Arsenate: This morning I Just found out that the said Sandra is "following" me. On checking her profile and seeing her pix(extremely pretty), date of registration(4th oct) and the "millions" of people she's "following" just within 48hrs of registering with NL, I knew she (rather he) is a scammer.

Y'all beware.

Arsenate: This morning I Just found out that the said Sandra is "following" me. On checking her profile and seeing her pix(extremely pretty), date of registration(4th oct) and the "millions" of people she's "following" just within 48hrs of registering with NL, I knew she (rather he) is a scammer.

Y'all beware.

Cidi: I'm currently in a relationship with a guy I don't like. He is not attractive, not cute,not well built and moreover he is broke, he always ask me for me. Although he is caring and really likes me a lot ,but he is just so out of my league. Everything including d sex irritates me. But I like him as a friend, because he has really been there for me. But my heart doesn't go with him as a boyfriend. I don't know if I should still continue in this relationship or not.

Cidi: I'm currently in a relationship with a guy I don't like. He is not attractive, not cute,not well built and moreover he is broke, he always ask me for me. Although he is caring and really likes me a lot ,but he is just so out of my league. Everything including d sex irritates me. But I like him as a friend, because he has really been there for me. But my heart doesn't go with him as a boyfriend. I don't know if I should still continue in this relationship or not.

Cidi: I'm currently in a relationship with a guy I don't like. He is not attractive, not cute,not well built and moreover he is broke, he always ask me for me. Although he is caring and really likes me a lot ,but he is just so out of my league. Everything including d sex irritates me. But I like him as a friend, because he has really been there for me. But my heart doesn't go with him as a boyfriend. I don't know if I should still continue in this relationship or not.

dimepiece: This issue has given me sleepless nights since I got pregnant. I am yet to tell my sister in law because I know she will be very angry. I don't want anything that will hurt her either. I am so in love with her that I don't know if I will be able to live if she was to leave me. I wanted to keep our affair in secret because I don't want to hurt my husband but his sister says she can no longer stand the fact that I am married to someone else and that she is tired of having a secret relationship. She says that if I really love her then I would leave her brother to so as to be with her. She says that if I don't leave him by the end of this year then she will leave me, and I can't allow that. That is why I am in this dilemma, I honestly don't know what to do

patsucess: Dear Brothers/Sisters

I am a married woman aged 22. My husbands Penis is very huge and whenever we have intercourse, I feel it in my chest. It hurts so bad sometime I throw up after we have had sex.
I do not enjoy the sex at all and given the circumstances, I seek a help from outside our matrimonial bed. I am of late getting disgusted because I can no longer handle his “thing”.
I have tried to give him excuses, signs and clues that I want to bow out of the union to no avail. Even when I flirt with guys, it doesn’t seem to matter much to him.
In the night, he humps me real bad like he is punishing me for my overtures. I am afraid to sleep on our bed because even if I creep in late, when he wakes up, he will hump me without even caring about pre-intimacy.
Everytime we have sex, I get hurt because my Virgina is never lubricated. Help,plzzzzzzzzzzz i am suffering in my marriage.

TisaBone: and all of you men on nairaland say that women are gold diggers. I must admit, it was mighty tempting, but he told me his age and i flipped. at 23, a 34 year old man is way too old for me. but for some reason i feel like i did something wrong, or that i should have given him a chance. but at the same time, this gives me the strength to resist other men. I can always tell them "look, i turned down a guy who was pushing a mercedes, what makes you think that I would put up with your mess?"

on the other hand im scolding myself. What is wrong with me!!! I feel like im self sabotaging or something.

virgodes: I met this woman through a mutual friend! We had this attraction that was just unexplainable. After the third day of knowing her she gave me her address after I asked for it and we had sex for almost 2 hours. Probably the best and hottest sex of my life. We continued to see each other every evening for the next 2 weeks. The only reason we did not continue this is because her husband came back from deployment. Yes, he was deployed. We did not just have sex, but rather spent time getting to know one another and in the mean time fell for each other. We ended up saying "I love you". The feelings we had grew strong and stronger and even continued to grow after her husband came home, even though we couldn't see each other. We had a connection that was stronger than anything either of us have felt before, and not just sexual. After all the talking and even the day's I took off work to spend the whole day with her, we realized how perfect we would be together.

