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No, like tarzan.

Heymus: The same question i asked buff no reply oo.

Male.

coogar: chaircover, you know!
the sole reason naija men behave the way they do is because of what the women make them do. she has a good job but she wants to be spoilt like a naija full housewife. i say amen to that.

And? You want to marry a woman, why should you not treat her like a full naija housewife?

Op, you want to marry a guy you are not attracted to, not even one single bit? Haba! Does that sound sensible in yóur head? A man you are not even se.xually attracted to? What are you going to do with your sex life? How are you going to get over that disgust when you lie with him? See him in your bed every morning?

The world is not as rosy as they made it out to be when you were a child. You will not marry at the age you want and you will not have kids at the age you want.

We need to stop instilling these fairytales in the heads of children. Life does not go by a certain book or rule. Things happen and things don't work out the way we plan it to.

You are now desperate because from day one, you have been told you have to be married by a certain age, you have to have kids by a certain age. All these are pressures that affect us in life and it should stop.


Trying to live your life by the book can have tremendous effects on you especially when things don't go as planned.


Now at 30, you are losing sleep because you are not married, is that life? Do you have to get married?

In this society, marriage is not what it was. Society has desecrated on it. It means nothing now. You marry because you feel pressured. You marry because that's what society says you have to do. You marry because you feel like you are aging. No wonder divorce rates are high and I know op, if you marry this guy, you will become part of it.

Again, I ask, do you have to get married? Do you have to have that paper to say you are in love or you want to spend your life with someone?

Just my 2cents.

Bebe, listen ehn. You see my kongo? Your nyash go shine am wella.

The one you will have your first gay nyashing with.

The one who owns the first kongo that will enter your nyash.

And guess what? You will love it!!

You will love!!

Idowuogbo: No jokes, U can't handle my walking stick.
U b trainee for wia I dey.

Kraaaa, na lie. Baby, I need to teach you a few thangs.

Aha, she can nyash him for all I care, I'm nyashing your own.

Ishilove: Why do i have this feeling that you are the complete opposite of your NL persona?

She is, she's on here living her fantasies.

She's a sad lonely middle aged woman with truckloads of Cats.

I sometimes throw food outside her door.