₦airaland Forum

Dew04:
I hope this isn't for the guys only. A woan can love several guys and you would understand?

Yes my dear totally,this in even in response to the thread that OP made that she loves her boyfriend and she met a new guy that she loves more...someone said you can't love two people...I say wetin?? Na lieeeeee

This is one of the funniest statements I've read. which says you can't love two people at the same time. it is a lie,and I'll explain why. first of all I want to clear up that mentality that in this life. there's the "one" for you. please,there is no such thing as the one for you. that person you feel the person is perfect for you, because of perhaps their looks or character ,there are about 100 million other people on Earth like that person. don't deceive yourself. As such,when you are attracted to a specific type of people,by your own nature. Understand that there are millions of people "just like that person" and you can actually meet two people with your tastes and fall in love with both of them. Note we are not talking of "whom you love more". The only reason Is because you're compatible with them. it is that simple. so pls,we should note this,you can be in love with more than one person,it's your decision to chose whom.

Goldenrod1:
That one is your headache. Seun is making his money daily and we are enjoying it like that

does this mean it cannot be improved lookat the Smileys,you have a very limited options of Smileys...and again,just take a look at the design...if you're enjoying it like that,that's nice...speak for yourself which one is "we"...he needs to improve the features...I wish him even more money

thesicilian:
The owner of Nairaland may have something up his sleeves, let's give him time. As for the Twitter guy, let's not forget that it's easier for people to tear down your efforts with their mouths than to build something of their own. Even if the site remains like this, it still takes a whole lot to keep it up and running everyday, and accessible even with the weakest of Internet networks.

any way sha na point u make...but I feel he needs to at least,add some innovations to this site...haba... honestly it's design looks old...look at the Smileys..ehn...

abeg get out...bad belle human being...yen yen yen yen...it's now you'll know to do things by the law...rubbish...we were less than 18 when we started watching porn

so I was on Twitter,and nairaland was trending...ahah...why's my fav online forum trending this time...only for one guy to yab this forum like this...my problem is that everything he's saying...is the truth...

vigopress:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=3002714969823794&id=100002559610760

why do we always promote tribalism and bigotry in all our news?? this is totally unnecessary...let it be that they got the job as nigerians. there are no restrictions on who gets and who doesn't even based on your tribe...but well let's face reality...there is nothing like one Nigeria...so I guess it's news worthy anyway

what's most annoying is that a lot of people in the comments are trying to shy away from the topic,and honestly,it is a biological bias to give attractive people more advantages than the less attractive ones. yes,it's been proven. it's so bad that a study was conducted,and it showed that if there is a rape case, involving an attractive and an unattractive victim,the rapist of the attractive person is likely to be convicted and serve more time compared with the person considered unattractive. what's even funny is that on first impression, attractive people are considered more intelligent,more kind and more social. we all do it,we ignore ugly people and droll over the fine ones...it's a biological bias but you can consciously avoid it if you pay attention to your sub conscious trying to force you in this line of action. quick question,what will you do if an ugly girl/guy asks you out yh I thought as much

qwertyboss:
And the fact is they masturbate more than men

nah...its not true...

DreamyEyes:
you just described your dad.

And you are definitely gonna turn out worse than him

no...I described you...you are the one who said you're cool with being a simp...that is you...own it....

mtchew...I'm to believe all these things without a picture...lookat this bloody liar...

DreamyEyes:
lmao
We talking about the OP's narrative in this case scenario, dumbo

are you or the OP famous, attractive and wealthy alphas living in a first world country?

we're not...but in your case...you're a poor, infamous, unattractive simp living in a sub standard country...what could be worse?

DreamyEyes:
10× over, I'd rather be a simp who's famous, attractive, wealthy and living in a standard country than an alpha who's struggling to make ends meet in this cursed nation!!

it's better to be an alpha who's famous, attractive,wealthy and living in a standard country

oya na

here's what I noticed...Russians are good looking

Liliantalks:
Jealousy is an inevitable snicky feeling , it’s a feeling that you always are in denial of ,, maybe cause u don’t want people to see you as a bad person, but truth is it happens to everyone but they never want to admit it, but here in a faceless forum, I think we should talk about it , how do u cope and how did u overcome . For the first time I feel like I am jealous of someone , I really don’t want to , but it’s happening , I really want to get rid of the feeling but hasn’t been easy , I hv watched a lot of YouTube videos in other to stop , it helps! but not enough. I know my own blessing is coming , I hv pep talk myself million of times. But the feeling won’t go away. Been in denial about it but just kinda admitted to myself , that it is what it is.
The feeling of why can’t i get it when she got it , now she would feel she’s better than me. I feel like totally avoiding this person, but she hasnt done enough for me to take such action. Yeah it’s a crazy feeling. How do you overcome this feeling..

