pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.
I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...
I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab.
We did things together.
We were in love and had sex when we feel like it.
We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...
I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends,I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual.
During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred.
I didn't know their was a video recording of the act.
When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...
When my guy find out that I cheated on him he was furious.
I denied it initially but when he show me the sex clip I admit it but defend myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual.
I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to.
He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...
He show up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online.
I beg him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time.
That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him.
That I will regret the day I met him.
That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...
He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.
What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Let me put the story like this

You had sex
It was recorded
You heard about the Babcock story
Fear of expulsion and shame


Please tell us the truth

virago:


Stop talking like an illiterate

How do you know am not one

PrecisionFx:



IVF

Can you comprehend?
A poor man like this got no money for ivf

Its God at work

Queentee214:
Hi everyone,
Am really confused on what to do right now and I need advice.

I and my ex broke up six months ago...I broke up with him cuz we are always having misunderstandings...not just that..he can't control himself when angry , he always end up insulting me and calling me names but apologize when he is calm.

The last one that led to our break up was when we went to his friend's birthday party..on getting there,,i met an old time friend(a guy) and we talked for few mins .i went back inside where the party was holding and I met my bf angry already,,we end up quarreling there and he called me a prostitute in front of everyone(that wasn't the first time he would embarrass me in public)...

I was hurt and left there...i started ignoring him and the relationship wasn't going well anymore...i broke up with him afterwards ..i love him but I can't accept his flaws ..we tried to get back together but end up blaming each other for everything.

Six months later, I'm in a relationship with another guy..he has his flaws too but not bad...
Now the problem is I still love my ex and we still talk and chat almost everyday...

He is the first person I call when I need advice and vice versa..my ex family thinks we are still together and always call to check up on me....this is causing problems in my new relationship....

I decided to cut contact with my ex but he is isn't ready to let me go and neither am i..

Just last week my bf broke up with me and told me to call him when am ready to cut off contact with my ex...

Am really confused and I don't know how to do what he asked me...pls anyone with advice on how to forget someone should help me

I need to forget and move on from my ex
....pls advice... Thanks

Pls no one should come here and start telling me I met a good guy and toying with his feelings..

My ex is also a good guy, he just has his flaws...I just need advice...

Thanks

Tell us the truth your ex is good downstairs

WealthyMay:

Female

The job is for Male
When opportunity comes for a lady I will buzz you

Ogalanyachieze:
All i see is political Ambitions

Better than the polilooters its allow

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Don't you have plain shirt am9 g the grade A

White especially

WealthyMay:
Please i'm interested. Do you have any number i cam contact you on?
This is my number 08124641726. Thanks

Are you a female or Male

MDBrand:

You are very stupid

Infact very very

MGab25:
Some time ago, we came across the story of a man who eloped with his son’s girlfriend and that’s why we made up this post today to reveal the types of men you should be careful with as they can easily steal your woman.

1- Gym instructors:


Most Gym Instructors are usually young, athletic, fit and attractive to women as they practice live in the Gym and are health conscious.

Gym instructors are known to perform horizontal acrobatics with their female clients regardless of their marital status.

The instructors don’t stress themselves to get a  woman as the ladies freely throw themselves at them once the effect of their inappropriate touches kicks in.

It’s common to hear stories of women cheating on their spouses with their Gym Instructor.

2- Photographers: 


Second, on our list are Photographers. Photographers are fond of taking advantage of women; especially the young ones desperate for a super-dope shot and are ready to take on any position suggested by the photographer to make their pictures good enough for many Instagram Likes.

Another category of women that falls prey to photographers is female models as they often get offered free private shots and some promises (you know there’s a price attached to every free Thing right? Wink!). They also know how desperate the models are to add a lot of Professional Images in their Portfolio; they don’t mind being nude too.

I know of a friend who spends more than 4 Hours snapping a model in his tightly locked studio while I’m outside waiting for that long. He doesn’t let me be in the studio while he snaps as he said He always wants to get the best shot in every position possible for each of the models; but after the shot, they always come out of the studio Sweating and the model adjusting her clothes ….. [/b]What do I even know? I can swear they did nothing in there lol! .

[b]3- Pastors:


Pastors are third on our list because rogue men of god understand the psychology of women and always take advantage of them.

They are very much aware that women often get emotionally needy and are very desperate for caring and listening ear, and a lot of women trust and respect their pastors more than their husband.

Some time ago, we read about a man whose wife was having an affair with her pastor and according to him, his wife prepares special delicacies for the pastor after he must have left for work; and she prepares horrible meals for the husband.

Rogue pastors most times take advantage of women during private prayer sessions.

4- Lecturers and Bosses:


These days, news about Sex for marks gone wrong are making front-pages in the media, what about those that went as planned? When should we expect that information to be out?

We are in the era where your grades determine how easy or tough getting a job will be for you after school and lecturers are out there acting like Mini-gods, so imagine what ladies can offer for a pass!

