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Celebrities › Mike Ezuruonye Becomes Face Of Amstel Malta by kech(op): 8:48pm On Dec 10, 2009

Good looking actor and Glo Ambassador, Mike Ezuruonye, has just become the face of Amstel Malta and for this, he got paid in millions. His contract will run for one yea

http://lindaikeji..com/2009/12/mike-ezuruonye-becomes-face-of-amstel.html

Politics › Re: Yahoo Boys/men/girls Now Relocate To Neigboring Countries by kech(f): 6:31pm On Dec 10, 2009

^^^^^LMAO! Chai!

Business › Bakery, Kitchen And Food Service Equipments by kech(op): 1:29am On Dec 09, 2009

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Email: info@lukeandjudemfg.com
Contact Phone No.: 08035807532

Romance › Re: Men Don't Like Tall Women by kech(f): 8:15am On Dec 08, 2009

^^^^^

Yup! wow, those chemistry years. It's basically the chemical formula for the alcohol you drink. Ethanol to be precise like nethacker said.

Romance › Re: Men Don't Like Tall Women by kech(f): 5:21am On Dec 08, 2009

^^^^^

When you were there sleeping.

Romance › Re: Her Mum Is Offering Me 50k To Leave Her Daughter Alone by kech(f): 9:05pm On Dec 07, 2009

@ sisi kill
where is the lie in this thread? Dat my gf ran due to family pressure is now a lie?
For an igbo woman to wilingly surrender 50k for somebody without interest u should know its rare? If 50k is what your maiguard or weting u call am dey recieve can u beat your chest and say to me u have giving somebody such amount for no reason, am not a low man and thats what she really can afford at least for al i know, i want u to advise me rather than saying what u dont know, if u have nothing to share u better leave this thread.
Na wa for u o sisikill.

Na wa for this poster sha! So you dey date Igbo girl? Raymond are you not the same person that started these posts?
Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? and
Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30.

In one of your posts you said, and I quote:
"I have girl friends, woman no be my problem, am only trying to educate the upcoming girl make them no make the same mistake wey others they make, am not jealous of women ok? Am 29 and my wedding is coming up three months for now, if u dont mind i can invite u and sisi kill. Maybe u fit be my moderator."

Here's the link:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-360895.32.html

Now, please tell me where this story is coming from. I thought you were already planning a wedding. Ah, my guy, see as you dey open your ny***.

Romance › Re: Men Don't Like Tall Women by kech(f): 7:28pm On Dec 07, 2009

drrionelli:
@nastiptop:
Don't let the attitudes of some fellows turn you off. My sisters, both of whom are fairly tall, will attest that there are a fair number of guys who find height a non-issue.

It seems that some men are uncomfortable with ladies who are as tall as, or taller, than they. This is absurd, and it's nothing more than a societal construct that says ladies have to be shorter than their men.

Hold your head up and walk proudly! If you like heels, wear them! These things will show a man that you have confidence, and, believe me, there is nothing more attractive than a confident woman!

WORD!! Thank you jare. ALL my dress shoes have heels! The only flats in my wardrobe are my sneakers, loafers for work, and my flat ballet shoes. It's always funny when people say "Ahhh, you are very tall and you are wearing heels again, Ahhh!" Sorry to disappoint you hon, I'm rocking those Louboutins with you. grin

Romance › Re: Men Don't Like Tall Women by kech(f): 5:32pm On Dec 07, 2009

banku:
I think the lady is right.

1. Some men may be intimidated by the height.

2. Short men dream about tall girls for a) the contract to increase the height of their children b) feel elevated

3. Tall guys may fear that their children may turn out to be a giant and some tall women go for short men for that reason too.

Nevertheless, it helps to smile, especially at the guys you like.

