Romance › Re: I Need A Matured Elder To Talk To Right Now. by Karleb(m): 9:27pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
One other thing I'd suggest is learn from people that are confident and borrow one or two things from them.
Take for example, confident people always look in your eyes during conversations, so next time you are talking to someone, look up and look into their eyeballs. Look away from time to time in other not to come off as wired.
Have trending haircut. You are a teenager it is expected that you exhibit youthful exuberance.
Buy trending wears too (if you have money). Don't dress like pastors, unless you want to be one. |
Romance › Re: I Need A Matured Elder To Talk To Right Now. by Karleb(m): 9:16pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
prince2pac: Ok, you are a guy, are you shy of putting an m in your moniker too 
What are your hobbies, at least you have to be street wise in something you love
Being an introvert doesn't stop you from making friends, at least I have some
Trying to join a rough school because you want to be street smart is not the way either, you might end up being a cultist and regretting your actions later
Look man, I'm introvert but whenever I get out of my parents house, man I shine my eyes, don't let no man talk down on you. If you are from Imo state, you should know that mbaise road Douglas is a rough place, they normally take people's phone there, but lanky and skinny stood with about five guys who tried taking my phone, even when people are passing by, but I stood my ground. Bro learn to stand your ground.
It's not too late to start going to market on your own, you just gat to be wise especially bargaining price, that's the market itself..
You are told you are not smart, mainly if you ask me why, I would say because at 19 you are still sitting around doing nothing, you are not trying to go out and do some hustle. man this life no balance, started fending for myself by Jss2, even being a shy guy, I knew that if I don't stand up for me, na hunger go kill me, so bro try and find something to do while waiting to admission into a rough school.
........ still coming Market people will cheat you whether you like it or not, should that stop you from going to the market. Hell no! Go there, let them cheat you. By the time they cheat you like three times you'll learn. Experience is the best teacher. I'd recommend OP start listening to Eminem. That guy is dope and very motivational. I personally like "Not afraid" and "Till I collapse", those tracks give me inspiration.  |
Romance › Re: I Need A Matured Elder To Talk To Right Now. by Karleb(m): 9:05pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
On thing I hate in life is labels. I'm an introvert, extrovert, ambivert, melancholic and all those bulllshits. Do you know why, because it limits you. It's makes it easier for you to not do so many things. It a way of providing ready made excuses.
So stop with the label, you are who you are. Do away with those labels!
You are young but at 19 there so many things you should be doing yourself. You should be able to go to the barbers shop yourself, I see nothing wrong with following your mother to the market to get you somethings but it shouldn't be everytime.
You just have to accept that you have low self esteem, hold on, it's not the end of the world. Now you need to work on that. The easiest way to do that is to get out of your head. Move out from your room occasionally, gist with your family members and use them to learn social skills. You don't have close pals right, start making friends with your siblings friends, it's a easy way to start and make it an assignment to work around everyday.
Yeah! Dress up and just walk around, it's good for your health and confidence.
Also, join a group. Maybe chess club, dance club, choir or the usher if you're a Christian. Learn a musical instrument. Be very good at something. Have a football club and follow them, go out to watch them in ball house.
Whenever your family members call you mumu, tell them firmly that you are not a mumu and they should stop calling you that.
Try to make friends too and be nice to people. Greet strangers and complement them. If you see a fine girl or boy, tell them they are good looking. If you see something or someone you like, say it. They'll love it.
There so many books on how to make friends and build your confidence, download, read and put to action.
I think I know of 'how to make friends and influence people'.
Try to be carefree and happy, you are too young to unhappy for no reason at all.
You'll be alright bro.
Before you deactivate, change your gender to (m). You shouldn't be ashamed of your gender. |
Romance › Re: I Need A Matured Elder To Talk To Right Now. by Karleb(m): 8:37pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
From what you've posted, your problem is very very solvable. You're 19, very very young!
I'll make an elaborate post later on. |
Programming › Re: Life Of A Phone Programmer by Karleb(m): 8:32pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
sonofnos: No. I have not. The previous motherboard (I don't really know) happened the same manner. Used it till 3am then to catch some sleep. Woke up and tried turning it on:- unsuccessful. I took it to computer village then:- unsuccessful, only the keyboard light was able to turn on.
Hence, I am afraid they might not be able to.