Out of desperation for a good grade, students can be lured by the lecturer or vice-versa. The same thing happens in Job Promotions.

If only we can get a good survey on how many students pass out with a “Sexually Transmitted Degree”, most boyfriends and husbands will be disappointed.

5- ‘Just friends’:


Lol! This category of Men approaches your woman just to be ‘just friends’ with her, so, guys you have to be careful with men your woman introduces as “Just Friends”… Whenever my Girlfriend tells me “Look, He’s just a friend”, I’m always like “I don’t understand this Just a friend package oo… Because I know what I did when I was Just a Friend ooo ”

Just friends stay in the ‘Friend Zone’ and will make you think they are comfortable being there, but they are just waiting for the right time to strike…. The right time when you’ve got issues with her and when she’s emotionally vulnerable and needs “Immoral support”.

Do you have any Suggestion? You can drop them in the Comment Section.

What do you think about this article?

https://www.entgist.xyz/these-are-the-types-of-men-that-can-easily-steal-your-woman/

Okada riders

AutoReportNG:
Many must have heard or read about the Bonny Island in Rivers State, Nigeria. Bonny Island can be tagged the beauty and home of luxury with comfort and relaxation.

Somewhere at the edge of the Atlantic Ocean facing the Bight of Bonny sits the Island of Bonny. This serene Niger Delta community has several historical and economic symbolisms for the Nigerian nation. It was the melting point of economic activities right from the 16th century.

It serves as Christianity’s first port of call in West Africa. It is also home to so many illustrious sons and daughters of Nigeria. This significant constituent of the larger Ijaw ethnic nationality has her local dialect, Ibani is spoken across her various communities. With a thriving traditional system and robust cultural heritage, it stands out as one of the foremost local communities in Nigeria.

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Her traditional institution is headed by Edward William-Dappa Pepple who serves as natural ruler and Amanyanabo-in-Council and ably assisted by a Council of Chiefs headed by Reginald Abbey-Hart who is also chief and head of Captain Hart major house. Her political leadership currently rests on the shoulders of Nelson Ben Irimagha who bears the traditional title of Amasenibo.

The community is subdivided into two main segments – the mainland and the hinterland. The mainland is comprised of the Township, Sandfield, Iwoama, Orosikiri, Aganya, Ayambo, Akiama, Workers Camp, Finima and some outlying fishing settlements lying along the Bonny River’s coastline. The hinterland includes the villages that serve as home to indigenes of Bonny kingdom.

Bonny Nature Park, being developed by Nigeria LNG is becoming popular for eco-tourism. The park covers the rain forest, mangrove swamps and area of sandy soil with freshwater ponds and tall timbers between the swamp and beach. It harbours some creatures like the pygmy hippo and reptiles including crocodiles, monkeys and some different bird species.

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One interesting thing about this place is that Bonny Island is among the few places in Nigeria where there is power 24hrs, 365 days all through the day. Power in this island never blinks or goes off for some minutes except if there is general maintenance which barely lasts for an hour or 2.

Nigeria is blessed with amazing scenery, beaches, resorts and lots more. Bonny is carefully planned and crafted in order to show the beauty of nature. This island is also home to the NLNG workers.

AutoReportNG got some amazing and breathtaking pictures of these place and we felt we should share some to you.

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Source:
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This is finima where the whites and ogas lives. Thatched houses plenty for bonny island

A group leadership and accountability initiative has invited the honorable minister of works and housing Babatunde Fashola to a road tour after his comments on the state of Nigeria road.

.President Muhammadu Buhari has approved the extension of the joint border operations code-named Exercise Swift Response which has led to the total shutdown of land frontiers across the country.

The land borders are expected to be reopened on January 31, 2020, thus dashing the hopes of entrepreneurs in the West African region who were optimistic that the Nigerian government will end the military exercise before Christmas.

In a circular dated November 1, 2019 (NCS/ENF/ABJ/221/S.45) and signed by the Comptroller of Customs in charge of enforcement, Victor David Dimka, to the Sector Coordinators, joint border operations drill (Exercise Swift Response), Sectors 1, 2, 3 & 4, it directed them to note the new development and comply accordingly

https://www.sunnewsonline.com/president-buhari-approves-january-31-2020-date-to-reopen-land-border/amp/

So this infidel killed him

DMayor101:
I honestly pity Ambode. However, he’s the scapegoat that will teach politicians the dangers of having a godfather and falling out with him. It’s high time godfatherism is taken out of Nigerian politics. Abeg make I keep quiet. Wetin I know?

Ambode deserves more than this.
What goes around comes around. When he became the governor he was rubishing Fashola up and down. Now the table has turned.

maynation:



Yeah I was foolish but then it was all out of my good heart for real.


He looked to me like a honest innocent man and the only way I felt I could help when he needed it was through the accommodation.

I have learnt many lessons from this, after all nobody wise pass and we still all learn as each day passes by.

Please don't ever do this again as a lady.

Be truth to thyself

The risk outweigh the benefits.

