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Sweetplum:
Your father that's here abi?
Cos you mumu, your dad mumu.
Mumumen!

you are finished
Yahoo boys used your kpekus your brain
Every good thing in your body
They saw how dumb you are upstairs so they chose to use u because you are so empty

Sweetplum:
ok. What's yahoo boy

thats why I said you have nothing to offer
You are so dumb deaf and dull
Go ask your papa

Sweetplum:
Your iq no reach my own. No let me wash you o

you never pass jamb u dey tok IQ matter
You have nothing to offer after yahoo boys used your kpekus

Sweetplum:
Same way your mum do worst.

this is why you have no sense
Yahoo boys used you completely
Your dad should be pitied cos he has no daughter

Sweetplum:
A disgrace to womanhood.
Never give in to crazy fantasies

you might have likely done worse than her

Sweetplum:
Cos you v the greedy senseless boy..

You don't even know my work. Maybe I should sue your ass.

you are jobless always globetrotting Nairaland for attention

You have nothing to offer

Sweetplum:
Arindin. Me sef be yahoo. So what ll you n kobo-kobo yahoo boys offer?

your greediness has finished you
That’s why yahoo boy used ur glory
You can’t have sense again

Sweetplum:
Moro n, go to the asylum.

same asylum where yahoo boys pick u from come use your glory buy benz

Sweetplum:
Shut your gutter mouth up!

shut your second smelly ‘mouth ‘

TONYE001:
This is, perhaps, one of the most common questions raised in boy-girl discussions. On this platform, I've seen a lot of users pose this question too. Earlier today, I saw a thread which has a video of a lady promising to have a "fantastic time" with her husband after being given an important gift. Of course, lots of users were rather sad that all the lady had to show gratitude for her gift was sex. Again, they asked what ladies really have to show in romantic relationships.

I decided to create this thread to attempt to answer this question.

1. Substance.

There are many Nigerian women of substance. Many! There are many Nigerian women that are very successful in their careers. There are many Nigerian women that are excellent models of the younger generation.

Late Professor Dora Akunyili (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dora_Akunyili) is a good example of a Nigerian woman/wife/mother of substance. Her name, her successes must have added value to her family.

So, what did Madam Dora bring to the family table? She gave her family pride. She brought her children life lessons. She brought motivation. She brought comfort. I'm sure her husband would have been proud to have her stand beside him as his wife.

2. Ideas.

There are great Nigerian women whose ideas have opened ways for themselves and their families. Dr. Stella Chinyere Okoli (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stella_Chinyelu_Okoli#:~:text=Stella%20Chinyelu%20Okoli%20(MON%2C%20OON,manufacturing%20company%20founded%20in%201977.) is a typical example. This lady is a philanthropist, a pharmacist, and the founder of Emzor Pharmaceuticals. Emzor is one of the leading pharmaceutical companies in our environment.

So, what does this great woman bring to the table? Quite similar to Dora's story. She brings finances to the table. This can't be debated. She is a source of pride to her children (and late husband). Her name alone has the potential of opening new doors to anyone associated with it.

3. Gifts.

We're quite familiar with men buying expensive gifts for their women. How about stories of women buying expensive gifts for their men? This is also very common, but of course, some men have chosen to shut their eyes to this.

In this story (https://m.facebook.com/punchnewspaper/posts/4722540387784086), a Nigerian bride got a car for her husband! In this other story, a Nigerian wife got her husband a Benz to mark their seventh wedding anniversary (https://www.nairaland.com/6742931/nigerian-lady-buys-husband-benz).

Nigerian wives do a lot of stuffs, actually, not just buying cars and airplanes for their husbands. Some pay (or support their husbands to pay) house rents, school fees, hospital bills, etc. If we looked into our lives, we would recall instances when our mothers provided a certain fund we needed.

lol
These are qualities our parents dem get
Not ladies of these days who are lazy and got nothing upstairs other than to chop your money

Sweetplum:
Arindin Omo. Can you imagine this idiot. Cos of the little money you v. Come n do it again after your career don die.

shattap

E go shock u wen u reach there Putin go change rule again sending foreign students to war front
Na then ur eye go clear

Rozross:
The kind of life I wish and God already promised to fulfill my wishes for me.

yahoo boys have used you finish so no you are finished

The guy man don toast am before
Na why she get that ground to yarn like that

christianjoy:
Just chill nigga
Enjoy the present
Think for the future
Meanwhile have you tried other sports
Like basketball,hockey and even baseballs
You would gain more from it

i no really sabi other sports
Football na him hard pass

christianjoy:
looks like betting don do you strong thing

e pass strong thing
This thing no be life

Na this kind girl I dey like tbh
Truthful and doesn’t pretend
Everything she said here is true but the question is how many guys has she paid for knacks

Sixfiguresmart:
Well, I have studied his mannerism, his fashion, and music. Met him a couple of times too. He is still childlike for his age and exposure in the business. Though, I like him and play his music. Love him to rotten but in comparison to the alpha male's standard, I can't see him as an inspiration for the younger generation. I understand that you see him as a superstar and might view him in that light. I do too.

burna boy is different bro
There is nothing androgynous about him
His pose his mannerisms his lyrics his actions

E never tire una?

