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HeliosHay:
What do you mean by the part in bold? you mean you've done some jobs that didn't require your result yet they didn't pay you?

exactly, an being owed.

Apination:
If you had applied to teach in a secondary school since 2016, I bet you would be working and earning something no matter how little.

i wish you can understand

OlawaleBammie:
Hmmmm, this is tough, only those who are in ur shoe wil understand u better dear, but wait, can u do dis.......

yes, i can

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BrainnewsNg:
lalasticlala

waiting happen

My friend had a similar case, her phone was stolen, how they accessed her whatsapp i dnt know becus passwords virtual everything. They started chatting with her contacts asking for loan to pay back within 3days. They relly dealt wit her. Its a pity that the more advance we get, there is no tech. security advancemnt to compliment it.

PrimadonnaO:
Lol. You're such a girl! I didn't even notice the nails initially. Your comment made me scroll up.

yea, couldnt ignore, the nails are cute.

Nice nails

I dnt even know if we are still together, we had our different problems, then distance, now we are in different planets.

There are relly some ladies who aint into people for money but economy makes them rare.

I see increase in hypertension for who are going to dive into this.

Vibesking:
She always seemed like a calm person too. Mainly the reason I was shocked when she started raising her voice.

i dnt think it relly ok to come to a conclusion if this is the first time she is doing this. take your time to investigate her character, she might have been in a bad mood then. But if otherwise just run!

Might be her argument tone, considering youre a calm guy so u said.

Guess its an achievement!

OBTMOS:
awwwwn! I wish to find you ASAP!

am here

OBTMOS:
awwwwn! I wish to find you ASAP!

am here

OBTMOS:
Wow! I wish I have a sister, younger one preferably

here i am, Your new younger sis. So wish no more!

Ejimagifty:
I have been suspicious of her moves. If this eventually plays out i will kill us both

haaa...! Bros biko, take it easy. It hasnt gotten to this na.

Please do the test first.

This chick is representing wella!

Those who have ears, let them hear.

Atinuke Ivy

badadvice:
I'll advise you lie to her and never let her know whenever you want to hangout with a female friend.
This kinda ladies need lies to help curb their insecurities.
I'll further advise you get her expensive gifts like a car, a house, land, a phonr, or designer wears to reassure her of your immense love for her.
Girls like this need constant assurance and reassurance of one's love.
If possible, i'll advise you even take a blood oath with her to keep her mind at peace!

may Oluwa deliver you

She try. Looking slayer.

jeff1607:
what type of job can you do and your skills set?

job wise: am flexible, provided i am taught the basics. Skill; just the major basic computer knowledge.

MrBrownJay1:
you were a teenager with unrealistic expectations thinking that by a certain age you would achieve your "very big" dreams... but sadly you didnt. now you are jobless and desperately looking for employment AND/OR seeking for a way out of this quite unwanted situation, and STILL having unrealistic expectations..... but as I have said to you earlier, open your eyes and look around you to start realizing that you are not alone in this situation, and millions of graduates find themselves in your shoes.

the unrealistic expectations that you should have a job by now, when there are very few good jobs out there (to begin with), is the reason why you will always fail to understand your situation.

there is nothing wrong with wanting to work your way to realize what you desire... the catch is to have the right means/tools to do so.

IMHO the way to go about it is to find other means to gather funds (aka start a small biz, apply for different jobs, seek help donation from family/friends etc)

thank you very much

MrBrownJay1:
very simple, lower you unrealistic expectations, and instead live in the REAL world.... what you are going through is just the same as MILLIONS of Nigerian graduates.

unrealistic expectations you say! I dont think there is anything unrealistic about my expectations, i want to work my way to realising my expectations, only want advice on how to go about it.

DanDeeBoss:
No help from your family members or Church??

No help from family members. My own parent are having financial issues, reason why things turned out this way in the first place.

DanDeeBoss:
What's stopping you from collecting your result??

Financial constrain.
when i was in school, i was unable to collect my registration, which has now doubled.
Have being trying to save for it doh, still not ready yet.

donstan18:
Is it not obvious?
Carryover!!!

sorry, i dnt have any carry over.

I am lady of 22 years, 5 years ago, i was this teenager with a very big dream which by my own calculation would have been partly achieved by now. But the wind life choose to blow against me, my dreams barely achieved, i have lost so much time already.


I rounded up my ND program in computer science in 2016, but since then, i hav'nt been able to make any head way. I have been unable to collect my result, to seek a reasonable job, i have been through quiet a number of interviews but couldnt get the job after passing the interview because i couldnt provide my result.

I have also done a number of non-result required jobs to save up to go get my result, but i have been unlucky with the jobs regarding payment. This is the 3rd month of 2019 already and am still confused, jobless and depressed.
I want a way out of this suituation.
so i need an advice on how to get out of this.

This is Nigeria, everybody na criminal!

I wish to be force be reckon with, this strong hurricane that would cut across the whole world positively. A blessing to anything that crosses with mua.

Earthquake2:
Na like this cheating dey start

cheating already?