something do it and don't go back on your word, that's where the growing up statement comes to play. it's not about sending money or not.

it is every lady and guy that cohabitate that must have sex with each other and should be condemned! op your thinking should be employed by GMB .

justmag:
Thank! that's more like it. ...short sleeve suit is just UGLY!

Lol the whole package