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 Romance › Re: Marriage Isn't Hard Africans Made It So(opinion) by Kapeter(op): 2:19pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
goodmorning40:you lied. Marriage isn't hard, Africans made it so with their barbaric reasoning. Many women don't want to leave abusive marriage because the society would look down on them, the youths don't wanna go into marriage not because they can't take care of themselves and their respective wives buh because they can't at the same time take care of extended families of their partners. Same girls many guys are with right now can easily be married off by them buh they can't not because they can't feed them but because what tradition would request them to bring before they can officially hand over same girls to them, because extended family will never stop coming and then because many of these girls also only want the marriage because they are tired of fending for themselves. Go to many western word and see how easy marriage is really is. 53 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Marriage Isn't Hard Africans Made It So(opinion) by Kapeter(op): 1:54pm On Sep 29, 2019*. Modified: 2:13pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
Then we manage to host them successfully (thanks to loans), now we are together as husband and wife, we have to watch it when we will be giving birth cuz right now it's time for repayment hence there must be little delay in that. And then, just a year after, your far distance cousin is also getting married, your husband who is only responsible for the family even with the meagre he receieve monthly is again mandated to buy aso ebi and not just ending there, must accompany you, not just that, getting there, you must also show a sense of belonging, you must show them your husband too is there(if you know), money must be spray by force and then another loan again for another unnecessary course. I don't really understand, is this really why God made union? Did he created eve to just frustrate adam for no cause or for other reasons? Because of this many reasons which i just cannot fully list here, marriage is seen as some very hard job for men who ought to be married when actually it isn't hard. I made it an African thing because i have seen the way other youths in western world are living compared to how we live down here. All is not perfect everywhere all over the world but trust me if it's 30% worst over there, it is 97% worst down here in Africa. Fornication, soapy and other are now what the youths indulge in because society won't let them become who they ought to be at the right time. It's insane and i hope things can really change for better. And men(youths) go ahead and marry and still be you, no one should pressurize you to what you are not and cannot be, once you can take care of yourself and your wife, no problem, it's not your duty to take care of wifes family, it's hers buh willingly from your heart you can if you so wish buh must not be forced and mind you marriage isn't force, if it's not working it's totally not working, there's nothing like i'm doing it for this or that, stop making things hard unnecessarily, it can easily be disolved and you try again. Let's all stop making marriage seems hard and encourage youths instead of scaring them into fornication and others. 39 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Marriage Isn't Hard Africans Made It So(opinion) by Kapeter(op): 1:53pm On Sep 29, 2019*. Modified: 4:01pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
I don't know what the problem with African is though buh it seems it's not God that created others that also create us sha cuz in everything we are totally different and it's obvious. A case study of Mercy conversation with Ike on the bbn recently telling him 'He can't take care of her and her family'. It's obvious this is the mentality of most African women. I was on a dead thread recently and i saw a lady on that thread telling the op to forget(leave) her boyfriend and start seraching for men over 30 years instead cuz a 26 year old man can still not feed himself not to talk of feeding the op and her family. What an advice. 18 years is world standard age of freedom, right? This means at 18 years, a man is free off his family and can as well start his own family if he so wish, ain't it so how come a man 8 years older than 18 is deemed not to be fit for marriage? Well, cuz he won't only be carying his own burden anymore, he'll also be carrying that of the wife and the wifes' extended family, but why exactly? And they wonder why African men don't settle down early. This story has to change, it was never mandated in any religion book(for religious people) that a partner is to carry the others burden just because they are married. Infact the bible made us realize a woman is meant or created to be an helpmate to a man and not a burden buh reverse is the case in the world we live in now. First from the unnecessary troubles you make them go through all in the name of wedding, make them spend all savings they could have also invest which will in turn help the marriage in the long run, same wedding you could have just take your immediately family only, with that of your partner, go to any court, get it done, wear your wedding dress and take photos(for future sake) and return home as husband and wife buh no, sunny ade must come to play, all extended family we've not seen for past 15 years must all gather while we call on feast for everyone even if we have to borrow money to host them and such still paying loan even after 10 years in marriage while the people we hosted are all in their homes living their life wit no concern of how new couple are fairing... 110 Likes 14 Shares |