Oh boy!! Sometimes I wonder if it's only Nigerians that don't know how human genes work. I can remember in my Uni days, instead of some guy (who I'm obviously taller than) to come out right and tell me he's feeling me, he'll say stuff like, "Don't go out with a guy that's taller than you ooo, you guys will have giants. You need to marry someone shorter than you." I just look at him and say in my head "What an ignoramus. He obviously thinks the height of your child is gotten from adding both parent's heights" undecided

Gigantism is an abnormality. Both parents being tall does not mean the kids will be giants. It just means there's a very high chance that all the kids will be tall. They may even have a short child if one parent has the "shortness" gene in his/her family.
To be fair to the guy, I don't blame him. Girls/women who are very tall are scarce in Naija. Whenever I'm back home, it's like the alien has landed grin

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Education › Idahosa University Owes Access Bank by kech(op): 7:08am On Dec 07, 2009

Access Bank Appoints ReceiveR-Manager for Idahosa University

Baring any last minute rescue mission by the board of Benson Idahosa University, the management of Access Bank to which the institution is heavily indebted would take over the affairs of the university. As a drastic measure by the bank to recoup over N200 million unpaid loan facility accessed by the university and other organisations related to late Archbishop Benson Idahosa family, a lawyer has been appointed by Access Bank as the Receiver/Manager to take over the assets and affairs of the University. The take-over should have taken effect sometime last week but the bank is awaiting approval from a Federal High Court sitting in Lagos before the receiver/manager could swing into full action of taking over proceedings at the institution. The university, founded by the late Archbishop Benson Idahosa and the Word of Faith Group of Schools Limited, a privately owned concern founded by his wife, Rt Rev. Margaret Idahosa, had sought loans from Access Bank sometime in 2007 for effective management of the institutions. The management ran into hitches when they stopped servicing the loans after some time. Also named in the debt crisisi is Ben A. Idahosa and Rev. F.F. Benson Idahosa, the son of the late archbishop, the founder of Church of God Mission International. With these unfortunate developments, the late archbishop, widely acclaimed as the father of modern day Pentecostal movement in Nigeria, must be turning in his grave and would wish he were here to clear this mess.

http://www.thisdayonline.com/nview.php?id=161217

If you are in this school, start praying oo. Na so im dey start. When banks start to take over the affairs of an organization, they are there for their money not your well being. Very soon we will here that the school is no more. This issue of loan is the same reason CETEP university in Lagos was sealed off sometime in 2006. I knew someone who was going to school there.

Romance › Re: Men Don't Like Tall Women by kech(f): 9:12pm On Dec 05, 2009

nastiptop:
I find that tall males don't like tall girls. I am tall and I get overlooked by the guys taller than me. I get approached by short guys. I'm not ugly or anything, I'm in good shape so i have no clue. I do have a theory, though.

Basically, I think it's an instinctive thing that guys like short girls because taller girls especially ones who are attractive are quite intimidating. A lot of the dispositions towards you would be along the lines of "she's so good, she wouldn't even look at a guy like me". It takes a special kind of guy who's confident enough to approach a tall girl.

I'm not trying to generalize, i know it is attraction, but I'm asking so guys (and girls) let me in on why!

I'm 6ft tall so I understand you. Although I disagree with the "only short guys" part. I get approached mostly by tall men. It depends on each individual.
You are right about most guys being intimidated by the "very tall and attractive" type though. Being very tall in itself is a head turner, if you come put "very attractive" on top am, that one na traffic jam now. Let me give you my theory from a "reliable source". It takes a lot of guts for a guy (short or tall) to walk up to a very tall and attractive girl in the open, when you know that probably the whole world and it's junior brother will be looking at her direction. There's this fear of open rejection. Most girls like that get approached either in private or by chance meetings. So honey, it has absolutely nothing to do with you.

DISCLAIMER: I no dey claim say I fine like dat ooo. But I fine small sha. grin

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Celebrities › Re: Cheater Tiger Woods Has A Prenup - Is That Fair To His Wife? by kech(f): 8:48pm On Dec 05, 2009

^^^hmm, so a ring made her stay? When she could have gotten more by divorcing him? Gold diggers are really going soft nowadays then. Anyway, it's not that serious.