The problem is obvious though, we are both married (unhappy with our current relationships obviously or this most likely wouldn't have occurred) and both of us have a baby. Her husband is a controlling freak who constantly puts her down and makes her feel like ****, he can't let go of her past which included sex and drugs, again making her feel horrible about something she did before they met and can't currently control. He's young and immature and doesn't deserve a girl like her! She changed the person she was to fit his needs and after being with me, realized this and changed back to the who she was before they met.

Now, all this being said he has been back from deployment for a little over 3 weeks but has spent all that time with family and has not been alone with her and his son since he has been back. They have not returned back to their normal routine. She say's things are going good (for now) but I believe it is only because it's fresh and new now that he is back and once they get back to their routine and are alone, he will go back to being the dick he was before. People don't change! (experience). We both decided we would work on our marriages and see how they went first. Mine is not going as well as hers, plain and simple, It's ****. No love, no connection, anyways, all I have been able to do is think about this woman who I can't txt or call because her husband controls her every move and she can't ever get away or do anything without him barging in (no trust). How do I know there is no trust, by how controlling of her he is, it's ridiculous. By the way, this is the first time her or I have ever done anything like this, it's not normal and we both never ever thought it would happen. So all I can do is think about her and how much I want to be with her and take care of her and treat her the way she deserves to be treated as well as taking care of her child of which I have no problem doing, and would enjoy it.

Now, any advice on what I should do? To sum it up, I'm married and in love with another man's wife, she feels the same about me as I do her although she is currently not acting on her feelings where as I am having an extremely difficult time not doing. I want him to know that she cheated so he knows who he is married to, but without anyone finding out was me, and without her finding out that I spilled the beans. With him finding this out they would definitely not be together anymore therefore making her available to be with me. I'm a horrible person I guess because I have no issues with divorcing my wife. We've been married for over 3 years but there is no love in our marriage anymore, it's like two strangers living in a house raising a kid together. Any suggestions?

disney: What Would You Do? If You Were In This Scenario?

Sup everyone, l have heard the saying many times that good things come but once. Ok my people , I was waiting at the bus-stop for bus the other day, l looked so ugly not that l am ugly, no makeup, my outfit wasnt sexy and this sexy looking guy came by with this exotic ride l have never seen in my life and he''s like "baby girl, u need a ride" and am like l don't drive with strangers and next thing he gives me his number and his office number and tells me he is new in the area , that he just lost his mum and he moved from florida and needs a new environment.

Ok, am there standing blown away by this guy's appearance, very sophiticated , very very handsome and my legs trembling and tears start pouring down my eyes and he's like, you don't need to cry . am like it allergy's. (l felt stupid)

Ok, the truth is that, l have a boyfriend already who l love dearly but meeting this new guy something in me tells me that l should give it a chance because since when l saw him my legs haven' t stopped trembling since then. Am not a gold digger or a player but there is something in this guy's voice that l keep hearing all the time in my heart. There's just something unique about this new guy that makes me wonder.

What would you do? l need quick solutions because this guy already asked me out to an exotic dinner .

NB: am not a player or a gold digger but can't I just be friends with this new guy. Who knows l might connect most of you to higher grounds from here. you never know where your help would come from. That's my point

disney: What Would You Do? If You Were In This Scenario?

Sup everyone, l have heard the saying many times that good things come but once. Ok my people , I was waiting at the bus-stop for bus the other day, l looked so ugly not that l am ugly, no makeup, my outfit wasnt sexy and this sexy looking guy came by with this exotic ride l have never seen in my life and he''s like "baby girl, u need a ride" and am like l don't drive with strangers and next thing he gives me his number and his office number and tells me he is new in the area , that he just lost his mum and he moved from florida and needs a new environment.

Ok, am there standing blown away by this guy's appearance, very sophiticated , very very handsome and my legs trembling and tears start pouring down my eyes and he's like, you don't need to cry . am like it allergy's. (l felt stupid)

Ok, the truth is that, l have a boyfriend already who l love dearly but meeting this new guy something in me tells me that l should give it a chance because since when l saw him my legs haven' t stopped trembling since then. Am not a gold digger or a player but there is something in this guy's voice that l keep hearing all the time in my heart. There's just something unique about this new guy that makes me wonder.

