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The big and beautiful lady in NL am sorry to generalize this but you fat ladies are too uncomfortable for my liking. I pray to God that I will never marry a fat lady. I am a faithful guy and can never cheat on my gal but I told her to keep fit and slim cos if she gets fat I will definately cheat on her. I always tell my friends that on the day of my wedding I will carry my wife like a child but how can my dream come true if she is fat? They are too dull in bed, too lazy and you can not do some certain styles of sexx with them. . Seriously I always tell my gal to do the sit ups and jog always. Cos when I start acting funny she will remember what I told her. I can even date them let alone marry them. They sweet a lot.

Its his opinion and I do not see anything wrong with it

If an Asian person comes on here and says "I don't like Africans"- It will mean nothing because its just his/opinion
If a fat person comes and says "I don't like small skinned babes"- Still means nothing.


Being Fat is not attractive.

^^Why would you want to kiss ashawo?
Why would you want to go inside ashawo without condom?

This why people are dying from unknown diseases.

lol. . . Just answer the damn question UNLESS the man with the "cigar and shades" was not you.

[quote author=Mz_Outside link=topic=368902.msg8569333#msg8569333 date=1308755633]In that case i wish that u die single .

talk about stupidity[/quote]Are you fat?

Its not stupidity- He is not attracted to fat people, na by force?

Ibime:
£6000 is not an easy sum to part with regardless of how much you earn. With wedding costs ranging at circa £10k + £6k dowry fee, a man would have to put down £16k just to marry a woman.


[s]So the girls set the dowry price in Gambia?[/s] If my wife tries to charge me dowry herself, I would force her to survive on cabin biscuit for the rest of the marriage.

Stop being stingy. .  They don't set it but are pretty much interested in it.
If you are earning about £30k(as nurse) per annum and you plan to marry if you save up you can afford it(This is just for a man earning normal income) but imagine if the man is born into a rich family-to depart with £16,000 is nothing.
I hope my own wedding sef surpass that amount.

Answer my cigar question. . .

@Snthesis, you still have not answered my question- Is the cigar really strong?

snthesis:
U just broke my heart


@kandiikane
you can view my profile- the shades are off

Lol, forget you

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=694530.msg8569100#msg8569100 date=1308753708]@ KK

You aren't in the U.S. so I'm unsure as to why you are responding to what goes on over here. Had you read the poster's response - she wasn't surprised nor stunned as you are exhibiting here.

You can't stand on this side of the line to see what we see or speak of. Are you an African American that has been to a largely African party here in the U.S. to voice an opinion? How many people you have slept with is of no consequence in this conversation. SO your line of questioning in that respect is quite odd.

Approach the poster - don't approach me. You and I don't have the same experience. If you don't agree, that is your right. But tell that to the poster, I could care less.[/quote]I am not in the US but I have family there and I am not going to ask the posted because she did not post YOUR comment.
Your comment was ignorant and I just want to know how you came up with that "truth"

Yes, I believe I can voice my own opinion on the matter because I am African and its about AA+Africans.
Ofcourse, you won't care because your post was full of ignorant "truths"

@ferdii, Na di girl ask for "hand in marriage". Its the man's responsibility(if he wants the woman to be submissive) unless you want to be submissive to the woman instead(let her pay for your dowry)

Oligarch:
Sorry, but I think ya'll actually mean bride price NOT dowry. The latter word has long been incorrectly used in Nigeria to mean the former.

dow·ry Noun /ˈdou(ə)rē/

1. Property or money brought by
a bride to her husband on their marriage.


www.google.com/dictionary?q=dowry&sl=en&tl=en&hl=en&sa=X&ei=lfcBTur0FcK58gPR1aibDQ&ved=0CBkQkQ4

Its the same thing-the person who wrote this definition (maybe) thought that the "payment is usually done by women"(Indian women and many other tribes)
In Africa we call it dowry and just because the white people interpret it differently does not mean we are wrong

^^But its good to appreciate.

[b]Here is truth!

pay close attention to Babe and livedit!!

I speak standing on American soil regarding this issue that I have observed for quite some time. Nothing personal or negative just fact! I have also dated African men from different parts of Africa.