Romance › Re: Worst Love Stories Recounted Right Here! Recount Yours! by kech(f): 6:34am On Dec 05, 2009

Adrenaline:
Only girl I EVER loved cheated on me, I havent been able to love ever since, and she's still trying to get back with me till date. Really sad stuff. I dont even know how to love anymore

Kpele. I have some male friends who have been in the same situation. I've also realized that it's harder for guys to truly love again after being heart broken once before. Like I always tell my friends, please don't give up on love. You will find someone worth your while. Just take it easy, don't rush yourself.

Celebrities › Re: Cheater Tiger Woods Has A Prenup - Is That Fair To His Wife? by kech(f): 1:36am On Dec 05, 2009

C2H5OH:
[b]Point of correction chiogo: Kobe Bryant committed the shameful act of adultery.
[/b]His wife did not exactly blackmail him like Tiger's is trying to do. His black ass bought Vanessa a house on a finger to try to salvage whatever was left of his troubled marriage.

Thanks my dear, I knew I wasn't hallucinating. I remember the incident very clearly. Kobe was lucky he had someone like Vanessa, if not undecided

I said what Vanessa and Kobe have may really be love because Kobe DOES NOT have a prenup. If she were a heartless gold digger all she needed to do was file for a divorce and walk away with HALF! Don't get me wrong, I'm sure she likes money, but I don't think she's a gold digger.

Romance › Re: Does The Ring On A Married Woman's Finger Really Scare Men Off? by kech(f): 9:53pm On Dec 04, 2009

The reverse is more of the case. Once a guy is married, some girls radar start to beep. shocked

It becomes a thrill to chase him. undecided

Celebrities › Re: Cheater Tiger Woods Has A Prenup - Is That Fair To His Wife? by kech(f): 8:51pm On Dec 04, 2009

dayokanu:
Renegotiating pre-nup? Imagine.

This is the part I don't get. That's why I said Tiger was LUCKY he had a pre-nup cos he would have been singing another song now. The original prenup was $20M or so for the wife AS LONG AS she remains married to him for 10 years. shocked

What does that even say about the marriage. It means both of them were not even sure they were going to last that long. The prenup kind of locks the woman in for at least for 10 years IF her secret plan was to leave the marriage sometime in the future. If she leaves before the time elapses, she gets none of the money. The fact that they are re-negotiating the prenup means she may be thinking about leaving the marriage soon because they are working on reducing the 10 year contract and the amount of money she will receive. I just think it's too soon after the incident to be renegotiating stuff like prenups. It questions her intentions about the whole marriage thing Tiger did her wrong. Agreed. But this is HER own marriage we are talking about. Not the public, not the mistresses, not the greedy lawyers. She should know that at this point not everyone is her friend. Does she know how many ladies are jealous and what they'll do to be in her shoes? Didn't you guys notice how one mistress denied the affair and another one we didn't know jumped out from nowhere to gladly report the affair to the press. What does she stand to gain really? Nothing! These kinds of people don't care if they ruin anyone or cause anyone pain. If she wants to let people decide for her on how to handle her marriage, fine. She needs to be wise. Unless the marriage was a sham in the first place.

That's why I'll always respect Kobe Bryant's wife. That woman has shown that she really loves that guy and she has him on Lock down. What Tiger did is nothing compared to Kobe's incident. Kobe's career was almost ruined! As in he almost went to jail. The lady involved really wanted to wreck him. The press of course, lawyers and bad belle people were on the wife's neck. What did she do? She dealt with it privately in her own way as a family. Till now nobody knows what they talked about, all we know is we saw one HUGE rock on her finger that Kobe got her and other things he did to say he was sorry. Now they are still going strong while haters still look on with envy, plotting their next line of action.

