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Heistman:
Choi ..the guy's assertion about your book hit u real hard, see u trying so hard to make him look like an enemy instead of working on improving

oga just say you're a hater on move on with your miserable life... can't talk of one person you made any post to improve his life...mumu wey no know anything you're here hating on someone who just made a thread and didn't even invite your nonsense life...show us your book...dullard

Yayonigga44:
I am the type of guy that run away from people just to avoid striking a conversation. I hate small talks. All that is in my head is work. I usually use money to cover up when getting involved with ladies but that only turned me to a maga. Just met a lady recently, but anytime I call her I hardly have what to say( I won't be telling her about codes na). I have a feeling she will stop picking my calls. Can anyone here relate?

bro...I'm about to give you d most ridiculous advise...but it might work...tell her straight up that you usually don't even know what to say when you call her...and you can't keep asking her what she ate all the time...she can stop by at your place to watch a movie or grab a plate or something...because you must pass that hurdle before you'll even start dating or anything...if u end up together is it not your place she'll be coming...might as well invite her already...then try your best to make her enjoy her visit

EjaikreTheViper:
no reasonable woman will mould a man with her money. the man should mould himself first

you be f00l...I swear...your mumu no see brake light

MasterJayJay:
THE TRUTH ABOUT TITHE.

Introduction: If your pastors say giving the needy, widows, orphans 10% of your income is not tithe, that you must pay it to him, then you are attending a business centre, not a church.

Malachi is the favourite book most pastors use to preach tithe. And it is very obvious, they use it because it contains a curse for those who don't pay it. Therefore, it is the 'best' verse used to brainwash Christians.

If you want to preach tithing, preach all verses related to it. Most of these men of God know the other verses but the only one they preach to their audience is Malachi. The sheep they are leading are even lazy to read their own bibles to see the truth for themselves. Note that quarter of truth is no truth, truth must be whole. Don’t add, don't remove.

Tithing is an Old Testament concept, just like circumcision and animal sacrifice. Things Christians were meant to abide to have validations from New testament after death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. There is nowhere tithe was clearly instructed in the New Testament after the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ.

The New Testament focuses on giving without compulsion. 2 Corinthians 9:7 captured it very well “Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver".

If you believe in tithing, then you should see other verses of the bible to know how it was applied thousands of years ago. Tithes were not for gentiles, it was for the Jews. Tithes were for the Levites, descendants of Levi. How many of your Pastors that preach Malachi to you are descendants of Levi?

There is a particular portion of the bible most pastors will never preach to you, and that can be found in Deut 14.22-29. Tithe was instructed to be given to the strangers, orphans, widows etc. How many pastors can boldly tell their members to give their tithes to widows and those in need?

Conclusion, if you want to pay tithe, that's your choice. But don't use outdated and obsolete verses like the one found in Malachi to threaten people. Are some verses outdated? Animal sacrifices were allowed in the Old Testament. After Jesus Christ paid for our sins, it made animal sacrifices to be outdated, and that includes tithes too.



For detailed explanation on tithes see this thread


https://www.nairaland.com/5783004/sentenced-asking-members-tithes-drama

I just knew that at least one wise person must be present who knows the truth...I just knew

pansophist:
Yes true love exist. And I've experienced it over and over again. There are lots of things that inhibit the expressions of true love, and in the case of Nigeria (where the op opinion is formed), true love will be hard to find because majority of the population are poor and stuck in the survival hierarchy and humans by nature will premium "safety and security" over "love and belonging".

If you also observed closely, you will notice that people fall deeply in love in their younger state, a state of innocent naivety, inexperience and within the financial coverage of their parents/guardians. Meanwhile as people grow older and the responsibility of adulthood slowly becomes a challenge, they approach the world (including relationship) from a practical perspective, and finance is a huge part of it.

Check out the hierarchy of needs below by psychologist abraham maslow, he detailed this well. People at the very top are philanthropic (eg dangote, Bill Gates,) but people at the very bottom still struggling are more likely to be gold diggers than lovers

as an economist myself I cannot but marvel at how well you used Abraham Maslow's law of hierarchy to state your point,but love is very complex...it's not black and white...as a matter of fact there are lot of theories on what true love is..and love as a topic is so vague that it is difficult to define what true love is...before then determining if it exists or not. personally,I can tell you that it's not a function of hierarchy of needs...even dangote's wife might not love him..or he might be finding it hard to find love...and a poor man might have more love from women that him...(true love in the context of genuine here)...for me...it depends on context...and by that...Yes...it exists

GodPunishBiafra:
I'm 6.2 and many people around me are taller.

oga u too d lie...u live with Giants...?? I swear u don't know your heights...Goan check you're not 6"2'...which kind many people are taller than 6"2'..that's how one of my colleagues said on his Facebook bio he's 6"8'...I'm 6"0' and we're almost the same height...when I saw that shit I just laughed...most of you don't know your height to think 6"2' is average...I swear...

GodPunishBiafra:
What nonsense?