Una stil dey bet?
Suffer no dey tire una?

ukaface:
is it that you can't read or you just love being gullible and ignorant?

even if work in a oil company u still want to keep your own money and leech off a Nigerian guy
It’s in your DNA

ukaface:
rubbysh
Na onto ordinary data I wan use Naija man for? Na data you dey use rate una self, what a shame!

Dude,I work, Abi your papa tell you say I leech am?
I'm a registered nurse collecting pounds,geddifok out

Na data be your problem, how much?

lol
Without leeching off a Nigerian guy u can’t survive and you know it
You can’t boast of 200k of your own
Impossible!

ukaface:
Simply put, Nigerian men are confused.
They feel threatened by an independent lady that the only way they can boost their downtrodden ego is by calling her name's.
And they feel superior when they are the ones ' taking care' of the Nigerian girl.
All those ones saying date foreign girls no know say some foreign girls don't take shit.
Nigerian guys dating foreign girls dey always do like mumu,make them no vex the girl, always showing inferiority complex, dem go dey do like boy boy.

I no rate these Naija guys, they too dey do like mofos.
You see them getting pained if girl no give in to sex, Na same them go dey call derogatory words to girl wey go give them kpekus. I mean....* Sigh* Naija guys are stupid, no dey reason their matter.

Abeg, I wan marry oyibo man sef, make all these mofos park well.

lol
You are playing around and you know it
I am sure without leeching on Nigerian guy you likely won’t have Data money to be here
Keep joking around

Una still dey bet?
E never tire una?

HolyMan12:
Siofra, when last did you collect a reasonably sized gbola that you love?

she and the OP have no boyfriends offline
They are terrible people

Corridon:
Reasonable comment. If you see the OP in real life you will run leave your car behind. Go through her post you'll notice she only nag about men all the time. A sign that no man gives her attention hence she is desperate to validate herself on social media.

she and siofra the same
Offline lowlifes with next to zero attention

This bitch lady dey try use reverse psychology on guys
She is trying to paint guys exactly as she is

WhoDeyHause:
Chelsea and other dead club fans please thank god for my life. I came back from church few minutes back only to see the apartment I stays has collapsed. My friend that we cohabit together said he just went to play ball in the street before he came back to see rubble and sand with people murmuring and crying. tried to take pictures with his phone but I was slapped by police that came there. Even the landlord is nowhere to be found. I lost 80 percent of my physical stuff except my clothes on my body, things in my bag and 2 million running ticket. I no get house again but I get my life today.

sorry bro
Person wehn die na him lose
Thank God for your life

siofra:
One guy I've known for the past five years just confessed to stalking me at night!

I swear I'm so shocked right now. I feel so weird.

I asked him why and he said he was trying to talk to me. This is somebody I talk to often. And he was so comfortable telling me about the nights he stalked me. Jesus Christ!

Nigerian men are very dangerous.

What if he did something to me? Why would anyone even be comfortable saying something like this?

I'll cut him off, I don't care if we've known each other for long. I need to stay safe from Nigerian men, they are wicked.

What if he's not the only one? Wow! He even says I give off antisocial vibes.

Nigerian men should not be trusted

anti no get boyfriends for real life
So obsessed with men online

You no get love only chop and run guys
Lol

jbsuth:
When i Look at my Father and all the things he is currently going through, i feel like killing the man. I have thought of poisoning Him, shooting him . I have thought of having him Beg for his Life before i pull the trigger .

A thread was on front page about a nairalanders father being so promiscuous and sleeping with married women. My own father was worse. People come to him when they have marital issues and my father will sleep the woman and further destroy the marriage. He has done alot and our family name has been soiled. There was a time i spent close to 2 million settling issues regarding sleeping with a naval officers wife.

I am 26yrs of age. I took my woman home to see my parents so i could start marriage plans. I stayed home for days with her. We started having serious issues and she left. She called and said she was no longer interested. I was Mad about it all. Two weeks later, a friend that works in a Hotel close to her place called me and told me that my woman now hangs out with a particular old man. He sent me pics of her with my own Father .

My Father takes her to the hotel to sleep with her. The hotel is like a guest house. I made an arrangement with my friend and told him to let me know when they are together. He called me few days later and i busted them without him knowing i was the one. I poured acid on the girl and she is badly damaged .

My dad came back him and lying to my Mom that he went for a church program. He has been receiving call from the girls family and i can see hw dejected he looks. He doesnt want to tell me what the issue his.

I feel like letting him know i did it and also feel like Killing Him. I might do it. I am Pained.

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Ebukacute:
Is rice a Chelsea player? Is he worth the 100million westham is quoting for him?... Kante and kovacic is always injured, do you have any other better midfielder? You remember where the Gallagher experiment led us to abi?
Show me a comment where I have advocated for jorginho to play ahead of kante or kovacic.

getat

You always sound like a Jorginho sympathizers
When he is shippped to barca you can port with him