What would you do? l need quick solutions because this guy already asked me out to an exotic dinner .

NB: am not a player or a gold digger but can't I just be friends with this new guy. Who knows l might connect most of you to higher grounds from here. you never know where your help would come from. That's my point

jambogini: 0 0

Here is a lady who needs help as she is having marital issues.

My name is Tola, I live in Abuja, I have been married for over 6 years with two beautiful kids. My husband before we got married was the best thing ever, flawless, generous to a fault, God fearing, trust worthy and anything a woman would desire. But just into marriage, the lid fell from my eyes I have been deceived and have lived with all his excesses for 6 years now and it is just too late to back out now.

When we got married I began to see his true color, there was no friday he stayed at home he partied out and came back the next day by noon, I can't remember when last I had a date night or and outing with my husband since our honey moon, he Performs his duty regularly, provides enough up keep for the family, provides for the children, sponsor vacations abroad for I and the children excluding himself. He has a heightened sex drive.

I try my best and give it to him anytime he desires it. But it doesn't stop him from cheating on me; he even does it in the open. Other husbands take their wives out for wedding ceremonies; he takes his concubines in place of me in the open even in front of my friends. He has turned me into a house wife and baby making machine and a laughing stock amongst my friends.

The funny thing is that he is a worker in church, he is a Christian. On Sunday, he spends the entire day in church, but asides Sundays, he is a pagan, he sleeps with anythingin skirts, I have cried my eyes out, he flirts with my friends, and he even has them as contact via BBM. Anytime he comes back from business trips, I see packs of condoms in his brief case and his shirt smells of feminine perfumes. The worst still is that he has FOOLS as friends, I cry out every day, I pray and fast but for the past six years it only gets worse.

He and his group of friends (married men)have a BBM group called "RELOADED" where they organise weekend get aways. Organise the latest chick to lay in cheap hotels, plan get together, where they have numerous vulnerable chicks to Bleep, party all night with their concubines, organize random bbm group with many university chicks (married men for that matter)they hook up with this girls, giving silly excuse that they are travelling for business trips.

One of his friends a senior manager in a company on the island recently travelled to kenya with one of his concubines and posts pictures of them having a sex rump, I see this through the bbm group der organised, my husband has no remourse, he lives his fone open and knows I go through it but he doesn't care.

My sister it might sound unbelievable, but many things are happening via social media, twitter, facebook were they hook up with chicks, as old as this men are, they organise private boat cruise trips with a maximum of 12 girls so dat they are surplus. They lodge on a private beach and Bleep the living day light out of them. Unilag, lasu and osu babes.

The worst has happened. I just got discharged from the hospital, I contacted STD via my husband and he feels no remorse. I have had it, I am tired, I want out, this is too much, I need a divorce. Ladun what do I do? I need comments from your blog readers. I cannot take this anymore, my husband bringing diseases to the home. If I suggest he uses a condom on me, he would beat me and accuse me of cheating on him. This men cannot get their eyes off anything in skirts. I noticed his chat with my neighbours daughter, I can’t confront her, he Is sleeping with her and recently took her clubbing.

Ladun please tell me what this girls have that I do not have, is their vagina gold plated or what. I am living in misery, I wish I we're single, I wish I cud cheat on him but am a firm believer in the word. I wish I could turn back the hands of time and dodge meeting him. Please Help!!!

sexkillz: She's only a pro[i]s[/i]titute if she collects money for sex. . . Else, she's just promiscuous. If she has a boy friend, she's a promiscuous cheat, else she's just promiscuous!

