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Hey!    Which kiss? 
That was still part of the kiss you were throwing at me 
I like them not    

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_{Let me try again RHODALYN}

green green green . . . yellow?

Peharps Rhodalyn is asking for both cos the answer appears exactly the same
Rhoda girl what happened?

Rhodalyn:
seriously, he aint forcing me for sex, he wnts it to be ma decision n no he dsnt tell me stuffs lk i'll get stomach probs bt i feel he's da right gu-y n is da right time, if u're worried aba pregs n them tins, dnt dnt worry i knw wht to do can i?

Thought i heard the guy say no! _{Just passing by though}

BAD!

smart guy

sorry i didn't see the joke

If you trust him with your life then sacking is out of question! Controlling his libido and proclivity to sleep with your house help is going to be a difficult thing,  considering the fact that you cannot stay in the house 24/7. The deed is usually done at the period you are at work.

One thing you can do is to educate your next house help on the reason to stay away form the Guard and pray it works well this time, however, note that if your staff feels indispensable he could be very daring.

In the alternative, you can do some local setup threat on the security man . . . get him to sign an agreement in the presence of a lawyer and possibly police man that he will never sleep with your house girl again. This will scare the living daylight out of him if made to look very formal and serious! It usually works for people at his level. Good Luck

Amen!

  women!!!
what are you going to do about the guard? He was frolicking with the girl wasn’t he? I believe this will be the second time.

Odeku:
The difference is Police protect, and arm robbers rob,lol

Sure you are talking about the Nigerian Police Force (NPF) or something?

Rhodalyn:
i don't think U should snd them away!!!!!!! if U can cater for them den i thk U should, sndin them away. where are they goin to live?

What do you mean cater for them? You are advising him to condone misconduct? 

chy:
i think that if it comes out positive u shpuld talk
to the guard so that he would know what his into
then try to establish them by getting ahouz 4
them and giving them some money then the
guard can still b working for you but b wise as a serpent
so that it wont be repeated on another houzgirl

nobody is above mistake

when you say establish them . . .Are suggesting he should compel them to marry ?

Seun:
If you think the Nigerian police is bad, try the Armed robbers.

And what is the difference?

but God also expects you to do your own.

I think you should send both of them away!
If you decide to send away the worst culprit then it should the guard; start now to protect your unborn child, it could be a girl.

@ hot angel and gigitte
Una wan help the girl abi una just wan copy the hair?
Don't do hair that will bring the same wahala to you o!

mamaput:
You are right But if the Church advises you to have the test done but both of you don't want to, Both of you still know of the risk.
Its not about hiding it but making it open to the public.

It is not in any way made public. Once the priest confirms that the couple knows their status. The rest is up to the couple.

Thanks Girl, i was thinking i was alone on this!

Damn Straight!

You speak like a Catholic. FYI the Catholic Church in Nigeria requires HIV test before marriage. No one said they will refuse you marriage if any of the parties is positive. They only insist that the couple should have a knowledge of their status Simple! And what is wrong with knowing the HIV status of your partner before marriage?

I agree with you that the church should not compel people to do HIV test. But considering that no one wants to do the test in Nigeria; I believe they might just be right. I have done the test twice; first when I was dating a doctor and second when I changed job; I never found the palpable fear funny. Ordinarily, very few Nigerian man will want to do the test for obvious reasons.

I think by requiring the church is trying to protect the woman.
That’s my opinion please.