₦airaland Forum

ednut1:
was jesus not a blood sacrifice

he doesn't know that without blood sacrifice, there can never be any redemption.

igbodefendercom:
Kudos OP. The internet must be an alternative platform for the study of history.

So Princess Inikpi is like Joan of Arc who saved France and Queen Moremi Ajasoro and Queen Esther.

your head dey dere, you sabi person.

RomanGreen:
WTF!!!....were you hypnotized when you ditched your country for Nigeria?..... Damn

the man is full time Nigerian. He's based in Abuja, his wife is Colombian, i think he is Hausa, his daughter speaks hausa often from videos on his tls. His twitter handle is @whiteNigerian.

There are many of them like him from the relationship between hausas and malaysia people mostly. I come across them often times on twitter.

The thing wey pain me pass for here na that afro lady. With that big yansh, she dey go marry person wey no go fit make the thing soft. She just wan waste this yansh, o God. Which kain wahala be this.

udemzyudex:
Important of space , this is one thing most guys don't understand.

Girls play hard to get why can't you play hard to get too

Don't rush to pick her calls,allow it to ring the second time or third time before picking,girls do this a lot too.

Give room to miss each other,see each other maybe 3 - times in a week if you stay close, don't be too clingy or needy, don't call often ,haba get a life naa.

I learnt the hard way,of course she told me and I was happy she did.

Girls don't like nice guys even when they claim they do.

be decieving yourself there. Using your insatiable ex to judge the rest of the world. Nonsense and your Ex.

jjcena:
Spiritual husband

spirituial husband ko, spiritual f**kmate ni.

Op, nothing wrong with you spiritually hare, you are just unbalance(emotionally) just like me. In a minute i want to be with someone so badly and before you know, i'm done, i don't even want to see them again. I think growing up contribute to this thing sha cuz for me, i was raised a loner so often times i don't see any good reason to have anybody by myself since i have always been by myself without no issue.

Your case might be different sha.

Otunbascotty:
I can't even think of returning home now for anything not even to marry. I am trying to choose btw my American babe and my Trini babe over here. Naija babes are out of it. I can come visit later but I will only return to live in that shithole when am 80 and above.

Who ask you?

Look at the people we carrying same identity with. We've done no wrong buh we'll suffer outside our shores because of their incessant crimes.

Which useless beautiful country? Are you insane? Or you were born without brain.

You people ruined our beautiful nation we were building all in the name of this your useless Nigeria.

So i should be celebrating the ruins left of my fatherland because i'm celebrating one useless Naijiriya?

Don't lemme send ogunlade to you over there o op.

Nonsense and Nigeria.

FuckDaMods:
Cry me a river.. If only you have the courage to walk up a hard working igbo man and spill this trash, you go chop sand tire that day. Lazy hateful yoruber

chestbeating as usual.

Binikingdowm:
Nigeria will forever be united. We'll celebrate 1000 years of independence

God forbid evil. We are already tired of suffering from the crimes we know nothing of. We want out, we are only still yet to convince all our brethrens. Yoruba doesn't deserve to be among you lots. We are too peaceful and accomodating to be part of this useless country called Nigeria where the criminals have overshadowed us all and we are been looked down upon outside shores even when we haven't done anything. Our strategy will work, and we'll live the Nigerian identity behind us. We really do no derserve it, we deserve better and we will never stop at chasing our right identity. I'm and forever will be Ooduan. Someday, we will hoist our flag, we'll live our own live and the whole world will see how great we are as a nation. God continue to bless Oduduwa and every son and daughters of Oodua worldwide.

Kidnapped of course. Isn't that the only job available to their youths over there?

Lee29:
do you know that those whites were also idol worshippers before embracing Christ? Jesus is the reason America and Britain became great; and they'll lose their relevance the day they reject him.

Many of your idolatrous practices like the Oranmiyan staff in Ile ife is like Asherah pole that God detests. The whites abolished idolatrous practices, and became great; whereas in this 21st century, Nigerians kept on killing people for rituals in the name of culture

you these people sha. God mad America and Britain great buh didn't make Israel which He love the most greater than both countries. I laugh in Yoruba. There is nothing like idolatory, idolatory is when you carved out a god for yourself and worship it. Celebrating our fathers and fore-fathers is like when you remember your late grandfather, like when Christians celebrate Jesus.