Princeojua: Hello Ladies/Gentlemen. I feel great to write this topic bothering me for some time now. There's these Beautiful Girl i met in the Park why travelling to Abuja 23rd may 2012 around 12:15pm it was Friday. We entered a Pegeot wagon from Jos to Abuja,this Girl was so gorgeous that get me imagining if she was my Girlfriend. I didn't know went she saw me she was imagining within her that i was her Boyfriend. So finally we go to Abuja this Girl and i were the only one left in the Car why others Passengers dropped on the way. Within me i was like she will ignore me,the next thing i saw was her asking me if i know biashi in Kubwa Abuja. I said yes,but i didn't. She now told me she will be Writing Jamb in the Village. The next thing she gave me her number,we get hook up. I had sex with her always,whenever i do it to her,she dance Agaba. Now she's cheating on me because i don't have money. Plz what should i do?

leslieu63: I feel so honored to be the third comment. All of
my hardwork and dedication has paid off.
Getting the top comment has been a dream of
mine for many years, and I would like to thank
those who have helped me along the way. First
and foremost I would like to thank God for
giving me this opportunity. Next I would like to
thank my parents. I want to thank my dogs
wizkid and bingo, for being really fat and always there for
me. Next I would like to thank the squirrel dbanj that
lives in my backyard for climbing trees because
that gives me inspiration that I need to get
through the day. This is a special moment in my
life and I would like to thank any of my
unmentioned friends and family that have
helped me along the way. This moment will be a
moment that I will never forget. I just
remembered a few other people I would like to
thank; facebook,nairialand, my girlfriends and sugar mummies, the fish I caught in the third
grade, my light in my room because I wouldn’t
be able to see the keyboard without it, the
internet for letting me go on facebook, my
house because without it I would be homeless,
and last but not least I would like to thank all
the people out there that actually took time out
of their day to read this. I cannot stress how
much of a big deal to me this is. I have been
trying to be the first comment on a post for
years, but that has not been possible until this
amazing day. Hopefully my good luck will
continue, but this is undoubtedly a rare
occasion. If you asked me how I did this, I
would say, you can achieve anything that you set
your mind on. To all the kids out there reading
this, I would like to tell them to follow their
dreams. Being the top comment is amazing,
thank you everyone!

leslieu63: I feel so honored to be the third comment. All of
my hardwork and dedication has paid off.
Getting the top comment has been a dream of
mine for many years, and I would like to thank
those who have helped me along the way. First
and foremost I would like to thank God for
giving me this opportunity. Next I would like to
thank my parents. I want to thank my dogs
wizkid and bingo, for being really fat and always there for
me. Next I would like to thank the squirrel dbanj that
lives in my backyard for climbing trees because
that gives me inspiration that I need to get
through the day. This is a special moment in my
life and I would like to thank any of my
unmentioned friends and family that have
helped me along the way. This moment will be a
moment that I will never forget. I just
remembered a few other people I would like to
thank; facebook,nairialand, my girlfriends and sugar mummies, the fish I caught in the third
grade, my light in my room because I wouldn’t
be able to see the keyboard without it, the
internet for letting me go on facebook, my
house because without it I would be homeless,
and last but not least I would like to thank all
the people out there that actually took time out
of their day to read this. I cannot stress how
much of a big deal to me this is. I have been
trying to be the first comment on a post for
years, but that has not been possible until this
amazing day. Hopefully my good luck will
continue, but this is undoubtedly a rare
occasion. If you asked me how I did this, I
would say, you can achieve anything that you set
your mind on. To all the kids out there reading
this, I would like to tell them to follow their
dreams. Being the top comment is amazing,
thank you everyone!

mrkels: If you want to flex then go and get a job and flex yourself. If you can't, then open your legs for him. So you think he ll just flex you because you are you abi? PS: the more he gives you money the higher he dislikes you too because he's not getting returns. This attitude you have has made lots of men loose respect in women and women such as your self have no value in our eyes, after all, shey na flexing you want? How much can you spend? Come and flex and I would wound your. As simple as ABC.

mrkels: If you want to flex then go and get a job and flex yourself. If you can't, then open your legs for him. So you think he ll just flex you because you are you abi? PS: the more he gives you money the higher he dislikes you too because he's not getting returns. This attitude you have has made lots of men loose respect in women and women such as your self have no value in our eyes, after all, shey na flexing you want? How much can you spend? Come and flex and I would wound your. As simple as ABC.

freecocoa: Make i hear say i get power to read all that after a stressful day today.