Thank God for your life.

sarrki:



Ojukwu said he wants Biafra

What was he looking for in ore towards Lagos?

Ojukwu and the 1966 coupist are the real traitors

He could have guarded his territory.

He intends to come to Lagos and take power from gowon and that was his greatest mistake.

maynation:
Good morning fellow wonderful people.

This thread is a response to the baseless accusation from a nairalander yesterday.
Worthy of mention is the fact that he has called to apologise late last night, i guess he had a little sugar rush and this sorta made him go haywire. Anyways, i have forgiven him out of my good heart but then the deed has already been done and I believe many people have already seen the post so I definitely need to clear my name.

For the sake of my peace of mind, I have been on nairaland since 2009, even though I deactivated my previous account and and created this one. Since I have been on this forum I have never exchanged contacts with anyone apart from Jason (which shall be referred to as Jay all through my post).
I gave spoken and met some nairalanders actually but it is out of this platform. I met Lirusehn back then in ABU, I met: "Queenyprinxex, Sehindemi15'' and one other guy I can't remember his name at Lirusehn's birthday party back then in 2017 and we have been friends since then.

Then again he alleged that 'Sisterfine' and 'pettyprincess' are my alternate monikers, please this isn't so. I met these people on that thread so his claim is an obvious baloney.
My alternates are 'maynattion and maynnation!.

Why did I give Jay my contact? He begged. Yeah, he begged. He was too persistent and I felt giving him the number wouldn't cause any harm even though I out-rightly regretted and regret this.


Anyways, I will be sharing screenshots of what truly transpired and I will allow you fellows to be the judge. But did he really give me 10K as he alleged? This post will answer it.


Below is the screenshot of the post that was later removed by moderators.



Be my guests.

Sorry am gonna be blunt in being your guest

You mean you invited a guy you met online to come and stay with you for two weeks?
A guy you don't know his house, family or friends?

A guy you don't know where he works?
Sorry you are not wise.

This guy could have murdered you and sell your properties without traces.

He could have raped you.

You play foolishly I repeat foolishly.

Who does that

Any you don't even have any feelings for him

kunleweb:



Lies. Just for the stage. Normal human beings hardly get the needed help. Its always about the sound bite. I used to be an insider so I know.

At times knowledge kills.

If you know you know

lovewins:
You're in the wrong if you think Bishop Oyedepo isn't big on philanthropic works, he has just chosen to obey scriptural injunction of "doing it in secret". He's one man that will not publicize what he gives to people"publicly, sadly beneficiaries of his benovelnce also do a poor job sharing this.

For instance, are you aware over 80% of pioneer students of Landmark University students were on scholarship varying 25-100%, most of whom enjoyed 100% scholarship till graduation? (This doesn't include scholarship enjoyed by CU students, I'm just sharing on information I'm well aware of)

The same applied to subsequent sets in the college of agriculture, till it was lately channeled through the David Oyedepo foundation due to the gross abuse by its beneficiaries.

The church once gave 120 million naira in non interest soft loans to small businesses owners, the idea was upon return others could benefit from this, sadly most persons didn't return it hence clildn5be sustained.


These are few examples of many of the things the Bishop does, but he will never broadcast it for people's applause. He's dead to both the praise and censure of men.

I just shared these for persons especially Christians to be slow to speak, don't judge a matter before you know it.

Just to add to this

There scholarships given out every year to undergraduate. Once you are a Christian irrespective of your church once you meet the criteria including white garments church.

Heineken:
sir good morning. Am ready sir. I sent you a pm the other day.

You contact no

maasoap:
Heineken

Why are you not taking this man up on his offer? I couldn't see you doing that.



My man, I wish you can loan him a small amount of money to rent a room apartment. And he will be paying it back bit by bit every month. Moving down from Abuja to Ogun without accommodation will be big hurdle for him. Thanks for your concern

Have offered him a job you can loan him money for accomodation.

That's collective help

Heineken:
I did sir.. He didn't reply.

Are you ready to come to OTA?

If yes quote me with your no

400billionman:


Sir, you offered a young man a job of N28k in Ota.

Sir, can you give us an update whether you have fixed him up on this job ?

Still expecting his acceptance

MERCHANDISER:
op give me your contact,there's something i would like to discuss with u

Drop yours please

executive12:


Computer Village. I'm sure they'll be open today (Sunday).

Thanks
I got one at megaplaza

Nigeriapen:
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Where can I get a phone to buy today

Nigeriapen:




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Please where can I get a phone to buy today

Maybe this brand

Heineken:
Am seriously suffering. At 31 am still squatting. Am through with my service since 2014 but still no job. Am more than depressed... Am perplexed and am not thinking well. At my age I don't have even 1000 in my account. To eat, I have to visit friends...most times is just only breakfast and water at night. I don't want to die this way.. Am not happy. I applied civil defense. Don't know if anyone can help me.. Or any job.

If you can get a place to stay in OTA I can offer you a contract job of 28k , HMO with daily meal.