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If you feel like you don't need someone in your life and want no children that is your business but do not down women who would do anything to have a life partner and children.

mekaboy:
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kandekaine, thats the major problem with ladies of today " WHAT MY MATES ARE DOING"  every human being has a different purpose in this life.

ok , so what is you advice for a lady who is getting old, and no guy is ready to commit?

wats special with the name and lineage ? people say if he or she does not get married, the family name will not continue, who cares about your family name, if you dont contribute positively to humanity?

if you are from a lineage of arme robbers, and no one is ready to marry you, then stay single and end the lineage   .

ok all you guys shouting, a lady must get married, you are the same guys that date these ladies for 7-10yrs without proposing.

so for those who say its a must, they should marry, why not marry them ?  or should ladies start proposing and paying : GROOM PRICE "   .

when your getting old? and you have contributed greatly to society, there will be alot of people to take care of you.

what about a lady who never got married but had an orphanage home? when she gets old, are u saying there will be no one to take care of her?

i still say, if there is no one ready to marry you, just remember, u came to this world alone and you will go alone. JESUS will be your source of joy.

dont step outside the will of GOD for your live because u want to get married, u will end up frustrated.



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Like I said before you have no say unless  if you are not married or have no child and you are carrying on and you are happy with your life and your wealth and happy that your legacy stops with you.

ogugua88:
People have a HUGE problem when it comes to making comparisons. Who cares what her mates are doing? This is where self-confidence comes in. I doubt any man wants to marry a woman wallowing in self-pity. If she carries inner beauty and confidence, why wouldn't any man want to marry her?

"LADIES  PLEASE IF NO MAN IS READY TO MARRY YOU, PLEASE CONCENTRATE ON YOUR GIFTS AND ABILITIES." If a woman focuses on at what she's best, and loves herself and keeps her head high even when times are rough, someone is bound to notice. I do think that's foolproof.

She cares. . .Seeing  her mates having something she wants. . .She will care. .

^wetin concern u?

And have children. Many women do not want to have children outside of marriage with tom,manliness and harry. . .

Nayah:
if you mean not married, yes I'm not married, but I don't really spoil our brother's topic by talking about my matrimonial status lol
Kandiikane maybe but I think society pressure push some women for marriage with wrong reason, and especially in Africa.

My post is not about women being forced into marriage but those that WANT to. . .

N500- you can use it to buy 5cups of boiled "granats"

"If noone proposes live your life "

How can a woman live her life if she WANTS to get married and have children? How can she go out seeing her mates with their husbands and children without feeling lonely,depressed and useless? Are you serious? Do you know how these women feel?
A family friend died just yesterday no sickness nothing she just fell got taken to hospital and died and before all of this all she wanted was to get married and have atleast one child. . She has adopted many children but all she wanted was someone from her, someone flesh and blood who she will leave behind- her own legacy. . .
What about women who have noone else in this world, no siblings nothing? They should not marry if noone proposes? They should just live their lives and let their blood line stop at just them. . .

You have to understand many women wanting to marry and have children is not just for the sake of it but it goes deeper than that. . .Do you know how these women feel as they carry on age without someone to spend the rest of their lives with or without someone to carry on their legacy after they die.


There are a certain few who prefer life without anyone but for the others who want to do not tell them to live their lives when the situation they are in is not what they want or envisioned.


You @OP have no place to say this unless if you are not married or have no child and you are carrying on and you are happy with your life and your wealth and happy that your legacy stops with you.

^^I know. . But hopefully by end of june I will quit completely

are u on your period? move jor

^^Did u not create the thread?

[size=18pt]What happened? [/size]

tom28:
I am not talking about white girls who smoke but referring to nigerian girls who smoke in naija.White ppl might have a reason to smoke because the region is a cold region and take notice they smoke more in the winter than in the summer and by the way many of them are doing away with the smoking habit and hence these western tobaco companies are now focusing their devlish business in africa.While i was in the university in nigeria i noticed that the girls who mostly smoked were female cultists,aristoes,girl friends to armed robbers or male cultists and other undesirables.Pls tell me which responsible nigerian lady would carry a lighted stick smoking about the streets if she"s not a cultist or an aristoe.

*jaw drops*
An excuse for white people to smoke

REALITY101:
Move off the road unless u wanna talk bout Basketball

Ok, im out. . .Enjoy

I do not get the title? Why disrespect?Because he got a hard on? lol


@The wife BODI, DAMNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!

I think she looks much better from the back. . .

