₦airaland Forum

Fortune4u:
My dear since you are sure and you know that you love the person, keep on trying, teach the person to love you.
when you do that I know and am sure that the person will love you too.

na express u d go...read this in capital letters...IF SOMEONE DOESN'T LOVE YOU...THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO...thank you

yeah so what happened at this point Is that he "ghosted" you. all of a sudden hes rethinking it,and maybe he's just not interested in keeping a long distance flirting,or he wasn't always interested (it's a thing),but he spurred your interest and you fell for him... here's the one remedy that always works....IGNORE HIM...MOVE ON. if people can just read these cues,and understand when to stop stressing over someone's unavailability, they'll have less problems

macdammy:
Her name is OLADIMEJI ATOKE BUKOLA.
She’s 16 years old.
Complexion: brown
Location before missing; Lagos state
She has been declared missing by her elder brother yesterday.

She went out In the afternoon to get something, but after sometime, she didn’t return up till this time.

Please, if you come across this girl, kindly do your best to repot to the nearest police station.
Your suggestions are needed too.
Or call this number 09099307335.
God bless you

how will you know this girl evn if you see her..you guys got a photo of her where she used a filter??

where is the genius in all these things you're saying...do you even know the meaning of genius??

Ayobami97:
So? Is this a justification?
What's your point? She should continue posting nudes photos because those punishing her are hypocrites?

yes it is...what the Bleep is her crimeis it a crime tell me...is it.?

to everyone who's saying the flogging was right...this just go a long way to prove how extremely hypocritic Africans are...to the damn core...these same guys will be in ladies' Dms asking for nudes...and I am not saying nudes are bad,nor am I saying she has the right to behave how she deems fit because she's living in her parents house. But that was physical assault that overrode her human rights over the issue of morality. My argument remains...if you say this is right,when SARS go kill you for carrying dreads and tattoos don't complain,those things are also frowned at too..shey we all need our senses reset. and those same fools beating her will see a politician who stole billions in their street and be shouting "ogaaaaaaa"

bros d day govt will handle ur case...I use beg u thred carefully man....they won't use law o...ask sowore

stillseth:
"THE"

The thing off me and I forgot totally. .I just used D to replace am and move.

bros you too...I swear me too...I was spelling "teh"

Pheurly:

no be so?? I never see person for this platform wey say he no fine...all of Dem na fine boy or fine gurl...upload ya picture na...make we see how much chance you get...and secondly ur account balance...becoz even girls of 19...na lecturers get them

Pheurly:
Hi Nairalanders..
I don't know how I would start, but let me just begin.
I met this girl in my area, a beautiful, intelligent lady. Each time I saw her passing I always wish to talk to her, make her my friend. Cos I talk to her sis, I used that to start the conversation with her.. Then later I saw her one day, greeted her asked for her name and we started talking, we are good friends now... Days passed and now I'm having another feeling to be with her, probably to even get married to her... There are enough reasons to be with her. I'm not a player, the feelings I'm having for her are not infatuations.... Talking to her about my feelings to her or something like that is not the problem... She even told me she broke up early January...
Wat is then the problem? .... She is graduating this year, but I'm starting.... We're age mates though... But I'm feeling she might look at her class(not class in school o)... Her level... Will she even look at my side... I'm scared of it... I don't want to lose her... She is too precious oo..
Probably she might say I'm still in school stuffs like that... Money is not really a pro.. Me starting school now u know we need our course na.. I bleeped up sha.... That aside...
Please should I go on to ask her out.. Will I be rejected, i'm just so confused.. it's now I'm feeling what they call love.. We re both young.... No bash my age pls. If u see me u won't know I'm that young.. Lol.. I be fine boy sef.. Like I said, I hope to get married to her..
Nairalanders, the big lovers. Big daddies, mummies ... If u were in my situation before.. Please advice me too hw u did yours...
You're loved Nairalanders..

everyone on this platform is a fine boy/girl

Nezzjnr:
Your parents have been married for more than 2 decades now

Yet you still feel Marriage is a scam

I think you guys are going over board on this

some marriage that lasted that long were not worth it

Confusedgirl869:
Hello everyone. This account is created for this .

This issue have been bothering me alot and I am very confused on what to do.

We have been together for more than 2 years now and we hardly have issues, infact we are a perfect match or so I thought.

I am 26 while he is 35, we both working and I never disturb him for money, I take care of all my needs myself. He is very calm and peaceful, doesn't hit me and I really admire him a lot. I on the other hand is also good, hardworking, not materialistic and all that makes a good woman.