To the self righteous that’s gonna write nonsense on this thread. Na you get ur mouth .

This post is not to be underrated. this topic you have brought is a very sensitive one I remember commenting something a few weeks ago in this same tune of jealousy. I always used to see myself as this brilliant guy with a lot of potential who'd go out to the world to show his genius. I used to feel I'll be big by 20...my dear,reality cleared my eyes,I'm still far behind most of the goals I've set for myself,and recently,I started feeling a very strong sense of jealousy towards my best friend...trust me...my very best friend..however,I had to hit my self back to reality and tell myself that in this life,I should get comfortable with people being bigger than me or richer than me. I am not accepting defeat,I'm being realistic because it is reality. so if someone is doing better than me...what is my reaction.i accept it,and live with the truth,and use it as inspiration to try to do better for myself...if you know how I jealous my friends wey the get fine fine girlfriends that way wey girls dey shakara for me ehn...lol...inside life...you'll be alright sha [quote author=Liliantalks

mansakhalifa:
Nigga, why're you foaming in the mouth?

Seek medical attention ASAP so you don't go barking in the wrong direction.

Just saying. Sympathetic my foot.

I don't know him from Adam and I know he doesn't know me from nowhere. So, where the f**k is the sympathy supposed to come from??

Even my closest associates know I don't give two s#its about them whatever happens to them. Now, chew on that.

You've got great energy though, I like it. Channel it towards some other worthy course.

"even my close associates I know I don't give two shits about them..." Father lord...I thank you that in my life...you have never brought me across people like this fellow...lord keep it that way...thank you Jesus...I praise you lord....

mansakhalifa:
His stage name is Jay Gunz, right?

I knew they'd be one person a shallow as you are who'd try to make a pun out of his stage name and the fact that he got shot...instead of being sympathetic...you're here doing smart...shey you have felt yourself with those likes u got... u think it's only u dat saw his name was guns...

stephanie11:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM

Prosecution witness and victim in the alleged $25,000 (Twenty-Five Thousand Dollar) fraud, involving Senator Shehu Sani, Alhaji Sani Dauda, on Tuesday, July 7, 2020, continued his testimony before Justice I.E Ekwo of the Federal High Court, Abuja, revealing how the Senator who represented Kaduna Central Senatorial District, knelt and begged him to alter his statement with the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC on how he duped him.

In a statement sent to POLITICS NIGERIA, the commission disclosed that Sani is facing prosecution on two-count criminal charge, bordering on name-dropping, influence-peddling and obtaining the sum of USD$25,000.00 (Twenty-Five Thousand United States Dollars) from Dauda, under a false pretence that he would use the sum to bribe the Acting Chairman of EFCC, Ibrahim Magu, in order to shield the plaintiff from investigation and prosecution and to prompt the Commission to arrest and prosecute the plaintiff’s estranged son-in-law, one Abubakar Musa.

Dauda, in his testimony before the court, said that Sani, after allegedly defrauding him of $25,000, came to his office, knelt, held his legs and begged him to change the statement he gave to the EFCC, concerning the fraud.

According to him, Sani made the entreaties in the presence of his brother, Dr. Ibrahim, who came along with him to his Kaduna residence. Continuing, Dauda quoted Sani as saying: “You are like a father to me, my mom and dad knew you for more than 20 years, and you’re also my godfather”. He said the Senator pleaded that he needed him ( Dauda) to change the statement because of his political career.

According to Dauda, “I then told him I cannot change my statement because I was the one who took the case to them (EFCC). Then his brother, Ibrahim told me that he knew one Permanent Secretary, named Shinkafi who is Magu’s friend and he will inform him about the situation and that he will get back to me on Sunday”. Dauda also said that, Sani assured him not to worry about what would be Magu’s reaction, claiming that the EFCC boss was his friend and that he would just call and talk to him.

“I was in my farm that fateful Sunday when Shehu Sani came and told me that Shinkafi said I should write a letter of withdrawal to EFCC, I then told him I can’t. Since that day, I never saw him again. He switched off his phones as I could not reach him. I then texted(sic) him three times but no response”.

Narrating how he later confirmed that Sani defrauded him, Dauda said that, “I contacted one of my friends, Murtala who knew the Chief Justice of Nigeria (CJN) and he confirmed to me that the CJN didn’t know anything about the matter, then I realized he has duped me.”