[quote author=Orton1_0 link=topic=679557.msg8490177#msg8490177 date=1307668853]**ooh! . . .help! . . .i'm scared**[/quote]lool, see this lil b[i]i[/i]tch

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=266268.msg8490273#msg8490273 date=1307671140]it would be sheer wickedness for a parent to deny their child meat [protein] while hoarding the same.

if they can afford it [ie they're not poor] but just do so out of plain cussedness, then na mental problem be that.

most children need sneakers- however there's a difference between $500 sneakers and $30 sneakers.

if the parent wears $5000 shoes then why ask your child to wear $5 ones.[/quote]Its insane. . .

lol, I spelt "sneakers" wrong I never wear it so I do not even know how they spell it.
I do not get it this is the first time I am hearing this. . .If I can afford to buy £5000 sneakers why go primark and buy my child £8 sneakers? I must be mad

Why is that people are using millionaires as an example on this matter? Or LV, Gucci etc?

Lets go to basic, normal people who bring in average income. . .

As a parent I will not want to see my child living at a lower standard than me, I will not want to put meat on my plate of rice and give my child empty rice to eat just for so he can learn to work hard in life to put meat on his own plate. I will rather go in rags than see my child wearing rags. I will not let my child sleep on mat and I sleep on bed. As a PARENT I am not living for just "me" anymore but for my child. . . I want my child to enjoy the finer things in life and things I never did as a child. . .I have not seen one single parent who has had a child and makes them live at a lower standard than them "just for the sake of them learning to work hard" that is not how it works. . .Yes, I will not give my child every single thing he wants(just like that) I will rather make him work for it because that is how discipline starts-tell him if he wants those sneakers he has to earn it
Don't just say I am not going to buy my child the "sneakers" he wants because I want him to grow up and learn to work hard. . .How can he learn to work hard in his adulthood when you did not show him how to earn the sneakers in his childhood?
Even these millionaires you talk about buying their children things they will buy for themselves make them(children)work for it and earn it . . .
Your child should not live a lower standard than you. . . That is why I love African mothers back home they will do anything for their children even if they have to starve. . .

[quote author=Orton1_0 link=topic=679557.msg8490100#msg8490100 date=1307667234]Kandii watsup with You and this gay BS . . .?? . . .its gone stale [/quote]Do you want me to start with you? Seriously, do you? Rubbish

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=679557.msg8489553#msg8489553 date=1307657576]You will continue asking why i succeed . . Kepp undeciding

REALITY419,
How's the dck going/treating  your anus? . .How yah doing gay . . Though i always do better than you!!![/quote]And how is your nyash doing? Has the leakage stopped?

190:

You go stand behind the scene dey make mouth!!

Carry your OPOLO eye go find manliness ride

Nor be my body u go use shine

BTW how did u know i have white chick (answer this) 

me opolo eye? na yu dck get apolo

I know men like you you only f[i]u[/i]ck white chicks

lool

mydreamz:
e better pass all your girlfriends yansh join together, either in the past, present or future

I will believe this because all of 190's girlfriends are white girls whether past present or future

190:
[color=RED]We all know DSENSE is suffering from MAD COW DISEASE [/color]

pull mout una all be di same

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=679557.msg8486850#msg8486850 date=1307629949]I have told you severally that ma Jonh isn't for you puzzy . .  

BTW . . I have stopped doing Prosty way long . .so back off pls . .

Chi-lovey has turned me to some1 else,i will live to thank her for that . . so back off,cause i;m in love with some1 cuter,smarter and serious than you [/quote]Did your boyfriend forget to do his routine on your nyash today?

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=679557.msg8486791#msg8486791 date=1307629527]You re so jealous cause i left you puzzy opened and didn't touch you?

Na the love go blind your generation . . Paradigm of Ogunfe [/quote]Abeg stop talking rubbish you did not touch me because you gay  

190:
Chi baby i have nothing with any of those women

[color=#990000]Let any of them come out and testify to that

I really like you

Dsense wan spoil my market cos of him sister   [/color]

190:

Hey kandikane

Are u wearing pant today  

CHI-BABY, I have come out to testify, all this man wants to do is go in your trousers be warned


@190 did you brush your mouth today?

@Dsense
You are gay!! What this about? You need to come out of the closet asap  

^^Virus?
[quote author=Orton1_0 link=topic=679557.msg8479991#msg8479991 date=1307544983]Yeah I noticed it too. . . .well make it lively mate, I'm behind you [/quote]Wich kind gay shit be dis?

iyatrustee:
but you should be able to differentiate 190's ball by now first by the overgrown bush, secondly by the size and lastly by the plenty crowcrow wey the thing carry

lool
Ewwwwww!!! Does he wash?

Eya, sorri. . .

But are you talking about your great grandmother or grandmother or your mother? And if you are talking about your mother and she died at 112 how old was she when she gave birth to you?

*shrugs*