So after thinking of our relationship thoroughly some weeks ago, I realised that there is really nothing stopping us from getting married this year or next. I decided to hear what he has to say because he never talked about us being or getting married. I also noticed that whenever he sees or hears about bad marriages he felt lucky he is not in yet. This always makes me feel bad because I know myself. I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy, he is what I want. The very first day we met, the first thought that came to my mind was 'this is my husband' I don't know why I had that thought being our first time meeting.


Anyways, few weeks ago I decided to ask him what his plans are. Are we in on a long thing or not? I got the shock of my life when he made me understand that he doesn't want to be tied forever, he loves his space and the way nobody disturbs him. That he only wants a baby mama, he wants me to be the mother his kids but not in marriage. I was mad and I cried for days. He was even sounding like nothing is wrong with being a baby mama, maybe not but I just can't.

Well, I made him understand that I can't be a baby mama and it will also be hard for me to move on with another person. I've bonded so well with him and all that. And I also hate jumping from one man to another. I told him to talk to people who are in successful marriages and stop looking at the bad ones. Today when we were talking I asked him about it and he is still maintaining his stand on the mama.

I don't want to give birth to kids that have 2 homes, I grew up like that(it took me lots of self discipline not to become useless) and wouldn't want that kind of life for my kids, I want them to grow with their parents in ONE house. At the same time, I don't want to lose my good man and relationship.

I need your opinions please.

so I'm not the only one who doesn't want to marry and just want kids

I don't really know this guy,but i can't count the number of commercials and fliers I've seen him on...ahah...kilode...he's doing Monopoly of this endorsement issue o...please who knows this guy??

honestly when you see the kind of comments nairalanders make on some posts you can't help but ask if people are really mature on this platform as they claim to be...instead of being judgemental offer your advice and go...if not...just keep shut...my dear all I can say is...you should be sure what you want,you're not attracted to your boyfriend's organs is different from being attracted to male organs...your boyfriend is a male but not all males are the same with ur boyfriend...my simple saying is give it sometime,if it's not what you want,by all means get a girlfriend...but remember my dear THIS IS NIGERIA (that's if you're in Nigeria)...be doing your thing with sense o

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

see mumu

ubcandid:
I used to believe No 8, but not anymore. Some people grow and understand that it's important to have successful approachable people - more on - friends, close by and handy.

they're usually not their friends ..I'm serious. look...it's a real thing...imagine your childhood friend...your best friend today...hammers big money...I'm talking like 1b tell me dat u won't feel twisted about it...it will down on u den that this guy like dis don leave me oo.... because that's d truth...he's left u o

Filtermode:
10 things I wish I knew 10 years ago


1. The real key to accomplishment is "Taking Action" now -- not waiting for magic to happen sometime in the future.

2. What you learn in school(that is, the theoretical bullshit) does nothing for you in the real world.

3. You will hardly get rich from working A 9 to 5 Job (with few exceptions tho).

4. There is no perfect situation to "act"... If you want to do something, do it now...start TODAY. No time to check time.

5. Other people opinion about you don't really matter. Most times people criticize and negatively judge others out of insecurity, ignorance or jealousy.

6. Life is full of surprises. Never look down on anyone because everyone current situation is temporary. Things can change at anytime(This is very important).

7. Respect your parents and care for them while you can. You don't need to wait till you're freaking rich before you buy nice things for them; do something from the little you have. (This is also very important)

8. Your friends don't really want you to be successful(Except for very few exceptions tho). Your friends don't want you to progress so they can feel a bit better about themselves. Note: It doesn't mean that they secretly hate you and want you to die asap -- but it just that they don't want your life to be more fruitful and better than their own. (Always keep that in mind)

9. Life is all about sacrifices. To get something worthwhile, you will have to pay a certain price.

10. Your Past Experiences don’t really Define you. What really matters is how you choose to live your life from this very day, that is, TODAY...

I swear...number 8 is the realest...and I must be honest,I just discovered it in myself,I might be very good with my friends...but once I see them starting to make progress...I have this jealousy thingy pricking up in my chest and I already start panicking.like if they make money,like big money,and leave me tomorrow,where will I be?? anyways,what I decided to do was...I don't care,I accept the fact that some people I know will be rich one day,some of my close friends might one day be very successful,perhaps even more than me. my job is not to feel bad about the situation,my job is to wish them well and ensure that my story is better too with God's help...number 8..I too support am...it's true

light099:
Obsessed augmented creature.
If she had protested against the spirits molesting her life, she wouldn't have been known with erratic psychotic displays on Social Media.