Romance › Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by kech(f): 3:44am On Dec 04, 2009

Ah ah? Thats not fair grin

On a more serious note, most guys that talk like this have one way on the other had some kind of bad experience. He may have had one with a girl who's now 30 or more, and probably igbo too.

Celebrities › Re: Cheater Tiger Woods Has A Prenup - Is That Fair To His Wife? by kech(f): 3:36am On Dec 04, 2009

It's VERY fair. So you think she's entitled to half of Tiger's wealth? Why should a woman enter a marriage in the hope of leaving with a whole load of cash whenever she feels like anyway? Any celeb or very rich person IN AMERICA that doesn't do a pre-nup is a mugu. We all know most ladies enter these marriages because of money and in the hope of securing their futures for life in case anything goes wrong. A pre-nup protects a lot of rich people from greedy spouses who just wake up one morning and decide they want to call it quits. Oh, you want to go just like that and you have the nerve to think you are entitled to half of my money. Na yam? This goes the other way too. Celeb women do pre-nups for their non-celeb husbands. If your marriage is real, then a prenup shouldn't bother you. You'd be married to him/her forever right? So you go enjoy the money forever now grin

. I personally don't like the idea of a prenup cos it kinda shows that you don't FULLY trust your husband/wife, but then things have been known to happen. People are greedy, so I don't blame them or anyone else who does it.

Anyway, this has nothing to do with tiger's cheating. What he did was wrong and I hope she forgives him and they move on. I'm glad he has a prenup or else a lot of wicked and greedy people, LAWYERS INCLUDED would have been pressuring her to file for a divorce. I think they can work this out if they want to.

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Romance › Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by kech(f): 2:36am On Dec 04, 2009

^^^^ That's why I said the post was a bit immature especially coming from a guy.

Romance › Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by kech(f): 1:44am On Dec 04, 2009

Diva1:
I do understand where he's coming from and I don't think he generalised it the way you are thinking.

Nope, this is definitely a generalization amongst some guys and MOST FOOLISH girls who should know better. When someone says "when they get closer to 29-30 they will start being cautious and try to settle down for a man to ask for thier hand in marriage, after they must have lived a rough life, doing all sorts of rubish with thier virginity they will end up going to church. " It's no joke. I've seen a lot happen to know not to judge when we're not better. Unless you are Jesus Christ himself I don't think anyone the right to cast any stone. I guess girls who marry early are the "good girls". Crap.

Romance › Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by kech(f): 12:06am On Dec 04, 2009

Raymond247:
Its Something that has been common but its funny, u would see some ladies living i dont care life in their early age(18-28) they just want to catch the fun, when they get closer to 29-30 they will start being cautious and try to settle down for a man to ask for thier hand in marriage, after they must have lived a rough life, doing all sorts of rubish with thier virginity they will end up going to church. why is it common to our 9ja babes?

You sense of reasoning is very warped. How did you come to the conclusion that girls that marry at 30 and above were wayward when they were younger? You are one of those that make girls jump into any man arms just so that they can be married before 30. Okay, leave the "bad" girls now, let them keep searching. At least you're lucky you are not marrying them abi? Why does it even concern anyone? Some men can be so immature.

Ladies please shine your eye ooo, It's not "How soon?" it's "How well?" If getting the right person means going to church and fasting DO IT!!! It's worth it in the end. There's nothing worse than being stuck with a loser

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Romance › Re: Your Girlfriend Who U Love Sooo Much Dumps U For A Guy Who Is More Having. by kech(f): 2:58am On Dec 03, 2009

^^^^^^^

LOL!!. I no fit laugh abeg grin

Romance › Re: How Did U Ask A Girl Out B4 D Advent Of Gsm by kech(f): 2:54am On Dec 03, 2009

LOL! I remember receiving letters with "KISS BEFORE YOU OPEN." written on the envelope, along the seal line, grin

Romance › Re: My Love, My Fears. . . . Is this 4 real, or I'm just being Used? by kech(f): 10:54am On Dec 02, 2009

Dark1:
Miss kech, I dey feel your advice, infact I dey feel your personality and I don't mind to be your driver and your insurance! Any chance of meeting up with u?