Clear road make i pass o jare.

sheringan:
why u no put one for ur forehead nah,if u don't tink Having a tatto shud nt explain who u re. Fowl

sheringan:
why u no put one for ur forehead nah,if u don't tink Having a tatto shud nt explain who u re. Fowl

sheringan:
why u no put one for ur forehead nah,if u don't tink Having a tatto shud nt explain who u re. Fowl

plaetton: In Europe and American it has become normal for people, men and women, to have different types of Tatoos on different parts of their bodies.
Since, generally speaking, we are a people beholden fads,it is becoming common in Nigeria for ladies, especially the young ones , to have visible tatoos on the upper parts of their bodies.

My first impressions when I see a lady with tatoos on her body is usually "irresponsible,vain,good for fun and thrills but never to be taken serious," etc etc.

Is it just me or do more men get these first impressions?

If so,aren't the ladies jeopardizing or limiting their chances of being taken serious by potential suitors and life partners?

lets here from m everyone, especially the gentlemen.

plaetton: In Europe and American it has become normal for people, men and women, to have different types of Tatoos on different parts of their bodies.
Since, generally speaking, we are a people beholden fads,it is becoming common in Nigeria for ladies, especially the young ones , to have visible tatoos on the upper parts of their bodies.

My first impressions when I see a lady with tatoos on her body is usually "irresponsible,vain,good for fun and thrills but never to be taken serious," etc etc.

Is it just me or do more men get these first impressions?

If so,aren't the ladies jeopardizing or limiting their chances of being taken serious by potential suitors and life partners?

lets here from m everyone, especially the gentlemen.

Ranoscky: They know NOT what they want.

Ranoscky: They know NOT what they want.

frakie: Hello frnds... Its happens one sunday I met this lady... Although she is a christian and verse versa.. We started dating each order.. I love her but not that much.. She owns a shop in which she sell natives clothes... And me am a fresh graduate still searching for job... She demand too much... And when I told her I dnt hav such cash on me now... She goes angry... She want everytin she ask me to be done instantly without any comment...Sometimes I call her... She says all sort of insultive words... And me as a guy I need to bring her down... One day she told me she cnt found her red flags stuff... I told her to comne down to my place... We both went to the lab to conduct some test and the test is negative meaning nothing is wrong with a red flagg... After several questions... We found out the sometin is inffection.. We decided to treat with my own cash ooo...recently same thing happend again... And I told her come go and look for it and stop disturbing me ooo... Their is this aunty though she is a nurse... She conducted a test for her and found out that its the same problem... After so much quarells.. We started again... She visit me... This is my point now... That same night in which she visit me... She call me and a frnd of mine is playing with a guy... So the conversation got interupted... She blow off and started saying all sort of insultive words again...I calm down and went to bed that night... The next day she call... I told her I willk call her back as soon as I got home... She said ok.. When I got home after some minute I call her... She said wht is wrong with me...I respose tht wht did I say is wrong with me... She said she didn't like my frnds... That I shld chose between her and my frnds... I told her look if u want to talk... Talk am listening nd dnt methioned my frnds... She jst banged the phone on me... I call her back... She said all sort of insultive words again nd banged the phone the second time... I call her the third time... She off her phone... I beg I knw no weyting I go do oooo... Am getting peace- off u guys shld advice me ooooooo

frakie: Hello frnds... Its happens one sunday I met this lady... Although she is a christian and verse versa.. We started dating each order.. I love her but not that much.. She owns a shop in which she sell natives clothes... And me am a fresh graduate still searching for job... She demand too much... And when I told her I dnt hav such cash on me now... She goes angry... She want everytin she ask me to be done instantly without any comment...Sometimes I call her... She says all sort of insultive words... And me as a guy I need to bring her down... One day she told me she cnt found her red flags stuff... I told her to comne down to my place... We both went to the lab to conduct some test and the test is negative meaning nothing is wrong with a red flagg... After several questions... We found out the sometin is inffection.. We decided to treat with my own cash ooo...recently same thing happend again... And I told her come go and look for it and stop disturbing me ooo... Their is this aunty though she is a nurse... She conducted a test for her and found out that its the same problem... After so much quarells.. We started again... She visit me... This is my point now... That same night in which she visit me... She call me and a frnd of mine is playing with a guy... So the conversation got interupted... She blow off and started saying all sort of insultive words again...I calm down and went to bed that night... The next day she call... I told her I willk call her back as soon as I got home... She said ok.. When I got home after some minute I call her... She said wht is wrong with me...I respose tht wht did I say is wrong with me... She said she didn't like my frnds... That I shld chose between her and my frnds... I told her look if u want to talk... Talk am listening nd dnt methioned my frnds... She jst banged the phone on me... I call her back... She said all sort of insultive words again nd banged the phone the second time... I call her the third time... She off her phone... I beg I knw no weyting I go do oooo... Am getting peace- off u guys shld advice me ooooooo

egbeman1: This situation actually happened to my friend and he's seeking my opinion.