Women are the problem of real rape cases, with all the unserious Twitter bitches and celebrities catching cruise with the trend and watering down the real message.

In 2006, a mysterious guy ravaged higher institutions with fetish, appeared in ladies' rooms at night, raped them and extracted their body fluid. Ladies in Higher Institution those days can relate, especially Oyo state.
Then, Badoo in Lagos with ritual killing of smashing the head.
Davidwest came with his compulsive addiction to rape ladies and strangle them.
Now again is a new trend on female students which looks more like a serial, ritual rape than ordinary rape. Three or more ladies gone down already, raped and their heads smashed with blood all over.

It's no coincidence, it's a new ritual trend. A wise lady would be careful in a time like this instead of going to Social Media to chase stupid clout with the whole thing.

no oga women are not...I repeat...they're not the cause of their rape cases

JasonScoolari:
Sadly, in Nigeria, there's a guy on vacation called "JUSTICE"


Some potential rapist are already analysing the shapes of the protesters...

you d see hypocrite...how u take know...I know Sabi...and wat u r talking about is totally out of the question... analysing someone's shape is different from rape...how can people still be talking like this in 2020

Barryseal:
� Shame �shame �shame �shame �shame

Spot on game of thrones reference

encryptjay:
You don't have to insult me. Where did I say Ronaldo is for money? I only asked why Messi keeps renewing his contract since they said Ronaldo is all about money.

ah...no vex o...e be like sey I go tag d wrong person

encryptjay:
So why does Messi renewing his contract? Hope you know he's salary is higher than Ronaldo's?

you must be a f00l...Messi has renewed his contract 9 times...his current contract might run out by June....and you say Ronaldo is for money in fact...thank God my guy is enjoying his money...you're just so jealous...fucc off

wman:
Forbes said she is worth $916 million. That is very close to being a billionaire. And Ronaldo is far from being a billionaire.


He is not a billionaire. His net worth is $500 million. But he had earned over $1 billion for almost two decades that he has been playing football. And he has spent a large part of that money.

sha i just confirmed what you're saying...you're right...she's still insanely rich

the woman you'll marry if she's a lesbian she go gree to marry u give u pikin

GBOKASINCHA:
kylie Jenner is worth 1 billion according to forms even when it was downgraded to 900 million she is still worth more than Messi and Ronaldo combined Kanye west is richer than the whole juventus and Barcelona squad combined

bros...are you for real?? you didn't see where Forbes claimed she falsified her account statementsand that she's no where near being a billionaire hmmm...pls read news

my problem with height measurement is that a lot of guys don't know their accurate heights measurement,that's how one guy i know we're almost the same height wrote on his Facebook bio....he's 6"8'...shoo...bros I'm 6"0' me and u same height oo...
PS : I'm not saying it's the same case here

lalasticlala:
BBNaija star, Khafi Kareem, has revealed that she was raped but didn't report her rapist.

Giving reasons for not reporting the man that raped her, Khafi wrote:



https://mobile.twitter.com/KhafiKareem/status/1267806922696208386

I believe flat Earth theories better than this thing

anybody who has had the privilege of leaving Nigeria to canada...you don't know what God has done for you

i don change mouth... Peruzzi doesn't need to be accused again...wtf...on Twitter...bro shot himself in the foot with an M16...my suspicion of him is 90% now...dat girl d talk true...

Xisnin:
Stop typing like an illiterate.
"False accusation" has a specific meaning and it is not anything you don't like to hear.

Even in cases where a false statement is made, it is entirely a civil and not a criminal affair.
That is why you can accuse a politician you hate of being a thief and still be walking free.

but what of the case where a guy does time for the false allegation the bitch should do exactly the same time he did

why am I not seeing these females biko ����� aaaaaaah....their throat don block...oya na...kill Peruzzi...shey he was accused...kill him

CHoccolaTE:
Going through this thread makes me scared of raising a daughter in Nigeria

Many Nigerian men are just rapists and rape apologists

I mean look at the overwhelming evidence against the yangy idiot on this thread but all Nairaland guys can say is;
They are lying
Stop false accusations
I hate Nigerian women
The girls claiming rape are pained exes

Many Nigerian men are criminal pieces of shit_

wat is d overwhelming evidence?? that 24 women said he raped them...ok...I pray 24 men will just come out and say u raped them...then based on what they said...may u be tried and thrown to jail...since u want this yangy guy to go d same way...no body is saying he's innocent....let them prove him guilty first...apart from that...they could be making this up...LADIES LIE...LADIES LIE...LADIES LIE