LOL! You no well. Are you looking for someone to chop your money? grin

Romance › Re: My Love, My Fears. . . . Is this 4 real, or I'm just being Used? by kech(f): 10:51am On Dec 02, 2009

No2Atheism:
But that is technically cheating . . . . . .

It is cheating. I don't support it, but that's what happens, and this situation reeks of it.

Romance › Re: My Love, My Fears. . . . Is this 4 real, or I'm just being Used? by kech(f): 10:33am On Dec 02, 2009

server34:
Thanks Y'all for your input. @ kech, u be winsh? u just got the whole scenario right. I think its time to confess, there's more to the story.

I decided to take another chance and let her visit again for 1 week. But this time, she paid her fares, cos she could already sense that I was suspecting games. She came and the same thing happened - cold attitude, forced sex, used me as her driver to go shopping and do stuff, but visited male friends on her own. There's this particular guy I suspect that even comes to visit her, and they sit in his car outside my gate for hours. I made up my mind THAT WAS IT! She went back to the US and I couldn't get my mind off her. The way she talks, the way she smiles, even the way she makes me hate her for toying with my emotions, all this makes me love her even more! I see her face everytime I close my eyes. Av met several girls after her, and I cant help mentioning her when am with other girls. I go to bars to get drunk, pick up girls from the club and sleep with em. I never used to do these things, now I do all of em in an attempt to get her off my mind. BUT NO. . . SHE'S LIKE A MELODY IN MY HEAD THATS STUCK ON REPLAY.

Ok now, she's finally moved back to Nigeria and resides in Lagos, I'm in Abuja. And she keeps calling and sending me sms that she wants me now more than ever. Av refused to answer her calls or reply her messages. Pleasee. . . . Am I on the right track to get her off my mind? Or am I just running away from my "TRUE LOVE"? cos av neva felt this way abt any girl in my life b4.

I talk am oooo angry

Look, move on. I'm serious. She's still keeping in touch cos she needs to make sure your end is solid. Her mind is really somewhere else, most likely with "that guy". The fact of the matter is, at this point, "that guy" is not forth coming so you are her INSURANCE, someone to fall back on in case all else fails. A lot of ladies do this. Please run!! This is not true love. Don't deceive yourself. And Pray please, cos you are beginning to sound coco tongue

Romance › Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex Or Can You Date Your Ex's Friend? by kech(f): 10:19am On Dec 02, 2009

Oh puleeze!! Is it a sin? It depends on the situation. I can do it if I didn't know they dated. I'm not going to try and "un-love" myself if I'm already in love, sorry. And if my friend is a true friend, she'll understand. If she doesn't she ain't worth it. I should not suffer because of whatever happened between them. (I may reconsider if he didn't treat her well)

I know someone who went out with a guy her friend DUMPED badly. She didn't mean for it to happen but somehow they found solace in each other and they are kicking it strong till today. The friend- who's also my friend - kept complaining to all and sundry, including me, making such a fuss about it that I didn't know when I said "But you dumped this guy like trash. Why are you tripping? You don't even want the guy!" Needless to say, that was the end of our friendship. What was I to do? The couple were in love and I'm no judge.