Africans a LARGE MAJORITY of them come to the U.S. with preconceived notions from television and relatives and observing once they arrive the condition of the majority of "African Americans" - very few Africans strike out independent of their tribal group----they generally always have one foot inside of their African group AT ALL TIMES while they are here in America as it is their lifeline and support system while they are here. Which means they are heavily still influencing each other thoughts and actions to assist each other to succeed. However, the other side of that coin is that if they hold certain views that are derogatory in nature---they also share that amongst them as well. This constant closeness as a side effect can also alienate them from other cultures so if there are any myths to dispel---it is quite difficult.

Most Africans that I have observed look down on "African Americans" while they live in the U.S. amongst us and vice versa. So Africans and African Americans don't ever really get to know each other. AA's many times see them as odd, ugly, superior-acting, poor enunciation skills, but very high intellect, academic achievement and financial success. Africans in the U.S. many times see AA's as wild, whores, uneducated, dangerous, attractive, great in bed, uncontrollable, etc.

If you were at an African party with a large group of Africans in attendance-----your Akata-ness isn't something you want to EVEN MENTION in that crowd. As they will sleep with you IMMEDIATELY but amongst their own kind, they will be reluctant to be seen publically in your presence for fear/discomfort of being associated with you because of possible backlash from within their community.

That's my observation and I stand by it. An African male will be more readily in your face, show appreciation of you once he breaks from the African pack---find one that will want you ANYWHERE YOU GO. As that person is definitely out there---don't worry or blink over any that flake out in front of their bros.

My advice to you is to identify with your "qualities" and make those "qualities" of who you are to shine so bright it blinds those on nationality/ethnicity - don't discuss your heritage. Half this, half that. I am a half-breed and I know that my babe who is Yoruba Nigerian will face some backlash from some of his kind for even being with me. I am not ignorant to this fact----just as once he is in the U.S., I will face backlash from those that know me as well for being with him and he will also face backlash from AA men when they see us together.

If you want a Nigerian man or an African man as mate to you who is half Nigerian----practice now. Be aware only, ignore being hurt, self-conscious, upset. Focus on you as you are quite attractive regardless to what runs through your veins. Take those halves and make ONE POWERFUL WHOLE. That can't be ignored or unaccepted in any situation.[/b]

WHAT!!??! What Study did you conduct on these African men to come up with this? So if she is at an African party she should not say she is an AA because the Africa men would shun her? What time of ignorance is this?
Please give me the number of people you have slept with to come up with this conclusion.

Hmm,  my To-marry list = 1:West African 2:African 3:which ever

Rooneyboy:
It wouldnt be wise for u to generalise cos i do know ladies(non nigerians) that give compliments big time. Lets just say (nigerian ladies) find it hard to compliment guys.

Because the women look like men if they compliment they know they will never get one

[size=3pt]Im joking[/size]

Fat people should be put in a hole unless your "fatness" is inherited or caused by a disease

^^No i just want to see a profile pic of YOU without shades


What are you Hausa? You are smoking a cigar so I assume you come from a family of oil barons

Ibime:
As it stands, Imo woman would be looking like a cheap bargain to me right now. You know any Imo woman wey I fit marry? 


So una get different price for "home" and "abroad"?

Depending on the person's wealth. . . The girls don't play around

Ibime:
@ Kandikane,

250k dalassi is about £6,250 or N1.8m. I'm surprised many Gambians can afford that in a country where £50 per month is a decent wage.

There are many rich people in Gambia who can afford it(especially those who have family/parents abroad). . . Its actually about £5,582
250k is really not much

snthesis:
me i don naturalize since laydee and I don marry
send me a yim- we'll talk offline

Let me see you wella without your shades and we can talk about YIM. . .

@PureOhio, You are very pretty.

As for the thread I think it might just be those certain men

Rich parents-
250k in Dalasi(for parents)
Kola nuts
A house
Two cows
Earning a good income
Huge trunks of clothes for the bride
Lace for the bride mother
And this small wrapper call "baycho"(thats for the husband own eyes)  and "bin-bin"( the beads most African women would wear on their waist but with elastic instead.

Poor parents:
Ask respectfully and bring Kola nuts

looool wow


Richmond menthols

@Nokia3310, what exactly is your point?