He's actually very cute and hard working guy but right now, his wife's kid sister and cousin living in his house got pregnant for him in addition to his wife's 8months pregnancy. My guy is thinking of going on exile, what do you think he do?

oladayo042: Oh! I'll miss that station.

oladayo042: Oh! I'll miss that station.

ochi-aha:


I think so too. Hubris, excessive pride and ambition, must have contributed to the closure of the station as the promoters of the station did not want to reach out to Financiers, in their misplaced self-belief, to participate in the joint ownership of the station.

ochi-aha:


I think so too. Hubris, excessive pride and ambition, must have contributed to the closure of the station as the promoters of the station did not want to reach out to Financiers, in their misplaced self-belief, to participate in the joint ownership of the station.

edakedkay: She's my bestest friend. We've been friends since secondary school and her guy was my classmate in nursery school.
I didn't know until when she introduced us. She's been with him for 10yrs.
She's 28 now and the guy 31. He's your typical tall,dark and handsome guy and oh my he loves her to his marrow. Not into women,hardworking,down to earth and he's got most of the qualities any woman would want from a guy.

My friend on the other hand is equally pretty and tall as well but she's had quite a number of other guys she's slept with.actually,6 of them. Each time the guy forgave her when he found out but he was this close to leaving her after he found out about the last one.

In their final year in school she got pregnant for him but had to flush it out as they were both not ready to take that step. Forgot to say they were mates in university in 2008 she took in again,was ready to keep it but the guy wasn't.not because of finances for he was quite ok then but because he wasn't sure if it was his.

My girlfriend had told him it was his because she took in November of that year while she had stopped all her flings because she almost lost grips on this guy due to all her atrocities. all efforts to convince her guy the pregnancy was his fell on deaf ears. She had to flush it again and I accompanied her.

They tried to patch things up. 4 months after,she left the country to go do her masters in the UK. But before she left the guy confessed to her he'd slept with a girl as he was under so much pressure from his friends to dump her and move on with some other girl. He said it was never the same without my friend.

He loved her too much and thank gracious they were back together again and my friend has never had some other guy in to her since then.she was away for three years and a year before her return,he popped the question which she happily said yes to.plan was for the wedding to hold november last year but as life would have it things took a dive for the guy.

She's been the one supporting him since then while he on the other hand has been hustling seriously. Trying his hands everywhere and even looking for a job.something he never wanted to do because he's this type of guy that believes in creating jobs for others. He was actually doing this.

They are both jobless now and their prospects are good tho. The thing is, all our friends are married except her and one other friend of ours. She's currently so depressed and feels like a looser because she's not married. Her guy's elder sister wanted to sponsor their wedding but the guy completely turned her down that he won't let anybody sponsor his wedding.

My friend completely loves this guy too and won't leave him as she fears she won't find anyone else to love her as this guy does and she leaving him now will paint her a bad person. Meanwhile, she's so very much loved by the guys family even after she told them everything she did wrong and the girls family loves him as well. Apart from my friend's history with men, she's a very good girl-friendly,caring,she listens, generous and I truly believe she's done with her old ways.

She wants a baby but the guy doesn't due to his financial standing and promises that everything will be done my friends way once he lands a job. My friend's is that she wants to them to get married with her guy's sister sponsoring the wedding and then they can continue their hustle from there but her guy's not buying.

Meanwhile,she's got two guys wanting to marry her but turned them down.

Please will you advice her if she were your sister. Remember she's 28yrs.

edakedkay: She's my bestest friend. We've been friends since secondary school and her guy was my classmate in nursery school.
I didn't know until when she introduced us. She's been with him for 10yrs.
She's 28 now and the guy 31. He's your typical tall,dark and handsome guy and oh my he loves her to his marrow. Not into women,hardworking,down to earth and he's got most of the qualities any woman would want from a guy.