Is 6.2ft that tall?

I'm 6.2ft and I don't even consider myself tall.

I'm just average.

go and check your height again...if you're 6ft 2 and you don't consider your self tall...you have the wrong measurement...you're really not that tall

wat is your definition of "God never sleeps"

vanida6:
Shey no be u dey steal money why leave nah,,,if u leave dat means u re guilty,,,,infact why will a grown man like u been stayin in dsam place wit ur mum,,,just pay her 2k back nd find anoda place to enjoy ur life dear

my sister...were u independent at 21??

Aboks:
If he still eats his mother's food at age 20 may be that's why she is complaining, I she doesn't even trust him

but how many people are independent at age 20

Davash222:
There's nothing sad here. It happens in most average families.

bros I don't know you but I must say this you must be a really wicked person...to think this happens so because it happens everywhere it's not sad...do you even know if this guy might start suffering emotional distress,low self esteem etc because of this issue...??

my brother...pls pay for the bed ehn...pay and round it up to a standard 500k...haba...e never do...how can you spend 400k on a girl who disrespects you...please my brothers be reasoning...when we are talking of red pill...you people think we're joking...

this OP just carried out a simple social experiment...it means no matter how stupid your ideas are,there are some people in the society whose stupidity matches with yours..and they'll definitely agree with you. the level of superstition that have led many Africans blind is overwhelming...America is one of the successful and developed countries on Earth...op I give you one assignment...go and check the statistical analysis of how many men and women masturbate in the US...it is advised in their sex Ed...their doctors advise it,a whole lot of them practice it...yet these negative energy doesn't stop them from developing...OP with all the favours you gained when you stopped masturbating pls show us your account balance and state your accomplishment for us...pls...

pls make una tamper justice with mercy o...pls oga make peace with your wife o because if you wan do now and madam refuse nko...haaa...all dis vex they're advising you to vex...walahi you won't smile o

PrecioussB:
Why is it that older men love to pursue Young girls?

Especially old African men , it is disgusting how they are interested in girls that is old enough to be their daughter.

I have had a lot of old and successful guys ask me out , but I always say no thanks.

It is scary , these perverts need to find women their own age. Have this happen to anyone?

you expect old me to chase after old women chai...nawao...if you're over 21 abeg are we even arguing this

Goodmarlian:
Back in 2014 I was in my early 20s there is this lady I loved so much i mustered courage to approached her got her number and started chyking her she instantly said No she can't date me but you know as a newbie in the game I immediately became needy I started begging her ,sending her love text messages but she played hard to get it for so frustrating I gave up
I got rejected by lot of girls then I had to sit down and replan my wooing game.

i asked some ladies in my compound what I was doing wrong that's chasing girls away from me she told me to change my dress sense that I should be neater and groom myself more and be more nice than I am like literally kissing a girls ass just to get her fall for me I did all that men it was even worse I got embarrassed, insulted my self esteem received a huge blow I just concluded I was cursed with women.

A year later I got a job around Lagos island it was paid 45k per month plus allowances though it was just fair pay but It was manageable I was able to purchase wears ,I became more good-looking because I was living a bit comfortable than before this time around I had money to spend so I was ready to spend on women to avoid all the stress of wooing then I met this very pretty lady her named onyinda I liked her so much I started wooing her this time around It was a bit easier because I was a big boy already I spent on her though she is not the material type but I just like trying to impress her I was caring and supportive I encouraged her to be serious with her life then she was preparing for jamb that year she passed because of the encouragement I gave her .
Believe me this relationship did not last up to two months her attitude changed she started avoiding me started claiming we were never dating in the first place I was so depressed but I never let my emotions show this time I asked her what I did wrong she said nothing that she just wants to be alone from, that moment on I started hating women so much I was just going on my own though all those while I envied my friends who changed girls like clothes but I didn't care.
2016 was life totally changed with women I met some bad friends in campus they were smokers and womanizers literally bad boys there is even one that beat his girlfriend in my presence damn i changed it for him but thry are still together today what baffled me was why they never lacked women whenever they go out to night parties they always have babes to chill with while I was literally alone it hurts so much .
After 5monthd of chilling with them my life transformed I was a badboy already I started dealing with women with less emotions before Jack Robinson I had my first babe in campus
Before you know it I had my first sex
And girls kept coming and coming until I got tired i was dumping them over and over .

This is 2020 January I met a lady I really liked to be serious with we started dating just three days of meeting we had sex she wasn't cheap it was just my game maybe,but here is the problem she complains I am not the loveydovey type I don't send her romantic text messages,tell her how much I love her and all that but I don't want to do that because from experience I know she will start messing up.

Now the problem is when I was the lovey dovey nice guy I never get laid I was rejected most times now this lady wants me to go back to the old me which I wouldn't do again .