I have posted the picture (above)
I saw a legit.ng news today on a guy writing code on paper and learning. It really gave me hope that there's no excuse for me. I don't know but I don't think it is good to continue spending on the laptop again. That was not why I came here. It is a very painful decision to make but it is best I manage the phone's tools (ascode, grasshopper and programming hero)and you guy's guidance until I possibly get some jobs doing and patch myself up. Attach your phone number, email and account details, abeg details to your first post in bold. Writing code with pen and paper is a NO NO! |
Family › Re: Someone help me out please by Karleb(m): 8:16pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
STOP TAKING LOANS FROM THESE LOAN APPLICATIONS!
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Family › Re: How I Caught My Jss1 Student Luring A Girl With Pornography. Mother Supports Him by Karleb(m): 8:11pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
Mr OP, why is your moniker longNipple for a start?  See, go back to the school. Go and teach and collect your salary. Call the woman and apologize to her. I'm saying this because she might mastermind your sack. If the students spoil, it's not your bleeping business. Teach, get your money and garrout! Leave the home training to the parents. |
Crime › Re: ACP Okubo Aboye Sentenced To Life Imprisonment For Buying A Car From Kidnappers by Karleb(m): 8:02pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
Fembleez1: The law fix you with the knowledge that once you buy it, you know everything about it before paying for it. That is, you paid for it after carrying out due investigation into how the owner came about the property.
There's nothing unjust in that law sir.
If you want to buy a land from me, won't you care whether I have the right to sell? Which other of my family might be entitled to the land? How I came about the land? Is it family property or individual ownership or community owned? Who was the first occupier of the land? Family descent? Is it a virgin land? ETC A just law sentenced thieves to 5 years imprisonment but the innocent fellow who bought from the thieves with his own money gets life imprisonment  ? As far as I'm concerned, the seller could have lied about the real owner of the car. People especially mechanics help others sell cars in Nigeria from time to time. It's not strange. |
Programming › Re: Life Of A Phone Programmer by Karleb(m): 7:48pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
Have you taken it to an engineer?
I'd suggest you do that soonest.
Take the picture of the laptop and post it here. See, anyone willing to help will want concrete evidence.
I'd also suggest you attach your phone number and account details to the first post. |
Romance › Re: I Need A Matured Elder To Talk To Right Now. by Karleb(m): 7:34pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
The5DME: I'll quote you on a dead thread sir.... It's a really private issue. I think it's better you post it here. This is an anonymous site and you can even decide to deactivate if you think you've divulged too much. So post it here, you don't even know who is who or where your help will come from. |
Romance › Re: I Need A Matured Elder To Talk To Right Now. by Karleb(m): 7:30pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
Ok. What is the matter? |
Programming › Re: Life Of A Phone Programmer by Karleb(m): 7:19pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
sonofnos: No, not really I got the laptop here on August 2019, but it stopped working. I tried to convince my Dad with indeed.com to splash 60k last Oct for a motherboard from China (which arrived in Dec 3rd 2020). And the motherboard's 30 days warranty has expired. From what I've read, what you've spent to repair the laptop is enough to get a new one. Why didn't you just get a new one then? It's all good though. Just calm down. Help is coming and post the picture of the computer. @sanchez01 @cbrass @ladyf @stanliwise @davidthegeek @danthegeek |
Programming › Re: Python Flask Help - How Can I Solve This. by Karleb(m): 7:15pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
Have you been able to solve this?
From what I'm seeing, you are only rendering the view you are not sending any data to it.
I don't write flask but I think the return should be like.
return render_template('promote. html').with('attachment.file') |
Programming › Re: Life Of A Phone Programmer by Karleb(m): 7:04pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
The Acer laptop, did you buy it new?
Can you post the picture of the laptop only here? |
Family › Re: Will You Allow These For Your Child? by Karleb(m): 5:35pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
It depends. Tertiary education can be acquired later, some opportunities don't come twice.
They can choose to acquire it later, I won't object to that.