My point is, some girls are selfish and do this because they have a grudge! I've seen girls hold their friends to ransom so they don't date certain guys. I know of someone (done with her masters, and currently working), who found out that her ex from 100 Level shocked

was asking one of her friends out. Of course, the idiot deemed it fit to mention it to everyone that he was her ex, including the girl, making her feel uncomfortable. The poor girl had to keep asking other friends their opinions of what they felt about her dating the guy and if it was proper. Everyone told her to go ahead, and of course, like the earlier scenario, this one started bitching. Wharraheck!! angry

Like I said, it all depends on the situation, but I'll be damned if I let someone put a damper on my future because of some lousy grudge. Why do I have to pay for it? angry

Romance › Re: My Love, My Fears. . . . Is this 4 real, or I'm just being Used? by kech(f): 9:35am On Dec 02, 2009

Okay, let me tell you what I think from a girl's prspective. This is my own view oooo. Others may disagree. I don't think the girl is really into you. People say all kinds of things online. I have grin

. The true test of her feelings was when she came back to naija and she FAILED it woefully. She WILL do it again when she comes a second time, after you have paid for the air fare AGAIN!! She is relocating back to naija soon. She is going to come back, get a "feel" of the people and environment again, try and see if she can re-kindle old flames or not, before settling down with someone of her choice.
Truth is, you guys don't know each other. Forget facebook love. I suggest you hold back and see if she pursues it. If you want to keep telling her you love her after she says the same, feel free, but if she wants to come to naija to "see you", let her pay for her fare (very important oooo, don't say I didn't warn you! ) Just blow one lie about money. If she really wants you she'll find her way back, If she can't, tell her you'll see her when she relocates. Better toughen up now ooo. Unless dem go just do you "the more you look, the less you see." And no look uche face abeg. No be fine face we go chop.

Romance › Re: Your Girlfriend Who U Love Sooo Much Dumps U For A Guy Who Is More Having. by kech(f): 9:28am On Dec 02, 2009

No it doesn't!!! Are you serious? But no fear, you should know the kind of girl you have by now. Unless you don't trust her undecided

. Cos you sound like someone who isn't very sure about his girl.

Romance › Re: Your Girlfriend Who U Love Sooo Much Dumps U For A Guy Who Is More Having. by kech(f): 8:58am On Dec 02, 2009

190:
i guess i should start having shivers as well concerning mine

u mean after 3yrs a girl can still dump someone sorry ass cos of money

JESUS im scared ooh~

Uh, stay there. 3 years ko. If a girl is a gold digger and is in a relationship for 3 years, even 5 years sef, it's probably because she hasn't seen someone "better" yet. Once a bigger fish comes along, its sayonara suck'rrr!! The number of years is no guarantee. This goes for male gold diggers too.

Romance › Re: Your Girlfriend Who U Love Sooo Much Dumps U For A Guy Who Is More Having. by kech(f): 8:51am On Dec 02, 2009

martyns303:
sorry kech if u find the topic funny. But atleast u get the point right?

Sorry love. I just couldn't help it. grin

Yes I got your point. Unfortunately, that's life. Some people are just money conscious and you are better off without them. It'll hurt now but you'll get over it eventually, trust me. And then you'll thank your lucky stars for your narrow escape. Do you really want to settle down with someone like this? Deep down in your heart you know you don't. It's just your emotions talking now. Let her go, give yourself some space. The pain will pass, and soon you will meet someone worth your while. Life's too short to keep pinning over someone who doesn't appreciate you. You deserve better. Move on. Not easy to do, but it will be worth it. Sometimes we are scared to let go of our exes, we feel that we may never find someone like them. You said you had sweet memories with your girlfriend. Honey, you'll meet someone else who you'll have sweeter and better memories with. There's always someone better. I promise you that. Cheer up. grin

Romance › Re: My Friend Wants To Kill Herself by kech(f): 8:30am On Dec 02, 2009

brooklyn99:
oh and madam benin, at the time i met her, she'd only been outside nigeria for less than a yr. but, she had this crazy belief that once in the states the sane thing to do was to bully men. she thot it was the norm here for the woman to enslave the man. and guess her favorite words after she hits u in the face for no reason "i'll call the cops".lol. so she took joy hitting and hittn until i got pissed one day and beat the ho down. she never saw me after that. crazy effing slut.

HAHAHAHAHA!!!!! You people will not kill me oooo. HAHAHA!!!

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