| TV/Movies › Re: Lepacious Bose: I Stopped Watching BBNaija. This Is Why... by Kapeter(m): 1:32pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
Why are people stupid though? Bbnaija organizer are also a business home like every other organization and making profit is the major reason they are in business. No one owe anyone anything, if your govt cannot provide basic amenities for you it is now personal individuals that should come and provide it abi? Like everyone is not in the situation together. People that watch and take it to heart enjoy it, if they don't, they won't prioritize it. Revelation ko, genesis ni. Rubbish and lepacious bose/koffi. |
| Sports › Re: Alexis Sanchez Scores Two Goals In Two Minutes On Inter Milan Debut (Photos) by Kapeter(m): 12:09am On Sep 29, 2019 |
godfatherx:it all started from Di Maria. Manchester is cursed. Pogba will become world class again immediately he ditch manchester for any other club. |
| Celebrities › Re: Toke Makinwa's Outfit To Her Brother's Wedding In Greece by Kapeter(m): 12:06am On Sep 29, 2019 |
NaijaTushboy:Toke is from Ondo state and in Ondo, marriage is not a do or die for our girls. They don't even stay in matrimonial home that much, they change husbands like it's nothing. There is nothing like i am staying becuase of my children even in the face of abuse, never not my ondo girls. Marriage is not a do or die affair, life is beautiful whichever way you'd love to live it. So face ya life. 1 Like |
| Travel › Re: Nigerians In Diaspora Should Learn Good Behavior. by Kapeter(m): 9:08pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Adams12345:how you take know say the op na sister? 1 Like |
| Travel › Re: Nigerians In Diaspora Should Learn Good Behavior. by Kapeter(m): 9:03pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Op, you no lie.from your post i guess you are in some African country. Well, i was in this bus heading home one night, when these two ibo boys with their bags, they alighted from one of the coaches just arriving from Accra and joined the bus apparently we are heading to same area. You won't believe that in less than 5 minutes, my brethrens picked a fight with one drunkard in the bus, everyone was calming them down that the man they are fighting is actually a drunkard, first, they don't know where they are going, second, they don't understand the language, one had a ring in one ear forming bad man with his flat head bigger than his whole body, they were calling their other friends who prolly has been here and their host telling him how they want to deal with the drunkard in his own country which they are actually new in/to. I saw they were one bunch of bastards, i didn't say a word cuz if i do they'd know i was a Nigerian too and i just don't want anything associating me and those useless folks. I just can't tell the story finish jare my brother buh i have vex a fellow Nigerian like that in my life. Come and see the way they were fighting themselves inside the market the other day too saying one of them is abakaliki and hence is not ibo buh osu while that one was ready to die whenever they call him that name, ghanaians try separate them wey dem no dey here na so dem go call police come carry them go. They'd go to another mans country and be acting like their fore-father is the owner of the people and their land and they wonder why they are hated all over the world. Smh 3 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Resign, Clear Your Name And Make History – Ex-minister To VP Osinbajo by Kapeter(m): 5:21pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Everyone is talking, dumb Osita too is doing same. Life kuku yaff spoil. Help him write the resignation letter and go submit on his behalf now. |
| Politics › Re: Joe Igbokwe Leads His Team To Clean Mcgregor Canal, Obalende (Pictures) by Kapeter(m): 3:46pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Lagos people una dirty sha. Shior 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Food › Re: Nigerian Food Combinations That You Haven't Tried by Kapeter(m): 12:50pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Toscarele:it's common here in Ghana. |
| Romance › Re: Please Help Me!!!! by Kapeter(m): 5:34pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
iykeklef:are you from Benin city? |
| Politics › Re: Nigerian Army Nabs 5 Key Terrorists Logistics Suppliers And Fighters by Kapeter(m): 4:11pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Good. |