My friend on the other hand is equally pretty and tall as well but she's had quite a number of other guys she's slept with.actually,6 of them. Each time the guy forgave her when he found out but he was this close to leaving her after he found out about the last one.

In their final year in school she got pregnant for him but had to flush it out as they were both not ready to take that step. Forgot to say they were mates in university in 2008 she took in again,was ready to keep it but the guy wasn't.not because of finances for he was quite ok then but because he wasn't sure if it was his.

My girlfriend had told him it was his because she took in November of that year while she had stopped all her flings because she almost lost grips on this guy due to all her atrocities. all efforts to convince her guy the pregnancy was his fell on deaf ears. She had to flush it again and I accompanied her.

They tried to patch things up. 4 months after,she left the country to go do her masters in the UK. But before she left the guy confessed to her he'd slept with a girl as he was under so much pressure from his friends to dump her and move on with some other girl. He said it was never the same without my friend.

He loved her too much and thank gracious they were back together again and my friend has never had some other guy in to her since then.she was away for three years and a year before her return,he popped the question which she happily said yes to.plan was for the wedding to hold november last year but as life would have it things took a dive for the guy.

She's been the one supporting him since then while he on the other hand has been hustling seriously. Trying his hands everywhere and even looking for a job.something he never wanted to do because he's this type of guy that believes in creating jobs for others. He was actually doing this.

They are both jobless now and their prospects are good tho. The thing is, all our friends are married except her and one other friend of ours. She's currently so depressed and feels like a looser because she's not married. Her guy's elder sister wanted to sponsor their wedding but the guy completely turned her down that he won't let anybody sponsor his wedding.

My friend completely loves this guy too and won't leave him as she fears she won't find anyone else to love her as this guy does and she leaving him now will paint her a bad person. Meanwhile, she's so very much loved by the guys family even after she told them everything she did wrong and the girls family loves him as well. Apart from my friend's history with men, she's a very good girl-friendly,caring,she listens, generous and I truly believe she's done with her old ways.

She wants a baby but the guy doesn't due to his financial standing and promises that everything will be done my friends way once he lands a job. My friend's is that she wants to them to get married with her guy's sister sponsoring the wedding and then they can continue their hustle from there but her guy's not buying.

Meanwhile,she's got two guys wanting to marry her but turned them down.

Please will you advice her if she were your sister. Remember she's 28yrs.

toluxa1: Habeeb Bama, one of the masterminds of the UN building bomb, who was captured in Yobe during a shootout between men of the JTF and Boko Haram, has reportedly died as a result of injuries he sustained during the shootout.

A report by Channels Television quoted a source who said that the bomber, who also masterminded some other major blasts “could not make it having lost so much blood in his bid to engage the joint task force in a shootout.”

The late Habeeb Bama, an ex- army Private who was declared wanted by State Security Service (SSS) in February for his alleged role with Boko Haram, especially as regards the Madalla Church bombing

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RealBitch: i can imagine it alright.

RealBitch: i can imagine it alright.

Gospella: The victim has met many other pastors who encouraged her to remain in the relationship because they husband does not want to go back to the former wife even though the marriage was not dissolved legally. However, the issue here is concerning her Christian which is against divorce and remarriage. Does it mean she is living in adultery since she is a second wife?

Gospella: The victim has met many other pastors who encouraged her to remain in the relationship because they husband does not want to go back to the former wife even though the marriage was not dissolved legally. However, the issue here is concerning her Christian which is against divorce and remarriage. Does it mean she is living in adultery since she is a second wife?

Dazzled:
pls tel us abt it,4 d past years u re d only one sayin somtin gud abt dem,wh i doubt so much.

info4bayempire: Corruption is a global menance.be it in united states of america,Nigeria any where in d globe.No country is left out.so no country should point accusing fingers to Nigeria only u can see an example of the french man.

info4bayempire: Corruption is a global menance.be it in united states of america,Nigeria any where in d globe.No country is left out.so no country should point accusing fingers to Nigeria only u can see an example of the french man.