Not having it all is what I won't accept. |
Crime › Re: ACP Okubo Aboye Sentenced To Life Imprisonment For Buying A Car From Kidnappers by Karleb(m): 5:27pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
michoim: I don't understand. The real kidnappers were sent to 5 years imprisonment while the person that just bought a stolen vehicle from the kidnappers is being sentenced to life imprisonment. How fair is that judgement? That makes two of us. The law even stated that if one buys a stolen vehicle it means they are aware that the vehicle is stolen. How just is such law? |
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Education › Re: What Is The English Name For This ? by Karleb(m): 3:58pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
Kondomatic: So nah undergrads full all offices for Africa?  |
Programming › Re: Why People Always Think Those That Make Use Of Laptop Are Into Fraud? by Karleb(m): 3:41pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
DemonInvoker: It's Pointless and Stupid talking to you,Just take your unsolicited opinion elsewhere. Not until you do something about your argument that doesn't hold water. I'm sure you believe yahoo boys money affect Nigerian economy significantly. So ignorant! |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Manchester United Fan Thread:''20 Times EPL Champion by Karleb(m): 3:34pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
KingAlabi: Imagine your position when you loose your next match and Leeds Southampton and arsenal win theirs    |
Programming › Re: Why People Always Think Those That Make Use Of Laptop Are Into Fraud? by Karleb(m): 3:33pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
SatanBoss: 98% of nigerian girls that have michat or tnder or any of those similar apps are oloshos Oga, what does smart phone has to do with tinder app or whatever  ? |
Programming › Re: Why People Always Think Those That Make Use Of Laptop Are Into Fraud? by Karleb(m): 3:29pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
Crackow12: Where did you get your stats? It's like saying 90 percent of ladies with a smart phone are into prostitution.
Do yahoo boys use laptops, yes!
Does that make everyone with a laptop a yahoo boy. Hell no!
Why can't Nigerians understand these things? Is it so difficult  ? |
Programming › Re: Why People Always Think Those That Make Use Of Laptop Are Into Fraud? by Karleb(m): 3:26pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
SatanBoss: relax, the average nigerian in those sites will scam u at the slightest opportunity Then you don't know how these things work.  People are always scared of what they don't understand, I understand. |
Programming › Re: Why People Always Think Those That Make Use Of Laptop Are Into Fraud? by Karleb(m): 3:19pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
DemonInvoker: Go Fvck yourself please. I don't wish to learn a thing from a dimwit. You think yahoo boys' investment in bitcoin is the reason it is rising and you don't think you are dumb. Emancipate Yourself From Mental Slavery! |
Programming › Re: Why People Always Think Those That Make Use Of Laptop Are Into Fraud? by Karleb(m): 3:16pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
Whiteshield: If I have ever begged anyone for money on Nairaland, let me not live to see the end of this week.
But if I have never begged anyone for money, by the power of the gods of the land and Ogun the god of Iron, may you die miserably in a motor accident and the car will catch fire with your corpse inside. May you never see happiness and may your parents borrow money and sell all they have to bury you. Baba calm down, he never reach that level. |
Programming › Re: Why People Always Think Those That Make Use Of Laptop Are Into Fraud? by Karleb(m): 3:13pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
DemonInvoker: You no Even know wetin you dey yarn....If G-boys no involve buy Bitcoins and other oddcoins how the value for take dey go up... Nigeria is the Second Highest Crypto trading country in the world after America..What made it so?! You don't know a thing. You're so ignorant. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Manchester United Fan Thread:''20 Times EPL Champion by Karleb(m): 2:38pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
nitrogen: Something needs to be done. Rashford is senselessly selfish. OGS should either bench him for a couple of games or fuvking scream at him from the sidelines.
 Calm down. Even Salah do pass this. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How My Girlfriend I Love So Much Quit Our Relationship by Karleb(m): 1:38pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
Ennypop: As a matter of fact, if u not making money, relationship is not supposed to be ur priority. Money is primary. Sleep, wake up and meditate bro. You'd wish u had a rethink long before now. To hell with a girl who wouldn't contribute to my success Na broke we broke we no kill anybody. I wonder if this advice applies to girls too. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Manchester United Fan Thread:''20 Times EPL Champion by Karleb(m): 12:24pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
^^^
What exactly is that?  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Manchester United Fan Thread:''20 Times EPL Champion by Karleb(m): 11:12am On Jan 18, 2021 |
handelex: What of Henderson? Not so much.
But for a midfielder, he's not doing bad in his new role. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Manchester United Fan Thread:''20 Times EPL Champion by Karleb(m): 10:36am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Trevor012: They have only played two games together. The loss against Southampton and Draw yesterday so what are you even talking about? What solid are you referring to? Fabinho has been in that defence for a while now. |