| Politics › Re: Ondo Police Speaks On Death Of Over Thirty Cows by Kapeter(m): 12:03pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
bubu2019:reprisal on who or what exactly? The thunder or the mountain? 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Reno Omokri: Jonathan’s Reaction To Sowore’s Detention By Buhari Government by Kapeter(m): 10:25am On Sep 23, 2019 |
kaorama:if you know how much i ditaste the man ehn. Such a weakling, a president and at the same time a victim. I have never seen such a stupid weakling leader all my life. To even think he is an ijaw man self. He was never in control of his government since day one in office. Why so scared? A whole president for that matter. 1 Like |
| Crime › Re: Israel Samuels: Missing UNICAL Mass Communication Student by Kapeter(m): 10:04pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Chai. See fine boy. Where you come dey now israel samuel, your people dey worry now. My mind is telling me he intentionally lost himself. Just going away from his family. 1 Like |
| Crime › Re: Lightning Strikes 36 Cows To Death In Ondo (photos) by Kapeter(m): 9:45pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
MPESA:no mind am. Make he go ondo go form some warri levels for the wrong place. Na body go tell am. Even me wey i be from ondo self, i no dey do anyhow with ondo people. Anywhere you come from, once you be ondo just forget am, i no go ever try am. 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Confused On Sex Life by Kapeter(m): 9:41pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Dada4me:local man is looking for who to strangle. Emekablue please go and do testing. Don't fall hand o 1 Like 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Confused On Sex Life by Kapeter(m): 9:39pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
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| Politics › Re: Igbinedion’s 85th Birthday: Obasanjo Arrived In A Gold Rolls Royce by Kapeter(m): 9:34pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Marculey58:says someone with none. |
| Crime › Re: Lightning Strikes 36 Cows To Death In Ondo (photos) by Kapeter(m): 9:28pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
KingWarri:ok i hear you. Go arigidi or irun and go do anyhow, you go know wether na today yansh dey back or not. Or go break any ikale/ilaje girl heart and see if your stomach no go swell. Body go tell you. 5 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Igbinedion’s 85th Birthday: Obasanjo Arrived In A Gold Rolls Royce by Kapeter(m): 9:24pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
God continue blessing you baba iyabo. Omo Oodua rere. Live long baba. |
| Crime › Re: Man Butchers His Mother In Bayelsa, Runs Into The Bush (Graphic Photos) by Kapeter(m): 9:21pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Look at the criminals we are forced to live with. Before you know now, he'll migrate to blessed Oodua region in search for greener pasture and start disturbin our peace. Useless criminals from ss. 2 Likes |
| Crime › Re: Oluwayemisi Ogundana Dead! Body Found In Shallow Well by Kapeter(m): 9:19pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Whoever touches/harm the descendant of oduduwa shall know no peace all their life. I pray the navy does something and unravel and then jail and then kill whoever is responsible for the death of this ooduan woman. R.I.P compatriot 3 Likes |
| Crime › Re: Lightning Strikes 36 Cows To Death In Ondo (photos) by Kapeter(m): 9:14pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
rottennaija:that's bloated stomach not pregnancy. 8 Likes |
| Crime › Re: Lightning Strikes 36 Cows To Death In Ondo (photos) by Kapeter(m): 9:11pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
There are some places you don't joke with in ondo state sha. Infact almost everywhere. Go to akoko(most especially arigidi and irun), witchcraft. Go to ikale, ayelala. Go to idanre, they will speak it into your life and immediately it's working, ondo/ile-oluji will hit you with ring. Don't dare Ondo people. 15 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Sowore: "I Carried A Goat Tagged GEJ's Name At Occupy Nigeria" — Comrade Buska by Kapeter(m): 9:08pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Laurene:hey m.o.ron, i'm not responsible for your frustrated life and i'm not the reason your beneficiary failed woefully and henced disgraced out of office. Failure always support failure. And you still have more than 3 more years in your misery you know, never stop wailing though this will relieve you of your frustration once a while. No need thanking me sha. 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Sowore: "I Carried A Goat Tagged GEJ's Name At Occupy Nigeria" — Comrade Buska by Kapeter(m): 9:03pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
ibknaanii80:say whatever you like, gej was a total failure and i will pick buhari over him a million times i repeat again. 1 Like |
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