Lemme tell you this, you know when my grandfather was alive, every jan 5th he always host his family, i mean every f**king person(all his children, grand children and great grandchildren). After his demise his children carried it upon himself and till datem evey jan 5th, it's always observed, he always kill goats for this occasion when he was here, and his children always do same, we all gather, and celebrate every 5th, before starting the ceremony, the family pray, sing granpapa eulogy and the feast begin. Someday, an ignoramos will show up and tell us we are worshiping an idol. They will tell us how we are worshipping late grand-dad and wouldn't see it as a legacy.

That's exactly the yoruba culture that has been demonizsed looks like, that was how it all started.

sammhi:
The stupidity of Africans is legendary..no wonder they are the most backward race amongst all
What did so called deity done for him or third so called race? You are still enslave to the white man in every way and worse enslaved by your fellow Fulani man in same country you share with them
All your so called gods are so powerless hence they usually die and leave no legacy of any sort except barbarism , poverty etc
Even if you don't want to see the living God then stay human and stop being slave to things you are actually greater than.

you mumu sha. Just because where you come from doesn't have history and culture doesn't mean we all like that. My grandfather that died here in just early 19's was almost turn into diety by his children because he was so powerful while he was alive. One of them that eventually try the route once got his answers when he was having problems if he had not discontinued for christianity sake he'd have idolised the man and it'd have been today.

If you should have read your bible carefully, you'd have seen that giants(powerful) live in this earth at some point in time and the sons of God came down to mate with beautiful women God created and they have generations.

I know someone like you will surely believe in Greek gods(mytholdology) like Apollo, Poisedon and all. Your mumu will do someday.

Otunbascotty:
you are still lying. The high chief arowa of ado- ekiti compound in ado- ekiti is just adjacent to the palace. I frequent arowas compound too. That's the only place where you find tomb of past arowas. Kings aren't buried oga they ain't human. Visit ewi of ado vast palace next year for udi uroko and kindly take pictures of the tombs u can find there and post here let's all see. Since you want to sell your lies by all means.

Kings are not buried? So they burn them?

Otunbascotty:
oga! Kings are not buried in Yoruba land except baales. The guy is lying and generalising his lies. Don't let people like him mislead you. olota lule ado a gbe ooo Ase !!!

smh. Talking about centuries.

Criminals vs criminals. Wetin concern me self.

immortalityk:
Any pictures of yoruba Land u have When u post them. Remember to mention me or let me know

sure bro. You'd know.

spiritedtete:
Yes 7 years and counting... I cross all the T's and and dot the I's. Before i married. I had hand full of ladies to choose from aswell. I only married who i see fulfilling my dream with me as well as synchronising witb her dreams too.


In marriage finance is the number 1 problem. Not matter how wealthy you are you will still be at logger had over money issues.

Security is number 2... you will need to be sure if your partner is not selfish and not everything Just about him or her.

Fidelity is number 3.. as important as this could have been Number .1, but no human nature is more of Growth and security to personal development matters most in human nature. While some can actually manage a cheating partner. Hence reason for an open marriage.


There is a lot more i would have shared... however, before considering marriage there are characteristics you need to really consider or not consider atall.

Not to consider
1. Abuse

2. Lying

3. Selfishness. (This is where the op fall into and this is a Capital No.. there is a grief consequence with regret hiding in this)

4. Lack of vision.


Let me stop here.

For me this is a no forgiving character. The same lady op is dying for will do anything if she falls in love to another man.

you see your life? You married the right person which you believe is right for you, do you know if this very same lady means alot to op for him to have initiate marriage talks, hun?

Buh yet, you advising the op to let go of the lady for a really small minor case when they can really just talk it over. Stop giving such advice i take God beg you, this said lady hasn't really done bad. Good wife isn't really easy to com by, if she refuse to change her ways which means she won't help in marriage then the op can let go buh not just leaving her without talking about the issue with her first.

Otunbascotty:
liar! Stop lying and misleading people on nairaland. Kings are never buried in the palace. Don't quote me coz I am a true son of ado-ekiti.

why you calling him liar? There are certain places they buried the first lived kings of the centuries and yes many of them were buried where they built palaces today and it's true many places all over yorubaland worship their ancestors which are mostly in turn the first king of such communities,towns and all.

OkoAmarashy:
You're asking again?

