chai, u guys thank u very very very much, i appreciate it, though now im slightly more confused than clarified.

@omega25red

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i stopped being sexually attracted to her don't tell her


How can u stop being sexually attracted to someone, isnt that the whole reason u started liking them in teh first place.?

now normally migraines are hereditary believe it or not and they are classified differntly. Just go to the freaking Doctor, hopefully u dont have any problems with ur sleep cycle or eyesight right?

totochopper


i doubt his problem is peyronies disease

olagold

good for u, if htey dont care for u leave them alone. htey will hurt u before they help u. jus tmake sure that history does not repeat itself, hwen u have ur own family

i advice that if u must sleep wiht her. trick her. maybe video tape u guys doing it adn show it to ur dad, that way he will know thta u are telling the truth and will definately need to send u away. or u can video tape the two of u, keep the tape, and if she ever trips just use it as collateral. do u have a sibling or cousins, maybe if they caught her seducing u, ur story will be more believable to ur father. GOODLUCK

what is AC AND SC. at first i thought u meant AC guy and south carolina girl. needless to say i was quite amused. im going to assume u mean AS, AA or SS right

tired of what, what were u guys fighting for anyway

latoya

did u miss the part of the man being married?

@ poster

tell ur friend, or whoever that is to leave him alone. THe guy is out to get some, just dotn let it be u or ur friend

i have to disagree with seun

play along, but of course if someone comes along who is better dump him quick. Play along and by God's grace if u make it to the US, and get ur green card and or work permit, let him go quick quick. at 18 u should start thinking about ur future adn if it means coming to the US, and establishing ur self then do it. what he is doing is very wrong. and no one will look down on u for what u did, once htey know hte whole story

tarloy

give us an example of when u had to lie to these girls

lol shilox

u mean a million naira

well after reading the other people's post i decided not to click on it.

Does any one here know the proper IGBO word of PRECIOUS

hey

is chokin ur child legal in the US, because i think i got choked once while in highschool

kick ur mom out ,no wait sorry i meant to say tune her out

stop being so possessive

DONT CALL HER FOR SAY LIKE TWO WEEKS, NOT ONLY WILL SHE BE SHOCKED AT UR ABRUPT SILENCE BUT SHE WILL BE ITCHING TO KNOW WHY U HAVE FORGOTTEN HER SOO QUICKLY.

daviddylan

what else should i do, die, oh freaking please, that is what marriage nad life is all about. u will forgive eventually, the key word is married before in the past

hey

will be in ATL in early april
wassup casper

it's a double edged sword

no girl would like to sleep with a man she is not attracted to for a job.

but in the modeling world 99% of all the models u see have and will continue to sleep with agents to get to a level where they dont have to anymore.

its a sad world, because if u refuse there is just another pretty, skinny girl who would sleep with him. Its part of the world of modeling, and i mean high class modeling too.

personally,being in nigeria i would advice u not to do it, he is probably lieing to you. But if u do want to go ahead, make sure it's a notarized document. at least get the money and maybe pictures before u do. LIke i said since u are in naija, all those documents could even be worthless. Assumin u were in the states, it wouldnt be anything special to sleep wiht the guy, heck most people would advice u too, because at least the papers mean something here. so goodluck. and think with ur head.

he is hotter than any nigerian actor in all those useless movies. wow so that is how they make them in ghana eh

oh ndipe

it didnt really bother me, see i grew up in nigeria and because of the type of schools i went to and the family freinds we had, i always interacted with the same kind of people. Even then i was a little uninterested with the settings. whenever we went to parties the same people trying to outdo the other person with clothes or cars same BS. even now when i go home to visit, it's the same old thing, only now majority of the kids are from UK or US. I guess what i am trying to say is that in nigeria there are circles, similar to the US but unlike nigeria, the americasn are always dieing ot express themselves so u can have different classes and types of friends. trust me that is hard to do in nigeria, if ur dad is rich hten majority of th epeople u know will be, which sometimes can be a bad thing. (see our parents did a good job of sheltering us - u know keeping us away from certain crouds, so in essence i easily could be seen as the black sheep because i like to deviate from what is expected sometimes).

Omo eko

even though i think america is safer than nigeria, if there was a war in the US i wont even wait for a plane, i will swim my ass home asap. its just life u know.

also the whole thing with nepa taking light in naija, yes its fun for say one day, but when they take light for two whole freaking months. i dont care if the masquerade is in town and its not christmas, it just isnt fun anymore. mosquito biting, no internet, no cable, and hten to make it worse incompitent ewus who all they want is bribe bribe, oh boy that gets irritating quick. soo in all ernest i would trade a fun day wiht out electricity for my life in the US.

u know what girls

to solve this problem just buy a remote control for ur boyfriends' car doors.
that way when u guys are approaching the car all he has to do is push the button and surprise, the door flies right open. so u still get the feeling that he was romantic and pushed the button, and the guy is happy that he didnt have to walk his ass all the way to the other side