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Royal, thanks you for that.

But wow! Never seen anyone with such a bad case of it especially on the face.

Your mum beat you but she treated you well?

Please ask the op, whether the after also treats her well.

It's not as simple as ABC for people to get over something that is affecting them psychologically.

From the op, it seems like abuse is part of her everyday life. If it something that continues, how can she just easily get over it?

My point is, some parents just don't deserve to be parents fullstop.

There are parents who are absolutely wicked.

You cannot say just because someone becomes a parent, they cannot do things out of malice.

People are different. You can't assume they will have the same mindset as you.

You probably got over what your mother did to you after she gave you her car but this lady is still hurting from the abuse she's been through.

You cannot just tell her to get over it just because you have gotten over yours or say it's part of bringing up a child. No, abuse should not be part of raising a child.

There is disciple and there is abuse.

It's wickedness plain and simple.

Are you going to tell me you would bring up your child using your mother's methods?

Things affect people differently.

An example is those who have been sex.ually abused. Some get over it but for others it will always be part of them and something that will haunt them for the rest of their lives. Affect how they associate with people, see themselves etc.

I like the op, sha. A woman who knows what she wants but I will tell you to broaden your horizen a bit. Time waits for no man, Ýóu can't wait for a nigerian or yoruba man forever.

Insanity: Really? Chill? i should be telling you that, aint you the one all over her affairs...don't have time for this...

Peace!

Me? Oga, sanity, find a post where I wrote about the issues that went on in BBA. Let me know when you find your glasses.

[quote author=Okija_juju]I really beg to differ.. Most times, these parents (mothers inclusive) dont do these things out of malice. I'm not saying their methods are necessarily the best, but if that was them being the best they could, then I think we need to approach the subject differently.. Just saying![/quote]I am sorry but how does treating your child like absolute trash a way of bringing up a child? A parenthood where you put your child down, make her insecure and tell her she is worthless? Make her the black sheep of the family? How is that part of bringing up a child?

She would have been better off being brought up by the mum as a single parent. Some men just don't deserve to be fathers.

Wow!!

Op, men are sons of goats!! Forget what these people say about him doing his fatherly duties. Some men are just there to donate Sp.erm nothing else.

You give life what it throws at you. If being humble and nice doesn't work and you are still treated like absolute rubbish, you have got to change tactics.

As someone said, it's survival of the fittest. If you let people walk over you, you will always be nothing but dirt.
You have got to decide what you want in life and for yourself then change the way you approach things and people.

If they give you 10, give them 20 especially when it comes to men. I am sure you have learnt your lesson.

Wait, isn't what tb joshua doing against the bible?

Fortune telling?

What's 2go?

Mac studiofix powder/foundation.

Avon

To those ignoramus people saying tattoing is un-African. Please, come out of your holes. Tattooing is part of many cultures in Africa.

Maybe not as creative(art wise) as modern tattoos but tattooing per se has always been part of our culture.

That's how people from different ethnicities identify eachother.

Billyonaire: I love ladies with tattoos, I love pretty ladies that smoke. I just love them badgurls.

You are in for a treat. I am covered all over in ink.

It's moved to a related section where the OP's question can be easily answered.

The OP's thread is not specific. It has nothing to do with fashion.

exxell: I only respond to human beings with brains. *searching for brains* None Found. Sorry Robot.

What foolishness is this? Maybe you should go to school to learn what happens to a human who doesn't have a brain.


And Robot? Do you know why many websites ask you to type in certain letters before logging in? TO CONFIRM YOU ARE HUMAN!

If I can type that, you with a brain should know I am human.

Nonsense!

Hey, I don't care who she phucks or falls in love with.

You just need to chill. Having a heartattack over someone who doesn't know who you are.

Simon, are you gay?

Anyone notice the pyramid with the eye?

Very symbolic.

*strolls out*

Well, if that's the word nokia used to describe china made phones. Nokia is very racist.