Dauda also told the court that when he was coming back from the lesser hajj, aboard Emirate Airline, en route Dubai, that he met Magu and told him about the issue, and that Magu said he knew nothing about the issue. It was at this point, according to him, that Magu advised him to meet his Secretary and write a Petition on the issue.

Justice Ekwo discharged the witness from the dock and adjourned the matter till July 8, 2020, for continuation of trial.

https://politicsnigeria.com/25000-bribe-shehu-sani-knelt-begged-me-to-change-my-statement-efcc-witness/

and you people can't even kick back to think how true this thing is...who do us in this country??

kingelemide18:
All right bro believe what ever you want you are entitled to your own opinion. Personally i don't have a preference, i like attractive women and that is that, My attraction to a woman will never be based on the colour of skin, In my own opinion people who claim to have a particular preference or "spec" especially based on skin colour are just entitled little pricks lol but thats just my own opinion I'm not tryna offend anyone. If your prefer light or dark skinned you do you it's nobody's business but again in MY OWN OPINION anyone that has a preference for a particular skin tone is a colourist and its a big problem with black folks all over the world. Again its my own opinion..

please...learn to educate yourself...if you don't know something...seek information...peace

dopedan:
so is colourism a bad thing?

Yes...

kingelemide18:
lol preferring a particular colour to another is colourism yo. Let me ask you this, why exactly do you prefer light skin to dark skin or dark skin to light skin? Please explain why

just the way women might prefer taller men to shorter men...do we have a name for that colorism is basically steorotype based on darkness of skin tone...feeling people who are light skinned are more intelligent or more attractive,as such using it as a criteria to give them movie roles,and modelling gigs over darker people,this one is institutional...but in a situation where you just "Prefer" light skin over dark skin...it's not colorism...ok is it colorism if a woman prefer dark skin to light skin...I've heard some girls say they don't like dating fair people,some girls prefer chubby men...it's preference..and there's such a thing with skin tone too

kingelemide18:
I just like women, I'm not a colourist!

no it's not colorism...it's having a preference...colorism is "discrimination" due to skin color,but in this case,you just "prefer" either light or dark skin...it's quite different

gift2xl:
Kudos. At least she's good at something not bed alone. Like most dudes see nija women as only good in bed.

even in bed they're not good...

shey una d see hypocrisy

I'm sure a lot of us are already abreast with the recent viral tweets about a popular Twitter influencer,Dr funmilayo who was accused by a lady,known as Liz of rape. Now,he has come out to give his point of view,but I am very happy that he was accused,and honestly,even tho I don't believe in karma,this certainly looks like it...HAHAHAHA, here's why I am happy
Dr funmilayo is very vocal about rape cases especially on Twitter,and he seems to be very biased when commenting on any rape case. he totally voids the fact that when a man is accused of rape,sometimes,what went on might not be rape. It really might just be a black mail to get back at an ex,or to get over the jealousy of rejection,or simple to ruin somebody's life. Rape as a concept should be clearly defined. If I seduced you,and I fucced u...did I rape you? he clearly came to state she was flirting with him,and he had sex with her twice...now...see what he says are not basis to claim consent with sex a woman...now my question is...can you see the hypocrisy of this man...do you think men have sex with ladies by saying "do you want to have sex"..if yes...sign this document...this will prove your consent
P.S I am not supporting rape,any use of force,or position of power to have sex with a lady or a man...thank you

which kind lie be this God....??!!!!!

i know people who say this thing...and they're alive...and she didn't say "i will die"...she say "if I die..."...so please Mr and Mrs word carry power...shift

;Dc d way she serious the talk with the beardless guys... no single smile

Angelacruz:
Women rule d world,if una like make una swallow redpill frm nw to next yr.Noting will change

you're a stupid person

EduParis:
It all dependz on ur gender.If u're a female,i suggext u move on wit ur life outrightly (Plz dn't waste ur prexious time wit him) buh,if u're a male gender,i suggext u tek ur time (though itz nt an eazy task buh,neva impossible).Wrk on her;find-out wat mekz he thick;3ry & do tinz her way (buh,mind hw u spend on her;in otherwordz,u're 2 go rational on ur spendn).Give her enuff time &,2ruxt me if u 2ruly luv her az assumed,she'll bulgde & reciprok8 ur luv by d xpecial grace o4 God.MA 2CENTZ!!!

this is the worst advice in history