He's from that place where they use slaps to wake their mothers in the morning.

was only asking him maybe his ancestors have finally get to know thier origin. You know, they've been strugling about this issue for so long hence my question about where he originate from. They are just like ADOS(African descendant of slaves) in white lands, they are lost, they have no origin, they just know they are blacks and they exist. It's a sad tale.

Earthquake1:
So overbleaching Alaafin of Oyo is going to be turned into a deity?

where do you come from?

seunmsg:
You believe Jesus turned water to wine? You believe Jesus walked on water? You believe Jesus died and woke up the third day?

hehehehe. Sense will not kill you brother. God bless you for this wonderful response. The whites came here and told us our fore-fathers are all demons and lied to us about our culture and also distort history for their own gain.

Davash222:
Worshipped forever by who and who

wetin concern you? You be yoruba man?

Long live the king of Oduduwa. Ki ade o pe lori ki bata pe lese Arole o'dua.

Ubunja the miseducationist don turn woman.

And anyway, people cheat for different reasons, not just men including women too. Some even cheat mistakenly self.

TechCapon:
Before you waste your data let me quickly warn you, if you want to watch the video just to see the dance moves you'll enjoy it but if you want to watch it because of the music vibes don't bother wasting your time and data because the song is trash. Instead use that data and watch "Blow my mind" by Davido and Chris Brown.

peters' songs can never be trash, you can keep your opinion or advice to yourself. Just say you are not familiar with his voice and style of music because it was pauls that we already embraced and one of the reasons it's going more smoothly for him unlike peter.

spiritedtete:
Are you married?... is this the best you can do to your brother?

Get wisdom ... somethings are better left unsaid.


To the OP.

You are cage with affection and glorifying "your-self ego"

My brother you are about to marry wrong... obviously from your write up, you are hardworking... you need a woman who will complement you. Not the one who will put you under pressure.


Don't not marry that lady... if you want to know what happiness and fulfillment is in marriage.


Some people are better as Just Girlfriend! Or even baby mama. Not as live in companion.

so because of little thing as this the op should dump thelady abi even though they have no other prob in a world filled with so many flawed ladies, hun?

He's getting tired ofthe habit, he's starting to reason it's unwise hence reason he needs advise, isn't it better to talk to her woman about it and that will promp his next step?

Yet you asking if i'm married, i don't know if you are either, buh i guess when your wife exhibit some certain habit you dislike, you'd just wake up one day, go to court and file for divorce without talking to her about it? Isn't it same that applies to someone you are planning to get married to?

Belafonte:
So, men are allergic to being taken care of? This is a hot load of hogwash. Anybody who listens to this will end in perdition.

no matter what the world(most esecially feminists) says, it will always remain women to be taken care of by men while women help men. That's how God created the world. They are already talking marriage, that small thing shouldn't separate them. The op doesn't seem to have any other problem with his fiancee except that, so should that now tear them apart when they can easily talk it out? If the lady is deliberately doing that and not for her ego or any other meaningful reason then the op can dump her and find a replacement as it will seem she's only unsing op.

shilenji:
Put weed inside hair food(hair cream) soak for like two weeks ,den start applying in your mustache and beard area for like three weeks den you will start looking like her ancestors,first win her den tell her about uour age after she.is deep into you.dassol


Coming from my little boy brain o.

do i need to grind the weed before adding it to the hair cream please?

Hotzone:
I always respond to my fiancée financial demands even when most of them seems like extortion. She prefer I pay her bills both rent and utility though I try to wriggle my self out in rare occasions.

Condition of marriage: No sex before marriage, I abide completely because I want her. She attends her friends weekend activity than finding time for us to stay close even when she constantly reports about how her female friends accuse her of lesbianism but I pray she’s not.

She works and her wages and daily earnings is a little bit above mine. I have told her my marriage intention and she openly accepted without the usual marriage proposals but I am thinking to make it official.

I am still considering if she is suitable and can make a useful wife because I am about to make an official statement which is going to change my entire course in life.

Please, my fellow Nairalanders, I need constructive and supportive words. Blissful week to you!

op, don't mind all the mumus saying you should leave her. They are prolly teens who doesn't know left from right yet. Some women just naturally love the feel of been taking care of, that might be her case, like they love the feeling that their man is taking care of them rather prolly something just to boast of. Buh if you you think you are not comfortable about this, i think you should talk to her about it since you two are already talking marriage so it won't affect your home later after marriage. Women should be a helper, remember? So talk to her about it and you can know what next to do from her response.