What do women really want ?

bro don't do that shit...it's a trap...once you get into the habit of sending it at the rate she wants it...she will be tired of it herself...in fact...send it once in a loooong while my man...

u know what?? nothing bad has happened to you...you only learned a lesson...the lesson cost #4 million

StacyO:
I feel more secured around guys (very very).
With guys,it's more of business,jobs,IT,computer programming, robotics n the likes of it.

With girls, its all about boyfriend this,boyfriend that,eyelashes this,eyelashes that,lip gloss this lip gloss that. Wtf, who needs all these things

my dear...I wish to have given you a big hug but it's just online...I no fit...

just look at how men ignored the post...the two women are just there arguing with themselves...it's those guys that carry your matter on their head that we are sorry for...tbh...we pity them alot...if there is any country that needs red pills the most...it's Nigeria because the girls here are the brokest...most foolish...most useless set of breeds on Earth...they will walk into your life...and add nothing,they're just leeches...you really think people should give a hoot about them...?? hahahah tufia kwa... mtcheeeeww

Friedturkey:
A girl I was once involved with was batshit crazy.
During sex she would always ask me to choke her until she passes out, and I will always shout NO! I can't be testing my village people.
One day while she was riding ontop, I decided to get freaky, stretched my hands to her throat and choked her a bit. This girl instantly became possessed by unclean spirits, went from zero to hundred in 5 seconds, started riding like crazy, twitching uncontrollably.
Next thing I knew, she took a pillow, covered my face, and started choking me back while shouting "please babe, pass out for me babe!". I just threw her away and ended the relationship there. Iss nor me you will kill.
That's the best, weirdest, and scariest sex I've ever had.

this shit sounds like a scene from sex education...the Netflix series...bros talk true na

tiswell:
So fvcking around with men is the only genuine thing she can do for her kids?
The way some ladies justify promiscuity is mind blowing.

waoh...im not a woman but for once I now feel what women feel...oga...call me a simp all you want I'm proudly part of red pill...but didn't you read where she said she wasn't paid...nothing...before she was discharged from her school...she asked all the neighbors for money...nobody has...she has been the bread winner of that house for 2 fuccing years...I'd be happy if her husband slept with a woman to cater for their needs...but dis woman was pushed to the wall...and she had to sleep with the landlord for money...and y'all are really turning on her pls tell me...what would she have done...I'm asking yiu

dawnomike:
I wonder why some men would always want sex in return for a favour to ladies... In as much as I understand this lady's position of been pushed to the wall, it is not an excuse to have prostituted her body. It is well sha!

Bros...you and that land lord...there is no difference between both of you

I'm team red pill and all...but that guy...he too Bleep up...quit a job of 355k...aspa what??

this is the most useless post on seduction I've seen in my life...if a girl is forming for you she likes you?? this does not even work as reverse psychology man...bro...this thing is trash...for the love of humanity don't make such a useless post next time

Swtbabyvee:
Be like Reno 45 years and still not married !!! Yeah stingy guys r winning !! Lol !! If u are stingy as a Man U hv no single value . U fit no get much o , but if u stingy, women will run from you !!! Be a celebrity or not , fine boy or not , if u like hv millions in ur account, if u are stingy no body cares , don’t just be stingy as a man !!

and what about as a woman...see the way you carry shoulder the type"don't just be stingy as a man"... what about as a woman Las Las na olosho mentality ehn my sister no vex...

Drince:
This is the first time i'm seeing this.. Why?

lol bro I've heard alot of ladies say this

it breaks my heart that people are more concerned that she released these videos,than the fact that the oluwo uses weed...and he was involved in a credit card scam...tbh... Nigeria is truly a failed state

Liliantalks:
The difference is that she’s fucking only you

See a stingy guy is a stingy guy , a man is supposed to be a giver even to his friends and acquaintances. If a guy is stingy to women dating or not ,, he’s more stingy to his male friends

my dear...i hearby crown you the biggest liar om this planet...and to go further to say that you're a very entitled person. some guys believe that it's better to give a fellow guy than a woman. because you see a woman...nothing will come out of it. chop and go...but your tight man may stick his neck out for you when it's his turn to. you comment fit make person laugh...so a guy is "supposed" to be women Bonanza...ATM machine...I no blame u...it's all dose guys in your life that is making you feel like this...

DanseMacabre:


Where all those red pill hawkers sef Market don show o...

If quarter of this your tall tale na true you don caaast be that. Mtchew.

and to think you don't know that this has nothing to do with red pill or blue pill...is what is most disturbing...chai...your foolishness no get brake... express!!!

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

my only prayer for you is that may you receive the full dividend of what you did to that woman...it has just started...imagine!! when you had the upper hand shey you were playing God...

DanseMacabre:
So your ambition in life is to be blocking women on social media

at least...hes better than you who think his ambition in life is to be rubbished by women

Larryomooba:
Stop defending nonsense you're not the only
One that like trump, he said it if not y claim
He was been sarcastic

he's not defending nonsense...go and watch it...most of you haven't watched it that's why. if you made the statements Trump made,and people came and twisted it the way they're twisting it right now,you'd be angry